JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


Producer Humbles Modern Women With This Statement


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

206.66603

Word Count

2,164

Sentence Count

199

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

14


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So I want to talk actress and singer.
00:00:01.900 They don't typically make good wives.
00:00:03.540 I mean, let's look at the big actresses and singers of our generation.
00:00:07.200 Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, they all end up by themselves.
00:00:10.240 So, like, success comes at a cost, unfortunately.
00:00:13.720 And, in fact, that's a big vetting process as well.
00:00:17.100 I don't agree.
00:00:17.860 I don't know who said it just now, but someone said, oh, you know,
00:00:21.240 the man doesn't want to be with that girl who's seen and stuff.
00:00:24.360 And I used to think that, like, for so many years
00:00:27.320 because I would never find, like, a guy who was, like,
00:00:30.100 okay with my lifestyle and things like that.
00:00:32.320 But I found someone who loves what I do, not only loves it,
00:00:37.040 he celebrates it, he's on the red carpet taking photos of me,
00:00:40.260 celebrating what I do and championing me.
00:00:42.920 So that is out there.
00:00:44.560 And I don't think that makes you any less of a man.
00:00:46.580 Give him a choice.
00:00:47.180 But I still submit to my man.
00:00:48.740 I'm saying give him a choice.
00:00:49.840 If you said to him, yeah, right now, I'll change everything about my life, yeah.
00:00:53.500 I'll stop doing all of this.
00:00:54.780 No, because then I wouldn't be me.
00:00:56.300 No, no, but I'm saying to you, if you gave him the choice, what would he pick?
00:00:59.940 What do you mean?
00:01:00.600 What would he rather?
00:01:01.760 But he's with him or that.
00:01:02.260 Would he rather you be out there?
00:01:03.420 No, no, no, no.
00:01:04.380 He doesn't have a choice.
00:01:05.520 He loves that about me.
00:01:06.800 No, no, no.
00:01:07.260 He doesn't have a choice.
00:01:08.260 He doesn't have a choice.
00:01:09.280 If he gave him a choice, what do you think he would pick?
00:01:10.740 The reason he loves it is because he loves you.
00:01:13.360 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:13.720 And because he doesn't have a choice.
00:01:14.560 He didn't choose, he didn't find you more attractive because of your career.
00:01:19.340 Okay.
00:01:19.900 Because he loves you and cares about you, he's like,
00:01:22.220 well, if this contributes to your happiness, then I love that because I love you.
00:01:24.900 Like, that's what that is.
00:01:26.200 Yes, but I'm just, that wasn't my point.
00:01:28.240 My point was that like, oh, it's the man has to be at the top and the woman has to just
00:01:32.640 be submissive.
00:01:33.520 I'm saying that, look, our dynamic is different.
00:01:36.660 Yeah, I'm at the top and he's like, they're supporting me and they're with me.
00:01:40.000 But yet I'm still submissive.
00:01:42.080 No, the dynamic is the same.
00:01:43.540 You just have different careers.
00:01:44.400 It's just like your career, you're on the spotlight.
00:01:45.640 Yeah, but I'm still submissive.
00:01:47.040 And that doesn't make him any less of a man or anything like that.
00:01:49.900 I'm saying if you gave him a choice, what do you think he would pick?
00:01:53.100 Well, I don't know.
00:01:54.240 Maybe the girl who works in self-adjustment.
00:01:57.280 And to answer your question, it's basically women, if we want a certain type of guy,
00:02:02.180 we either need to improve, right?
00:02:04.180 We need to get in the gym.
00:02:05.260 We need to learn what men want, cook, become more submissive, learn from married women,
00:02:10.740 or lower your standards and get what you get.
00:02:13.560 But, you know, I really, I really think it's pretty simple.
00:02:16.700 But there are some really ugly guys that cheat and manipulate.
00:02:21.220 Okay, so I want to, I want to, I want to, I'm going to break this down for you.
00:02:24.340 Because the problem is women think that ugly guys, like most ugly, ugly guys are just on
00:02:29.160 their level, to be honest, because women find 80% of men as ugly, unattractive.
00:02:33.620 So you only find two out of every 10 men attractive.
00:02:36.960 So that, that's the problem is when you look at like what, like what women rate as attractive,
00:02:42.120 it just means you're like shooting too high, typically.
00:02:44.100 Not you, but like in general.
00:02:45.800 But also, this is another thing, like it's clear, women don't actually know what to look
00:02:49.940 for in men.
00:02:51.000 Because everything we've said today have been all superficial.
00:02:54.380 Ugly guys, rich guys, handsome guys, it doesn't affect their characteristics.
00:03:00.200 You need to look at the character of a man.
