JustPearlyThings - November 11, 2023


Producer Gives Modern Women A Reality Check


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Length

8 minutes

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204.58363

Word count

1,827

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

25

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode, we discuss single mothers and the single motherhood epidemic. We discuss the statistics and what single mothers do and do not do when it comes to being a single mother and how it affects the statistics on single mothers.

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00:00:00.000 but this is housewife right so this is like house housewife status this is the best of the best
00:00:07.000 women but i would say some women that have kids because i know that if i had kids i would be very 1.00
00:00:12.080 reluctant to just pick up with any man so maybe some women for the sake of their kids they don't 1.00
00:00:16.900 want to expose them to certain people so they're just like for now i'm just going to be single
00:00:20.560 and not have another man in my household i think i think that's admirable actually yeah i think it's
00:00:26.080 better for the kids i think that affects the statistic definitely because i know that there
00:00:29.620 will be women that will think i disagree i think we're being soft on the single one i think most
00:00:36.900 women we said high value men i think i think a lot of women would immediately start looking for
00:00:44.120 another man to replace no no no way my son has his dad i'm a single we're not we're not talking about
00:00:51.700 see the thing about women is you guys always think that your situation is what's 1.00
00:00:56.080 what goes around in in society but if you look at society and look at what actually happens
00:01:00.880 i'm a single woman there are a lot of irresponsible women out there yeah and that's the fact yeah but 1.00
00:01:05.620 i do feel like when you have a child like that child has to come first so you have to be very
00:01:10.720 careful who you bring around your child and i know that would definitely you know affect my decision
00:01:15.740 i totally i totally agree with you but i don't think most single mothers are responsible 0.75
00:01:20.380 i'm a single mom i'm a single mom and there's no way i would be rushing into any relationship
00:01:27.540 with any man i'm very protective over my daughter there's no way
00:01:32.460 especially when you've got a daughter yeah well i would say even when you've got a son because
00:01:36.660 i would say i would say if single mothers were responsible by and large then the most likely
00:01:43.340 person to abuse the kid wouldn't be the next man if it's not the mother it's actually the mother is 0.91
00:01:49.240 the most likely but second most likely is the man you do hear a lot about guys who are on dating
00:01:54.320 after they're meeting single moms and the single mom is and the single mom is then like oh you know
00:01:58.360 how do you feel about you know i've got a kid and like and they're sort of angling for somebody to
00:02:02.220 become the new baby daddy you know i mean again that's not statistics but there's also men there's
00:02:07.660 also men that they are and the dad's still active i would say there's also men that actually prey on
00:02:13.680 single mom yeah yeah because i think if we're being general i don't think a lot of men are out here
00:02:19.080 looking for single mothers i don't absolutely you're not looking for a single mother no i'm not like
00:02:23.280 um i mean i'm 33 years old and i've never i've never had any conversation with anyone any guy
00:02:29.620 and they're going oh you know what let's get out a single single mom no you're not looking for a 1.00
00:02:34.060 single mom but there are there are some that pray ominous men out here that they they prey on
00:02:40.180 so about the high value and actually desirable ones there's a lot of men out here that are just
00:02:46.240 trying to bum off rich women as well that's a new phenomenon yeah the nowadays i think men men 0.98
00:02:52.160 they're like trying to women women wanted equality here you go here you go 0.98
00:02:57.720 they want a sugar mama yeah they want a sugar mama well yeah i think that's admirable i mean i think 0.95
00:03:04.840 i think that's admirable i mean i'm absolutely in the market for a sugar mama for a hundred percent 0.91
00:03:08.880 but i mean i i can always go to the gym i look good you better start stripping exactly but i would
00:03:16.400 agree with you i would agree with you i don't think there's many guys who are out there actively
00:03:19.720 looking for single mothers i think it's a bit more like you know you meet the girl and then she turns
00:03:23.560 out to be a single mother and you're like yeah well okay maybe i could overlook that for exactly
00:03:26.900 after you breed her and leave her exactly exactly if there's a connection then yeah you're open to
00:03:32.720 whatever can happen but yeah you're not actively seeking a single mom yeah she just happens to be a 1.00
00:03:37.460 single mom you're not actively seeking a single mom but some men are i'm saying there's a
00:03:42.400 demographic i've heard stories i think what you're saying is the men are looking for single mothers
00:03:51.100 because they feel they want to accept family no i'm not even saying it's an easy shag i'm saying
00:03:56.220 when she was doing when she was saying about the the the statistics and i was saying but in that there
