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00:00:00.000 the women are incentivized to take away the kids from the dad because they're paid more um if the 1.00

00:00:06.800 if the dad doesn't see the kids they're given more money from child support so they're literally

00:00:11.100 paid to take away the kids from the dad um well i agree with that i just have to say ladies if

00:00:19.100 you're doing that that's terrible because having a man that is willing to be in your child's life

00:00:23.360 is a blessing if he's willing to do the right work if you're if you're sleeping you're sleeping

00:00:27.840 and that's your fault as much as i champion my sisters and i always want to protect women i do

00:00:32.700 know that when it comes to the relationship between parent and child that's something that you really

00:00:38.800 shouldn't play with and you shouldn't use that to your advantage or to for power or for financial

00:00:42.640 gain for whatever it is you're going to hell for that because it's your child that's going to yeah 0.91

00:00:46.940 and taking off that point that's why i wouldn't date a really older guy because if he had kids

00:00:51.800 or if i wanted to have kids when i was like when i was my age they wouldn't be there for me they

00:00:56.700 couldn't be a father figure because they would die a lot earlier than i would and then i would

00:01:01.120 be left with the responsibilities that's actually what my dad says with dating older guys he says

00:01:06.360 my dad says you should date someone younger as a girl which is like the opposite of red pill

00:01:10.960 because he says women live longer yeah my dad's like a logical guy just logistic

00:01:15.560 um yeah the at least that we would die the same age roughly yeah yeah i don't know i didn't think

00:01:25.100 that far um let's do the actual mia khalifa video i found the actual one i wanted to show you guys

00:01:32.580 i hope i hope to god this is it you got to start it from the beginning blessing

00:01:38.740 oh okay well

00:01:43.080 any guy who goes after a girl significantly younger than them is severely lacking in their life and i i

00:01:57.180 mean that confidence wise i mean like they are falling short in so many places that that is the

00:02:02.260 only place they can turn to to feel like they have they have something on the scale of power

00:02:09.180 and it's i mean ultimately it's predatory i mean there's just no way to kind of because you're

00:02:14.580 manipulating someone who is not aware of what they're giving you and it's unfair

00:02:19.880 so my question is why are men called predators for going for younger women but women don't

00:02:27.800 typically have that same energy for women that go for younger men

00:02:30.940 i don't know because i think older women are also predators honestly like if you're dating someone 1.00

00:02:37.260 that much younger they have way less life experience they don't know themselves as well

00:02:40.500 like you know how to like shape them like you know how to get them way easier what would you put

00:02:44.820 at predator like what what's your what's the age gap that you would say predator it's a nice

00:02:49.720 word though it's cougar yeah it's a less negative word i don't know honestly maybe

00:02:54.980 15 20 years 15 20 years and would you say the age gap um does it matter how old the younger person

00:03:02.260 is like if they're 30 yes yes it does matter if that if i think if they're under like 25 or they're

00:03:08.060 under 25 or like under 27 maybe yeah okay and then it's like 20 years yeah predator is the wrong word

00:03:15.040 predator is yeah predator is the wrong word and should never be used predator is the word you use when

00:03:21.360 you're going after minors yeah minors you are yeah you're you know it isn't being predator just

00:03:29.800 someone that has kind of power over you no no no a predator is someone who he's seeking out

00:03:35.440 to do harm so where there where there are adults who seek to do harm in a certain way which i you know

00:03:42.940 can't say on here to children that is what is called a predator a predator is not what was described

00:03:49.360 in that video if you were a man of any age whether you were going after a male or female child

00:03:55.700 intending to meet them to do what you're going to do that is a predator so on that video a predator

00:04:02.040 predator is the wrong word and it's taken out of context and it of course it's going to blow up on

00:04:07.220 social media and people are going to start people are influenced by people like her and you're going

00:04:12.880 to start every time you see some a couple out on the street or in a bar you're going to turn around

00:04:17.340 oh he's a predator or she's a predator because you've heard it on social media it's the wrong

00:04:22.700 word if you want to know what a predator is yeah it's definitely not that i don't know if you're

00:04:27.640 underage it's not consensual it's between two consensual adults and you know i do agree like

00:04:31.720 being a predator must have a bit more intention than that but i think she's saying i don't know i

00:04:36.180 don't know what she's saying because i'm just thinking over the case like you're you're 18 you have

00:04:39.620 the same rights that i do if you want to jump in a car right now you can go do it if you want to

00:04:44.280 vote you can vote like we're both adults you know i mean if if we're talking about under 16 and all

00:04:48.720 them type of things then we can talk about a different story but i i think it's a like like

00:04:52.640 like um miss lady in front said you know i think predator is used in the wrong sensor i think we 0.80

00:04:58.080 sorry but my real my real question is i i don't see the same energy for women 1.00

00:05:02.900 um i mean even even when you started they're like okay but it's like on social media if a man says

00:05:09.380 i i like a girl that's significantly younger he's shamed for it but women are i agree yeah 1.00

00:05:14.660 it is a bit i'm not gonna lie though i think that in a girl's world if you're dating a guy that is

00:05:22.220 younger than you you are sometimes can be looked at as a bit weird like why are you going for a guy

00:05:27.640 that's younger than you he's not gonna do anything for you no i'm just saying that's how it is usually

00:05:31.680 in the girl's world and i think that the difference stems from the intentions as well usually i would say

00:05:38.060 correct me if i'm wrong but i think generally a man that goes for a woman that is younger

00:05:41.620 it'll be for those reasons of like okay she's less combative she's um you know easier to mold and all 0.99