00:03:02.040 It doesn't matter what he looks like, it doesn't matter how much money he makes, if his character
00:03:05.420 is flawed.
00:03:06.240 Once his character is flawed, he can be the richest guy on earth, he's still going to cheat
00:03:09.200 on you.
00:03:09.540 So you need to look at the character of a man, then you look at his bank account, then
00:03:14.540 you look at other things.
00:03:15.000 But then, how do you find a character, how do you see the character in men that lie?
00:03:19.320 Don't listen to what he says, listen to what he does.
00:03:21.540 You ask questions, you ask questions.
00:03:22.780 So, look at what he does, yeah.
00:03:24.680 So first of all, ideally, if you're looking for a man for anything serious, I'm not talking
00:03:28.500 about if you want to have sex, if you're looking for a man for anything serious, first
00:03:31.700 of all, you shouldn't be the one trying to vet a man on your own.
00:03:34.700 Like that's the worst thing you should do as a woman, trying to vet the man you're going
00:03:38.280 to take serious, because one, you're most likely going to be clouded by his lies or
00:03:42.940 the way he's going to speak to you, the romantic date he's going to take you on.
00:03:46.920 You need to look either in your friend group or your family and get other people to vet
00:03:51.140 the man for you.
00:03:52.320 That is the first thing you should do.
00:03:54.280 Never try to vet a man on your own.
00:03:55.760 Other men, though.
00:03:56.840 Yeah, but this was standard practice back in the day.
00:03:59.240 It was like your father would be the one.
00:04:00.580 Yeah, I was going to say family, right?
00:04:02.560 Yeah.
00:04:02.860 I mean, look at who we pick when left to our own devices.
00:04:07.120 Every chick has a toxic ex-boyfriend.
00:04:09.000 Every chick has a boyfriend that cheated on her.
00:04:11.940 And it's like we pick.
00:04:13.260 We're more likely to reproduce with literal criminals than non-criminals or something like
00:04:19.440 that.
00:04:19.720 So it's like, what happens when we're left to our own devices?
00:04:23.120 It's not good because we're just too emotional.
00:04:25.040 We can't make us not women.
00:04:26.600 We're emotionally led.
00:04:27.700 Men are much more logical.
00:04:29.480 So it's like my brother, literally, it's like if I bring him a couple questions about
00:04:35.200 it, he'll ask me a couple questions.
00:04:36.560 And it's like, yes, no.
00:04:37.600 And he's usually right.
00:04:38.480 Yeah, that's so true.
00:04:39.140 Yeah.
00:04:39.980 Where women, it's like, well, but, well, he might.
00:04:43.640 I'm not sure.
00:04:45.740 So you're saying like a man will definitely, even if, let's just say, they're not winning
00:04:52.340 to give you a relationship.
00:04:54.060 Imagine a guy's telling you, I want to give you this.
00:04:56.680 I want to do, do, do.
00:04:57.720 Imagine he buys you all this and then, and then takes you to, to, or like be, be very
00:05:02.800 thoughtful and be like the perfect person that you would say.
00:05:05.560 They should say that actions, actions.
00:05:07.120 Imagine you do that.
00:05:08.000 Now you take that person and then they're shit.
00:05:11.760 Okay.
00:05:11.940 But the thing is, if all his actions show that.
00:05:14.680 This would all, if we all waited until we were married, this would all be solved.
00:05:17.820 I didn't want to say.
00:05:18.420 That's what all he saw.
00:05:19.960 Like if his actions are representing that he's taking you seriously.
00:05:23.440 Right.
00:05:24.220 And like, because you, when, if you look at a guy's actions, you can tell if he's taking
00:05:27.760 you seriously or not.
00:05:28.960 Like, because if you're just having sex and most of the time you're hanging out, it's
00:05:31.960 just Netflix and chill.
00:05:32.800 He's not taking you seriously.
00:05:33.800 If he's not introduced you to his friends, he's not taking you on holiday, all of this
00:05:37.100 stuff.
00:05:37.280 He's not taking you seriously.
00:05:38.220 You know that.
00:05:39.060 Right.
00:05:39.260 But the thing is, the issue is, and this comes back to the board, women can use sex to get
00:05:43.680 access to guys that are actually out of their league.
00:05:45.560 Yeah.
00:05:46.740 And so what happens is they're so used to having sex with guys that aren't in their
00:05:52.960 league.
00:05:53.480 Right.
00:05:54.020 They acclimatize and they think that's their standard.
00:05:56.620 And then they go, why are the guys who are my standard not commit to me?
00:06:00.660 Are all guys are trash.
00:06:01.780 None of them want to commit.
00:06:02.960 But actually it's like your standard isn't who you have sex with.
00:06:06.900 Your standard is who you get commitment from.
00:06:09.280 Right.
00:06:09.460 And that's actually where your standard, because the thing is the equivalent for guys is like,
