JustPearlyThings - Psychologist Takes Shots At The Red Pill

00:00:00.000 i don't like the idea of like uh the like i know someone for example and they were married and now

00:00:07.680 and they have kids together and now they've broke up or whatever or divorced and um he's

00:00:12.000 gone to like start another family and i understand it because of his age but i think that

00:00:18.400 i don't know i don't know i i don't know maybe if the future

00:00:22.240 maybe that will determine i wouldn't get mad again i wouldn't get mad that's how i kind of

00:00:25.760 that's how i kind of look at the nick cannon thing because you think all right yeah 12 is

00:00:30.000 a bit extreme and whatever and obviously he's got like his health underlying conditions which might

00:00:33.680 play a point to it but if you were in a situation and you gave you all you got married you done it

00:00:40.080 the right way x y and z and you still and you got it just didn't work out yeah while you were still

00:00:44.000 young and then you get with someone new love of your life and you thought cool and she ain't got

00:00:47.920 no kids and she wanted kids you that you know i mean it can happen like that you can go the whole

00:00:52.560 way so unless that means he's doing it purely for her and that's even worse because then oh

00:00:58.480 you're doing it purely for somebody else you don't want it that's no different to having an

00:01:01.920 abortion yeah would you be against the kids but nick cannon don't you think it's weird that he's

00:01:05.600 just submitting to every woman you get dates you know it'd be interesting i'm just thinking

00:01:10.640 it would be interesting to see because i would imagine what most of the one parent household data

00:01:14.960 is like what one parent isn't involved in their lives so it'd be really interesting to see

00:01:20.000 what the data would say for like because i think nick cannon is involved in all of his kids lives

00:01:25.520 so it would just be interesting yeah i wouldn't recommend that yeah you know but again i just have

00:01:32.240 a hard time telling the world how to be and throughout all of history it's been multiple women for 1.00

00:01:36.800 a small select group of men so i just i'm not one to tell the world how to be it just is what it is i

00:01:42.320 wonder how mariah carey feels about his behaviors because she's like i don't understand why people will say

00:01:46.800 that it's like like respectfully it's none of her business but it's just uh yeah you can't deny her

00:01:53.440 status and then being associated with a bunch of baby mamas it must be feeling away like she went from 0.98

00:01:58.960 him to a billionaire that she was engaged in he went from her to a bunch of baby mamas i don't think it's

00:02:03.680 it's game it's just the game did she get married no i think that did she no she ended up marrying

00:02:08.400 getting with her dancer her backup dancer or something like that yeah i think it's

00:02:12.240 it's just falling off wow that's interesting it's the same yeah so she got engaged to the billionaire

00:02:17.840 and then she cheated with a background dancer oh my so like giselle that's a cycle yeah it's a real

00:02:23.040 thing isn't it when are we going to stop looking up to like celebrity couples yeah please when they

00:02:28.240 stop influencing us the point is that celebrity couples show what goes on in the real in real

00:02:33.360 society because when you see like okay let's take let's take johnny depp and amber heard you know you

00:02:38.160 could say oh that's a celebrity couple that's toxic but if that happened to a money with a man with power 0.99

00:02:42.560 money and status what happens to the average guy like maybe the guy getting cheated on maybe he just makes 80

00:02:47.520 a year 70k a year like he doesn't have to have as much money but the point is like the girl will 0.93

00:02:51.840 still cheat with your with her personal trainer and hit like and hitting i think that was good it

00:02:56.480 highlighted how many women hit men yeah yeah the hitting was really bad in that yeah yeah no 0.99

00:03:02.640 right and the other thing is he could only defend himself because of who he is yeah that happens like

00:03:06.400 you're saying to everyday guys yeah that's yeah like i've had i've done so many interviews with

00:03:10.800 people where it's like the girl abused me for like oh my gosh i had this one guy he was so sad he

00:03:16.720 told me the story where this girl was abusing him for years and like nobody believed him

00:03:21.600 oh and then it was like he finally left and then he was the bad guy like his whole friend

00:03:25.360 group like painted him out to be the worst person ever i had another guy he she was abusing him

00:03:34.160 like um and then she left and took half and took the kids it's so horrible that can happen even when

00:03:38.960 she cheats though yeah and then i guess women like women will always say why did she cheat what do you 1.00

00:03:43.600 mean why did she cheat here and all this yeah anyone who's single is probably just thinking

00:03:50.240 relationships that's why i'm against the division side of things because it puts people off and

00:03:56.720 really if you want a good society we should actually teach people how to be good with each other

00:04:00.640 rather than point out i mean i just think that's the feminine point of view but it's like from 0.94

