Producer Gives Modern Women A Reality Check
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss single mothers and the single motherhood epidemic. We discuss the statistics and what single mothers do and do not do when it comes to being a single mother and how it affects the statistics on single mothers.
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but this is housewife right so this is like house housewife status this is the best of the best
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women but i would say some women that have kids because i know that if i had kids i would be very
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reluctant to just pick up with any man so maybe some women for the sake of their kids they don't
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want to expose them to certain people so they're just like for now i'm just going to be single
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and not have another man in my household i think i think that's admirable actually yeah i think it's
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better for the kids i think that affects the statistic definitely because i know that there
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will be women that will think i disagree i think we're being soft on the single one i think most
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women we said high value men i think i think a lot of women would immediately start looking for
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another man to replace no no no way my son has his dad i'm a single we're not we're not talking about
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see the thing about women is you guys always think that your situation is what's
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what goes around in in society but if you look at society and look at what actually happens
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i'm a single woman there are a lot of irresponsible women out there yeah and that's the fact yeah but
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i do feel like when you have a child like that child has to come first so you have to be very
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careful who you bring around your child and i know that would definitely you know affect my decision
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i totally i totally agree with you but i don't think most single mothers are responsible
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i'm a single mom i'm a single mom and there's no way i would be rushing into any relationship
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with any man i'm very protective over my daughter there's no way
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especially when you've got a daughter yeah well i would say even when you've got a son because
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i would say i would say if single mothers were responsible by and large then the most likely
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person to abuse the kid wouldn't be the next man if it's not the mother it's actually the mother is
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the most likely but second most likely is the man you do hear a lot about guys who are on dating
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after they're meeting single moms and the single mom is and the single mom is then like oh you know
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how do you feel about you know i've got a kid and like and they're sort of angling for somebody to
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become the new baby daddy you know i mean again that's not statistics but there's also men there's
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also men that they are and the dad's still active i would say there's also men that actually prey on
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single mom yeah yeah because i think if we're being general i don't think a lot of men are out here
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looking for single mothers i don't absolutely you're not looking for a single mother no i'm not like
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um i mean i'm 33 years old and i've never i've never had any conversation with anyone any guy
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and they're going oh you know what let's get out a single single mom no you're not looking for a
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single mom but there are there are some that pray ominous men out here that they they prey on
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so about the high value and actually desirable ones there's a lot of men out here that are just
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trying to bum off rich women as well that's a new phenomenon yeah the nowadays i think men men
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they're like trying to women women wanted equality here you go here you go
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they want a sugar mama yeah they want a sugar mama well yeah i think that's admirable i mean i think
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i think that's admirable i mean i'm absolutely in the market for a sugar mama for a hundred percent
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but i mean i i can always go to the gym i look good you better start stripping exactly but i would
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agree with you i would agree with you i don't think there's many guys who are out there actively
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looking for single mothers i think it's a bit more like you know you meet the girl and then she turns
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out to be a single mother and you're like yeah well okay maybe i could overlook that for exactly
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after you breed her and leave her exactly exactly if there's a connection then yeah you're open to
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whatever can happen but yeah you're not actively seeking a single mom yeah she just happens to be a
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single mom you're not actively seeking a single mom but some men are i'm saying there's a
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demographic i've heard stories i think what you're saying is the men are looking for single mothers
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because they feel they want to accept family no i'm not even saying it's an easy shag i'm saying
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when she was doing when she was saying about the the the statistics and i was saying but in that there
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are some men that actually prey on single women yeah because they want to be around their
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kids yeah oh that's a small percentage of that's like a tiny percentage there's loads of pedos
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out there mate yeah yeah yeah yeah i believe i actually i actually i think that women actually
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prey on young men more than men prey on young women i disagree
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young men always chase me and i'm just like i don't know when they chase me well i'm talking about
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like um i i see it more commonly now where a woman gets in trouble for sleeping with a student than vice
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versa you see them all the time in the news i think they're mentally ill because i don't know why they
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would want to sleep with a child most of my friends growing up that that lost their virginity
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as little kids all lost it to older women same with the guys i know as well yeah would you go
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younger kelly then i have dated younger but i wouldn't date someone underage or like not underage
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if someone was juvenile to me god no what about 20 what about 23 24 definitely not actually i have
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i have a question i have a question kind of pertaining to this who's more sexual men or women
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women women women women women women women okay we have to go one at a time one at a time and then
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tell me why you think that so here i would say women because i think we're very sensual we're very
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emotional and i think that when we're in the throes of passion we're kind of led by that
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sensuality oh yeah i'm also saying women wow okay women why i think also emotionally we're just more
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attached to that kind of stuff so okay i think men why right because men men can just have so many
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different partners and have like so much sexually sexually yeah and i just think they could just go
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from one to the other and just not even worry about that mental connection like yeah i would say
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men also because i saw this um documentary where there was this woman that she was um like trans
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but anyways that's what she was doing and um she said like as as a woman her sex drive was healthy
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and then when she started um taking taking trust from just like oh my god my sex drive went through
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the roof i think hormonally um men men are gonna feel more
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yeah definitely sorry pale say what was the question again who's more sexual men or women
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oh okay i think definitely men i think you're right because they could just bang it
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bang bang bang see okay this is this is what's got me i could honestly i could honestly be convinced
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either way but i've started to think it's women yeah and the reason i think it's women this is just
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my thoughts yeah we talk about relationships 24 7 it's like when we're with our friends and wine
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what do women talk about boys but not sex though that's like power struggles that's like oh my god
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he didn't do this when he did this well yeah but i think we seek attention and men seek sex
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and that's what we get like that doesn't make us more sexual though does it i would say yes i think
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because i would say because the ways we seek attention is sexual and wearing tight clothes taking off our
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clothes like dressing very sexually i would say is how women seek sexual attention oh yeah i think if you
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go into a gym um that the clothes that women wear today would have been banned like 20 years ago
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yeah um in some cities like vegas in america the women wear like stickers on their boobs
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you go to bikinis like when i was growing up most people wore one pieces and then like the bikinis
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were kind of like out there now we're in thongs yeah people used to get sent off the beach for
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bikinis didn't they yeah do you know the other thing as well i don't know if you guys have ever read
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the book uh my secret garden by nancy friday but it was this book okay i think it's i think it came out
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in the 70s in the 80s but it's this book of sexual fantasies that this psychologist collected
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women's sexual fantasies and i mean some of the stuff in there is frankly crazy you know this
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is some of the stuff that am i able to google it yeah yeah my secret my secret garden by nancy friday
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it's really it's really eye-opening to read and the other thing of course was the 50 shades of gray
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phenomenon you know best selling book ever you know and it was this complete so i think that while i agree
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on the point about testosterone and yeah guys like bang bang bang whatever but i think women once they
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get into it they're really into it they're really into the whole fantasy side of it the sensuality side of
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it i think probably more than men because let's be honest men want to just get their end away
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and then have a cigarette and you know go go to sleep whereas women they get much more bought
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into the whole you know the whole drama of the whole thing more depth in it with with women i think
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well passionate are you changing your answer now no no because we want no no i still say men i still say men