JustPearlyThings - July 25, 2023


Promiscuous Woman REVEALS ALL Of Her Red Flags

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Woman TRIES To Wizzle Her Way Through This Question Modern Women Don't Understand The Concept Of MARRIAGE

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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

194.8

Word count

2,191

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Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss cheating and how it's a huge issue in our society and in relationships. We discuss cheating, how to cheat and how cheating can affect a relationship. We also talk about cheating in general and the different types of cheating.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 have you always been like that where you could just have sex with no feelings or did that come 0.80
00:00:04.960 over time okay basically i truly believe that when it when it comes for you to cheat you just
00:00:11.960 need to go but i've been in situation when i told the guy i did it and they don't want to leave
00:00:17.640 they say okay cool i did it as well so we're good now
00:00:21.860 okay it's insane what i'm hearing from you seriously
00:00:28.080 no i really don't understand first of all i don't understand how you can say like
00:00:34.040 i want you no i don't understand i want you to explain me how for a man and a woman is the same
00:00:39.020 it's the same like the same feeling i don't know i don't know about other women i'm saying about me
00:00:44.120 i'm saying about me if so if my partner can go and do it i'm just gonna close my eyes and go and do it
00:00:50.280 you just need to feel the same feeling i'm not just gonna accept you okay cool you're a man you
00:00:54.900 did it and i'm gonna be okay fine what do you what do you get out of that you just finish it off
00:01:00.300 yeah but i'm saying like you just finish it off equally it's a bit immature i know i know that's
00:01:06.620 why i don't have no relationship i don't believe in relationship right now i don't believe none of
00:01:11.420 that stuff do you know that woman that's a study i've read i don't know if it's true or not do you
00:01:16.300 know that woman who goes with many men it's very difficult for them to find stability after
00:01:20.520 because they keep comparing with other men from the past did i say i went with too many men
00:01:26.720 this is what i said i said if i'm cheated i'm gonna cheat oh you know i think he's i think he's
00:01:33.180 asking because you you said that you can have sex without emotions i think every woman can i think
00:01:40.320 anybody can have sex without emotion it's happened to anybody in any situation drunk sober i'm sorry
00:01:45.620 like if you go and mostly girls when they drink we know what happens you just gonna you don't even
00:01:52.360 know what you just want that thing so that's without emotions you're drunk animal instinct 0.95
00:01:57.880 animal instinct you want to get the urge out and then you realize oh shit i came but now i came to 0.98
00:02:02.620 my senses you get it and i don't i don't even i don't even believe like um women cheat because 1.00
00:02:09.220 all emotionally all of that stuff women cheat because they upset women cheat because because
00:02:13.840 they didn't get enough attention women just gonna cheat over you don't you don't need to get 1.00
00:02:19.400 connected with someone you don't need to you're just gonna be upset you're gonna go you're gonna
00:02:24.520 feel like it's the moment do you like when you do it do what if you if you cheat on the guy who
00:02:30.440 cheated on you do you like the outcome do you get something out of it like you feel like you
00:02:34.300 you're not really but you do you just feel okay i'm not that hurt no more because i did it too and
00:02:38.880 you move on you i don't believe you should go back so i don't believe my my question is more
00:02:43.720 were you always like this where you could have sex without emotions or did that come over time 0.75
00:02:50.000 like like the first time you had sex do you think you could have sex without emotions
00:02:55.120 or did that come later um i think it just it just builds with um with time like with time and like
00:03:03.600 you expecting this is not this then you just get quotes yeah yeah no that's that's that's yeah yeah
00:03:11.020 okay um cheating different for men and for women i think so i mean i do agree i do think girls can
00:03:17.460 have sex and just be like no don't have any emotions just be like i don't have sex yeah and like 0.61
00:03:22.940 i got what i want bye don't see you again um but i think if it comes like proper cheating i think
00:03:29.400 indeed like i think what was said before there's a build-up for girls like there's a build-up of 0.98
00:03:35.880 that talking and like you know um at least i can speak for myself and i know some yeah others but
00:03:41.500 for guys exceptions yeah yeah yeah i think i think for guys i think in general guys i think quite often
00:03:46.820 it could be like yeah just sex um i also think for guys quite often can be insecurity i think a lot of
00:03:53.280 guys cheat because of insecurity they need constant that constant attention from other women and i
00:03:58.560 think it also i think it also could have to do with the fact i think women cheat out of insecurity 0.99
00:04:02.760 i mean yeah also i just like to fuck yeah but i think i think i think like a lot of guys at least 0.96
00:04:09.660 but i've also heard from like friends and others like where guys they feel insecure especially for 1.00
00:04:14.960 example if they're in a relationship with a pretty strong woman a woman who like she got her shit 0.99
00:04:19.780 together she got a job she got like she's successful she doesn't need him the fact when guys i think 0.98
00:04:24.600 when guys sometimes i think it's usually those women just degrade their the guy they're with 1.00
00:04:29.560 why would you think that because in my experience the women that say those things typically degrade 1.00
00:04:35.220 the guy they're with because they feel like they're better than him that's just a trend i've noticed
00:04:39.280 they'll downsize him yeah i wanna can i ask a question you agreed that men who are insecure
00:04:45.360 would cheat can i ask why because i'm unfamiliar with this concept in my mind uh not from my personal
00:04:51.860 experience because i've never felt in any way insecure not because my size my shape my color my form what
