JustPearlyThings - July 25, 2023


Promiscuous Woman REVEALS ALL Of Her Red Flags


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

194.80173

Word Count

2,191

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

11

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 have you always been like that where you could just have sex with no feelings or did that come
00:00:04.960 over time okay basically i truly believe that when it when it comes for you to cheat you just
00:00:11.960 need to go but i've been in situation when i told the guy i did it and they don't want to leave
00:00:17.640 they say okay cool i did it as well so we're good now
00:00:21.860 okay it's insane what i'm hearing from you seriously
00:00:28.080 no i really don't understand first of all i don't understand how you can say like
00:00:34.040 i want you no i don't understand i want you to explain me how for a man and a woman is the same
00:00:39.020 it's the same like the same feeling i don't know i don't know about other women i'm saying about me
00:00:44.120 i'm saying about me if so if my partner can go and do it i'm just gonna close my eyes and go and do it
00:00:50.280 you just need to feel the same feeling i'm not just gonna accept you okay cool you're a man you
00:00:54.900 did it and i'm gonna be okay fine what do you what do you get out of that you just finish it off
00:01:00.300 yeah but i'm saying like you just finish it off equally it's a bit immature i know i know that's
00:01:06.620 why i don't have no relationship i don't believe in relationship right now i don't believe none of
00:01:11.420 that stuff do you know that woman that's a study i've read i don't know if it's true or not do you
00:01:16.300 know that woman who goes with many men it's very difficult for them to find stability after
00:01:20.520 because they keep comparing with other men from the past did i say i went with too many men
00:01:26.720 this is what i said i said if i'm cheated i'm gonna cheat oh you know i think he's i think he's
00:01:33.180 asking because you you said that you can have sex without emotions i think every woman can i think
00:01:40.320 anybody can have sex without emotion it's happened to anybody in any situation drunk sober i'm sorry
00:01:45.620 like if you go and mostly girls when they drink we know what happens you just gonna you don't even
00:01:52.360 know what you just want that thing so that's without emotions you're drunk animal instinct
00:01:57.880 animal instinct you want to get the urge out and then you realize oh shit i came but now i came to
00:02:02.620 my senses you get it and i don't i don't even i don't even believe like um women cheat because
00:02:09.220 all emotionally all of that stuff women cheat because they upset women cheat because because
00:02:13.840 they didn't get enough attention women just gonna cheat over you don't you don't need to get
00:02:19.400 connected with someone you don't need to you're just gonna be upset you're gonna go you're gonna
00:02:24.520 feel like it's the moment do you like when you do it do what if you if you cheat on the guy who
00:02:30.440 cheated on you do you like the outcome do you get something out of it like you feel like you
00:02:34.300 you're not really but you do you just feel okay i'm not that hurt no more because i did it too and
00:02:38.880 you move on you i don't believe you should go back so i don't believe my my question is more
00:02:43.720 were you always like this where you could have sex without emotions or did that come over time
00:02:50.000 like like the first time you had sex do you think you could have sex without emotions
00:02:55.120 or did that come later um i think it just it just builds with um with time like with time and like
00:03:03.600 you expecting this is not this then you just get quotes yeah yeah no that's that's that's yeah yeah
00:03:11.020 okay um cheating different for men and for women i think so i mean i do agree i do think girls can
00:03:17.460 have sex and just be like no don't have any emotions just be like i don't have sex yeah and like
00:03:22.940 i got what i want bye don't see you again um but i think if it comes like proper cheating i think
00:03:29.400 indeed like i think what was said before there's a build-up for girls like there's a build-up of
00:03:35.880 that talking and like you know um at least i can speak for myself and i know some yeah others but
00:03:41.500 for guys exceptions yeah yeah yeah i think i think for guys i think in general guys i think quite often
00:03:46.820 it could be like yeah just sex um i also think for guys quite often can be insecurity i think a lot of
00:03:53.280 guys cheat because of insecurity they need constant that constant attention from other women and i
00:03:58.560 think it also i think it also could have to do with the fact i think women cheat out of insecurity
00:04:02.760 i mean yeah also i just like to fuck yeah but i think i think i think like a lot of guys at least
00:04:09.660 but i've also heard from like friends and others like where guys they feel insecure especially for
00:04:14.960 example if they're in a relationship with a pretty strong woman a woman who like she got her shit
00:04:19.780 together she got a job she got like she's successful she doesn't need him the fact when guys i think
00:04:24.600 when guys sometimes i think it's usually those women just degrade their the guy they're with
00:04:29.560 why would you think that because in my experience the women that say those things typically degrade
00:04:35.220 the guy they're with because they feel like they're better than him that's just a trend i've noticed
00:04:39.280 they'll downsize him yeah i wanna can i ask a question you agreed that men who are insecure
00:04:45.360 would cheat can i ask why because i'm unfamiliar with this concept in my mind uh not from my personal
00:04:51.860 experience because i've never felt in any way insecure not because my size my shape my color my form what
00:04:58.120 language i speak i've never felt insecure so it never let me to cheat if i decided to cheat is because
00:05:03.360 it was once upon a time and i had no understanding of what was concept of emotion
00:05:09.060 feeling or even relationship so based on what like you agree on this statement because i'm trying to
