JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Psychotic Woman Does The Unthinkable


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Length

9 minutes

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212.03766

Word count

2,102

Sentence count

20

Harmful content

Misogyny

24

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Hate speech

22

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In this episode we talk about crazy women and how to spot them in the dating world. We also talk about how to deal with crazy women in the real world and what to look out for when dating a crazy woman.

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00:00:00.320 Every guy what's like every guy has an attraction floor, so I don't I don't know what you let's let's say seven is yours
00:00:07.180 So for girls at one girls a seven and one's a nine. Are you giving the nine more wiggle room?
00:00:10.920 Am I giving the nine more wiggle room?
00:00:12.920 Oh, yeah
00:00:14.920 If the seven even breathes wrong
00:00:20.920 That's one of the reasons why hot girls are crazy. They get they can be they can be a lot more 1.00
00:00:26.240 Yeah, it's not about to do with the looks, you know, it's a deal with some notes. It's the energy
00:00:39.060 Okay, so it's more to do with that then just looks a little bit. That's a that's toxic. That's toxic relationships for you
00:00:43.600 Yeah, you know this I broke can honestly honestly um
00:00:46.360 Do you think like like a nine gives it better than that seven because I personally think sevens give it way better than the night
00:00:52.640 Do they feel like they have to work harder? I don't know what nines you get
00:01:00.860 Maybe maybe I feel like the pretty you are the less you kind of do in bed because the ones that aren't as great as the rest that they work 1.00
00:01:07.400 They were it's this gym antics when we go into a night
00:01:10.100 I think it's more to do how crazy she is is it how crazy or how beautiful she is that determines what that determines what? 0.75
00:01:15.820 Her passion. Yeah, that's what they usually say. It's more to do with her instability crazy in the real world is linked to 0.70
00:01:21.740 Passionate in that world. So more to do with looks. It's more instability
00:01:25.740 Unstable women tend to be more passion. It's the roller coaster of emotions that they face. Yeah, you get if you are 1.00
00:01:31.740 And then like I'm an intense person and so I've had intense relationships prior, you know
00:01:37.420 So and that's based on how you make them feel like you described as well
00:01:41.340 But also if they're a little bit crazy like but in
00:01:45.900 Intense relationships and toxic relationships they're lit, but obviously
00:01:52.220 They're unsustainable. I mean like when you wake up and there's like someone standing over you with a knife
00:01:57.260 You just
00:02:01.260 Happened to you? Yeah, yeah, but it was a different girl who tried to push me downstairs 1.00
00:02:05.020 Yeah, but I'm like you're like five foot you need to check
00:02:14.460 Yeah, they like to make up for one if guys the short man syndrome is the same
00:02:17.660 Can I carry? I just wanna okay, okay, let's just break this down. So so I won't be you
00:02:21.900 Wait, you woke up and she had a knife. Yeah. Yeah, why?
00:02:27.100 Yeah, everyone says that what do I do?
00:02:29.100 What did you do? I'm just kidding. What did you do? I don't know
00:02:33.340 To be honest, I probably aggravated her like I was but the thing is I used to be a savage
00:02:37.740 I'm not you know respectful man man like now
00:02:39.580 How angry she was at that? What's the reason? Did you call the police?
00:02:43.580 Nah, no, I actually just said look what you didn't you're gonna make me a sandwich with that
00:02:50.940 But to be fair, you know what is I don't I will say this though. I haven't
00:02:54.140 I used to not be very self-aware so I used to do things and then see why someone would get upset and think
00:03:01.020 What's their problem?
00:03:01.820 Upset that she will actually hold a knife
00:03:03.660 Yeah, but I'm like I just think oh, she's just being crazy
00:03:06.220 But now you know your own red flag
00:03:07.980 Yeah, but when you start analyzing
00:03:09.660 Yeah, but she's crazy. I'm sorry. There's no excuse
00:03:12.700 There's no excuse
00:03:13.420 Exactly, that's what
00:03:14.380 Especially if she knows that I use your character beforehand as well
00:03:16.780 Yeah, there's no excuse for that
00:03:17.900 Yeah, that's bad
00:03:19.100 I mean, but you sometimes I think
00:03:21.180 It's good to take accountability
00:03:22.300 You can like drive people to things you don't realize what you're
00:03:25.580 I think you can make people crazy
00:03:27.580 I think you can
00:03:28.300 And like when you look back and you're like, okay
00:03:30.060 As a woman, I think I can definitely make a man crazy 0.99