00:04:58.120 language i speak i've never felt insecure so it never let me to cheat if i decided to cheat is because
00:05:03.360 it was once upon a time and i had no understanding of what was concept of emotion
00:05:09.060 feeling or even relationship so based on what like you agree on this statement because i'm trying to
00:05:15.860 understand now yeah i agree from what i've heard people's experiences but then again not everyone has
00:05:22.820 the same experience not everyone has the same upbringing the same situation because in my understanding
00:05:30.980 a man who has like lack of confidence or he is insecure he is most likely to suffer with this
00:05:37.800 same woman and she will cheat on him internal he will suffer he will suffer internally and he will
00:05:44.220 keep taking abuse but he'll bite his tongue and he'll be like you know what i'm gonna try my best i'm
00:05:49.900 gonna do everything possible and then unfortunately in some situations either it doesn't work out and she 0.98
00:05:55.920 leaves or it seems like it's working out but in reality the foundation is deteriorating and it's
00:06:02.140 just a matter of time before the building collapse
00:06:03.940 i don't even
00:06:07.220 okay so i have a question would you delete your instagram for the right guy
00:06:18.660 me yeah delete my instagram i mean if a guy wanted me to delete my instagram i'd be like
00:06:24.680 whoa why why do you want to do that my instagram is pretty basic i don't i don't date women with 1.00
00:06:29.920 instagrams um instagram is the number one used dating app is it i've heard that yeah i have heard
00:06:36.760 that so i mean he says i just i want to i want a wife no dating app if he wants a wife and he's ready
00:06:42.820 to like and we we know that this is legit then why not but at the same time he should trust and
00:06:48.560 know me by that time that i'm not that he just says i just i'd just rather not take the risk i'd
00:06:53.820 just rather just like you know maybe i don't want to date a guy that goes to clubs yeah and you know
00:07:00.080 right so that's a fair ask yeah would you just give it up because he's the right guy i mean if he's
00:07:05.480 definitely the right guy yeah i don't care it's just a social media app who cares okay what about you
00:07:09.660 yeah okay what about you no no why not
00:07:12.820 also who hello who are you
00:07:14.620 i'm andrea i'm i'm a dentist okay and i was cheated i'm in the middle of a divorce because i was cheated
00:07:26.180 by my husband okay uh and i don't agree with what he was saying that women when they want to cheat
00:07:33.980 they will plan this in advance no i think even women or men if they want to cheat they will do it
00:07:41.080 no matter i didn't say that i say is building up building up planning in advance is the same
00:07:46.860 i don't think i don't think the reason is important i think we all cheat the same
00:07:51.280 and i would not delete something for someone at the beginning because this is something like
00:07:57.160 ownership you want you want me to do what you want but i don't have any guarantee that you're gonna be
00:08:05.900 the one where you deserve that do you think relationships require sacrifice yes okay so
00:08:12.440 why wouldn't you risk sacrifice instagram because i don't think our relationship is based on that
00:08:19.600 okay what if you what if you just says this is a boundary for me i know women we love our boundaries 1.00
00:08:24.500 and so manipulating you think it's manipulative yeah to ask you to delete instagram at the beginning
00:08:30.900 of the relationship yeah okay why because i don't think we trust each other so much at the beginning
00:08:36.840 is it is it manipulative if i say i don't date guys that go to clubs
00:08:40.600 in a way yeah because you don't type you don't date that type of man okay what about you would
00:08:48.040 you delete your instagram no i would not delete my instagram okay not even for the right guy
00:08:53.760 no he's rich rich handsome got a six-pack abs he says only the only one thing i need i just need the
00:09:01.680 instagram off the phone no i'll move you into my mansion i'll really no because i you know i'm
00:09:10.340 self-made i run my business through my instagram and that would be giving away something that's
00:09:16.000 dear to me and important and where i spend a lot of my time as well with work so um i think it's
00:09:23.060 quite coercive and what does coercive mean coercive is where someone goes if i give you this then
00:09:29.240 or if you do this for me then i'll give you that it's it's almost so it's it's if it's saying
00:09:34.240 it again if i give you this so if i give you something then yeah then you get something else
00:09:40.380 there's a reward perhaps like coercion is like trying to manipulate or to maneuver people into
00:09:45.160 a shape that you want them to be in so i don't agree with that so it's influencing somebody yeah but
00:09:53.100 it can be in quite a strong way like coercion is actually against the law in relationships yeah it
00:10:00.340 can be yeah because the feminists because the feminists ruin the laws so they just they just 1.00
00:10:04.380 make up these i don't i don't make i don't make the law but coercion is a very old word and it's
00:10:09.260 probably but but i think i go ahead but what you what you what you just defined is not coercion what
00:10:14.680 you define is called trade if i give you this you give me this that's literally called trade not
00:10:18.860 coercion i think let's get the dictionary out and look at i'm googling i'm telling you what you said
00:10:25.860 you said if i give you this you give me this there's many ways of naming something that is the
00:10:31.700 same action no normally is this is this is a trend this is just a trend i see with women it's like we 1.00
00:10:40.220 change the definitions of things and we like change words they don't mean anything can i can i say what
00:10:44.380 it means i googled it just yeah so and so the threat of force right exactly yeah yeah that's
00:10:52.100 the one that's in your definition the threat of violence or force yeah well it's forcing someone
00:10:57.960 to do something how are you not it's not you choose but then if you don't need this you didn't say
00:11:03.020 if i give you this you have to give me this by force no but if they don't want to have a
00:11:06.680 relationship with you because you will not give up your instagram then so that's all it's a free
00:11:11.320 world you don't have to you don't choose well then that's it moving on