JustPearlyThings - August 15, 2023


Pearl Was SHOCKED When He Said THIS


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Length

10 minutes

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230.79953

Word count

2,344

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

14

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how to spot a good guy and how to know if a man is a good man. We also talk about the importance of a good woman in order for a man to be good in a relationship.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What do you guys think? How do you know when a guy is a good guy?
00:00:03.920 When the mandem are good.
00:00:06.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:00:08.960 Yo, you know what it is?
00:00:10.600 You can tell when a man is in line when he has a good woman. 0.57
00:00:16.280 A good woman makes a good man. 1.00
00:00:17.920 No, but he has to be good on his own first.
00:00:19.620 No, no, no.
00:00:20.300 No, because you know what it is now, pal.
00:00:23.540 That's not the question I asked.
00:00:24.500 I am pal, I am pal, but you know what it is.
00:00:25.820 No, no, no, please stop, please stop, please stop.
00:00:27.380 No, I asked you guys, for her, she's a single woman, or sort of, she's dating someone, 0.80
00:00:32.600 but like for a single woman, how do you know if it's a good man?
00:00:35.200 What do you think?
00:00:35.820 Do you think it's easy to tell as a guy who the good guys are?
00:00:39.540 No, it's not easy to tell.
00:00:41.360 If he's willing to accept your trauma, he's a good guy.
00:00:45.540 Hmm, that's a good one.
00:00:46.680 That's a good one.
00:00:48.220 Definitely.
00:00:48.880 Really?
00:00:49.640 That's a good point.
00:00:50.720 Yeah, you're good.
00:00:52.080 That's a good point.
00:00:53.680 Okay.
00:00:54.040 So I'm just like, why would a good guy want to accept a bunch of trauma?
00:00:59.980 Because if he sees something in you, he will, if he supports you through certain things
00:01:05.240 you're going through in trauma, then you know.
00:01:07.080 Like he listens to your problems?
00:01:08.700 No, no, just listen.
00:01:10.600 Forget the listening.
00:01:11.360 Okay.
00:01:11.960 He's actually there, like raw, like cool.
00:01:14.620 You've gone, let's say, what kind of example can I do?
00:01:17.640 Maybe trying to work around you in a way, wherever the issue may be, or whatever it is.
00:01:22.960 Even like, if she needs, yeah, like if she needs time, like you're there, but you're,
00:01:27.460 you're, you're.
00:01:28.680 Supported.
00:01:29.160 You're supported, but it's not just.
00:01:30.720 What do you think?
00:01:31.260 I feel like, I feel like you've got something to say.
00:01:33.220 What do you think?
00:01:34.440 Fundamentally, I think that all, most guys are good guys.
00:01:38.180 You know, good guys.
00:01:39.680 We are good guys.
00:01:40.520 We are.
00:01:40.980 100%.
00:01:41.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree.
00:01:42.500 No, but the thing is, it's about, have we found the right woman?
00:01:46.920 Okay, so if we were with the right woman, then it works. 0.99
00:01:50.180 If we're not, then it's not.
00:01:51.440 Yeah, but how does she see it though?
00:01:53.320 And she's not going to see it easily because it depends on who she is.
00:01:58.060 Ted, this is what I just said to Pearl.
00:01:59.960 It's about the woman, but she doesn't understand.
00:02:01.720 You see me saying it from a man.
00:02:03.340 Like, in order for a man to be a good man, you have to have a good woman. 1.00
00:02:07.960 Because the woman will put you in line. 1.00
00:02:09.960 Like, man on their own, don't put their self in line.
00:02:13.140 We do reckless things.
00:02:14.740 We buy, we spend money recklessly.
00:02:16.980 We live recklessly.
00:02:18.220 Until you get that good woman. 1.00
00:02:19.240 I was chatting to the mandem today in the WhatsApp group, and it's like, well, you could even, remember we were saying about a man dressing well?
00:02:25.000 You could tell when a man's dressing a certain way in a relationship and out of a relationship.
00:02:29.160 You can tell.
00:02:29.960 Obviously, I don't know, mandem can tell.
00:02:31.200 I don't know if women can tell. 1.00
00:02:32.900 Really, the most dependable, responsible men I know don't really need a woman to look after them, to be honest. 0.99
00:02:39.220 It's not about need.
00:02:40.500 It's about guidance.
00:02:42.620 I mean, do you get what I'm saying?
00:02:45.480 No, because I'm just thinking about the men I respect the most of my life that are really doing stuff.
00:02:50.160 Like, I think of my dad, some of my brothers.
00:02:51.980 They don't need a woman to guide them or take care of them. 1.00
00:02:54.960 They kind of have a path, stuff they want to do.
00:02:57.180 They don't really.
00:02:57.820 No, we're always going to have a path, isn't it?
