JustPearlyThings - June 10, 2023


Post Wall Woman Gets A Reality Check


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

182.47176

Word count

1,599

Sentence count

5

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Hate speech

7

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In this episode, we talk about the statistics on women wanting to have babies at a young age and why it's not a good idea. We also talk about fertility rates in developed countries and why most women are still single and childless at the age of 30.

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00:00:00.000 so doesn't that show the statistics of women trying to just keep themselves to themselves 0.59
00:00:05.440 like because okay all women i'd be like oh they don't want extra body counts no i i think i think
00:00:12.660 it shows what's easier to get like it's easier for women to get sex than men yeah so it's like 0.79
00:00:18.140 men a man has to have something for you to be interested in him like you're a pretty girl so 0.98
00:00:22.980 it's like you're gonna want him to have a good job right definitely you want him to be taller
00:00:26.460 than you i've been very spoiled you want to so you are picky is earlier yeah okay so
00:00:33.960 you want you want him to be taller than you right oh yeah six okay okay okay what percent of men are
00:00:42.540 over six foot not many minimum what it's 15 percent wow so then let's let's say let's say wow yeah so
00:00:49.120 let's say for real now what percent wait wait what percent of men do you find attractive usually would
00:00:54.880 you say i like men that are taller than me i like to look up how tall are you so out of out of 10
00:00:59.740 men you maybe maybe you'll find so if you're like the stats you'll find two attractive so out of the
00:01:04.520 15 you're gonna find two out of the 10 that are over six foot attractive yeah and let's say let's say
00:01:10.540 one of them is in your income category that you look for and one isn't so you're looking for one
00:01:15.440 percent of men and most women most women are looking most women baby moms most women are
00:01:21.200 looking for one percent and you want them to have no kids right that's what i'm saying it's all a
00:01:38.400 possibility like i said i did used to date a very rich guy and he made me become very high um when
00:01:46.280 we stopped dating i was like oh my god how am i gonna get to right get this level how am i no that's
00:01:53.000 the thing respect another guy statistically statistically you probably won't replace him
00:01:57.560 statistically you probably won't because he was rich i'm just saying my dms be popping
00:02:02.320 yeah yeah yeah but yeah yeah yeah but okay your dms might be popping but engagements count
00:02:09.480 that's what counts
00:02:10.640 i get more dms i get more dms
00:02:14.520 okay okay i i i've had like crazy messages but you you know come on it's a dm they don't count
00:02:25.380 no no no you don't count but obviously out of those dms one of them was the one i mean i mean
00:02:31.340 but that's i was like yes but that's my point that's what every girl thinks every girl's walking
00:02:37.200 through life thinking they're going to win the lottery and date this top one percent man he has
00:02:40.800 to be over six foot he has to make over 70k he has to be attractive he has to be what and but see
00:02:47.180 this is this is but this is here here wait this is the problem that sounds nice it's it sounds nice
00:02:52.740 and like and it's possible but it's not probable it's probably not going to happen
00:02:56.260 so so i'll tell you i'll tell you another stat okay so big banks are investing
00:03:00.400 in things like cat food wine because 50 of women are projected to be single and childless over 30 so 0.91
00:03:06.520 that means all the girls in this room half of us will never have kids okay half of us will never 0.95
00:03:11.500 get married so if you say oh just manifest it believe it sounds nice and it's also like if you
00:03:16.240 don't get married by 35 your odds of getting married and having a long stable relationship ever
00:03:19.960 it's very it's very it's very low it's very low i actually a lot of women yeah 1.00
00:03:24.340 actually i'm gonna i want to read uh when a single woman reaches the age of 30 the statistical
00:03:44.060 probability of her sex successfully finding a long-term relationship and having just one child
00:03:49.560 falls below 50 percent it then declines rapidly by 3.5 percent to 5 percent each year this is based
00:03:56.360 on the average fertility rates in developed countries of course but it's also based on the
00:04:00.140 average amount of time it would take a single 30 year old woman to find a good mate and progress 1.00
00:04:03.660 the relationship to the point of pregnancy um a little messed up is what you consider the average
00:04:09.300 age of first child is 29 for women it varies very slightly by country and most women start taking
