JustPearlyThings - Producer Humbles Modern Women With This Statement

00:00:00.000 So I want to talk actress and singer. 0.95

00:00:01.900 They don't typically make good wives. 1.00

00:00:03.540 I mean, let's look at the big actresses and singers of our generation. 0.83

00:00:07.200 Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, they all end up by themselves.

00:00:10.240 So, like, success comes at a cost, unfortunately.

00:00:13.720 And, in fact, that's a big vetting process as well.

00:00:17.100 I don't agree.

00:00:17.860 I don't know who said it just now, but someone said, oh, you know,

00:00:21.240 the man doesn't want to be with that girl who's seen and stuff.

00:00:24.360 And I used to think that, like, for so many years

00:00:27.320 because I would never find, like, a guy who was, like,

00:00:30.100 okay with my lifestyle and things like that.

00:00:32.320 But I found someone who loves what I do, not only loves it,

00:00:37.040 he celebrates it, he's on the red carpet taking photos of me,

00:00:40.260 celebrating what I do and championing me.

00:00:42.920 So that is out there.

00:00:44.560 And I don't think that makes you any less of a man.

00:00:46.580 Give him a choice.

00:00:47.180 But I still submit to my man.

00:00:48.740 I'm saying give him a choice.

00:00:49.840 If you said to him, yeah, right now, I'll change everything about my life, yeah.

00:00:53.500 I'll stop doing all of this.

00:00:54.780 No, because then I wouldn't be me.

00:00:56.300 No, no, but I'm saying to you, if you gave him the choice, what would he pick?

00:00:59.940 What do you mean?

00:01:00.600 What would he rather?

00:01:01.760 But he's with him or that.

00:01:02.260 Would he rather you be out there?

00:01:03.420 No, no, no, no.

00:01:04.380 He doesn't have a choice.

00:01:05.520 He loves that about me.

00:01:06.800 No, no, no.

00:01:07.260 He doesn't have a choice.

00:01:08.260 He doesn't have a choice.

00:01:09.280 If he gave him a choice, what do you think he would pick?

00:01:10.740 The reason he loves it is because he loves you.

00:01:13.360 Yeah, yeah.

00:01:13.720 And because he doesn't have a choice.

00:01:14.560 He didn't choose, he didn't find you more attractive because of your career.

00:01:19.340 Okay.

00:01:19.900 Because he loves you and cares about you, he's like,

00:01:22.220 well, if this contributes to your happiness, then I love that because I love you.

00:01:24.900 Like, that's what that is.

00:01:26.200 Yes, but I'm just, that wasn't my point.

00:01:28.240 My point was that like, oh, it's the man has to be at the top and the woman has to just 1.00

00:01:32.640 be submissive.

00:01:33.520 I'm saying that, look, our dynamic is different.

00:01:36.660 Yeah, I'm at the top and he's like, they're supporting me and they're with me.

00:01:40.000 But yet I'm still submissive.

00:01:42.080 No, the dynamic is the same.

00:01:43.540 You just have different careers.

00:01:44.400 It's just like your career, you're on the spotlight.

00:01:45.640 Yeah, but I'm still submissive.

00:01:47.040 And that doesn't make him any less of a man or anything like that.

00:01:49.900 I'm saying if you gave him a choice, what do you think he would pick?

00:01:53.100 Well, I don't know.

00:01:54.240 Maybe the girl who works in self-adjustment. 0.99

00:01:57.280 And to answer your question, it's basically women, if we want a certain type of guy, 1.00

00:02:02.180 we either need to improve, right?

00:02:04.180 We need to get in the gym.

00:02:05.260 We need to learn what men want, cook, become more submissive, learn from married women, 1.00

00:02:10.740 or lower your standards and get what you get.

00:02:13.560 But, you know, I really, I really think it's pretty simple. 0.65

00:02:16.700 But there are some really ugly guys that cheat and manipulate.

00:02:21.220 Okay, so I want to, I want to, I want to, I'm going to break this down for you. 0.97

00:02:24.340 Because the problem is women think that ugly guys, like most ugly, ugly guys are just on 1.00

00:02:29.160 their level, to be honest, because women find 80% of men as ugly, unattractive. 0.94

00:02:33.620 So you only find two out of every 10 men attractive.

00:02:36.960 So that, that's the problem is when you look at like what, like what women rate as attractive, 0.91

00:02:42.120 it just means you're like shooting too high, typically.

00:02:44.100 Not you, but like in general.

00:02:45.800 But also, this is another thing, like it's clear, women don't actually know what to look 1.00

00:02:49.940 for in men.

00:02:51.000 Because everything we've said today have been all superficial.

00:02:54.380 Ugly guys, rich guys, handsome guys, it doesn't affect their characteristics.

00:03:00.200 You need to look at the character of a man.

00:03:02.040 It doesn't matter what he looks like, it doesn't matter how much money he makes, if his character

00:03:05.420 is flawed.

00:03:06.240 Once his character is flawed, he can be the richest guy on earth, he's still going to cheat

00:03:09.200 on you.

00:03:09.540 So you need to look at the character of a man, then you look at his bank account, then

00:03:14.540 you look at other things.

