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00:00:00.000 question would you give up monogamy for a man give up what monogamy what is that like he what he 0.51

00:00:07.200 cheats for a guy that you like for the right yeah i i i'm way too for me no i yeah i no i don't think

00:00:16.480 i can trust that guy again no i would just i'm too jealous i'll kill people are you monogamous now

00:00:22.960 yes oh yeah yeah so in a way it's like in a way aren't you not monogamous now

00:00:32.640 like a situationship it's not monogamy like usually the girl is monogamous but the guy isn't 0.96

00:00:38.320 so it's funny no it's funny so there's girlfriends i had to make this i had to have this like thought

00:00:43.200 too but it's like if you've ever been in a situationship in a way you're sharing a guy

00:00:47.520 she's really thinking about it now yeah but i'm i'm not in i wouldn't be in a like committed

00:00:55.920 relationship with someone and it's like yeah it's us and um and then be okay with him sleeping with

00:01:04.400 anyone else would you be okay i don't say okay with it but what about accept it no even if i wanted to

00:01:11.040 like i don't like i don't judge other people who do maybe i would like to want to but i'm telling you

00:01:16.160 like someone would die i i think i think most girls would for the right guy except they might 1.00

00:01:25.760 go crazy okay here's the thing about me i am a little bit oblivious because i'm very much in my

00:01:30.640 own i i always say i've never been cheated of not that i know of maybe i'm so oblivious like i would

00:01:36.960 not check a man's phone i mean he if he did cheat and he would be i'm so dumb for me he would be so

00:01:43.040 dumb for me to find like i don't check a man's phone or like but i think you will probably if i

00:01:50.640 did find out if i did find out if i walked in on him with someone else i honestly i don't think i

00:01:56.160 would accept it i would like to be like why like why did you do that because men like to fuck yeah but 0.79

00:02:04.720 i would do that four days straight i would i don't know why most women say no like why wouldn't you 1.00

00:02:09.120 i had one of my friends he was like men like to new girls like multiple you know but what if you

00:02:15.680 not all of them you know i i tell you like i coach a lot of men i coach a lot of men

00:02:22.240 no not you're talking okay okay not all men okay i have a question like to different women and go

00:02:27.920 through the whole thing of meeting a new woman and no no okay i i have a question do you think most men if

00:02:34.240 they're in like tiger woods position because i actually no i used to i used to think like you i

00:02:39.120 used to think oh they would never like like i know these guys that would never cheat but it's like

00:02:43.760 most of those guys aren't in the position where women are chasing them down and hunting them down 1.00

00:02:48.640 i don't know i've seen those guys and some of them don't yeah i've literally seen those guys i've hung

00:02:56.000 out with those guys i've i've got a lot of male friends and they i mean there are there are exceptions

00:03:01.760 but i just don't but then i wouldn't go out with somebody like in that's why i wouldn't go out with

00:03:06.560 a footballer even if i could i mean when i was younger i could but i wouldn't i why would you

00:03:11.040 want to go out with a guy who does have women throwing themselves on him all the time like she 1.00

00:03:16.160 said about pre-selection but then i was gonna say now like if the guy high value whatever whatever

00:03:21.680 you're kept you don't have to worry about anything you can just play football all day and then come home

00:03:25.360 yeah do four days straight yeah now and then on on the fifth day he's with becky from no we're done

00:03:33.040 what is it that no becky with a good hair really that sounds like a pretty good life yeah no you're

00:03:37.840 telling me so you're you're 42 you're 42 you have a daughter and now you get you get to just be a

00:03:42.960 stay-at-home wife just once a week just make me think no just once a week yeah he's good looking

00:03:48.240 we're gonna have to get the police up here again definitely you're not gonna have to get the

00:03:52.800 police but no no that's like that's what i'm saying like my no okay i i would be too jealous i would

00:04:03.680 i am way too probably arrogant to no i wouldn't accept what if you listen to what you had to say

00:04:12.800 remember what you said before about listening yeah but if he needs new

00:04:16.320 whatever like he needs to go and have it like i know i can't live with that i can't live with that

00:04:22.160 yeah see it's i'm also listen i'm also a germaphobe you weren't here how i was cleaning this like that

00:04:27.600 is the other thing like i can't that even if i could get over it emotionally which i don't think i

00:04:32.800 could i could not get over the germs and the the disgustingness of sleeping around i cannot tell you

00:04:40.000 yeah see but it's so interesting because in a way like you you had a cat your hat yeah i mean you

00:04:45.280 talked about a casual relationship so essentially most women have like essentially you are you're 1.00

00:04:50.960 getting over that now no but if i've made the commitment yeah no that would be different for me

00:04:59.120 what's the difference um

00:05:06.000 the difference would be in yeah there's a commitment i've given my word you've given your word and we're

00:05:11.680 going to be exclusive and then if you go and do that behind my back no okay no i know i would

00:05:19.920 want to know why no i i under what do you what do you see but this is like a lack of understanding of

00:05:24.800 guys do you know a hundred percent guys i mean i think even good guys would have a hard time if

00:05:30.400 they're in a position where women are throwing at themselves at them every day but i wouldn't 1.00

00:05:33.920 most guys but i wouldn't be with a man i would not be with a man but you're saying you wouldn't

00:05:37.920 who's got you wouldn't throwing themselves at him all the time i wouldn't but the guy you're with

00:05:43.280 probably is that's my point is like the guy you're with he said he's athletic you said he's got a good

00:05:49.120 job you said he's tall like he probably is in a position where women are throwing themselves at him 1.00

