JustPearlyThings - July 11, 2023


Promiscuous Girl REGRETS Sleeping Around


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

220.47163

Word count

2,169

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

21

sentences flagged

Hate speech

12

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Summary

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In this episode we talk about purity and why it is so important for women to be pure before getting married. We also talk about why women should not wait to get married until they are 30 years old and why they should get married at a younger age.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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00:00:00.000 the damage that you've got is your responsibility to to go away and heal from it i i agree with you
00:00:06.340 but what's better a girl that's not damaged or a girl that is i i understand what i do understand
00:00:12.740 what you're saying but say if you got married and then a guy damaged you within that marriage you
00:00:17.700 even though you've only slept with that person you would still be damaged right but they're
00:00:22.000 probably like there are problems not other people's problems and the issue is like you're
00:00:25.980 bringing other people's problems into your relationship which is then why you would need
00:00:30.660 to go away and work on yourself no which is why you should have less partners before you get married
00:00:35.340 which is why we should try to remain as pure as possible before we get married like why would
00:00:40.660 you want more experience before getting married i do i do why would you like what value does that
00:00:46.060 bring to a husband i've just i've just thought um you know like that time when you're little or you
00:00:50.120 have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get your your prince i think that's a bad saying i think
00:00:54.260 that's what that's what that's what that's what we've grown up on though so that's when i'm saying
00:00:58.800 as girls we i i personally wasn't told by anyone oh if you sleep with a lot of people your value
00:01:04.780 as a woman's going to go down if i was told that you think you think that a father figure has an
00:01:09.380 important role in that to be fair yeah actually maybe but then my my mom didn't say that either
00:01:15.420 but women well we know this on some level because the first thing you do when you don't like a girl 1.00
00:01:20.160 is you call her a whore maybe not you personally but you know women do that 1.00
00:01:24.260 so i think we know on some level that purity is important to men i don't think when you're 16 17
00:01:29.520 though i don't think you think about that at all at all did you guys have no guidance from your
00:01:35.520 parents no my mom didn't talk about sex with me at all that even there's your dad in your life
00:01:41.060 yeah yeah both parents and they never they never spoke to you about sex ever never maybe they should
00:01:46.440 i i do think they should have definitely because i'm not saying that um i would go back and change
00:01:52.060 things because i i do feel like even through breakups and bad breakups you out from the other
00:01:58.820 side of the end of the tunnel you become a better person anyway because you've i feel like i think i
00:02:03.080 think you become a worse person as a human expect for being a human on the planet having a human
00:02:09.420 experience they say that to have a full experience as a human you have to go through ups and downs that's
00:02:14.680 not just in relationships that's experiences in general yeah so you should go through them with your
00:02:19.200 husband but why i don't get that but i would rather go through i'm not on about just relationships but
00:02:26.200 as an experience i would rather go through that on my own so then when i'm with my husband i've
00:02:31.100 already learned all of that no no i agree with you but why would you not want to know let me learn
00:02:38.760 as an individual on the planet as an individual going through your own life surely you would want
00:02:45.100 to know everything about yourself everything that triggers you everything that you know you've
00:02:49.420 learned from and all of that and then have a husband that you can build even more because why
00:02:54.480 would you want to be in a marriage not knowing yourself yeah like why would you why would you
00:02:58.400 want to do that yeah but from the dawn of time like from the ancient times girls have gotten 1.00
00:03:02.660 married at a young age i don't agree with that they didn't need that they didn't get married at
00:03:06.540 30 girls got married at 16 17 18. that's just something that just happened like from from the
00:03:11.420 whole of like from ages ago it's a new thing to get married but maybe sometimes they didn't
00:03:16.340 actually have a choice yeah but it's not that but it was like it was a tradition sorry about that
00:03:20.520 tradition to get married at 18 16 17 tradition for everyone across the world even england but why do we
00:03:26.440 have to follow that because it's okay okay okay i'll give you because we look at what works
00:03:31.920 and like let's let's look at the outcomes are women happier waiting to get married right the average 1.00
00:03:37.180 age of first marriage is 31 100 years ago it was around 20 21 something like that and women are more 1.00
00:03:43.160 on antidepressants we're more depressed than ever we're we're on what tinder where average body count
00:03:48.140 is like what 8 10 and like i i genuinely think it's probably higher than that if we're if we're being
00:03:53.560 honest you know um we're not happy women are not happy waiting to get married and then getting 0.94
00:03:59.720 married i think happiness is a choice though i think i do think happiness is a choice but i do
00:04:04.900 think we can look at outcomes yeah i i completely understand where you're coming from but again i
00:04:10.280 think it's so important to take the time away and focus on yourself ashton go on what do you think
00:04:14.960 the difference between happiness for a woman is and happiness for a man is what do you think freedom 0.59
00:04:20.520 be more be more break it down let's say let's say what's the difference between the happiness
00:04:26.480 for a man and happiness for a woman what's the difference i think when you're both happy i think
00:04:33.020 that's when you can be completely happy yeah but when you bring happiness for each other for a woman
00:04:37.400 what makes a woman happy like happy like proper happy and fulfilled and what makes a man happy and