00:03:15.000 But then, how do you find a character, how do you see the character in men that lie?

00:03:19.320 Don't listen to what he says, listen to what he does.

00:03:21.540 You ask questions, you ask questions.

00:03:22.780 So, look at what he does, yeah.

00:03:24.680 So first of all, ideally, if you're looking for a man for anything serious, I'm not talking

00:03:28.500 about if you want to have sex, if you're looking for a man for anything serious, first

00:03:31.700 of all, you shouldn't be the one trying to vet a man on your own.

00:03:34.700 Like that's the worst thing you should do as a woman, trying to vet the man you're going 1.00

00:03:38.280 to take serious, because one, you're most likely going to be clouded by his lies or

00:03:42.940 the way he's going to speak to you, the romantic date he's going to take you on.

00:03:46.920 You need to look either in your friend group or your family and get other people to vet

00:03:51.140 the man for you.

00:03:52.320 That is the first thing you should do.

00:03:54.280 Never try to vet a man on your own.

00:03:55.760 Other men, though.

00:03:56.840 Yeah, but this was standard practice back in the day.

00:03:59.240 It was like your father would be the one.

00:04:00.580 Yeah, I was going to say family, right?

00:04:02.560 Yeah.

00:04:02.860 I mean, look at who we pick when left to our own devices.

00:04:07.120 Every chick has a toxic ex-boyfriend. 0.97

00:04:09.000 Every chick has a boyfriend that cheated on her. 1.00

00:04:11.940 And it's like we pick.

00:04:13.260 We're more likely to reproduce with literal criminals than non-criminals or something like

00:04:19.440 that.

00:04:19.720 So it's like, what happens when we're left to our own devices?

00:04:23.120 It's not good because we're just too emotional.

00:04:25.040 We can't make us not women. 1.00

00:04:26.600 We're emotionally led.

00:04:27.700 Men are much more logical.

00:04:29.480 So it's like my brother, literally, it's like if I bring him a couple questions about

00:04:35.200 it, he'll ask me a couple questions.

00:04:36.560 And it's like, yes, no.

00:04:37.600 And he's usually right.

00:04:38.480 Yeah, that's so true.

00:04:39.140 Yeah.

00:04:39.980 Where women, it's like, well, but, well, he might. 1.00

00:04:43.640 I'm not sure.

00:04:45.740 So you're saying like a man will definitely, even if, let's just say, they're not winning

00:04:52.340 to give you a relationship.

00:04:54.060 Imagine a guy's telling you, I want to give you this.

00:04:56.680 I want to do, do, do.

00:04:57.720 Imagine he buys you all this and then, and then takes you to, to, or like be, be very

00:05:02.800 thoughtful and be like the perfect person that you would say.

00:05:05.560 They should say that actions, actions.

00:05:07.120 Imagine you do that. 1.00

00:05:08.000 Now you take that person and then they're shit. 1.00

00:05:11.760 Okay. 1.00

00:05:11.940 But the thing is, if all his actions show that.

00:05:14.680 This would all, if we all waited until we were married, this would all be solved.

00:05:17.820 I didn't want to say.

00:05:18.420 That's what all he saw.

00:05:19.960 Like if his actions are representing that he's taking you seriously.

00:05:23.440 Right.

00:05:24.220 And like, because you, when, if you look at a guy's actions, you can tell if he's taking

00:05:27.760 you seriously or not.

00:05:28.960 Like, because if you're just having sex and most of the time you're hanging out, it's

00:05:31.960 just Netflix and chill.

00:05:32.800 He's not taking you seriously.

00:05:33.800 If he's not introduced you to his friends, he's not taking you on holiday, all of this

00:05:37.100 stuff.

00:05:37.280 He's not taking you seriously.

00:05:38.220 You know that.

00:05:39.060 Right. 0.98

00:05:39.260 But the thing is, the issue is, and this comes back to the board, women can use sex to get 1.00

00:05:43.680 access to guys that are actually out of their league. 0.54

00:05:45.560 Yeah.

00:05:46.740 And so what happens is they're so used to having sex with guys that aren't in their 0.91

00:05:52.960 league. 0.95

00:05:53.480 Right.

00:05:54.020 They acclimatize and they think that's their standard.

00:05:56.620 And then they go, why are the guys who are my standard not commit to me? 0.99

00:06:00.660 Are all guys are trash. 0.97

00:06:01.780 None of them want to commit. 1.00

00:06:02.960 But actually it's like your standard isn't who you have sex with.

00:06:06.900 Your standard is who you get commitment from.

00:06:09.280 Right.

00:06:09.460 And that's actually where your standard, because the thing is the equivalent for guys is like,

00:06:13.300 I'm spending all this money and all this attention on this girl, but she doesn't want to be 0.96

00:06:17.720 sexually intimate with me. 0.62

00:06:18.820 We go out on dates.

00:06:19.580 I take her out. 0.74

00:06:20.440 But I have all her attention, but I don't have any of the intimacy.

00:06:24.240 It's because, bro, you're using money to punch above your weight.

00:06:26.480 That's why.