00:05:54.240 that's like three out of five things that you want most of the time yeah like all right then i'll forget

00:05:58.880 about him like no no you got me thinking no no i wouldn't i i i probably actually you're right

00:06:09.440 i'll ask him about that i don't know so i think me i don't know that's i think me and my question

00:06:19.760 no it's just i had a guy point this out to me once like that like women will say they won't accept 0.93

00:06:24.880 like non-monogamy yet most women have been in a situationship at some point which is non-monogamy 0.99

00:06:30.400 so it's kind of like a double-edged but i have friends that their their husband just cheated on

00:06:35.360 them a few times and they're still living together yeah no a lot of girls yeah i mean think about it

00:06:41.200 it's like okay if you're if you're like 45 right 50 40 let's just say 45 and you get into a relationship

00:06:48.160 with a guy or you've been with a guy and you find out he cheated and he pays for everything it's like

00:06:53.520 what so you're gonna leave what's on the other side now you get to work for the next 30 40 years

00:06:59.200 and this is why i'm saying yeah that's what i think like a man like would a man do that like

00:07:03.440 that's what i'm saying my would a man stay with a woman who cheated on him no no but cheating is

00:07:10.000 different for men yeah but but yeah that's what i i think my brain is like a matter i could not get

00:07:16.000 over that like i am no yeah maybe maybe you couldn't my brain doesn't have that part where he could accept

00:07:22.320 that i couldn't but do you see what i'm saying i think i would go with my calling

00:07:28.160 you see what i'm saying though but you're in a situation ship now and so in a way you are accepting

00:07:34.560 it you think about that do you know what i'm saying because it's it's just like it's a contradiction

00:07:41.920 because you're saying i could never accept it but if you're in a non-monogamous relationship i'm not in

00:07:46.080 a relationship it's a type of relationship right situation it's a situation ship i'm not trying

00:07:51.760 to shame you for it i think i think it's really common that's why i'm going to end it thank you

00:07:56.960 very much you know i know she's not saying it she just got me thinking don't jump to conclusions

00:08:06.400 it's just interesting how i'll talk to girls about this and they'll be like no i would never i would

00:08:10.880 never accept that and then a lot of those girls same girls are in situationships and if you're in

00:08:16.800 a situation you're accepting yeah i don't think i could i would like to be one of those i don't think

00:08:23.360 i physically could do it i honestly don't think i have it in me i saw that football man it is it's the

00:08:30.160 high testosterone i don't think i have it in me no i mean you're not that's common but it's again it's

00:08:35.760 still a contradiction because you are you know so you have it in you gotcha you know no because i

00:08:44.720 don't know you don't know if if i yeah if i knew that's what i'm saying i told you i'm very oblivious

00:08:51.360 i don't i don't stalk man i don't check the phone i don't like i i don't would you look the other what

00:08:56.480 about if you just looked the other way and you know he might but no i i would say

00:09:06.640 80 he isn't but then i don't know what do you i have reason to believe he isn't but i don't know

00:09:14.560 100 he might be you're just trusting it no it's not even trust it's like no it's not even trust it's

00:09:22.320 just i'm just looking at the reality and putting situation yeah and i don't think he would be but

00:09:29.920 it could be could be but if i did see it or if i had evidence or if i did even think no he probably

00:09:37.280 is no i would just ask him i would step over if he doesn't care about you he's gonna tell you the truth

00:09:44.080 i i asked him kind of four or five months in and he said he wasn't but i haven't asked him recently

00:09:53.760 but i know you said that the the headache that you gave him was within six months and then four

00:09:57.840 or five months yeah you asked him if he's sleeping with anyone else so yeah maybe after i gave him my

00:10:01.360 headache you said you said you were not in relationship with no but she's saying i'm

00:10:07.520 still in a situation ship would you but do you agree that you're in a situation ship oh yeah i am in a

00:10:13.920 situation do you know do you do you know it to be true that he isn't sleeping with anyone else i don't

00:10:23.120 know 100 no okay you guys are trying to break up these relations yeah what's going on man we have

00:10:29.200 a case that's what happens that mandana is that it's good the point she's making i'm i get it and

00:10:36.080 i 100 like agree like um but that's why i don't i don't judge me i don't think women who stay with

00:10:44.560 their men of truth i don't think oh my god you should leave him i have i don't you know what's

00:10:48.320 interesting we had a guy um who um he talked about that he would break up with girls because he just

00:10:58.800 felt like he couldn't stay faithful to them like he just couldn't do it no no and this is a dude that

00:11:03.840 paid for everything he like 100 would take care of the bills and um the and he ended up like marrying

00:11:12.800 this last girl because she said she could accept it and that girl i don't know i mean she ended up

00:11:18.640 winning when you think about it because she got the deed to the house she got the well if that's your game

00:11:23.520 yeah i mean i guess when you do have your own money i guess that maybe that's what it doesn't

00:11:30.480 appeal to me that it doesn't mean anything to be honest for him to pay for everything well

00:11:34.320 um it would be nice to be paid for everything and then you can just buy new football boots

00:11:40.000 it depends what is important for that for that yeah for me it's more important to have them to

00:11:44.480 myself than having but even even if it's just looks like a guy you're really attracted to

00:11:48.720 even if it's height like you know i mean most i mean either way it's most guys that you want

00:11:56.160 there aren't enough like more women want them yeah you know it's usually not just you 0.99

00:12:00.480 yeah no 100 i said that tim i was like i bet all the others

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JustPearlyThings - June 11, 2023

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