00:02:59.100 But women have certain, like, we're practical. 1.00
00:03:02.480 So we're always on, yo, we need to do this, we need to do that, blah, blah, blah.
00:03:07.100 Where women are more structured. 1.00
00:03:09.980 They will put, men are structured, but we will have a vision and we go for that vision.
00:03:15.100 And sometimes we just go because we can see what we're going for.
00:03:19.000 We know we got the picture in our head, but a woman can organize the route a bit better than a man can organize the route. 1.00
00:03:25.880 I think what you're saying is more like enhancing your qualities, enhancing your life.
00:03:30.820 Yeah, maybe, yeah.
00:03:31.780 But, like, honestly, for me, I think that if a guy can get up, even when he's sad, when he has a bad day, maybe if he likes to work out, he'll do a workout, go to work, not be emotional all the time.
00:03:45.440 You know, these things that if you already do them without a woman, it's good. 1.00
00:03:49.420 Yeah, we do that naturally.
00:03:50.120 Go on, pal.
00:03:51.020 Yeah.
00:03:51.560 I know you was mmm in there.
00:03:53.280 You get me?
00:03:54.200 No, this just sounds to me like the guys you don't want to date, which is the guys that, like, need a woman to, like, guide them.
00:04:04.340 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:05.260 Like, I would think you'd want, like, a leader.
00:04:07.340 Maybe I'm wrong.
00:04:08.160 No, no, no, man's a leader.
00:04:09.580 But man just needs someone to organize man's paperwork while I'm practically outside of the room.
00:04:14.260 You're kind of switching what you started saying.
00:04:18.720 No, I hear what you know, but it's hard for me to explain it because it's, like, it's mad because obviously, man, when I'm saying I'm focused, man, you can be focused on something.
00:04:30.140 But sometimes you need somebody there to help you in line certain things because, man, we will just do things.
00:04:36.700 Like, for example, are you shopping, for example, yeah?
00:04:39.200 If I'm going shopping, yo, I'm going in there, size 8, Air Force 1, boom, bam, gone.
00:04:45.140 I know exactly what I want.
00:04:46.520 I know what I'm going there for.
00:04:47.620 I'm not spending long, where women will, if they want to dress or something, or they want to shoes, you try it on. 1.00
00:04:53.680 It's got to make sure it looks right, blah, blah, blah.
00:04:55.820 They will pattern up things, make sure everything's correct before they leave that.
00:04:59.560 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:05:00.000 Yeah, but how does she make getting your size 8 better? 1.00
00:05:03.320 Your Air Force better?
00:05:04.380 I don't need to get my Air Force better, fam.
00:05:05.800 So is that, are you clever?
00:05:06.820 Well, you said she organizes your route.
00:05:07.980 Yeah, but I'm just saying they will look for more things.
00:05:12.800 I'm going to read Super Chats for a second.
00:05:17.540 Okay, guys, make sure you like the video.
00:05:20.040 Did we open the chat?
00:05:21.020 Did we get 2,000 likes, blessing?
00:05:23.580 Yeah, 1.2.
00:05:24.720 Oh, 1.2.
00:05:25.540 Good job, guys.
00:05:27.360 AW, message deleted.
00:05:29.140 I don't know what you said, but someone deleted it.
00:05:31.600 Hiroshima, 21st Century is the biggest L for humanity.
00:05:35.520 We trusted women to be accountable like men are, but all they did was destroy society. 1.00
00:05:39.860 Rome empowered women.
00:05:40.940 It's gone now.
00:05:42.020 Is that true?
00:05:43.060 Did Rome do that?
00:05:44.800 Vincent Fraga.
00:05:46.300 The traditional righteous focused men, focused since youth to be godly protectors, providers,
00:05:51.880 and intelligent for the purpose to build families at large.
00:05:55.120 I'm Hiroshima.
00:05:55.740 Average Japanese guy doesn't leave his house. 1.00
00:05:58.740 All I saw outside were chads and good-looking guys.
00:06:01.600 They openly said they had multiple girlfriends because that's all they had.
00:06:04.520 The rest of the guys aren't even in the dating pool, just rotting at home.
00:06:10.140 That was for the Japanese super chat earlier.
00:06:14.380 Oi, thanks for the hard work, Pearl.
00:06:15.880 Peace.
00:06:16.280 Gort, does being submissive mean submit to your men or does it mean submit to your family
00:06:22.900 and tell tats to stop talking?
00:06:25.020 Oi, ha ha, you're right.
00:06:27.200 Zoro Slot, only simps want to wait months if women isn't a virgin. 1.00
00:06:31.820 It's a woman's job to retain a man after hooking up. 1.00
00:06:37.980 Women want quality and men want quantity. 1.00
00:06:40.620 We are not the same.
00:06:41.660 They are the same.
00:06:47.540 They are the same.
00:06:50.160 They are the same.
00:06:51.000 You owe them.
00:06:57.680 They are the same.
00:06:58.740 They are the same.
00:07:01.060 The same в этой in any form.
00:07:02.640 They are the same.