00:04:06.000 like guys have had to see media saying men are trash for years and then it's like whenever we have a

00:04:10.560 conversation about what the women are doing the women have to come in and say oh but it's not all 0.99

00:04:14.720 women but this this this and this like what about men what about men but it's like we've had the

00:04:18.720 conversation about men for years i mean we had i don't got no scrubs like that was on that was a

00:04:24.720 front i know but we also had i get in the club and this that and the other and we've had that

00:04:35.200 you know you know that's a little disingenuous though because you know it's not the same you know

00:04:38.880 you know it's i'm not a feminist i'm not like a oh anti-men or anything like that but i am

00:04:44.080 anti both red pill and feminists become being anti-men because it's just the study of human 1.00

00:04:53.280 behavior red pill is anti-women though it's not anti-women because even if i if you read the comments

00:04:58.720 left by red pill men it can never be a rational debate it will never be like i disagree with this

00:05:03.520 it's like tell her where's her makeup from where's her and it's like so angry where you can't have

00:05:08.080 rational conversations with red pill men you can i'll watch these comments today i mean i mean i

00:05:12.400 think that sounds that sounds like a you problem because i have rational conversations on the red

00:05:16.960 pill side i have rational conversations with red pill men and if they were anti no stop interrupting me

00:05:21.840 stop interrupting me and if they were anti-misogynistic then i would have an issue but they're not but

00:05:26.880 you you say that you speak their language very few men will say pearl where's your ring very few men will

00:05:31.520 say they do it all the time what are you talking about wrong wrong wrong i was just on an interview

00:05:37.040 yeah i was grilled for two hours straight by a freaking blue pill beta i'm talking about red

00:05:42.480 pill no no listen listen listen to me what i'm saying i've had conversations with red pill guy 0.84

00:05:48.400 anti-marriage guy anti this this this this guy never had an issue the only issue i've ever had

00:05:53.600 in and got grilled on this that stuff was by a blue pill dude exactly what my point is red pill men will

00:05:59.360 never come for you because you speak their language but if you try and tell them rational

00:06:03.520 debates and give them logical answers that aren't regurgitated kevin samuel videos or anything

00:06:08.000 they'll come for you they really will and that's that's not true because when i started i wasn't

00:06:13.440 red pill i have two i have i have i have two years i have i have two years worth of videos the first time

00:06:21.280 i watched kevin samuels i did not say nice things about i was not a fan and i never had issues with

00:06:27.760 misogyny i never had issues with like women haters i just had the only thing they they debate is ideas

00:06:34.400 i mean i mean they might troll you a little bit if anything you won't experience it because you don't

00:06:38.800 speak no opposite language you're not listening to what i'm saying when i started on youtube i

00:06:46.400 did not agree with everything i had many and how many followers did you have compared to now 20 000

00:06:52.400 20 000 and now you're on i have more now what's your point what's your point but you you keep moving

00:06:57.520 the goalposts because you said you speak their language i said when i didn't speak their language

00:07:01.920 i had no issue so it's a you problem because even even when i when i did not speak their language i had

00:07:07.520 no issues well i can speak from my experience when i say any video that agrees with men like if i say

00:07:13.120 women shouldn't dress like this or feminism is this i'll get the men raving reposting moment you call 1.00

00:07:19.520 them out and say no no also men need to do this just to create a rational balanced dialogue

00:07:24.400 they turn into the male equivalent of feminists where they lose all their rationality and become 1.00

00:07:29.760 emotional and they'll start making personal remarks the exact same thing they accuse women of doing 0.96

00:07:34.000 they go to being personal when they don't have a logical argument does the comment section roast

00:07:38.240 you sometimes yeah but it doesn't bother me that they roast me they can say whatever they want but

00:07:42.960 the reality is it only happens when i don't talk their language and they have a display the same

00:07:48.000 emotional dysregulation as a feminist they claim to hate the feminists that say i hate we're men 0.99

00:07:53.280 all men are trash the red pill men when you don't speak their language it displayed the exact level 0.99

00:07:58.080 of femininity irrationality and personal remarks that we are always told that women do i mean i just 0.99

00:08:04.080 think it's silly to go on the internet and not expect to get bad comments like so so on both sides

00:08:09.920 on both sides so it's like did you get hate comments does that does that mean the whole red pill

00:08:14.240 movement when i've when i i'm the one who knows all of the people that lead the space i'm the one

00:08:19.120 who's met them you're basing your experience off of the comment section no i'm basing it off the red

00:08:23.760 pill community that i see and what i find okay have you met any of them in person any other than me

