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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the age gap between men and women and the difference between the two, as well as the dangers of dating someone younger than you. We also discuss sexual predators and why it's a bad idea to date someone older than you in order to be considered a predator.
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the women are incentivized to take away the kids from the dad because they're paid more um if the
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if the dad doesn't see the kids they're given more money from child support so they're literally
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paid to take away the kids from the dad um well i agree with that i just have to say ladies if
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you're doing that that's terrible because having a man that is willing to be in your child's life
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is a blessing if he's willing to do the right work if you're if you're sleeping you're sleeping
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and that's your fault as much as i champion my sisters and i always want to protect women i do
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know that when it comes to the relationship between parent and child that's something that you really
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shouldn't play with and you shouldn't use that to your advantage or to for power or for financial
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gain for whatever it is you're going to hell for that because it's your child that's going to yeah
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and taking off that point that's why i wouldn't date a really older guy because if he had kids
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or if i wanted to have kids when i was like when i was my age they wouldn't be there for me they
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couldn't be a father figure because they would die a lot earlier than i would and then i would
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be left with the responsibilities that's actually what my dad says with dating older guys he says
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my dad says you should date someone younger as a girl which is like the opposite of red pill
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because he says women live longer yeah my dad's like a logical guy just logistic
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um yeah the at least that we would die the same age roughly yeah yeah i don't know i didn't think
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that far um let's do the actual mia khalifa video i found the actual one i wanted to show you guys
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i hope i hope to god this is it you got to start it from the beginning blessing
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any guy who goes after a girl significantly younger than them is severely lacking in their life and i i
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mean that confidence wise i mean like they are falling short in so many places that that is the
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only place they can turn to to feel like they have they have something on the scale of power
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and it's i mean ultimately it's predatory i mean there's just no way to kind of because you're
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manipulating someone who is not aware of what they're giving you and it's unfair
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so my question is why are men called predators for going for younger women but women don't
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typically have that same energy for women that go for younger men
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i don't know because i think older women are also predators honestly like if you're dating someone
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that much younger they have way less life experience they don't know themselves as well
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like you know how to like shape them like you know how to get them way easier what would you put
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at predator like what what's your what's the age gap that you would say predator it's a nice
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word though it's cougar yeah it's a less negative word i don't know honestly maybe
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15 20 years 15 20 years and would you say the age gap um does it matter how old the younger person
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is like if they're 30 yes yes it does matter if that if i think if they're under like 25 or they're
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under 25 or like under 27 maybe yeah okay and then it's like 20 years yeah predator is the wrong word
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predator is yeah predator is the wrong word and should never be used predator is the word you use when
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you're going after minors yeah minors you are yeah you're you know it isn't being predator just
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someone that has kind of power over you no no no a predator is someone who he's seeking out
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to do harm so where there where there are adults who seek to do harm in a certain way which i you know
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can't say on here to children that is what is called a predator a predator is not what was described
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in that video if you were a man of any age whether you were going after a male or female child
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intending to meet them to do what you're going to do that is a predator so on that video a predator
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predator is the wrong word and it's taken out of context and it of course it's going to blow up on
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social media and people are going to start people are influenced by people like her and you're going
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to start every time you see some a couple out on the street or in a bar you're going to turn around
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oh he's a predator or she's a predator because you've heard it on social media it's the wrong
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word if you want to know what a predator is yeah it's definitely not that i don't know if you're
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underage it's not consensual it's between two consensual adults and you know i do agree like
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being a predator must have a bit more intention than that but i think she's saying i don't know i
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don't know what she's saying because i'm just thinking over the case like you're you're 18 you have
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the same rights that i do if you want to jump in a car right now you can go do it if you want to
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vote you can vote like we're both adults you know i mean if if we're talking about under 16 and all
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them type of things then we can talk about a different story but i i think it's a like like
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like um miss lady in front said you know i think predator is used in the wrong sensor i think we
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sorry but my real my real question is i i don't see the same energy for women
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um i mean even even when you started they're like okay but it's like on social media if a man says
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i i like a girl that's significantly younger he's shamed for it but women are i agree yeah
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it is a bit i'm not gonna lie though i think that in a girl's world if you're dating a guy that is
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younger than you you are sometimes can be looked at as a bit weird like why are you going for a guy
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that's younger than you he's not gonna do anything for you no i'm just saying that's how it is usually
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in the girl's world and i think that the difference stems from the intentions as well usually i would say