00:04:42.420 fulfilled i think it's personal preference yeah personal preference everyone is different but to
00:04:48.580 generalize it i think for a man it's having a woman who this is going to sound so politically
00:04:55.660 wrong but i know that guys can cheat and be and still love someone yes and and then if they were
00:05:02.380 to then go back to that woman and that woman takes them back it would give him status because look how
00:05:07.080 much my woman loves me she's like you won't tell no one why doesn't he tell anyone that's a bitch boy 1.00
00:05:11.060 why would he tell anyone what do you mean that he doesn't have to that's not status i think she's
00:05:14.520 saying it's a thought process that's not status like saying like boasting about oh his girl taking
00:05:19.680 him back this and that but some guys do do that i've heard i've i've seen a podcast with them having
00:05:24.120 this whole conversation i'm not saying just specifically that that's not what makes a woman happy i think being
00:05:30.120 cared for provided for looked after respected recognized okay that's that's very good that's
00:05:35.660 important but also you don't need a man yes you do yes you do yes but not oh there's not the whole
00:05:41.760 time the only reason like we have a we have a society where women are like delusional enough to 1.00
00:05:47.220 think that we can't live without men no offense uh because like what what do you do when your car
00:05:51.560 breaks down you go to a man what do you do who built this building a man all of this no not really
00:05:57.220 all all of the industries that run society are primarily i mean it's not that they can't we
00:06:01.980 don't and we won't we refuse to do hard jobs all the hardest jobs in society for women that build 1.00
00:06:06.680 no not really if even if you look at them and i've talked to like i do interviews sometimes with people
00:06:12.740 in these industries typically the women are the ones waving the flags on the construction sites or 1.00
00:06:18.980 they're like in the middle management like most women are out there building and if they're doing it 1.00
00:06:23.300 fun they're bad at it let's just call spade a spade like you're not you're not as good at like
00:06:28.340 doing manual labor as a man you can't be we're not as strong as them and so yeah we're not as strong
00:06:33.880 as men if there's okay if there's if there's a blackout tomorrow right if there's a blackout
00:06:38.120 tomorrow you would run to a guy because you would need a guy to protect you they they did a study right
00:06:42.840 or not a study a tv show where um they put men and women on an island it said survive go the women had
00:06:48.680 to be rescued in two days and in like five days the men were filtering water hunting food like they
00:06:53.460 had a whole system that's just how we're both differently built though right but that's what
00:06:57.400 i'm saying like women like we're in a society where we have like propped up women to think that we can 1.00
00:07:02.060 live without men when everything we do depends on men like then they need us women to be here 1.00
00:07:07.640 no not really because like okay let's let's say reproduction's equal right we can't say because we
00:07:13.100 need we need their sperm they need our egg so we can't we can't take more credit for reproduction 0.92
00:07:17.480 like that's equal but when it comes to a baby though whereas a woman can't okay but what okay 1.00
00:07:22.180 if they build artificial wombs tomorrow then what because they're already doing that you know 0.82
00:07:26.900 i think they're already doing like the pods and shit yeah have you seen that so they do that tomorrow
00:07:31.920 then what then what so yeah yeah and there's no there's no law stopping us from doing any of
00:07:38.960 these industries if you want you can go be a plumber you could go be a mechanic but i'm sure none of
00:07:43.520 you want to and i sure as hell don't right you don't want to i don't want to either and and it's
00:07:48.900 interesting because i talked to this like historian the other day and he said there have just been such
00:07:52.700 ramifications from women entering the workforce in the 20s because like that's like the that as soon 1.00
00:07:58.920 as women entered the workforce in the 20s that's when the number of children went down and that's when 0.58
00:08:03.440 like um that's when you couldn't survive on two incomes so there's been a lot of ramifications i'm not
00:08:07.400 saying good or bad but from women entering the workforce but they say they don't need men right 0.98
00:08:13.220 but hypothetically you see how big that muscle is right there the security guard for the show
00:08:18.860 right if he was to try to violate you like say me and you were together courtney and we're walking
00:08:25.320 down the street if he was trying to violate you he would have to kill me to get you to you you don't
00:08:30.920 see value in that because because when he means it and not because if you know but i'm saying the point
00:08:35.660 that you guys are we've conquered the world to the point where you guys are so protected
00:08:39.400 to the point that you guys don't even see valuable and simple security you guys are entitled to
00:08:43.980 security you understand that i don't have to protect you if if someone as big as him was to try to
00:08:50.280 violate you he would have to kill me i don't have to do that for you to the point to say that you don't 0.52
00:08:56.220 need men you do need men you're so secure because the fact that we've conquered the world i think we
00:09:01.180 gave you that security but you're not entitled to it you're not entitled to it all right so if we're
00:09:06.880 walking together and he says something what are you gonna do yeah but it wasn't aimed i'm not saying
00:09:12.020 that though no but she's talking about needing men you do need men yeah because you're not entitled
00:09:16.320 security you could walk down the street right now and somebody attack you right but if you had a man
00:09:22.140 with you that man would be willing to die for you then and they're on the spot yeah you win me i'm a
00:09:27.280 i'm a dive you gotta kill me i do get that's valuable yeah yeah yeah so you mean men don't
00:09:35.860 let this society that we've conquered and built is so secure for you forget that because a man 0.99
00:09:42.300 could see a a pervert a pedophile whatever could see you walking in the show she's pretty she's got 0.98
00:09:46.500 a skirt on let me find an opportunity he's gonna follow you 1.00