Producer Humbles Modern Women With This Statement
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what it takes to be a good wife, how to find a good husband, and how to be the best wife you can be. We also talk about the importance of being submissive to your husband and how it can make or break a relationship.
Transcript
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I mean, let's look at the big actresses and singers of our generation.
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Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, they all end up by themselves.
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So, like, success comes at a cost, unfortunately.
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And, in fact, that's a big vetting process as well.
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I don't know who said it just now, but someone said, oh, you know,
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the man doesn't want to be with that girl who's seen and stuff.
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And I used to think that, like, for so many years
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because I would never find, like, a guy who was, like,
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But I found someone who loves what I do, not only loves it,
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he celebrates it, he's on the red carpet taking photos of me,
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And I don't think that makes you any less of a man.
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If you said to him, yeah, right now, I'll change everything about my life, yeah.
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No, no, but I'm saying to you, if you gave him the choice, what would he pick?
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If he gave him a choice, what do you think he would pick?
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The reason he loves it is because he loves you.
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He didn't choose, he didn't find you more attractive because of your career.
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Because he loves you and cares about you, he's like,
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well, if this contributes to your happiness, then I love that because I love you.
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My point was that like, oh, it's the man has to be at the top and the woman has to just
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I'm saying that, look, our dynamic is different.
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Yeah, I'm at the top and he's like, they're supporting me and they're with me.
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It's just like your career, you're on the spotlight.
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And that doesn't make him any less of a man or anything like that.
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I'm saying if you gave him a choice, what do you think he would pick?
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And to answer your question, it's basically women, if we want a certain type of guy,
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We need to learn what men want, cook, become more submissive, learn from married women,
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But, you know, I really, I really think it's pretty simple.
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But there are some really ugly guys that cheat and manipulate.
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Okay, so I want to, I want to, I want to, I'm going to break this down for you.
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Because the problem is women think that ugly guys, like most ugly, ugly guys are just on
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their level, to be honest, because women find 80% of men as ugly, unattractive.
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So you only find two out of every 10 men attractive.
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So that, that's the problem is when you look at like what, like what women rate as attractive,
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it just means you're like shooting too high, typically.
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But also, this is another thing, like it's clear, women don't actually know what to look
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Because everything we've said today have been all superficial.
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Ugly guys, rich guys, handsome guys, it doesn't affect their characteristics.
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It doesn't matter what he looks like, it doesn't matter how much money he makes, if his character
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Once his character is flawed, he can be the richest guy on earth, he's still going to cheat
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So you need to look at the character of a man, then you look at his bank account, then
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But then, how do you find a character, how do you see the character in men that lie?
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Don't listen to what he says, listen to what he does.
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So first of all, ideally, if you're looking for a man for anything serious, I'm not talking
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about if you want to have sex, if you're looking for a man for anything serious, first
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of all, you shouldn't be the one trying to vet a man on your own.
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Like that's the worst thing you should do as a woman, trying to vet the man you're going
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to take serious, because one, you're most likely going to be clouded by his lies or
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the way he's going to speak to you, the romantic date he's going to take you on.
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You need to look either in your friend group or your family and get other people to vet
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Yeah, but this was standard practice back in the day.
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I mean, look at who we pick when left to our own devices.
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Every chick has a boyfriend that cheated on her.
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We're more likely to reproduce with literal criminals than non-criminals or something like
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So it's like, what happens when we're left to our own devices?
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It's not good because we're just too emotional.
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So it's like my brother, literally, it's like if I bring him a couple questions about
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Where women, it's like, well, but, well, he might.
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So you're saying like a man will definitely, even if, let's just say, they're not winning
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Imagine a guy's telling you, I want to give you this.
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Imagine he buys you all this and then, and then takes you to, to, or like be, be very
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thoughtful and be like the perfect person that you would say.
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Now you take that person and then they're shit.
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But the thing is, if all his actions show that.
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This would all, if we all waited until we were married, this would all be solved.
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Like if his actions are representing that he's taking you seriously.
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And like, because you, when, if you look at a guy's actions, you can tell if he's taking
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Like, because if you're just having sex and most of the time you're hanging out, it's
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If he's not introduced you to his friends, he's not taking you on holiday, all of this
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But the thing is, the issue is, and this comes back to the board, women can use sex to get
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access to guys that are actually out of their league.
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And so what happens is they're so used to having sex with guys that aren't in their
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They acclimatize and they think that's their standard.
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And then they go, why are the guys who are my standard not commit to me?
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But actually it's like your standard isn't who you have sex with.
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And that's actually where your standard, because the thing is the equivalent for guys is like,
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I'm spending all this money and all this attention on this girl, but she doesn't want to be
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But I have all her attention, but I don't have any of the intimacy.
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It's because, bro, you're using money to punch above your weight.
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Well, I'm going to read Super Chats for a second.
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Um, also guys, if you do have a question for the panel, I saw someone asking if I would
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Lionheart Richard, how do you choose a guy to submit to date with intent, maintain your
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chastity and involve your dad, brother, uncle, are not sexually, are that are not men that
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are not sexually interested in you to scan the men you want a courtship with.
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Claire, Pearl, bless you, but there is no saving society.
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Just listen to how these women react to the reality of life.
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Doug MPA, thank you, King, for, thank you, King, for being, for producer, for being the
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Thank you, Pearl, for being amazing and having shows like this.
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And a woman like her should be avoided at all costs.
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Shoe, um, Shoe Jay, I didn't even know you had blue hair.
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I'd love to share my experience, my background.
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I've been cheated on and dumped because of money and being too busy.
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Stephen Sutton, um, men don't need validation from sex.
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Men genuinely don't seek validation like women do.
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Sex is important to men as attention and validation is
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Emmanuel Christ Ian, I really wish the girl on the right would let people finish.
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Men also lose their minds to depression and commit self-deletion and delete other people.
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Every woman can be desirable as she manages what goes into her body, both food and men.
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Pearl, you are looking for, uh, are you looking for talent, um, on Toronto, Canada?
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Right now, um, I might do one or two more in Chicago, but right now we're going to sign
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probably like one or two more people in London, um, out of this office.
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I think we're going to, I'm pretty sure we're going to do LA, um, London and then Chicago.
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So we're probably going to sign people in the next like two weeks.
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So if you are interested in being a talent, um, make sure you DM me and like DM me like
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what your show pitch is and your Instagram, whatever it is.
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So I do the editing, the shooting, basically everything.
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You just show up and talk, but it is a full-time thing.
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So if you want to like, just come occasionally, this is not for you.
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Hey, Pearl, this is for all the women on the panel.
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If body count doesn't matter, then why do women, are women super uncomfortable when asked
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It's funny how men expect a stable or it's funny how women expect a stable man that provides
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Like this is, I like, don't even really get hot anymore because I'm just so used to it.
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It's England's, it's England's fault because you guys don't have air conditioning.