JustPearlyThings - Rich Man Loses His Wife To Jiujitsu Instructor

00:00:00.000 do it so speaking of money okay so so you could argue right women want the rich guy 1.00

00:00:06.020 until can you pull up the picture um trouble in paradise oh wait wait hold on sorry

00:00:15.020 oh can you can you put on the screen blessing okay so back to back to tom brady giselle buduchin

00:00:23.260 i think i said that wrong i'm gonna just call her b and jujitsu instructor jomaine valente have

00:00:31.740 raised a lot of suspicion as the possible to possible romantic ties but we at least know

00:00:37.060 one of the reasons he's traveled to her with costa rica he's training her and tom brady's kids

00:00:41.860 so basically she was cheating on the rich guy with the jujitsu instructor that's what's gonna 1.00

00:00:49.300 happen though yeah that's what's gonna happen i think um when when you're around um like when

00:00:56.100 you got if a woman has a high value man she's gonna cheat with someone close because there's not you

00:01:02.060 have to be in the circle to kind of be around anyway she's gonna have to look around at who's

00:01:06.100 available and it's going to be someone close it kind of feels a bit vindictive you know because

00:01:10.400 when men if men go and cheat you know the the the men that go and cheat they'll maybe go outside of

00:01:16.440 the circle far far away where we're with the women it's very it's not it's not though is it 0.99

00:01:22.400 i have a question would you rather him fuck a stranger or your best friend no i'm just saying 0.99

00:01:29.780 with the with it being worse for more vindictive for women to find someone around because it's like 1.00

00:01:35.120 okay it's maybe been bubbling and the tension was there and then it happened but with a guy you're

00:01:40.060 saying he left town went town over town and tried to look for somebody that you won't find out like

00:01:45.660 that's worse that's like more effort for no reason that's consideration yeah it's more

00:01:50.400 the reason why i said but why is consideration more forgivable than like a happy accident because

00:01:56.120 you're not that's not a happy accident that's literally someone in this case said training 0.92

00:01:59.680 her kids so this guy is around her kids and him and he's got she's got the balls basically to

00:02:06.700 get involved with this guy who's around his kids around him maybe like him and trust him

00:02:12.740 like no no no no okay i know it's a stretch but yeah but it doesn't matter i'm just thinking okay

00:02:18.040 like put yourself if all right you have a boyfriend you're really into or husband husband let's say

00:02:22.460 husband he cheats it's just a one-time thing no feelings involved this girl just threw it on him 1.00

00:02:28.780 and he he went with it because he's he's a dude okay thought she was hot that's it never talk to her 1.00

00:02:32.900 again or he screwed a girl he has feelings for yeah i think they're both as bad as each other 0.92

00:02:38.600 but i would say you yeah 0.93

00:02:42.420 um probably the one that he doesn't have feelings for because it's like why are you throwing it away

00:02:50.080 like if he had feelings for someone it's like okay fine act on your feelings

00:02:53.780 but if it's some random person that's that feels a bit worse to me really that's interesting for me

00:02:59.660 like i would if it's just a random girl like whatever we can like i can get over it

00:03:03.820 oh i don't know because it's like if you have i don't know if you have feelings for them it's like

00:03:09.380 okay there's reason behind it but you're gonna do that for no reason that just seems so bad

00:03:14.540 this one has betrayal and public disrespect

00:03:17.600 but you know what i noticed women that have high value men once they've had kids with high value 0.94

00:03:22.760 men they will sleep they have the same mating strategy as men they will sleep with young guys 0.99

00:03:27.400 that make them feel attractive he doesn't have to have money kim did it madonna's doing it she's

00:03:32.660 doing it once they have their kids and they've got the father of their child and he's high value

00:03:36.420 then she goes back to just whoever i want and that's what she wanted and that's a kid and they 0.50

00:03:43.660 they become just like men yeah so that's like what do you think women value more money or looks 1.00

00:03:48.860 feelings they matter how a man makes them feel and when he spends a lot of money on you you feel

00:03:53.220 expensive that's fine you okay okay okay okay one or two i didn't say feelings i said money or look

00:04:00.580 no no no no i did not answer the question i asked money or looks i'm always gonna say the way they feel

00:04:07.020 if you're an attractive okay okay okay the next money or looks uh so why they cheat basically right

00:04:13.340 no no i'm saying what do you think women prefer i guess money these days like money you think what 1.00

00:04:18.440 do you think money i think looks i i think looks too actually it's looks you know you you know how

00:04:25.240 you know that's kept so now you know that's kept general that bar that um uh j house says where

00:04:30.040 where he's talking about i'm an ugly man making pretty money that they they don't look at you

00:04:34.180 because he was a trapper because he's a trapper and the lifestyle that he portrays like oh man even

00:04:40.140 if you may not have money to come with it that portrays money to come with it all right so it's

00:04:43.840 money regardless it wasn't it's the look of the money and the look of the look at the end of the day

00:04:49.460 this is what i think i think that like okay this is this is my theory um this is i don't i don't know

00:04:54.520 if this is facts or whatever but i feel like if a girl is dating a guy and she's not like genuinely

00:04:58.880 attracted to him she'll cheat yeah with the guy with the look she's still gonna cheat if that guy 1.00

