JustPearlyThings - March 19, 2023


Pearls HOT TAKE on Domestic Violence


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

185.66698

Word count

1,551

Sentence count

177

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

sentences flagged

Hate speech

18

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about women hitting men and why they should be punished if they do it. We also talk about why men should not allow women to hit them and why women should be allowed to hit men.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What do you think about men who allow women to beat on them, to smack them, curse them out?
00:00:08.600 Equal rights, equal lefts, baby. 0.99
00:00:10.780 And I know the conservatives will not agree with me on this one, but if she hits you, hit back.
00:00:14.940 Stop it. Stop it. I'm not.
00:00:17.760 I used to think never hit a woman. I used to believe this. 0.77
00:00:21.460 Really?
00:00:21.920 Yeah. But it was because where I grew up, if anyone hit a girl, like a girl hit a guy, it would be like, eh.
00:00:28.420 You know, and so I'm like, okay. But I saw the punches that these bitches be throwing. 1.00
00:00:33.720 I'm like, if you want to hit like a dude, expect to get hit like a dude.
00:00:37.900 Because you don't go up to Dwayne the Rock Johnson and punch him.
00:00:41.780 If you got punched back, no one would feel bad for you.
00:00:44.320 But these girls will punch a dude, and then if he hits back, everyone's mad. 1.00
00:00:49.960 It's like, she hit him first.
00:00:51.360 Plus, there are laws that says that men cannot defend themselves from a woman. 0.98
00:00:55.900 There's laws?
00:00:56.480 Yeah, if a man should hit a woman, he's going to jail right away.
00:00:59.720 Stop it.
00:01:00.460 Even if the woman called the cop and said, oh, my husband or my boyfriend just beat me, right?
00:01:07.060 Or he hit me.
00:01:08.840 And she made it up.
00:01:11.040 It wasn't even true.
00:01:12.420 So the cops go out to the house, and the lady said, oh, it really didn't happen.
00:01:17.660 I changed my mind. It didn't happen.
00:01:19.520 They arrest the guy anyway.
00:01:20.740 Well, there's like patterns.
00:01:23.080 Doing this show for so long, there's like patterns I see with girls. 1.00
00:01:26.440 And there's like the abuse, the abuse pattern.
00:01:29.540 And it's like, these girls will scream abuse. 1.00
00:01:31.660 But then when I ask questions, I'll be like, what?
00:01:33.940 I'll be like, did you press charges?
00:01:35.340 No.
00:01:35.700 Okay, why?
00:01:36.260 If someone punches me in the face, I'm pressing charges.
00:01:38.380 That doesn't really make sense.
00:01:40.940 Like, so what happened?
00:01:42.980 And they'll kind of like leave out the part where they hit him first.
00:01:46.060 And I'm like, okay, if you guys are hitting each other, that's not abuse.
00:01:49.980 That's just a toxic relationship.
00:01:51.400 Y'all were hitting each other.
00:01:52.560 Stop it.
00:01:53.280 Stop it.
00:01:53.820 I will not.
00:01:55.100 I was surprised to learn that men allow women to beat on them or hit them like that. 0.99
00:02:01.680 Because I wasn't raised that way either.
00:02:04.240 And if a woman hit me like it, she going down. 1.00
00:02:07.300 She going down.
00:02:10.900 I would never tolerate that.
00:02:13.040 You know, I mean, men and women shouldn't be fighting it, period.
00:02:17.600 But it can't be one-sided like that.
00:02:20.220 Because when you allow that to happen, you just bring out the worst in the person.
00:02:24.100 Because if they know they can hit on you or whatever, and you're not going to defend yourself, they get worse.
00:02:30.700 Yeah, and the girls will make excuses too. 1.00
00:02:32.960 They'll be like, oh, it was just a toxic relationship.
00:02:36.880 Like, you don't know what you would do in that situation.
00:02:38.840 And I'm just like, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:02:41.760 I've been in relationships where things happened where I could have acted crazy, but now you are just insane.
00:02:47.220 Stop it.
00:02:47.720 Do not put all of girls in that because you're insane.
00:02:50.060 I will not do that.
00:02:51.160 That's amazing.
00:02:52.040 I will not do that.
00:02:52.880 You are either crazy or you're not crazy.
00:02:55.180 You didn't act crazy.
00:02:56.260 That's the other thing.
00:02:56.840 They say I acted crazy.
00:02:57.820 No, you're just crazy.
00:02:58.920 Yeah.
00:02:59.220 Like, stop it.
00:03:00.880 You are very rare.
00:03:03.340 Did you know that?
00:03:04.140 Well, it's because I've been doing this show for so long.
00:03:07.880 It's four times a week.
00:03:08.940 So I deal with people four times a week.
00:03:10.940 Right.
00:03:11.320 And I just start to see these patterns, like where I used to really believe girls when they 1.00
00:03:15.220 tell me like, and like kind of feel bad for them when they tell me abuse stories, because
00:03:19.340 I think innately men and women have this like protection mechanism towards women, because
00:03:25.080 it's like, it's like the children get off the boat first, then the women, then the men.
00:03:29.020 Right.
00:03:29.360 Right.
00:03:29.580 And so I think innately on some level, we all have that.
00:03:33.000 And, but then it's like when I hear the same story from 10 different girls and none of
00:03:37.420 you press charges, none of you, I'm like, somebody's lying.
00:03:42.180 Like, this just doesn't make sense to me.
00:03:44.440 Right on.
00:03:45.320 That's amazing.
00:03:46.000 I will not get punched.
