Post Wall Women Shame Men For Dating Younger Women
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with one of my good friends and business partner, to discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We talk about dating in your 20s and 30s, what it s like to have a child with a man you ve been dating for a while, and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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to the kind of man you're talking about do you understand what i'm saying
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yeah but um i was thinking once i start booking a session with you
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that um i can't change men i know but i can approve myself would you expect me to do
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i feel like she's sort of answering her own questions as well in this interview she's
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allowing herself to like see things from a different perspective in terms of now you're
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being questioned you're not asking the question you're being questioned so now you it's like the
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answers are coming out unwontedly does that make sense i feel like i have a lot to offer to those
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type of meetings okay but see you should have stopped right there i just told you i cannot
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change men and you said once i book a session with you i'm not a miracle worker i'm telling you what
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they want and you're still saying yeah but i want this what'd you say i said don't expect anything
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crazy like i'm not gonna like snap and you have a six-linger man in front of your door you see why
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they say women are delusional yes this is like okay if you were like 22 25 we can work with it
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yeah we can work with it all right but with a child yeah yeah that's a big that's a big good luck
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especially because guys well i think he might talk about this guys will judge you by the guys you've
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dated before so it's kind of like if they say you made a kid with someone and he's not in the picture
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they're like why like what did you you know it's like it's not fun but it's like either you can't
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pick and you like the bad boys and you're not going to be satisfied with a nice guy or or it's
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like why didn't or you're too like you don't you won't let the dad see the kids it's like another
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thing that they you know oh well so like when girls will talk bad about their exes i'm like god you
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guys are telling us stop they don't you dated this man but i have been working on myself this year
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and um okay ma'am but okay 35 13 year old son with a sketchy father why would a man who's the top 10
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of earners who women across the country want want that um because i have a lot to offer um i feel
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like would you want your son to if you had a son making that kind of money would you want him to
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bring home a woman who had a 13 year old son from a sketchy father or would you prefer him to get a
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woman who had no children was younger and easier to get on his program
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depending on his age see see what i mean see what i mean this goes so deep for black women
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they will even that should have been an easy question no i would not want my son to bring i
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want the best for my son that should have been the appropriate answer that's why i sat up
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you should want the best for your son of course but this is but and are you thinking
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if he brought home a woman yes i feel like i'm the exception to the rule no you're not that's the
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problem you all think you're the exception to the rule but but your life is proven to you that you're not
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my love life is not that good i agree with you that's my point and ma'am and that's my point
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you ladies all feel like listen you ladies all feel like you're the exception to the rule
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and then when someone like myself comes along and gives you a dose of reality instead of just accepting
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it it's like yeah but yeah but i'm special you don't know any men on this level that are not your
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father that aren't related to you that means you don't know these men you don't know where to go get
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them you don't know what they want but you're still saying pick me they don't want mid 30 year old
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baby mamas are trying to be polite man but they don't want those i asked your question did you hear
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what i said did you hear me literally literally do you think
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you know i don't really mind people wanting what they want right you can want what you want but it's
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just like be logical be reasonable like okay if he has to accept a kid from you yeah you can't accept
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i don't know 45 000 a year you know at least maybe even go lower i knew what she was talking about like
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oh i'm educated i'm like you don't sound educated the way you talk like okay whatever you say yes
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why is that so okay go ahead he's giving up go ahead um
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my from my point of view i feel like i i get what you're saying that they do have better options but
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also those better options are younger girls those younger girls don't necessarily are necessarily
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20 year olds are not necessarily attracted to 45 year olds true false sauce big fall
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what i'm very much attracted to 45 year old men yeah big big fall i think i was 24 when i first saw this
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and i was like no why do you think older women shame younger women or shame men for wanting to get
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with younger women jealousy yeah do you think older women sabotage younger women thousand percent yeah
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why do you think they do that because they feel like because they've wasted their own youth
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they now feel like okay you know what i just i can't have that you can't have that either have you
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ever heard them i think i the one that makes me mad this makes me mad when i hear older girls try to
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tell younger girls that they should sleep around and like do whatever they want because you know damn
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well that's right right and i'm like there's no way at 35 yeah you have gone through life and thought
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hmm being a whore is the best outcome now you can have your how long to wait thoughts you know you
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could you could people will argue but you know damn well being a whore it's not ideal that's not ideal
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and i'm just like that makes me mad because they know better and they're lying and i just hate i hate
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liars me too and it's like let us get this bag like you missed your chance please go outside and watch
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learn learn learn bullshit also wait uh welcome scrappy mark and um wait who else has joined the
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memberships uh saint sir the cheeks mcgee that's a great username and doug mpa if she dates women long
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enough she will go back to men you can see stud lesbian content creators on youtube saying that modern
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women expect too much to avoid single mothers yeah she'll be i i can feel it she'll be back to the
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men but welcome everyone yay again guys there's so many people you watch youtube when do you donate
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um do you ever donate no that's okay that's what i'm saying they don't even have to donate and i have
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the best fans they're so nice like they send donations when they could just watch for free yeah you
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guys are the best anyways back to the show and i can't beat him off with a stick that's another one
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you lies no younger women do you think he's hot i can't really see his face you can't see it from what
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you see his mentality is very attractive very like the way he speaks and so direct yeah point no wasting
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time don't it does it kind of make you not trust a guy when he says what you want to hear too much
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like if he's like oh you're so beautiful you're the most beautiful girl and you're just like
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yeah i know tell me something i haven't had like tell me something i haven't had it's like one thing
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is if a guy says you're beautiful too much and i know guys that they're all going to be like modern
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women but okay if they say like you're the most beautiful woman in the world it's just like i know
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i'm not yeah so why are you as well and i feel like this the mentality is stuck in like their teens
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yeah mentally grown well they're like trying to please women yes and it's like he he doesn't give
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a shit with no he doesn't he doesn't he's giving a about what's right yeah what's like yeah