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correct me if i'm wrong but i think generally a man that goes for a woman that is younger
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it'll be for those reasons of like okay she's less combative she's um you know easier to mold and all
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these things fine is that wrong wait whereas if you're a woman and you're going for a younger guy
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a lot of the time i feel it might be for the energy and appreciation now they've got a whole woman so i
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think it's like i think that the intentions may be slightly different and that's why i mean what they're
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getting that and i think they're probably talking from experience you can tell the look in their eyes
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when you're when you're a young woman and especially if you're a pretty young woman
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a lot of older men will approach you and at that moment in time when you're that age there's a lot
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of things that you really just don't know in fact you don't even know enough about men
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to be able to navigate the world with these sort of men after you so that's why they would come
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and use such a strong word to describe it because actually at the end of the day
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it is a little bit twisted what about a girl that what is it but why don't we have that same energy
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of young women that go after older men for their money is that is that predatory that's more
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predatory that's that's terrible that is terrible that is terrible is leonardo dicaprio a predator
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would you say that leonardo dicaprio i would argue yeah
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when they get to 25 he stops doesn't he no no he just hit look at what do they say that
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the economy no the economy is so bad that you have leonardo dicaprio dating 27 year olds
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i asked the women who go for younger men so it's wrong for let's say it's wrong for um men in
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their 30s to go for 18 year olds i understand why they would like the the submissive um being
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cooperative and like less bodies but why would an older woman in their like 30s go for a guy who is
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like 20 like what benefits what benefits do you get from going from a stamina why she's just just
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the stamina that's it do you not want like and the girls that actually go for younger men i do not want
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a man that can provide and be like a proper leader i know there are some younger guys but generally
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speaking men men under 30 they can't really give you what you want so i just want to know why i would
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say they love you way harder if they're younger because you're more likely to be that one of their
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first loves do you know i mean like i think as they are older the love gets a little bit more like
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i've done this a thousand times like well it's kind of i mean it's kind of a mating strategy in a way
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because it's like men have less sexual capital when they're younger and then women have less sexual
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capital when they're older so they kind of hit off each other yeah and don't forget also what
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the boys said earlier they're like oh yeah she was so much more mature and she was this and yeah i
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enjoyed it and this so they appreciated her that's it so it's nice yeah but what's the what's the woman
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gaining i get them what the man you get validated vanity we like nice words we just want a man to
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appreciate us and to worship us no that's why don't forget that women are also winning they
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require a lot of validation so sometimes when you go for a younger man that he's able to give you
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that but all these guys have just said that they're only looking to like not really like a long
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commitment with an older woman because she has like too much baggage and all of that so like what is
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the older woman getting out of this if it's not just fun like if it's if she's looking for a long
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time commitment like what is she finding with these young men that don't want a long time commitment
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with an older woman yeah would you would you say it's more companionship
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yeah because i'm gonna ask you do you actually date younger man um yeah it's companionship and i
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won't judge a young man my i've said it already earlier on my ex was a lot younger than me and
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age was totally irrelevant um there are some gaps there are things that he won't know and i won't
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know and then somewhere you sort of just meet in the middle but you get companionship you you know i
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i was in love we were i could say we were genuinely in love you know i'm not going to talk about the
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reasons we broke up but yeah we were together four years and that was with someone younger than me i
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had companionship i had friendship i had someone that understood me i had love i had someone that
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looked out for me he was actually a great cook um i'm a bit lazy at that um you know i used to go over
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to his home and there was always food food waiting for me not because i couldn't you know go in the
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kitchen and make something it was a real relationship so everyone experiences something different i think we've
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just got too many stereotypes is oh you can't go out with a younger man or you can't go out someone
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old man so you might tell me i can't go out someone that's 60 or 70 but what happens you know if i'm
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attracted they're a nice man the relationship is nice they're a good person to me yeah the companionship
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is a big word so to me it doesn't really matter you have to it's something that we all said here
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before you have to and you said it particularly it it depends on the actual person so if i'm going to
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have a relationship i mean i don't want to fling i don't want to be i don't want to be with a man
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that's just going to fling his bits around um to put it politely it doesn't matter how old you are
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obviously we all have age restrictions but if i like you we're attracted you respect me
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you know you have love for me you're my friend you're my companion you look out for me you're a
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man you're a man you're a leader you know how to look after me it doesn't really matter if you've got
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all those qualities i'm going to be with you how you know never mind the age and some people i know
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that men i think mature a little bit later we will know that but what happens when there's
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