00:03:46.920 I swear to God, anyone punch me, I'm going to the cops.
00:03:49.100 I'm a tattletale.
00:03:49.880 I'm a snitch.
00:03:50.480 Stop it.
00:03:51.420 Stop it.
00:03:51.620 That's what I tell the men.
00:03:52.760 If a woman hit you, call the cop.
00:03:55.780 And record.
00:03:56.240 I don't care if it's your wife, you have 10 kids. 0.78
00:03:58.340 Yeah.
00:03:58.580 If she hit you, call the cop, have her arrested, and let her stay there. 0.99
00:04:04.880 Don't go the next hour or so and get her out. 0.61
00:04:07.760 Let her stay there. 0.99
00:04:08.900 And record it.
00:04:09.940 And record, that's right.
00:04:10.780 Because a lot of times they'll come and they like, the girl will just say, he hit him,
00:04:14.020 he hit me.
00:04:14.880 Yeah.
00:04:15.260 So pull out your phone, record.
00:04:18.120 That's right.
00:04:18.760 So relationships between men and women in England, is it the same as it is over here?
00:04:27.620 Yeah.
00:04:28.280 The same.
00:04:29.000 Yeah.
00:04:29.360 It's slightly, I kind of look at how modern a country is.
00:04:32.480 I look at their average age of first marriage.
00:04:34.720 So it's interesting, because there's some countries you'd be surprised.
00:04:37.280 In Ireland, it's 35 and 34.
00:04:38.760 So the higher they are, I think they're the more modern.
00:04:41.580 But the U.K. is 31 and like 30, or 31, no, 31 and 32.
00:04:45.720 The U.S. is 27 and 28.
00:04:47.620 Amazing.
00:04:47.900 So I'd say it's a little bit more modern.
00:04:50.160 Really?
00:04:50.580 But not much.
00:04:51.240 It's kind of the same.
00:04:51.640 Oh, okay.
00:04:52.120 The mindset's the same.
00:04:53.360 It's not, that's what I say, I forget them in the U.K. sometimes.
00:04:56.120 So do you hope to get married one day and have a family?
00:05:00.840 Yeah.
00:05:01.260 You do?
00:05:01.840 Yeah, I want a lot of kids.
00:05:03.580 You want a lot?
00:05:04.300 Yeah.
00:05:04.580 You know, we need white babies. 1.00
00:05:06.880 Okay.
00:05:09.960 Yeah?
00:05:10.760 Did you know I started White History Month?
00:05:13.060 No.
00:05:15.700 What, do you go through like all the white countries? 1.00
00:05:18.920 Well.
00:05:19.280 Yeah, like I'm Irish and German.
00:05:20.700 Do we get like a day or a week in the month?
00:05:22.600 Well, July is White History Month. 0.94
00:05:24.700 Okay.
00:05:24.900 So July is White, I love it. 0.60
00:05:26.120 And we just celebrated, last July, we celebrated our fifth year of White History Month. 0.52
00:05:32.560 So I just want to know, like I'm Irish, German, Lithuanian, Welsh, and Polish.
00:05:36.380 I'm like all the white countries. 0.99
00:05:37.240 You're totally white. 0.95
00:05:38.080 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:38.540 So I just wanted to know, like, do we get like each day we talk about a different like
00:05:42.180 white country?
00:05:43.340 Yes.
00:05:43.360 We talk about different things that white people did to make the world great.
00:05:48.900 Yeah.
00:05:49.360 And I started in July because you got to admit, July just feels white.
00:05:54.060 Yeah, okay.
00:05:59.460 I can see that.
00:06:01.460 Vacation.
00:06:02.060 It's not, yeah, but it's not a good month for white people because we get sunburned.
00:06:05.220 Yeah, I heard it.
00:06:05.820 Yeah, you see, yeah.
00:06:06.720 Yeah.
00:06:06.960 But it's vacation, it's the 4th of July, it's reflection time, reflect on the country.
00:06:15.180 It's like you slow down and really, it's just white.
00:06:18.840 Yeah.
00:06:20.280 I can see that.
00:06:21.460 You can see that?
00:06:22.060 Yeah.
00:06:22.320 So will you be celebrating with us now from now on?
00:06:25.520 Yeah, sure.
00:06:26.400 And so what I'm trying to do is encourage white people to make more babies, get married 0.96
00:06:32.260 and just have a truckload of babies. 1.00
00:06:34.440 Okay.
00:06:35.000 Because a lot of white women are not having babies. 1.00
00:06:37.760 They're having abortions or they're not getting married and having children. 0.64
00:06:42.020 They'd rather go off and have a career than to get married.
00:06:45.540 So there's a report out that not too far away from here, white people would be the minorities
00:06:54.400 in their own countries, especially in this country.
00:06:57.740 And if white people become a minority, it's over for America. 0.79
00:07:02.300 Have you noticed that the blacks turn everything into a ghetto? 1.00
00:07:05.240 You notice that whenever they get a nice neighborhood, they move into your neighborhood, it turns
00:07:19.820 to ghetto.
00:07:21.380 Yeah, sometimes.
00:07:22.640 Have you ever read like Thomas Sowell at all?
00:07:24.720 Oh, yeah.
00:07:25.100 Yeah.
00:07:25.340 So it's kind of like what he talks about with redneck culture where it's like I think
00:07:31.600 one out of every, or two out of every three black people came from redneck culture where
00:07:37.060 like one out of every 10 white people.
00:07:38.980 So I feel like it's more like the culture than like race, in my opinion.
00:07:45.920 And so, but that's why I'm asking white people to start making babies because I don't want 1.00
00:07:51.220 to lose my country completely.
00:07:53.460 Because if they don't, if they come in minorities, it's over for America. 1.00
00:07:59.020 All of the Western countries, to be honest.
00:08:02.080 Yeah.
00:08:02.880 Um, I don't know.
00:08:04.100 I haven't thought about that as much.
00:08:05.380 Why do you think white people?
00:08:06.080 I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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