00:04:02.400 are some men that actually prey on single women yeah because they want to be around their
00:04:07.360 kids yeah oh that's a small percentage of that's like a tiny percentage there's loads of pedos
00:04:13.220 out there mate yeah yeah yeah yeah i believe i actually i actually i think that women actually 0.98
00:04:19.180 prey on young men more than men prey on young women i disagree
00:04:25.420 young men always chase me and i'm just like i don't know when they chase me well i'm talking about
00:04:35.160 like um i i see it more commonly now where a woman gets in trouble for sleeping with a student than vice 1.00
00:04:41.080 versa you see them all the time in the news i think they're mentally ill because i don't know why they 0.73
00:04:46.000 would want to sleep with a child most of my friends growing up that that lost their virginity 0.72
00:04:50.140 as little kids all lost it to older women same with the guys i know as well yeah would you go
00:04:56.360 younger kelly then i have dated younger but i wouldn't date someone underage or like not underage
00:05:01.720 if someone was juvenile to me god no what about 20 what about 23 24 definitely not actually i have
00:05:09.220 i have a question i have a question kind of pertaining to this who's more sexual men or women
00:05:14.880 women women women women women women women okay we have to go one at a time one at a time and then 1.00
00:05:24.360 tell me why you think that so here i would say women because i think we're very sensual we're very 0.96
00:05:29.180 emotional and i think that when we're in the throes of passion we're kind of led by that
00:05:34.260 sensuality oh yeah i'm also saying women wow okay women why i think also emotionally we're just more 0.88
00:05:45.260 attached to that kind of stuff so okay i think men why right because men men can just have so many
00:05:52.880 different partners and have like so much sexually sexually yeah and i just think they could just go
00:05:58.960 from one to the other and just not even worry about that mental connection like yeah i would say
00:06:04.040 men also because i saw this um documentary where there was this woman that she was um like trans
00:06:09.480 she wants to trans into a male who lost 1.00
00:06:14.180 but anyways that's what she was doing and um she said like as as a woman her sex drive was healthy 0.99
00:06:23.420 and then when she started um taking taking trust from just like oh my god my sex drive went through 0.97
00:06:28.820 the roof i think hormonally um men men are gonna feel more
00:06:34.380 yeah definitely sorry pale say what was the question again who's more sexual men or women
00:06:40.240 oh okay i think definitely men i think you're right because they could just bang it
00:06:44.060 bang bang bang see okay this is this is what's got me i could honestly i could honestly be convinced
00:06:51.600 either way but i've started to think it's women yeah and the reason i think it's women this is just 0.92
00:06:57.040 my thoughts yeah we talk about relationships 24 7 it's like when we're with our friends and wine
00:07:04.040 what do women talk about boys but not sex though that's like power struggles that's like oh my god 1.00
00:07:09.320 he didn't do this when he did this well yeah but i think we seek attention and men seek sex
00:07:13.840 and that's what we get like that doesn't make us more sexual though does it i would say yes i think
00:07:19.120 because i would say because the ways we seek attention is sexual and wearing tight clothes taking off our
00:07:25.380 clothes like dressing very sexually i would say is how women seek sexual attention oh yeah i think if you 1.00
00:07:32.140 go into a gym um that the clothes that women wear today would have been banned like 20 years ago 1.00
00:07:38.120 yeah um in some cities like vegas in america the women wear like stickers on their boobs 1.00
00:07:43.620 you go to bikinis like when i was growing up most people wore one pieces and then like the bikinis 0.56
00:07:49.560 were kind of like out there now we're in thongs yeah people used to get sent off the beach for
00:07:53.360 bikinis didn't they yeah do you know the other thing as well i don't know if you guys have ever read
00:07:57.240 the book uh my secret garden by nancy friday but it was this book okay i think it's i think it came out
00:08:02.400 in the 70s in the 80s but it's this book of sexual fantasies that this psychologist collected
00:08:06.520 women's sexual fantasies and i mean some of the stuff in there is frankly crazy you know this 0.67
00:08:11.780 is some of the stuff that am i able to google it yeah yeah my secret my secret garden by nancy friday
00:08:16.960 it's really it's really eye-opening to read and the other thing of course was the 50 shades of gray
00:08:20.400 phenomenon you know best selling book ever you know and it was this complete so i think that while i agree
00:08:26.340 on the point about testosterone and yeah guys like bang bang bang whatever but i think women once they 1.00
00:08:30.600 get into it they're really into it they're really into the whole fantasy side of it the sensuality side of
00:08:35.260 it i think probably more than men because let's be honest men want to just get their end away
00:08:38.940 and then have a cigarette and you know go go to sleep whereas women they get much more bought 1.00
00:08:42.700 into the whole you know the whole drama of the whole thing more depth in it with with women i think 0.78
00:08:47.820 well passionate are you changing your answer now no no because we want no no i still say men i still say men
00:08:54.540 you still say men yeah