JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023


Pearl’s SCARY Experience With Modern Women


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

214.98816

Word Count

2,208

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

18

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the difference between men and women in the street and how men abuse women in general. We talk about our experiences with violence and abuse, and how we've been abused in the streets, and what we've learnt from it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 just be smart i fear women more than i fear men me too i i think women are much scarier yeah man
00:00:06.920 absolutely that's why why are you looking at me like i'm crazy no you're not crazy i do i do i do
00:00:12.500 street interviews all the time i've i've only been i'm like attacked or like had someone try to attack
00:00:17.920 me and it's always been a woman oh wow yeah like i had a girl they were like holding her back she
00:00:22.980 was trying to she was trying to throw a punch at me and like they were holding her back so she
00:00:27.280 wouldn't yeah she knocked the mic on my out of my hand what did you say to her no they took it down
00:00:34.180 off of youtube somehow she got it taken down but it's on jesse praise's channel what did you tell
00:00:39.260 her did you report it sorry that you experienced that but what did you do well well so well she
00:00:45.660 so okay okay this is what happened i was i was doing street interviews and basically like what
00:00:51.560 what set her off was we were talking about how you're not entitled to safety and i feel like as
00:00:57.720 women like it it's not smart to walk they always use the example like well i can't walk home alone
00:01:04.660 at night and i'm like well neither can men like why are you walking home alone at night that sounds
00:01:08.900 like a stupid idea down a dark alley yeah like why on earth like would you do that like i wouldn't do
00:01:18.060 it as a dude either and so i just said like why are you entitled to security and safety like no one's
00:01:23.500 ever had security and safety in all of history ever but you deserve it why and it'd be nice it'd be
00:01:31.600 it'd be a perk but like you want to live in a big city that you chose to anyway so this is why she got
00:01:37.200 mad and so then she's like you effing slag and i didn't know what slag meant i didn't know what that
00:01:43.180 man but i knew i was being insulted i was like this is british she's like you're a slag i'll have
00:01:48.600 you you slag and like yeah and then she like knocks the mic out of my hand she's coming at me
00:01:54.200 my friend jesse's like pulling her away so because i brought a guy so like you know it's smart yeah
00:01:59.360 and um yeah i did you know i called her a whale but like what i said was a fact she was a
00:02:06.220 okay yeah i mean like she was a heavyweight she was a drunken whale she was she was drunk as well
00:02:12.420 she was immigrated out late at night and drunk yeah but i'm like that's that's where the whales
00:02:19.260 started yeah mind you though boys fight a lot as well girl on girl boy on boy i feel like the people
00:02:24.580 feel like it's okay because it's same same gender so it's not as bad yeah that's why sport is divided
00:02:31.180 in sexes yeah i don't think that's it's not good for anybody but why like okay if you went up to
00:02:36.580 duane the rock johnson and you started something with him and you got hit back no one would really
00:02:41.300 feel bad for you yeah why do we feel bad for women if you hit him and you start something and you get
00:02:46.800 hit back you started it yeah whoever started it you started it that's your blame absolutely yeah
00:02:52.120 i mean you never hit first you never meant to hit first my mom taught me that in school never hit
00:02:57.040 first but if they hit you hit double yes that's hard yeah but never never hit first i've always
00:03:05.340 followed the policy of equality so uh if a woman hits me then you've just signed a consent form to
00:03:11.880 be hit back that's how my son was raised yeah i have i have no kind of i don't believe equality in
00:03:19.420 that i'm curious from the men from your experience do you think men are abused more or women are abused
00:03:25.140 more just from personal experience not social media not like just from people you know personally
00:03:31.100 that you would believe and trust in my opinion um i think it's 50 50 you know i'm saying i can't just
00:03:38.020 say yeah women abuse more than ladies there's a lot of men out there don't um say nothing so i say 50 50
00:03:44.340 you know i'm saying uh i would say well let's put it this way i know about three or four men who've been
00:03:50.280 you know supposedly being abused and some one or two of them was really really bad and i've known a
00:03:56.460 couple of i've known like one of the girls i've seen like six months ago was really badly abused
00:04:00.880 like was anorexic because of it xyz um personally i i view it more as like a character like you have to
00:04:08.220 be a certain kind of person it's always it's always people who just like have have like let they get
00:04:15.360 into relationships too young they build their personality by being codependent on someone else
00:04:19.780 it's always those kind of the guys who get abused are very like low-key emotional dudes
00:04:23.660 because they'll be telling us and be like bro you're like 6'2 bro like what you like why can't
00:04:29.160 like you know and he's like no i've got some deep feelings so it's a certain kind of person
00:04:32.900 in my experience i haven't thought about it in terms of like gender i think don't you think it's
00:04:37.920 like oh i'm sorry i'm gonna say i'm gonna say you know like you know like with the mandem
00:04:43.120 just because they're mandem it doesn't mean they they don't go into a relationship and they fall
00:04:48.780 in love and you know all this happens but i think it's so hard to say who's who's more because the
00:04:55.420 men don't speak up like we're like we're speaking here that's the annoying part as well you know the
00:04:59.180 men don't speak up because they don't want that sometimes they're even afraid to say okay babe i love