00:04:15.320 the idea of a family seriously in their late 20s and 30s um and let's talk about ivf too 61 um the
00:04:24.100 the failure rates of ivf is 61.1 percent in women under 34 so out of 100 women that go and get ivf 61
00:04:32.440 percent fail um and women that are between the ages of 35 to 38 it's 73.7 percent 86.2 percent in women
00:04:40.200 ages 39 to 42 and 94 percent in women over the ages of 43 have that's the ivf failure rate wow isn't it
00:04:47.060 now that there's more female binge drinkers than male for the first time ever yeah that's true that's 1.00
00:04:51.480 crazy yeah wait that's mad that's crazy which part what do you there's more female yeah there's more 1.00
00:04:58.020 you can go yeah it was uh it was like it was something that came out earlier this year that there
00:05:02.240 are now more female binge drinkers than males and it's the first time in history this has happened
00:05:07.580 wow that's crazy i'm really getting educated green so um they're smoking more so so men smoke more and
00:05:18.640 women drink more yeah but that's the first time in history that women are drinking more 1.00
00:05:21.860 why is that because we're an evolving race because women are becoming men 1.00
00:05:27.940 i'm gonna read one more thing to you guys according to the average span of committed
00:05:37.560 relationships of committed dating relationships the average them and the average interval of time
00:05:44.000 women take between related relationships an average woman has a maximum of guess how many 1.00
00:05:48.900 serious relationships three how many four five five five yeah um has a i think a woman can only wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys wait let me finish a maximum of five serious relationships five swings at a bat before her chance of starting a family drops to zero so that means if you've had five boyfriends your your chance of a family's dropped to zero wait wait wait wait please can you explain that again guys what is it like
00:06:15.900 according to the boyfriends according to the average span of committed dating relationships the average and the average
00:06:22.340 interval of time women take between relationships the average woman has a maximum of five serious relationships five swings
00:06:28.780 at the bat before her chances of starting a family drops to zero 1.00
00:06:32.340 they need to change locations
00:06:35.780 but this is but see but see this is like and that sounds that sounds that sounds depressing
00:06:42.860 it's according to numbers like so they think but how many people wait what if they what if the new generation what if these people are just willing to love easily
00:06:52.300 more easily more easily than the previous one but this is but this is like we always do a roundabout way to make the numbers not sound like what they are
00:06:59.400 yeah but numbers were only numbers when people started creating numbers okay numbers weren't there
00:07:04.920 numbers wait numbers were only numbers when people started creating numbers
00:07:08.840 like like this
00:07:10.220 how did you count a rock like how did you count how many rocks before they were okay this is this doesn't make any sense
00:07:18.100 what really makes sense nowadays is the stats like who are these people that put out these reports
00:07:25.200 they do they do they do they do they do surveys they do surveys it's self-reported in different countries around the world and they all have similar numbers so
00:07:32.360 so so they they start to have a similar conclusion in a similar trend so
00:07:36.120 when we when we tell women oh it's going to be okay it's like my dms are full this this this for a lot of women
00:07:41.800 for a lot of women it's not going to be okay and out of women that don't have kids 1.00
00:07:45.740 right eighty percent of them wish they had them a hundred percent it's gonna be okay
00:07:49.660 record at the end of it oh that's what i'm saying sometimes these conversations could also go
00:07:54.800 to the other side of the spectrum wait explain that so what do you mean i think that these
00:08:00.400 sort of conversations we have they can sometimes be very strategic and stats have stated and these
00:08:06.640 people yeah but there's a whole group community of people who don't do surveys and just love their life
00:08:13.080 and love people and talk to people and are real and they don't give their reports back
00:08:17.460 yes okay okay so that's just okay okay some some some people you're right some people don't take
00:08:25.160 surveys but if we're doing surveys in different places and they're all concluding the same thing
00:08:30.340 it's like if you don't want to believe numbers you don't have to you can just live in the in the land
00:08:34.340 of feelings but but it's right it's quite hard it's quite hard to do that when you're living in the land
00:08:44.980 of logic like