00:05:15.860 understand now yeah i agree from what i've heard people's experiences but then again not everyone has
00:05:22.820 the same experience not everyone has the same upbringing the same situation because in my understanding
00:05:30.980 a man who has like lack of confidence or he is insecure he is most likely to suffer with this
00:05:37.800 same woman and she will cheat on him internal he will suffer he will suffer internally and he will
00:05:44.220 keep taking abuse but he'll bite his tongue and he'll be like you know what i'm gonna try my best i'm
00:05:49.900 gonna do everything possible and then unfortunately in some situations either it doesn't work out and she
00:05:55.920 leaves or it seems like it's working out but in reality the foundation is deteriorating and it's
00:06:02.140 just a matter of time before the building collapse
00:06:03.940 i don't even
00:06:07.220 okay so i have a question would you delete your instagram for the right guy
00:06:18.660 me yeah delete my instagram i mean if a guy wanted me to delete my instagram i'd be like
00:06:24.680 whoa why why do you want to do that my instagram is pretty basic i don't i don't date women with
00:06:29.920 instagrams um instagram is the number one used dating app is it i've heard that yeah i have heard
00:06:36.760 that so i mean he says i just i want to i want a wife no dating app if he wants a wife and he's ready
00:06:42.820 to like and we we know that this is legit then why not but at the same time he should trust and
00:06:48.560 know me by that time that i'm not that he just says i just i'd just rather not take the risk i'd
00:06:53.820 just rather just like you know maybe i don't want to date a guy that goes to clubs yeah and you know
00:07:00.080 right so that's a fair ask yeah would you just give it up because he's the right guy i mean if he's
00:07:05.480 definitely the right guy yeah i don't care it's just a social media app who cares okay what about you
00:07:09.660 yeah okay what about you no no why not
00:07:12.820 also who hello who are you
00:07:14.620 i'm andrea i'm i'm a dentist okay and i was cheated i'm in the middle of a divorce because i was cheated
00:07:26.180 by my husband okay uh and i don't agree with what he was saying that women when they want to cheat
00:07:33.980 they will plan this in advance no i think even women or men if they want to cheat they will do it
00:07:41.080 no matter i didn't say that i say is building up building up planning in advance is the same
00:07:46.860 i don't think i don't think the reason is important i think we all cheat the same
00:07:51.280 and i would not delete something for someone at the beginning because this is something like
00:07:57.160 ownership you want you want me to do what you want but i don't have any guarantee that you're gonna be
00:08:05.900 the one where you deserve that do you think relationships require sacrifice yes okay so
00:08:12.440 why wouldn't you risk sacrifice instagram because i don't think our relationship is based on that
00:08:19.600 okay what if you what if you just says this is a boundary for me i know women we love our boundaries
00:08:24.500 and so manipulating you think it's manipulative yeah to ask you to delete instagram at the beginning
00:08:30.900 of the relationship yeah okay why because i don't think we trust each other so much at the beginning
00:08:36.840 is it is it manipulative if i say i don't date guys that go to clubs
00:08:40.600 in a way yeah because you don't type you don't date that type of man okay what about you would
00:08:48.040 you delete your instagram no i would not delete my instagram okay not even for the right guy
00:08:53.760 no he's rich rich handsome got a six-pack abs he says only the only one thing i need i just need the
00:09:01.680 instagram off the phone no i'll move you into my mansion i'll really no because i you know i'm
00:09:10.340 self-made i run my business through my instagram and that would be giving away something that's
00:09:16.000 dear to me and important and where i spend a lot of my time as well with work so um i think it's
00:09:23.060 quite coercive and what does coercive mean coercive is where someone goes if i give you this then
00:09:29.240 or if you do this for me then i'll give you that it's it's almost so it's it's if it's saying
00:09:34.240 it again if i give you this so if i give you something then yeah then you get something else
00:09:40.380 there's a reward perhaps like coercion is like trying to manipulate or to maneuver people into
00:09:45.160 a shape that you want them to be in so i don't agree with that so it's influencing somebody yeah but
00:09:53.100 it can be in quite a strong way like coercion is actually against the law in relationships yeah it
00:10:00.340 can be yeah because the feminists because the feminists ruin the laws so they just they just
00:10:04.380 make up these i don't i don't make i don't make the law but coercion is a very old word and it's
00:10:09.260 probably but but i think i go ahead but what you what you what you just defined is not coercion what
00:10:14.680 you define is called trade if i give you this you give me this that's literally called trade not
00:10:18.860 coercion i think let's get the dictionary out and look at i'm googling i'm telling you what you said
00:10:25.860 you said if i give you this you give me this there's many ways of naming something that is the
00:10:31.700 same action no normally is this is this is a trend this is just a trend i see with women it's like we
00:10:40.220 change the definitions of things and we like change words they don't mean anything can i can i say what
00:10:44.380 it means i googled it just yeah so and so the threat of force right exactly yeah yeah that's
00:10:52.100 the one that's in your definition the threat of violence or force yeah well it's forcing someone
00:10:57.960 to do something how are you not it's not you choose but then if you don't need this you didn't say
00:11:03.020 if i give you this you have to give me this by force no but if they don't want to have a
00:11:06.680 relationship with you because you will not give up your instagram then so that's all it's a free
00:11:11.320 world you don't have to you don't choose well then that's it moving on