00:03:32.540 No
00:03:33.100 But that is way too much holding a knife, that's extreme
00:03:35.340 No, I just
00:03:36.060 I just think
00:03:36.700 I think you have to have it in them, but you as a person can definitely ignite the worst side of a human being
00:03:41.980 Yeah, I agree
00:03:43.660 I agree
00:03:44.140 I think you're either crazy or you're not and you either have it in you or you don't
00:03:48.220 There's a baseline
00:03:49.260 I've been in a toxic situation where I very well could have acted crazy, but that's not my character
00:03:54.060 I wouldn't do that
00:03:54.940 So you're either the type of person to do that shit or you're not
00:03:57.260 I don't
00:03:57.820 I disagree
00:03:58.300 But the way
00:03:59.020 You disagree
00:03:59.500 Have girls ever brought out the worst in you? 1.00
00:04:01.180 Because I know I've done it
00:04:02.220 And I'm like, that guy used to be nice
00:04:03.020 Listen, before I get into any situation, I have a look at myself and I say, listen, if it gets peak, I'm walking
00:04:09.260 The best thing to do
00:04:10.540 How are you so grounded like that?
00:04:12.940 Yeah, but that's
00:04:13.260 Yeah
00:04:14.060 I'm around attractive women all the time 1.00
00:04:15.340 There's no, there's nothing
00:04:16.060 You can't
00:04:16.940 You need to look at it like this, yeah
00:04:18.380 Before I met you
00:04:19.980 You were
00:04:20.380 Before I met you, you were just an attractive woman 1.00
00:04:22.140 And then we got together and the feelings grew and all this kind of stuff
00:04:25.660 But I don't need you in my life
00:04:27.260 I didn't need you before
00:04:28.220 So I can still live without it, do you know what I mean?
00:04:31.340 So yeah, have that talk with yourself though, because otherwise you get lost in the sauce and it's crazy
00:04:36.300 And you might do something stupid and then you might be in jail or something like that and she's moving on anyway, it's done
00:04:41.180 Yeah
00:04:41.820 For real, for real
00:04:42.920 You might be in jail
00:04:44.160 Yeah
00:04:44.760 That's crazy
00:04:46.320 It gets like that
00:04:47.580 It gets like that
00:04:48.400 Some situations, man
00:04:49.840 There was an interesting scenario though, when I caught someone with their thumb, trying to put my thumb on my phone in my sleep
00:04:59.380 But I caught them mid
00:05:00.840 Mid-thumbage
00:05:01.720 That's standard, that's not even crazy, that's a standard
00:05:03.960 How is that standard?
00:05:05.580 That is the most, like, you know, in those moments, I'm not even angry, I'm just, it's just, you must be so embarrassed
00:05:11.020 It's a human being, exactly
00:05:11.620 You got caught, you must be so embarrassed
00:05:14.660 Who said that's standard?
00:05:16.700 So I said that's standard
00:05:17.700 I don't know how that's standard
00:05:18.920 That's crazy
00:05:19.620 But it's going through phone standard, I don't think that's standard
00:05:22.540 I mean, they always try to snoop, like sometimes, I mean, sometimes you can get baited out, but whatever
00:05:28.460 They always have that inkling as well
00:05:31.180 And if they, there's nothing worse than a woman's intuition 1.00
00:05:34.120 She might not have any evidence, but her intuition is enough
00:05:36.800 So then she goes looking for the evidence
00:05:39.180 And you just don't want to do that
00:05:40.960 Do you know what it's like here?
00:05:42.360 That's embarrassing
00:05:42.720 If you had a business, you would do audits, right?
00:05:45.560 Yeah
00:05:45.920 Okay
00:05:46.480 It's only this whole, it's the notion of a man, you know, caring so much to look through
00:05:51.480 But I think, I'll say it like this, if you felt like you was gonna, you was with her for a while
00:05:56.100 And you weren't really, and you felt like something was up
00:05:57.860 I understand why certain men do
00:06:01.500 Personally, I wouldn't, just because I don't even want to feel worse on that side
00:06:06.360 So if I feel something's up, I'll just walk, I'm just like that now
00:06:08.580 Yeah
00:06:08.960 But um
00:06:09.640 Sometimes it's not that deep, especially like when you feel something, like really feel something for her
00:06:13.780 You might be thinking, let me not make the crazy part
00:06:16.100 Let me just see if it's actually, if it's not, then babe, I'm sorry
00:06:18.860 But then when you do, because I've been in that situation, I actually came across what I thought it was
00:06:22.920 You do end up going on the crazy side of it, because you end up feeling into what you already thought
00:06:28.080 Yeah
00:06:28.580 Because deep, like, you could have found nothing, and you almost feel like Columbo
00:06:32.560 You're like, yes, I found something, but then you've got that, you've got that energy
00:06:35.500 You're here now, you're here, now what, now what, like, what are you gonna do now
