JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023


Pearl WARNS Modern Women About This


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Length

8 minutes

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166.37822

Word count

1,410

Sentence count

139

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

16

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In this episode, we discuss a woman who wants child support from her ex-boyfriend, who is now a father of 4 kids, but wants $653.36 a month in child support. Is this a fair amount of money for a single mom to provide for her kids? Or should all single moms pay child support?

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00:00:00.000 And the issue you get is all of these influencer women will come out saying they're so happy single. 1.00
00:00:06.000 Emily Ratajkowski said that.
00:00:07.960 But are most women as attractive as Emily or have the same financial opportunities as Emily? 1.00
00:00:13.860 The answer is no.
00:00:15.600 Most women are living paycheck to paycheck. 1.00
00:00:17.860 They make about $35,000 a year and a large majority are in debt.
00:00:24.880 Women have so much debt. 1.00
00:00:27.220 So what is going to happen to them in their old age?
00:00:31.000 Women make poor decisions and keep expecting men to bail them out. 1.00
00:00:35.800 But one day men are going to stop bailing them out. 0.87
00:00:38.880 And we are going to see a huge rise in the number of homeless women.
00:00:44.820 Poor leaf Viking. 0.97
00:00:45.880 Are we not better than this gentleman?
00:00:47.700 No one deserves to be miserable and alone.
00:00:50.620 Look at this.
00:00:51.420 Just because this girl made poor decisions in her youth is no reason for her to continue to be miserable.
00:00:56.820 She's got a life ahead of her to find her person.
00:00:58.980 She just needs to go find them, have some empathy.
00:01:01.060 It's pitiful.
00:01:01.980 People might think I'm mean, but I am just not in the business of selling dreams.
00:01:06.980 I won't do it.
00:01:08.240 I refuse.
00:01:08.980 If I don't think something is likely, if I know that the chance a woman has is if unmarried by 35, actually, if a woman is single at 30, not in a relationship, she's actually more likely to not get married than to get married.
00:01:24.940 So at 30, if she has a boyfriend, her odds are a little bit better.
00:01:28.940 But if she doesn't have a boyfriend, because on average, it takes men three years to marry you.
00:01:35.220 So that's something as women we have to take into account. 0.98
00:01:38.340 Yes, on average, it's going to take three years to convince a guy to marry you.
00:01:42.040 So I'm just not in the business of selling dreams.
00:01:45.820 At 46, it's probably over.
00:01:48.200 I hope she has savings.
00:01:50.000 And what I would do if I were her is I would figure out a financial plan on how to live the rest of my life alone.
00:01:56.460 I would also look for a husband in the process and see what they what what you can do. 0.77
00:02:03.100 But I'm just not in the business of selling dreams.
00:02:06.220 And and I think that women are just sold a dream over and over again. 0.99
00:02:10.520 God's timing.
00:02:11.960 It'll happen when really you have to put effort into making things happen.
00:02:16.860 I'm a I'm a patriarchist.
00:02:18.800 I believe in patriarchy.
00:02:20.100 I think that you shouldn't have rights unless you're willing to take on the responsibility that comes with it.
00:02:26.820 That's my opinion.
00:02:28.060 And I think until women take on the responsibility of men, that really, why is it fair that we have the same rights? 0.94
00:02:36.440 So it's interesting because what we've seen in instead of going more towards patriarchy is more egalitarian models.
00:02:43.420 So more fair and more equal.
00:02:45.340 But a lot of times when women are in the man's position and have to take on the responsibilities of the men, they don't like it. 0.98
00:02:52.660 So here is a woman refusing to pay child support. 1.00
00:02:56.240 Let's pull it up.
00:02:56.860 So do you not think you need to be paying child support to him?
00:02:59.840 No, he makes more money than I do.
00:03:01.440 But he has the full responsibility of parenting the child.
00:03:05.700 You're not doing anything.
00:03:06.720 You don't even want the baby.
00:03:07.980 Yeah.
00:03:08.360 If he wanted the baby, he should take care of it then.
00:03:11.160 You made that up.
00:03:12.180 How much money do you make?
00:03:13.280 Four thousand a month.
00:03:14.220 What do you do for a living?
00:03:15.960 I'm an exotic dancer.
00:03:17.320 Oh, okay.
00:03:18.280 So $4,000.
00:03:19.440 I mean, you don't want to pay him.
00:03:21.140 Correct.
00:03:22.240 No, that's not how this works.
00:03:23.700 Your net calculated at $3,266.81, which brings your child support amount to $653.36.
00:03:34.080 And you cover health insurance?
00:03:35.880 Then $44 a month.
00:03:37.120 So that amount is going to be added to that.
00:03:40.800 So $653.36 plus the $344 that he pays in health insurance will be $997.36 a month.
