Post Wall Woman Dates these kind of Men
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the age difference between men and women when it comes to dating, what age range we should be dating and what we should look for in a potential partner. We also talk about commitment and what it's like to be in a committed relationship with someone older than you.
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the reason 18 and 19 year olds are more attractive than 25 year olds is because they've been through
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les dick i'll say this right here on the fucking internet i don't give a shit people sit there
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and go oh you can't say that yes i can a 19 year old is more attractive than a 26 year old woman
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i'll tell you why because that 26 year old has talked to more guys been to the club more times
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been more places been fucked and dumped more times more arguments more heartbreak more bullshit more
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mess for me to clean up whereas a 19 year old might have had one guy from high school just broke up
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she's fresh and i can fucking put my imprint on her make her a good person and without her having to
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go through all that detriment to learn about life okay so my first question how old are you and what
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age range do you date i won't reveal my age but i can tell you my most recent ex i was with him on and
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four years and there was a big age difference he i think he was 27 26 27 this year so um yeah so i will
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i would date between mid 20s and i'll go from 25 to 55 20 wow that's a huge range you're enjoying it
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yeah so i i can i can either date you or your dad or the other way around
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okay uh i am 29 minus a week uh no 30 minus a week apologies and i date probably
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up to five years older than me max i think so you won't go like if a guy's 40 that's too old
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um five years okay that's a hard now wait but you also didn't mention younger though like you just
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i don't well younger maybe max two years younger max it's a tight tight window for me
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i'm 20 i'm 25 i wouldn't do younger anymore but max i would do
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i think round 30s is good for me um maybe just a bit over like 32 33
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yeah yeah i'm 20 i would date up to 25 just because i haven't got my life sorted yet and i
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don't want someone that's that's got everything sorted out yeah yeah okay um i'm 20 and i would
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probably date from like 19 to um like a hard cap maybe like 35. okay uh i'm 34 and i would say so my
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girlfriend like she's like mid-20s so the bottom end would be mid-20s and top end would be around
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late 30s 40 late 30s 40 i'm 29 and the bottom absolute bottom is a 90s baby so 99 um
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and the top end just depends on the person and where i am in life um so 45 you're in she looks good
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i'll be honest with you i've seen some i've i've seen some i've seen all sorts that look good so okay
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so so 50 55 there's gotta be a rough cap i'm just saying a rough cap a rough cap yeah rough cap um
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obviously j-lo is an exception for me it's a thing it's a combination of things of course like if i'm
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in the dating space and i don't know she's 50 but she looks she doesn't look like the 50s that society
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call 50 year olds then you know i'm not gonna okay anyone that looks good yeah okay okay but
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running off what andrew tate said like doesn't she have too much baggage are we talking about dating
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or commitment here well um so tell me that's a big difference tell me both yeah so someone you'd
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want to take seriously long term and someone you'd go for a short term someone long term no um i can't
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i can't i can't start a family with a 50 year old um um i know there's some some 50 year olds out there
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but not for me it's not it doesn't work for me but isn't the aim of dating like like long-term
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relationships or is it just like kind of fun depends on your accent i'm not i'm not i don't i don't
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personally date for fun i do i do commitments um so if i'm looking to get married to someone then i'm
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going to be thinking about my family and who i can build something with yeah so like you'll enjoy being
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with a 50 year old and like exchanging conversation but like you wouldn't like it wouldn't be serious
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you know i mean like it would just be kind of i don't know like understanding them meeting them
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but not like it would never be long time yeah maybe a little kiss here and there yeah no i feel like
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just just for the purpose of the question it's just purely for the purpose of the question but i think
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if it came to a commitment scenario um couple years above me at most um but i'll probably look down as
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opposed to up yeah fair enough that's just how i view dating like i view it as something that like
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i'm always seeing if you could fit into my life like long term because otherwise it's just going
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to hurt my feelings yeah i think that's typically more of a female view yeah can i qualify my answer
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that i just gave so like the upper end i literally just said 40. like romantically if you look good
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there's no reason why it can't even be beyond 40. the only reason why i cap it at 40 because i presume
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you're probably in a different stage of life that i'm in and there might be a lifestyle mismatch that's
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the only reason but even then i could discover that's not the case and then i'd be willing to
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as long as i you look good to me i'm still attracted to you we're all good i sorry to interrupt um i think
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ages were irrelevant i mean there's there's a limit to what i would go down to see 25 is the lowest i will go
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um but i think you could be this is from a woman's point of view to men you could be missing out from
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a really great woman just because you put these restrictions on ages and it's not all about you
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know it's popping out babies it might be you might find the woman the love of your life at any they
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could be any age you don't have to be popping babies out but you could miss out for for amazing long
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you know lifelong partner with all your restrictions that's just my personal point of view but you kind
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of contradicted yourself because you said age is irrelevant but then you said you wouldn't go under
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25 that's you got a point like like what what's wrong with the 24 year old that's got his stuff
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together okay yeah i said 25 but yeah if it's a 24 year old but i'm not gonna go i'm not gonna go
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really low because that's not relevant for me and i know i'm not saying how old i am but yes i understand
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i apologize for if you felt contradictory myself but yeah there there is a limit but an upper limit
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you could be missing out on a great man or a great woman i agree would you date a guy that was 90.