00:05:03.280 you bye they're afraid to say i love you but to their girlfriends so imagine speaking about oh she
00:05:09.240 she she hits me at home she scratches my face she tears up my clothes you know something but you know
00:05:15.240 what it is you know something right it all depends because if a man slapped a woman straight away that's
00:05:24.040 abuse right but how many women out there and they're slapping the men regularly but nobody's
00:05:33.220 seeing it as abuse but if it was the other way around because i'm sure that somewhere everybody
00:05:39.120 knows someone who like a woman say oh you know i slapped him in his face he was torn i slapped him
00:05:44.120 his face or i whacked him around the head or it's always something just like it's nothing when it comes
00:05:49.460 to men but if but only because maybe because she's a woman and it's weak so the way it sounds like oh i
00:05:55.440 just slapped him but if it was a man now saying oh i just slapped her because he's a man and
00:06:02.320 everyone's thinking about the force behind it and i and i believe that when it comes to abuse
00:06:07.600 there's more men out there being abused but because they might say oh it's a slap or she's on a period
00:06:13.580 or you know i mean oh she's got trauma they don't they don't ever report it because they just seen it
00:06:18.980 as a slap i think if a man just gives a woman a slap now because of the slap on the sides of his hand
00:06:27.460 i don't know because of the strength everybody's gonna see it as some major abuse i think i think
00:06:32.600 men don't my honest opinions i think from my experience people i've seen in this situation men
00:06:37.080 don't report it because and you can hate me if you want for saying this they know it's weak in it
00:06:41.920 like like you you fully know that this is pathetic in it like you're literally getting
00:06:46.500 abused by some by some five foot two latino thing and and you you caught feelings you caught
00:06:52.720 feeling so deep that you can't leave and now you're really hurt and in six months you're going
00:06:56.520 to be posting edgy facebook posts about you know love and whatever listen they know it's weak and
00:07:00.640 that's why they don't really come up which is why i say i think it's a character thing the donnie's i
00:07:05.260 know who have this experience they're always like the west like it's like you can see it i've had guys
00:07:11.080 say to me like um oh you know i'm in an abusive relationship but i can't leave i just like
00:07:15.860 i can't override my emotions my dad's the same you know sometimes the women in our families in our
00:07:21.720 genes like they just push it too far but you know the men in our family just like we just can't
00:07:25.940 leave we just fall really deeply in love and xyz and i looked at him i felt really sorry for him
00:07:30.120 because he was he was a good looking guy he was from like yorkshire somewhere like that some village
00:07:33.560 and you know i kind of got it but it's a character in it and these there are people who haven't learned
00:07:38.940 emotional resilience the people who haven't learned independence and they just they just give up any any
00:07:44.220 kind of semblance of self-respect you know and decide that i'm not even going to fight that but i'll just
00:07:49.160 follow my feelings when you see me it's everywhere around it's not the it's not weak men it's a strong
00:07:53.980 man that the women are like you know i want to slap in the men like you know what if i if i slap her
00:07:58.660 back i want to knock her the hell out so i'm just gonna walk away from you do you know what i mean
00:08:02.480 and i don't see any to me it's never it's never been a a weak man it's always been a strong a strong
00:08:08.920 man that does what and that got slapped like if the woman's having to argue and the man got slapped i'm
00:08:13.620 not meant to look at the woman and say do you know what it depends on what you define if i if i slap you
00:08:18.340 back now i'm gonna put myself in prison and i'm gonna put you in hospitals you know i'm gonna do
00:08:23.160 i'm gonna go for a walk and i know men that do that i also know a man who the woman slapped him
00:08:29.420 so he bit slapped her back and he spent the night in the police station yeah i i it depends on what
00:08:36.880 you mean by strong i've noticed it's mostly the kind of women who do that tend to target a certain
00:08:41.860 kind of guy like they can they can tell who the wet guy is gonna catch feelings hard is gonna be in it
00:08:47.420 because there's a certain mandem like it never happens to people like me it's not even close
00:08:51.640 because it's not even like something that even passes but there's it's the that's why i said the
00:08:56.280 guys who deal with this they always and they deal with it multiple times it's always like you go from
00:09:00.220 this seriously ship and then this other girls now really mean oh that's different that's different
00:09:04.000 that's a search i agree it's always the same it's always repeat though like it's never just like one
00:09:08.680 girl and then that was it if it's repeated well he's got issues that's he and i would say the same
00:09:12.980 thing if it was a woman and it got repeated do you guys think um that if a man um is being abused
00:09:19.560 and ends up committing suicide over it do you think that the woman is responsible and should be held
00:09:24.720 responsible in court 100% only if it's only if he reported it exactly because now is now how do you
00:09:32.120 hold the woman accountable for that that's just the issue unless if he dies before he reported it
00:09:38.760 like say like she slapped him or she was she was hurting him and then she stabbed him and went for
00:09:44.700 her artery so it's obvious that she killed him that way well yeah sue her but if it was something like
00:09:49.140 she kept on abusing him and then he killed himself but he never reported it i would say
00:09:54.600 the same thing for a woman it's sad but if you reported it if you did report it it's just gonna
00:09:59.580 go down as you commit suicide i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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