00:06:13.300 I'm spending all this money and all this attention on this girl, but she doesn't want to be
00:06:17.720 sexually intimate with me.
00:06:18.820 We go out on dates.
00:06:19.580 I take her out.
00:06:20.440 But I have all her attention, but I don't have any of the intimacy.
00:06:24.240 It's because, bro, you're using money to punch above your weight.
00:06:26.480 That's why.
00:06:27.760 See what I'm saying?
00:06:28.760 Yeah.
00:06:29.200 No.
00:06:30.200 I hear it.
00:06:31.560 I definitely hear it.
00:06:32.140 Well, I'm going to read Super Chats for a second.
00:06:35.040 Ooh, Super Chats.
00:06:35.920 Um, also guys, if you do have a question for the panel, I saw someone asking if I would
00:06:40.700 super, I would ask it.
00:06:43.060 Um, I will over $25.
00:06:45.140 Okay.
00:06:45.540 Lionheart Richard, how do you choose a guy to submit to date with intent, maintain your
00:06:49.960 chastity and involve your dad, brother, uncle, are not sexually, are that are not men that
00:06:55.740 are not sexually interested in you to scan the men you want a courtship with.
00:07:00.660 Um, F.S.
00:07:01.680 Claire, Pearl, bless you, but there is no saving society.
00:07:04.240 Just listen to how these women react to the reality of life.
00:07:06.900 It's over.
00:07:07.700 Walk away, fellas.
00:07:08.640 They are no longer worth the risk.
00:07:10.660 Doug MPA, thank you, King, for, thank you, King, for being, for producer, for being the
00:07:15.680 voice of reason.
00:07:16.480 Thank you, Pearl, for being amazing and having shows like this.
00:07:19.720 Blue Hair Tips is a demon.
00:07:21.220 She has the voice of a demon.
00:07:22.820 And a woman like her should be avoided at all costs.
00:07:26.220 Shoe, um, Shoe Jay, I didn't even know you had blue hair.
00:07:29.100 Um, I am 23 from the Midwest.
00:07:32.180 I'd love to share my experience, my background.
00:07:34.460 I'm a farm mechanic working for a dealership.
00:07:36.320 I bring in 50K a year.
00:07:37.460 I'm in the National Guard.
00:07:38.580 I also have a volunteer paramedic.
00:07:40.800 I've been cheated on and dumped because of money and being too busy.
00:07:44.660 Alexander, 1284.
00:07:46.420 Thank you for what you do.
00:07:47.420 Fresh and Fit brought me here.
00:07:49.620 Stephen Sutton, um, men don't need validation from sex.
00:07:53.600 Men genuinely don't seek validation like women do.
00:07:55.920 Sex is important to men as attention and validation is
00:07:59.100 to women.
00:08:00.020 Emmanuel Christ Ian, I really wish the girl on the right would let people finish.
00:08:04.720 Men don't only lose money and kids.
00:08:07.060 Men also lose their minds to depression and commit self-deletion and delete other people.
00:08:11.700 Every woman can be desirable as she manages what goes into her body, both food and men.
00:08:17.100 Pearl, you are looking for, uh, are you looking for talent, um, on Toronto, Canada?
00:08:23.740 Um, no.
00:08:25.520 Right now, um, I might do one or two more in Chicago, but right now we're going to sign
00:08:30.740 probably like one or two more people in London, um, out of this office.
00:08:36.180 And then maybe one or two more in LA.
00:08:40.360 I think we're going to, I'm pretty sure we're going to do LA, um, London and then Chicago.
00:08:46.020 But my main, uh, focus right now is London.
00:08:48.660 So we're probably going to sign people in the next like two weeks.
00:08:51.380 So if you are interested in being a talent, um, make sure you DM me and like DM me like
00:08:56.360 what your show pitch is and your Instagram, whatever it is.
00:08:59.220 Basically what that means is I do everything.
00:09:01.440 So I do the editing, the shooting, basically everything.
00:09:05.380 You just show up and talk, but it is a full-time thing.
00:09:07.640 So if you want to like, just come occasionally, this is not for you.
00:09:11.880 Okay.
00:09:12.280 Um, Mac perk.
00:09:13.420 Hey, Pearl, this is for all the women on the panel.
00:09:15.780 If body count doesn't matter, then why do women, are women super uncomfortable when asked
00:09:20.920 about it?
00:09:21.800 90 free to a pie.
00:09:22.740 It's funny how men expect a stable or it's funny how women expect a stable man that provides
00:09:27.940 and et cetera, but never choose.
00:09:29.620 Oh, this is from the last show.
00:09:31.400 Okay.
00:09:31.700 Let me refresh this really quick.
00:09:34.240 It's hot in it.
00:09:35.080 Yeah.
00:09:35.360 It's so hot.
00:09:36.140 Yeah.
00:09:36.640 Like this is, I like, don't even really get hot anymore because I'm just so used to it.
00:09:41.820 It's England's, it's England's fault because you guys don't have air conditioning.
00:09:47.100 I don't understand.
00:09:48.520 I'm from America.
00:09:49.760 It would be blowing so much in America.
00:09:53.320 You would, you would be like cold.
00:09:55.260 But yeah.
00:09:56.140 We just never, hardly ever need it.
00:09:57.580 Yeah.
00:09:57.940 Yeah.
00:09:58.280 Thank you.