00:08:30.320 other than me well when you come and you you came back so so no i love this platform i really do love

00:08:36.160 it so so so i'm saying with the red pill men that you that you're talking about have you met any

00:08:40.880 yeah i've met any any any any content creators no content creators i've been in contact with a few

00:08:46.640 but online and stuff but not in person because they're usually american okay so so you haven't

00:08:50.560 even dealt with them and you're making an assumption about them but i can make an assumption based on

00:08:54.480 like you haven't dealt with feminists or whales or further but you can make an assumption because they 1.00

00:08:58.800 come for you right i can make an assumption based on the ones i've talked to in real life where i

00:09:03.360 was attacked but i've never i've never communicated with feminists but i've had feminists contact my 0.98

00:09:08.160 workplace and then try and get me fired i've had feminists that have come for my parents phone 1.00

00:09:13.600 numbers and address so i can make an assumption on them even though i haven't met them in real time

00:09:17.280 because i live you've never met a feminist i'm a feminist so you met me and yeah but i could still 1.00

00:09:22.000 make assumptions on the extremities of both red pill and feminism because i experienced both of them

00:09:26.800 in real life i've had my job contacted i've had my boss call me in and say this we've been sent this

00:09:32.480 i've had feminist posts repost my videos but that sounds like a crazy person rather than like a 1.00

00:09:36.880 person that has but the extremities on each end are as bad as each other it's as bad as each other

00:09:42.880 the red pill men are the male equivalent of feminists when they go to that extreme because what happens

00:09:47.840 with both of them is that they forget to incorporate their own experiences and they just have this mindset of

00:09:53.440 hate and anger and they're not even listening to the argument they just want to show say you're a

00:09:57.600 woman don't ask a woman what a man needs don't ask a woman about alpha no no no what speak rationally

00:10:02.880 have a rational discourse well i mean the the point they're making about don't ask a woman like what

00:10:09.040 you're talking about dating advice general like you can't ask a woman when alpha is can't ask a man what

00:10:13.360 high value well you can't ask a woman this what what are you talking about you can ask humans what humans do

00:10:18.320 yeah i mean you can ask but it usually they talk about dating advice like don't take dating advice

00:10:23.840 from women it's like are you asking the fishermen that that's usually what they're talking about 1.00

00:10:27.520 but then wouldn't that also apply then don't ask men for men advice because you don't ask the fish

00:10:32.080 like wouldn't that be don't ask men for men about advice about men well see no because men have had to

00:10:37.520 listen to what women have to say for years women don't have to listen to what men have to say

00:10:42.480 that's why it's so triggering a lot of times when i say things on this podcast like

00:10:46.000 men know what we want because they've had to listen to us for the last 20 30 years

00:10:51.120 but i i'll be honest um can we define like red pill and blue pill because i'm just thinking like

00:10:57.760 ibuprofen and viagra it sounds like um people that do you know do you remember menism it sounds like

00:11:10.480 it's that versus feminism is it is that right is that is that no i mean red pill is a praxeology

00:11:17.600 it's a study of human behavior that's what it is okay but what is it in real world like because

00:11:22.320 feminism is equal rights but really in the real world feminism how how is the how are the masses 1.00

00:11:26.960 perceived yeah how is it in real time what do you mean in real time like so i'm saying is this

00:11:32.320 based off the matrix red purple yeah yeah yeah yeah oh i kind of get it oh i ain't seen it so

00:11:38.000 maybe you ain't seen the matrix it's so shit everybody loves it i haven't seen the matrix 0.64

00:11:42.880 i haven't i haven't watched game of thrones yeah yeah no kids but how does the study of like human 0.91

00:11:47.520 behavior correlate to to the like this topic as in like how does it apply to dating and advice and all

00:11:55.280 of that what's the dynamic there how does it apply to date well so like gosh there's so much that goes

00:12:01.840 into it but it's just like women so for example they they study women like and why women do the

00:12:06.880 things they do so like women look for different things at different ages so like for example women 0.93

00:12:11.040 one thing they talk about is a woman's sexual market value so like when she's at her highest and 1.00

00:12:15.600 what she would look for when she's the most attractive to men so for example women in their early 20s 0.99

00:12:22.240 tend to look for looks well women in their late 20s to 30s tend to look for security and that so they 1.00

00:12:27.840 would say like these are the examples and yeah and then what makes some of them so triggered where

00:12:33.760 they just spew out hate and to any woman that has an opinion i don't know any content creators that do

00:12:39.280 that um i can't help the comments section so i think a lot of people like i think the difference

00:12:44.880 i know some content creators like fresh and fit i would say marlon i would say is very angry when he speaks