00:05:47.360 these things fine is that wrong wait whereas if you're a woman and you're going for a younger guy 1.00

00:05:52.260 a lot of the time i feel it might be for the energy and appreciation now they've got a whole woman so i

00:06:00.460 think it's like i think that the intentions may be slightly different and that's why i mean what they're

00:06:05.000 getting that and i think they're probably talking from experience you can tell the look in their eyes

00:06:08.900 when you're when you're a young woman and especially if you're a pretty young woman

00:06:12.400 a lot of older men will approach you and at that moment in time when you're that age there's a lot

00:06:17.820 of things that you really just don't know in fact you don't even know enough about men

00:06:21.360 to be able to navigate the world with these sort of men after you so that's why they would come

00:06:27.020 and use such a strong word to describe it because actually at the end of the day

00:06:31.200 it is a little bit twisted what about a girl that what is it but why don't we have that same energy 0.99

00:06:37.880 of young women that go after older men for their money is that is that predatory that's more 1.00

00:06:44.480 predatory that's that's terrible that is terrible that is terrible is leonardo dicaprio a predator

00:06:50.400 would you say that leonardo dicaprio i would argue yeah

00:06:53.920 when they get to 25 he stops doesn't he no no he just hit look at what do they say that

00:06:59.380 the economy no the economy is so bad that you have leonardo dicaprio dating 27 year olds

00:07:05.920 i asked the women who go for younger men so it's wrong for let's say it's wrong for um men in 0.63

00:07:13.360 their 30s to go for 18 year olds i understand why they would like the the submissive um being

00:07:19.100 cooperative and like less bodies but why would an older woman in their like 30s go for a guy who is 1.00

00:07:25.740 like 20 like what benefits what benefits do you get from going from a stamina why she's just just 1.00

00:07:32.700 the stamina that's it do you not want like and the girls that actually go for younger men i do not want 0.99

00:07:37.860 a man that can provide and be like a proper leader i know there are some younger guys but generally

00:07:43.700 speaking men men under 30 they can't really give you what you want so i just want to know why i would

00:07:50.160 say they love you way harder if they're younger because you're more likely to be that one of their

00:07:53.860 first loves do you know i mean like i think as they are older the love gets a little bit more like

00:07:57.940 i've done this a thousand times like well it's kind of i mean it's kind of a mating strategy in a way

00:08:03.900 because it's like men have less sexual capital when they're younger and then women have less sexual

00:08:09.200 capital when they're older so they kind of hit off each other yeah and don't forget also what

00:08:14.260 the boys said earlier they're like oh yeah she was so much more mature and she was this and yeah i

00:08:19.560 enjoyed it and this so they appreciated her that's it so it's nice yeah but what's the what's the woman

00:08:24.360 gaining i get them what the man you get validated vanity we like nice words we just want a man to

00:08:30.720 appreciate us and to worship us no that's why don't forget that women are also winning they 1.00

00:08:38.060 require a lot of validation so sometimes when you go for a younger man that he's able to give you

00:08:41.800 that but all these guys have just said that they're only looking to like not really like a long

00:08:46.240 commitment with an older woman because she has like too much baggage and all of that so like what is 1.00

00:08:50.340 the older woman getting out of this if it's not just fun like if it's if she's looking for a long 1.00

00:08:53.780 time commitment like what is she finding with these young men that don't want a long time commitment

00:08:57.160 with an older woman yeah would you would you say it's more companionship 1.00

00:09:00.720 yeah because i'm gonna ask you do you actually date younger man um yeah it's companionship and i

00:09:06.340 won't judge a young man my i've said it already earlier on my ex was a lot younger than me and

00:09:11.720 age was totally irrelevant um there are some gaps there are things that he won't know and i won't

00:09:18.520 know and then somewhere you sort of just meet in the middle but you get companionship you you know i

00:09:23.640 i was in love we were i could say we were genuinely in love you know i'm not going to talk about the

00:09:29.360 reasons we broke up but yeah we were together four years and that was with someone younger than me i

00:09:34.800 had companionship i had friendship i had someone that understood me i had love i had someone that

00:09:39.820 looked out for me he was actually a great cook um i'm a bit lazy at that um you know i used to go over

00:09:46.460 to his home and there was always food food waiting for me not because i couldn't you know go in the

00:09:52.940 kitchen and make something it was a real relationship so everyone experiences something different i think we've

00:09:58.200 just got too many stereotypes is oh you can't go out with a younger man or you can't go out someone

00:10:03.180 old man so you might tell me i can't go out someone that's 60 or 70 but what happens you know if i'm

00:10:09.320 attracted they're a nice man the relationship is nice they're a good person to me yeah the companionship

00:10:16.160 is a big word so to me it doesn't really matter you have to it's something that we all said here

00:10:20.320 before you have to and you said it particularly it it depends on the actual person so if i'm going to

00:10:27.660 have a relationship i mean i don't want to fling i don't want to be i don't want to be with a man

00:10:33.000 that's just going to fling his bits around um to put it politely it doesn't matter how old you are

00:10:38.800 obviously we all have age restrictions but if i like you we're attracted you respect me

00:10:44.360 you know you have love for me you're my friend you're my companion you look out for me you're a

00:10:50.440 man you're a man you're a leader you know how to look after me it doesn't really matter if you've got

00:10:57.000 all those qualities i'm going to be with you how you know never mind the age and some people i know

00:11:04.900 that men i think mature a little bit later we will know that but what happens when there's

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JustPearlyThings - March 26, 2023

Post Wall Woman Tries To Cope

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