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well yeah well yeah like you said it could be 110. it could be 110 treats me well just wants to
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take me out to dinner and have some company buy me nice things but you still have to be respectful
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yeah i i i i agree with you to a certain extent given i think ultimately it comes down to your
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intention so if you're if your intention is to actually have a family i think there's a biological
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plot that we can't necessarily overlook and you may say that there's also yeah there are options
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adoption and so forth but not every man may necessarily want to take that route so my response
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was from the fact of my version of a commitment where i am in my life i need to be with a woman that can i can
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have a family with and with my age currently speaking the higher up i go i guess if i want
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more than one child or so forth that kind of has to be accelerated and as a man you know you've got to
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you've got to kind of plan these things up but the planning also takes time so
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you know there's a point when i'm sure it's different for different women's but from what i've
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learned in school there's a point when women can't provide families so no no i understand that and
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i have a very calm point of view when it comes to children i'm not going to go there now um i am a
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support person to my best friend who's a foster carer and i've seen the value of fostering and adoption
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there are thousands of children in this country who would benefit from having an amazing loving home and
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when you look at things differently this is just my personal point of view and it's no attack on
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anyone here but when you look at the children that don't actually have a home and you've got
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everyone popping out these babies i get it people say oh i want i want blood it has to be my blood my
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child but if you actually look into it whether it's adoption or foster okay fostering is different
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for a short time but adoption it doesn't matter where it is whether it's blood or not the problem is
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there's a lot of problems that come with adoption like there's a lot of issues like if you don't get
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the kid before the age of three like it's fully developed and any issues that it had before the
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age of three a lot of times you can't stop um and i'm not i'm not like against adoption but i just think
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sometimes it it can a lot of people aren't aware of how hard it is when they go into it and this is as
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someone like i have three adopted siblings no no i i totally understand that and um i have friends
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um who adopt adopted children as well but also it depends on the type of person you are what parent
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you will be um the type of child there's there's so many different variations it's just kind of like
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if a guy could avoid that headache of like like you'd have to find find the kid hope hopefully it's like
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coming out of a not too bad situation um and like pay it's really expensive too in the us i don't
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know how it is here but you have to pay ten plus thousand dollars per kid it's like why would he go
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through that headache no you don't do that here adoption goes through overseas you know is it free
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here it is it is free you go through your local council or adoption services and you you don't have
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to pay for that no but interject i you do have to make a certain amount of money to provide for the
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child you're not allowed to just adopt a child with no money of course of course ideally you're
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financially stable anyway for any child if you're going to get pregnant you're going to adopt money
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is in the equation because you have to provide a living so it's a complete deterrent for going for
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older women for guys i guess but what about the women that like you uh like scenario like you find
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like your dream girl you're in love with her and then you find out like she can't provide a family
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for you no matter how old she is then you have to go through adoption anyway so why is like age a
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hard cap i think it's just like likelihood i mean like geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 um 90 90 90
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of your eggs are gone by 30. yeah and so it's just like if if you get a 25 year old or 22 year old
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it's less likely to happen but there's like there's still that chance that she's like completely infertile
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you know i mean so like i don't know in my eyes like it shouldn't matter on that it's a chance
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though it's like if you're going for an older woman then it's more likely so it's kind of it's
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why waste your time it's kind of like okay if you pick two roads on the highway and one has an accident
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every week and one and one it's usually fine like which one are you gonna pick yeah as many of you know
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