00:12:50.240 yeah no i don't i don't think so actually um i mean he just people don't like his tone and i think

00:12:57.040 women have an issue with his tone but no i don't think he hates women by any means does he come across

00:13:02.800 as somebody who has successful relationships with women and can have a marriage and a stable relationship

00:13:07.600 with women yeah i think he could i don't think he comes across it yeah i mean i would disagree i mean

00:13:12.160 i don't think they hate women um no i don't think that you don't think he insults the uh like the 0.93

00:13:18.560 women's mindset in general or anything like that i don't personally look at a specific example 0.92

00:13:24.480 he speaks to women in general how he speaks what he says so he might say something like um well you're

00:13:30.640 20 once a woman's more than 25 she's got no value and if you ever got a ring you haven't got an opinion 1.00

00:13:34.640 women can't define high value women can't define alpha men women don't have uh can't solve any of 0.95

00:13:39.520 men's problems women can't let me start let me start with the the 20 like because you're giving 0.80

00:13:44.720 me a bunch so what was the first one you said 20 women over 25 yeah they have no value yeah i mean 0.99

00:13:50.640 i don't think that's misogynistic but no every every age has a cutoff so every guy is like

00:13:57.120 every guy has a your mom has no value my mom has no value yeah i've talked to my mom about this in

00:14:02.800 the sexual marketplace no good luck my mom on the dating scene you're telling me my mom like i love

00:14:09.600 i love you mom i love you he's talking about not it's not personal words it's sexual market value

00:14:16.080 so i mean most guys will date a girl for 25 if she looks good true true so maybe maybe he's pickier he

00:14:22.720 prefer girls under 25. the point is women under over the age of 25 typically we've had our heart broke

00:14:28.080 hearts broken and men have to deal with that so it's easier to get with a younger girl who hasn't 0.99

00:14:31.600 easier it hasn't had trauma okay do you want do you want to grow with more trauma or less trauma

00:14:36.240 guys i didn't ask you ask them then more trauma or less trauma less trauma more trauma or less

00:14:40.640 trauma more trauma less trauma okay so so so this is this is as women we listen and say i understand

00:14:47.040 that instead of trying to argue and tell you them what they want yeah and i'm not going to be

00:14:50.960 offended is my mom going to do well on the dating market with 10 kids i'm not on a dating 0.97

00:14:56.720 my of course not but i don't think no i didn't mean it in sexual i meant in general as a value

00:15:01.760 as a person but uh i can speak for somebody when i was 21 and then going to 25 i genuinely think i

00:15:07.920 did more reflection and became less traumatized as i was turned 25. i personally felt like i was far i

00:15:13.760 was so volatile at 21 i was so impulsive at 21 as i became older i became less of a burden to a man

00:15:21.040 but we're not talking about you we're talking about in general humans yeah okay we're more

00:15:25.040 emotional and volatile i'm saying like in general we're not talking he doesn't know your specific

00:15:30.880 story so so if if we're talking to the men and the men like andrew tate it said something similar

00:15:37.280 women over the age of 19 and they're and they're saying no he gave the age of 19. and he and if

00:15:43.040 they're saying we prefer the women younger yeah like why are we to tell them what they want no no you

00:15:47.680 i think i think it should be with a younger woman i really do think younger is more beautiful and

00:15:51.840 especially when it comes to having kids but it's also saying things like oh women can't define 1.00

00:15:56.240 what makes a man women have no definition of what makes an alpha biological term but i think but no 0.99

00:16:02.080 the point no the point they're making though is that like for a man to be alpha or to be high value

00:16:07.520 he has to be selected by other men first like other men have to respect him first before the women can 0.96

00:16:12.880 come in and so that that's that's what they're talking about it's not a woman disqualified for 1.00

00:16:17.760 realizing or not being able to make because you can look at a monkey and decide which one's alpha

00:16:22.640 you don't have to be other other men have other high value men have to recognize him as a part of

00:16:27.920 the group so so i mean we're kind of interchanging high value and alpha but but when it comes to high

00:16:33.440 value men that's what they're talking about yeah is the other high value the other no because the other

00:16:38.240 high value men have to recognize him as part of the group and can low value man realize a high value

00:16:43.440 man i think most men when they walk into a room they can they can just naturally tell there's a

00:16:48.880 there's a hierarchy there's definitely a hierarchy with us and women can tell as well they can't as a 1.00

00:16:53.600 cap yeah we can tell when someone's high and low value you think so how did they interact with other guys

00:17:00.160 yeah and then how did the tinder swindler get so successful 0.95

JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023

Psychologist Takes Shots At The Red Pill

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