00:06:39.000 And the thing is, if you find something, if you do look, and you find something, don't just nag them
00:06:43.080 Like, leave, innit, do something
00:06:44.200 Yeah, just leave
00:06:44.960 You know what I mean, you wanna keep the person around and then just punish them
00:06:48.360 See, I think modern women, I think they like being cheated on 1.00
00:06:51.160 I swear to God, because the amount of girls that come on my show 1.00
00:06:53.700 Like being cheated on
00:06:54.100 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because they never leave
00:06:55.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
00:06:56.420 But then you could say they're like modern men, because they like the baddest bitch in the room 1.00
00:06:59.440 Yeah, I mean, I don't, see, it's interesting
00:07:00.640 And she's gonna cheat 1.00
00:07:01.500 You know what's interesting, especially with you and, like, other girls that come on the show
00:07:04.720 Whenever we talk about women, like, they always have to say, but men 0.99
00:07:07.180 Because it's balance, it's about balance
00:07:09.220 No, but, but this is, it's like, it's like, we don't, we don't, we don't go into the women's conversation and say
00:07:14.360 And to the women's conversation and say, but men
00:07:17.940 But why don't we just say, but people
00:07:19.620 But people
00:07:20.780 Why is it so divisive?
00:07:21.940 Because this is my podcast
00:07:23.280 I know
00:07:23.780 But, like, it's, like, kind of, like, entitlement
00:07:26.780 You wanna come on here and tell me how to run my podcast and how to run the conversation
00:07:30.400 Isn't it the case, but, isn't it both?
00:07:32.780 Like, it's like, I know, but sometimes you can make a statement about women without saying, but men
00:07:36.640 The same way we could make a statement about men without saying, but women 0.85
00:07:40.340 Like, I just think, I think the genders are different 1.00
00:07:43.460 There's different things
00:07:44.800 But when, when something applies to both genders, like men being cheated on women
00:07:48.300 Now we know that men and women cheat equally 0.73
00:07:50.020 So why wouldn't we say people these days prefer because they choose top quality
00:07:54.180 Women cheat more 1.00
00:07:55.500 So what does that tell you about modern men?
00:07:57.580 They're choosing cheating women 1.00
00:07:58.780 So why are we being divisive?
00:08:00.320 Other men stand with the cheating
00:08:01.980 Men are biologically predispositioned to be repulsed by women that cheat 0.79
00:08:08.080 But if women are cheating more, what does that tell you? 1.00
00:08:09.920 She's getting with men 1.00
00:08:10.920 Men are choosing cheating women 1.00
00:08:12.500 But the thing is, the men aren't staying with that woman
00:08:14.400 But they're choosing cheating women 1.00
00:08:16.300 We said that
00:08:16.880 But they're not, not for a relationship
00:08:19.160 They're choosing women 1.00
00:08:20.100 And then they just cheat
00:08:20.660 But how do, then how come women are cheating more? 1.00
00:08:23.260 If men aren't choosing these women
00:08:24.660 Yeah
00:08:24.840 Well, how are they cheating more?
00:08:26.840 If I'm not chosen, I can't cheat on anyone
00:08:28.800 Yeah, but
00:08:29.020 So I'm being chosen
00:08:30.260 As a cheat
00:08:31.220 Because women, women get away with cheating more 1.00
00:08:32.940 Women are way sneakier than men 1.00
00:08:34.240 But you can only do it if we're being chosen
00:08:36.360 No, not anyone
00:08:37.400 Anyone can do that
00:08:38.060 And even when you're chosen
00:08:40.220 Married women cheat as much as married men 1.00
00:08:42.180 Okay, this is my point
00:08:43.760 So my point actually
00:08:45.100 So you're kind of derailing the combo
00:08:46.660 So not even talking about this
00:08:47.900 The reason I think wilder women like to be cheated on 1.00
00:08:49.720 Is because they catch him cheating
00:08:50.920 They never leave
00:08:51.660 And I've had girl after girl after girl after girl
00:08:53.500 And sometimes they do
00:08:55.200 But whenever I ask, when did you leave?
00:08:57.180 It's never when they catch him cheating
00:08:58.480 It's like when he stops
00:08:59.660 It's like
00:09:00.340 Too late now
00:09:01.780 It's like
00:09:02.640 No, no, no
00:09:03.060 It's like they cheat
00:09:03.800 They catch him
00:09:04.940 And then six months later
00:09:06.020 Then you leave
00:09:07.200 Why?
00:09:08.420 You could have left when he was cheating
00:09:10.680 So in my head
00:09:11.760 It's like when he's cheating
00:09:12.860 When she has actual evidence of him cheating
00:09:14.540 She stays
00:09:15.320 When she has no evidence of him cheating
00:09:17.360 She leaves
00:09:18.040 So modern women like to be cheated on 1.00
00:09:20.200 That's my point
00:09:21.000 Modern men
00:09:21.880 I've never heard men say
00:09:23.380 Oh, I was cheated on
00:09:24.820 I've never heard men say