00:06:27.760 See what I'm saying?

00:06:28.760 Yeah.

00:06:29.200 No.

00:06:30.200 I hear it.

00:06:31.560 I definitely hear it.

00:06:32.140 Well, I'm going to read Super Chats for a second.

00:06:35.040 Ooh, Super Chats.

00:06:35.920 Um, also guys, if you do have a question for the panel, I saw someone asking if I would

00:06:40.700 super, I would ask it.

00:06:43.060 Um, I will over $25.

00:06:45.140 Okay.

00:06:45.540 Lionheart Richard, how do you choose a guy to submit to date with intent, maintain your

00:06:49.960 chastity and involve your dad, brother, uncle, are not sexually, are that are not men that

00:06:55.740 are not sexually interested in you to scan the men you want a courtship with.

00:07:00.660 Um, F.S.

00:07:01.680 Claire, Pearl, bless you, but there is no saving society.

00:07:04.240 Just listen to how these women react to the reality of life. 1.00

00:07:06.900 It's over.

00:07:07.700 Walk away, fellas.

00:07:08.640 They are no longer worth the risk.

00:07:10.660 Doug MPA, thank you, King, for, thank you, King, for being, for producer, for being the

00:07:15.680 voice of reason.

00:07:16.480 Thank you, Pearl, for being amazing and having shows like this.

00:07:19.720 Blue Hair Tips is a demon. 1.00

00:07:21.220 She has the voice of a demon. 1.00

00:07:22.820 And a woman like her should be avoided at all costs. 1.00

00:07:26.220 Shoe, um, Shoe Jay, I didn't even know you had blue hair.

00:07:29.100 Um, I am 23 from the Midwest.

00:07:32.180 I'd love to share my experience, my background.

00:07:34.460 I'm a farm mechanic working for a dealership.

00:07:36.320 I bring in 50K a year.

00:07:37.460 I'm in the National Guard.

00:07:38.580 I also have a volunteer paramedic.

00:07:40.800 I've been cheated on and dumped because of money and being too busy.

00:07:44.660 Alexander, 1284.

00:07:46.420 Thank you for what you do.

00:07:47.420 Fresh and Fit brought me here.

00:07:49.620 Stephen Sutton, um, men don't need validation from sex.

00:07:53.600 Men genuinely don't seek validation like women do. 1.00

00:07:55.920 Sex is important to men as attention and validation is 0.96

00:07:59.100 to women.

00:08:00.020 Emmanuel Christ Ian, I really wish the girl on the right would let people finish.

00:08:04.720 Men don't only lose money and kids. 0.99

00:08:07.060 Men also lose their minds to depression and commit self-deletion and delete other people.

00:08:11.700 Every woman can be desirable as she manages what goes into her body, both food and men. 1.00

00:08:17.100 Pearl, you are looking for, uh, are you looking for talent, um, on Toronto, Canada?

00:08:23.740 Um, no.

00:08:25.520 Right now, um, I might do one or two more in Chicago, but right now we're going to sign

00:08:30.740 probably like one or two more people in London, um, out of this office.

00:08:36.180 And then maybe one or two more in LA.

00:08:40.360 I think we're going to, I'm pretty sure we're going to do LA, um, London and then Chicago.

00:08:46.020 But my main, uh, focus right now is London.

00:08:48.660 So we're probably going to sign people in the next like two weeks.

00:08:51.380 So if you are interested in being a talent, um, make sure you DM me and like DM me like

00:08:56.360 what your show pitch is and your Instagram, whatever it is.

00:08:59.220 Basically what that means is I do everything.

00:09:01.440 So I do the editing, the shooting, basically everything.

00:09:05.380 You just show up and talk, but it is a full-time thing.

00:09:07.640 So if you want to like, just come occasionally, this is not for you.

00:09:11.880 Okay.

00:09:12.280 Um, Mac perk.

00:09:13.420 Hey, Pearl, this is for all the women on the panel. 1.00

00:09:15.780 If body count doesn't matter, then why do women, are women super uncomfortable when asked 1.00

00:09:20.920 about it?

00:09:21.800 90 free to a pie.

00:09:22.740 It's funny how men expect a stable or it's funny how women expect a stable man that provides 0.99

00:09:27.940 and et cetera, but never choose.

00:09:29.620 Oh, this is from the last show.

00:09:31.400 Okay.

00:09:31.700 Let me refresh this really quick.

00:09:34.240 It's hot in it.

00:09:35.080 Yeah.

00:09:35.360 It's so hot.

00:09:36.140 Yeah.

00:09:36.640 Like this is, I like, don't even really get hot anymore because I'm just so used to it.

00:09:41.820 It's England's, it's England's fault because you guys don't have air conditioning.

00:09:47.100 I don't understand.

00:09:48.520 I'm from America.

00:09:49.760 It would be blowing so much in America.

00:09:53.320 You would, you would be like cold.

00:09:55.260 But yeah.

00:09:56.140 We just never, hardly ever need it.

00:09:57.580 Yeah.

00:09:57.940 Yeah.

00:09:58.280 Thank you.

JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023

Producer Humbles Modern Women With This Statement

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