00:03:50.300 He can come back later.
00:03:51.940 He comes back in here.
00:03:53.260 You've made more money.
00:03:54.780 You already know what's going to happen, right?
00:03:56.140 So this woman wants child support. 1.00
00:04:01.140 This is what I mean.
00:04:02.040 The audacity.
00:04:03.460 This chick, he's watching the kid.
00:04:05.820 She expects money. 0.97
00:04:07.360 Women view children as a payday. 1.00
00:04:10.320 Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:04:13.020 And I think it's hilarious that this chick now has to pay child support. 1.00
00:04:16.600 If it's up to me, I just think the government needs to get out of the business of marriage 0.98
00:04:20.840 and family court.
00:04:21.860 I think you need to leave this up to the parties.
00:04:25.540 Yes, I actually, I think custody should automatically go to the dad, except for in cases of abuse.
00:04:33.020 Men raise far better children than women. 1.00
00:04:35.640 I think the idea of four women in a house together raising their children, single moms, is terrible. 1.00
00:04:43.400 I think that's a recipe for disaster for the kids. 0.90
00:04:46.540 And what do the comments say?
00:04:47.700 Do they say, lady, this is totally fair. 0.96
00:04:51.860 No, we have the simp attack.
00:04:53.980 He needs to man up and stop complaining, crying, and begging.
00:04:56.820 No wonder she left him.
00:04:58.240 Good on her.
00:05:00.120 Wow, what a day.
00:05:01.640 She's calling her own child an it.
00:05:03.880 He is better off without her.
00:05:07.200 There.
00:05:07.560 You know, we get both, right?
00:05:09.460 Right, right, okay. 0.99
00:05:10.840 Yeah, and this is a crazy lady. 1.00
00:05:13.160 I'm so tired of these crazy women. 1.00
00:05:15.280 So as you guys know, we have covered the Dylan Danis and Logan Paul drama. 0.95
00:05:19.340 Dylan Danis is scheduled to fight Logan Paul on the 14th of October.
00:05:23.580 So in this time period, Dylan has posted multiple pictures of Nina Agdahl's past.
00:05:29.940 So this includes all of these pictures of Nina with all of these different dudes from the last decade.
00:05:37.000 So what I noticed today is that Mike actually posted a picture of his new girlfriend, Logan's best friend, Mike.
00:05:45.880 Now, I'd like to say, I don't know who this chick is, but this has to be an upgrade from Lana Rhodes. 1.00
00:05:51.400 You cannot tell me any different.
00:05:52.740 There's nothing that Dylan Danis can post about this chick.
00:05:56.840 You know, I don't want to say nothing.
00:05:58.080 I mean, he proved us wrong on Nina Agdahl.
00:06:00.540 I would be surprised if there was something that he could post that is worse than what's out there about Lana Rhodes.
00:06:07.980 Now, Dylan Danis has now started attacking Mike's girlfriend.
00:06:11.620 So these are some of the pictures that he's going.
00:06:16.220 Hopefully, this chick doesn't have such a checkered past, you know. 1.00
00:06:21.280 But yeah, Dylan is taking no prisoners.
00:06:23.820 So we're actually sending a team.
00:06:25.900 I won't be here, but we're actually sending our talent, Christine, from the Audacity Network to go film the fight. 0.93
00:06:33.280 So, you know, hopefully this will be a good fight.
00:06:36.800 Who are you guys rooting for?
00:06:38.100 Let me know in the comments.
00:06:39.180 Who do you think?
00:06:39.520 I actually, I think Logan's going to, I don't know much about fighting.
00:06:43.200 Logan just looks like he's in better shape.
00:06:46.000 This is just girl, girl, girl, you know, girl analysis.
00:06:50.080 But that's my guess on who will win.
00:06:53.320 But I wonder if this lawsuit will make him call off the fight.
00:06:56.780 I don't know.
00:06:58.580 Okay, so I noticed, okay, so I noticed it's so interesting.
00:07:02.960 I go on Twitter and sometimes I just see these old rants about me.
00:07:07.040 So there's this chick named Lisa Elizabeth. 1.00
00:07:10.720 Oh, these chicks, these chicks.
00:07:16.120 All right.
00:07:16.460 So this girl named Lisa says, do you know why I can't stand Pearl?
00:07:21.160 There's so many women out there like me who have lived a life that internalized feminism and didn't even realize it. 1.00
00:07:31.320 So this is an ex, I'm just taking notes here.
00:07:34.240 I'm taking notes.
00:07:35.700 So this is an ex feminist that didn't know. 1.00
00:07:39.520 They're out here making changes to their lives and trying to be good Christ-like moral women. 0.92
00:07:47.240 Do you see like trying?
00:07:49.780 It's not, it's so interesting when you really analyze women's language. 1.00
00:07:53.440 Are they being good Christ-like moral women? 0.96
00:07:56.220 Or are they trying?
00:08:00.960 Because there's a difference. 1.00
00:08:03.000 And she just shits all over them. 1.00
00:08:06.960 Receipts. 0.99
00:08:08.480 Receipts, please.
00:08:09.540 Okay.
00:08:10.180 Pearl, I just want to, I want to write down my complaint.
00:08:12.940 I like to, I like to know I'm just filing the complaint. 1.00
00:08:15.680 Pearl shits on women. 1.00
00:08:20.360 All right. 1.00
00:08:24.000 If anything, she'll push women to be more feminine. 1.00