JustPearlyThings - April 06, 2023


Racist Girl Gets Caught In Her LIES


Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

212.90775

Word count

2,428

Sentence count

273

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

sentences flagged

Toxicity

17

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Hate speech

25

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about sexual harassment and how it can make you feel unsafe when out in public with men. We talk about our experiences with sexual harassment, how we deal with it and how we have dealt with it in the past.

Transcript

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Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 I think sometimes the way, even the way a guy will approach you can make you uncomfortable.
00:00:04.840 I'm a confident person and I've had guys approach me that's made me feel intimidated.
00:00:09.880 I've given guys my number just so that this interaction can end.
00:00:13.600 I've had some, I went to a party one time and the guy was like, I think he was the security
00:00:17.440 at the venue and I left and I didn't realize he was following me and I'm walking down a
00:00:21.000 dark road.
00:00:22.000 I get in my car.
00:00:23.000 Thankfully, as soon as I get in the car, I locked the doors.
00:00:25.000 I locked the door.
00:00:26.000 He's like, he's like, Oh, with that, trying to get my attention.
00:00:29.000 I was like, Oh, I'm not interested because this is, I feel unsafe in this situation.
00:00:33.100 He stood there.
00:00:34.100 He stood there getting his phone out and he's talking to me and I'm looking at him like,
00:00:37.100 bro.
00:00:38.100 And I was annoyed cause I was in a tight space.
00:00:39.100 I couldn't just kind of just drive off.
00:00:40.700 So I think some guys, it can be like, it's just the way they approach you.
00:00:45.000 They don't approach you in a way that makes you feel comfortable.
00:00:48.000 I'm with you, but I'm saying that's the majority.
00:00:51.100 That's my, that's my problem is when, and you guys are saying that's the majority of men.
00:00:54.860 So that means six out of 10 guys are approaching you in that way.
00:00:57.860 We're not saying it doesn't happen.
00:00:58.860 In those countries.
00:00:59.860 We're just saying it's not the majority of men.
00:01:01.860 Maybe like, okay.
00:01:02.860 I'm using the words, I'm using, I'm using the words that you say.
00:01:05.860 Okay.
00:01:06.860 I'm not saying majority men will physically grab me, but they will try to come in my personal 0.96
00:01:10.860 space.
00:01:11.860 They might try to put their hand around me.
00:01:12.860 They might try to touch my arm.
00:01:13.860 I just think what, what world are you in that six out of 10 men are approaching you?
00:01:16.860 And the thing is, the young lady at the end, I don't know her name.
00:01:21.860 The young lady at the end.
00:01:22.860 I've had lots of friends go to Morocco and depending on where they go, it depends on how
00:01:27.860 they get treated.
00:01:28.860 And the tourist areas, people that approach people.
00:01:32.860 And when you travel, so it might be the majority in that particular area.
00:01:37.860 Well, that's the only majority I can speak about.
00:01:39.860 No, but you're saying the majority of men in Morocco.
00:01:42.860 No, no, no.
00:01:43.860 That's not how I started.
00:01:44.860 That's not how I started.
00:01:45.860 Hold up.
00:01:46.860 Sorry.
00:01:47.860 That's what you said.
00:01:48.860 No, no, no.
00:01:49.860 That's not how I started.
00:01:50.860 I said, I, I said there's in this country, we have these protections in other countries.
00:01:55.860 We don't.
00:01:56.860 And when I've traveled to other countries, it's obviously going to be touristy areas.
00:01:59.860 Men have been quite in my space. 0.75
00:02:01.860 And then I asked you, is it the majority?
00:02:03.860 Majority of men in that time have been in my space.
00:02:05.860 I said in those countries and you said yes.
00:02:08.860 Well, I promise to God, we will clip this.
00:02:10.860 I can't speak to the whole country.
00:02:11.860 Can I say that?
00:02:12.860 I do think that as much that she can go to Morocco, I can go to Morocco.
00:02:16.860 We go to the exact same place.
00:02:17.860 I mean, it can be different experiences.