00:05:05.080 comes along and he's that yeah if he doesn't have money she can still cheat for man with that has 1.00

00:05:09.260 investment because like if a girl values looks more chances are that's something that she feels 0.95

00:05:15.280 more attractive when she's with an attractive man if she values money more she really knows she's

00:05:19.020 attractive she wants lifestyle more so that's why pretty girls go for rich men 1.00

00:05:21.860 i do agree with you yeah but i just i just think the more like like genuine connection comes more

00:05:34.400 from looks but if it's but if it's money like i've just noticed that girls seem to be using him more 1.00

00:05:42.520 where she's not really attracted to him and like doesn't rate him like that

00:05:46.860 looks also using someone look at that uncle in your dm that is sending you a madness and he's a

00:05:51.920 prince of somewhere and he's saying he'll you'll buy you this and do all this kind of stuff yeah

00:05:55.980 and look how you're treating him compared to this person that you feel like like let's say eight let's

00:06:00.600 say yeah exactly let's say you girls like aj same way that girls will act with over aj right if he didn't 0.97

00:06:05.940 have the money right yeah they'll pick that over this uncle sending you a random dm promising you

00:06:12.180 however many however much money and stuff like that so i think if the woman has her own money 1.00

00:06:16.720 as well mine doesn't even matter yeah well just even your own values i'm not gonna lie

00:06:22.060 the money won't matter money always matters in some degree not as much as it looks and no i think

00:06:28.380 no i don't i don't believe it's guys jobs to look good that's the women's job to look that's why it's 0.79

00:06:33.880 so hot when they do i kind of disagree with that one still as a self-respecting as a guy you

00:06:38.540 definitely need to keep yourself up in maintenance oh yeah i'm saying that but i'm saying that

00:06:42.060 looks like the levels are different in regards to look so the importance you don't have to do

00:06:47.520 too much compared to the females yeah and we can supplement it in other areas yeah so that's why 0.99

00:06:51.860 i said about that so you can be funny you can be like yeah stuff like that you can do what women 1.00

00:06:55.820 can't be funny we can but we we don't if we're if you're not attracted to us her funniness is not 1.00

00:07:00.640 going to make you more attractive yeah funny i think for men it does no i just think money is

00:07:04.260 the man's makeup that's it money if he's not good if he's not like muscles what do you think

00:07:09.980 stuff like even if a guy's ugly and he's funny but then if a guy is like oh yeah comedians be

00:07:16.220 funny signals social status and women are very attracted to status like why do you think 1.00

00:07:22.160 what do you think a check mark does wonders yeah on instagram the confidence they bring

00:07:27.080 i mean how many how many ugly guys i think i've gotten attractive girls with that check mark 1.00

00:07:33.180 you know you can get fake ones can you have status without money can you have social status without

00:07:38.660 money you can yeah you can because y'all don't believe it no i don't think so because their status

00:07:43.840 is intangible it's imaginary but with money it means that you've actually put in some work and

00:07:48.520 you've got somewhere it doesn't mean money alone can give you status because you could just win

00:07:51.820 the lottery or you could just you know get one yeah but i don't think status alone is enough you

00:07:56.860 know what's interesting women are more attracted to men that have made money lost it and then made 0.99

00:08:01.340 it again yeah like there was some like poll done where it's like you would you rather have a guy

00:08:06.560 that like made money lost it and then made it again or a guy that just like slowly no no slowly

00:08:11.880 like grew money over time or something it was something like that but women picked number two because 1.00

00:08:15.620 we're attracted to risk takers risk takers implies that they're able to um recalibrate yeah and

00:08:21.180 protect in the future yeah why are you laughing

00:08:24.780 women women make so much um like decisions based on how they feel yeah at that time 1.00

00:08:33.260 yeah it's just hilarious

00:08:35.340 i just hope is it working for you guys i just hope it's working

00:08:42.640 i do i do agree earlier what you said about the it's about how you make someone feel i don't

00:08:47.760 think it's relevant to the exactly the money and looks however how you make them it's all about how

00:08:52.220 they feel how they make you feel and the experience that you bring them and what triggers in their

00:08:57.220 mind i'll give you an example so my block list is full of people yeah men women whoever yeah but if i

00:09:04.340 was to unblock someone and start talking to them again the they're instantly going to romanticize

00:09:08.440 any experience that we've had and that's that's more important so if you've made them feel even

00:09:12.840 if you've made them feel shitty yeah that will but it's similarly like why women that didn't grow 1.00

00:09:17.500 up with money if they meet a really rich guy he's most attractive man in the room for him because 0.51

00:09:21.700 she feels now financially secure which she hasn't felt for in a long time most women that marry for 0.99

00:09:26.900 money come from broken homes statistically statistically wait wait wait you said women that come from 1.00

00:09:32.920 money who don't come from money oh they said come yeah sorry no don't come from money yeah i was like

00:09:37.080 because what's money to someone that has it whereas girls that grew up less attractive are more likely 1.00

00:09:41.200 to be invested in a man who's attractive looks is more important so it's about how you make someone

00:09:45.600 feel rather than just generically you know it's interesting women are more picky physically than 1.00

00:09:49.020 men nowadays there's like there's different studies that say like women are pickier when it comes to 1.00

JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023

Rich Man Loses His Wife To Jiujitsu Instructor

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