00:02:18.860 So I think each person's experience, whatever they say, whatever conversation they have,
00:02:22.860 is going to be based off their experiences.
00:02:24.860 It could be a thing where when she does go out, maybe she goes out seven days a week,
00:02:28.860 maybe four out of seven days a week, she feels harassed by men.
00:02:31.860 And that's, that's how we can travel to the same places.
00:02:34.860 Okay.
00:02:35.860 Okay.
00:02:36.860 This is dangerous.
00:02:37.860 This is, this is that.
00:02:38.860 I know what you said right there.
00:02:39.860 Stop.
00:02:40.860 But that, that, that, that is dangerous.
00:02:42.860 You feel harassed.
00:02:43.860 Were you harassed?
00:02:44.860 Yes.
00:02:45.860 Feeling harassed is not harassed.
00:02:46.860 No, no, no.
00:02:47.860 If I feel harassed, it's because I've been harassed.
00:02:49.860 Yeah.
00:02:50.860 What is, what is harassment?
00:02:51.860 Being harassed and feeling harassed is different.
00:02:53.860 What is feeling harassed?
00:02:54.860 What is feeling harassed?
00:02:55.860 Feeling harassed.
00:02:56.860 You could be walking down the road and the man could be walking behind you and you turn
00:02:58.860 right, he turns right, he turns left, he turns left.
00:03:00.860 You might feel harassed.
00:03:01.860 He's actually going the same direction you are.
00:03:03.860 Okay.
00:03:04.860 And then you can be, the man could follow you, talking to you, excuse me, can I have your
00:03:07.860 number, can I have your number, touch you, can I have your number, following you.
00:03:10.860 That is being harassed.
00:03:11.860 Okay.
00:03:12.860 That's what happens.
00:03:13.860 The being harassed happens.
00:03:14.860 So him following me every step I'm taking and trying to get my number is what happens.
00:03:18.860 So we're not saying that it doesn't happen.
00:03:19.860 We're just saying it's not the majority of men.
00:03:21.860 Okay.
00:03:22.860 And like I said, maybe again, my figure, my figure might attract a lot more men than someone
00:03:27.860 or someone else might be size six and not attracted, right?
00:03:30.860 Men might not be attracted to that.
00:03:31.860 My figure might be what attracts them.
00:03:33.860 And when I go on the streets of Marrakesh, they might feel like, Ooh, this is a nice one.
00:03:37.860 I don't know.
00:03:38.860 I can't say my experience with someone else is going to be exactly the same, but what I have
00:03:41.860 experienced when I have gone to certain countries, I have been physically touched.
00:03:45.860 And again, maybe it's cause I'm too smiley.
00:03:46.860 Sometimes when I'm too smiley guys think they can physically just come and get a bit more
00:03:51.860 comfortable.
00:03:52.860 So I've had to be a bit more standoffish.
00:03:53.860 Okay.
00:03:54.860 I'm going to read super chats.
00:03:55.860 Um, guys, make sure you like the video.
00:03:57.860 That is the most important metric that YouTube uses to push out these live streams.
00:04:01.860 So if you think this is entertaining, you like the topics that we cover and you think
00:04:05.860 it's important that people watch, make sure you like the video.
00:04:08.860 Um, we are using all super chats to get blessing an 8k camera.
00:04:12.860 We're going to be filming some reaction videos.
00:04:14.860 Um, and we, I want you guys to see the freckles on my face.
00:04:18.860 That is what I want.
00:04:19.860 I want to be so clear.
00:04:20.860 You can literally see the freckles on my face.
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00:04:27.860 We're about, I don't know, 2000 short from that.
00:04:30.860 So make sure you send, um, donations for that.
00:04:33.860 Zero fallout one, the men that approached her were from, from Greenpeace, um, making sure
00:04:38.860 she wasn't accident accidentally harpooned 90 free to pay. 0.81
00:04:42.860 Women act like celebrities. 1.00
00:04:43.860 They treat men like paparazzi.
00:04:45.860 The men in your life are sad.
00:04:46.860 You view men as bad.
00:04:48.860 We love you.
00:04:49.860 Auntie, um, Christopher Surdak, um, approach her for her figure only to offer some salary
00:04:54.860 and a diet book.
00:04:55.860 Um, zero fallout.
00:04:56.860 She's a Madison, um, tracks, uh, advances from attractive guys are accepted differently from
00:05:01.860 less desirable guys doing the same approach.
00:05:04.860 It's Russian roulette for a guy to approach women. 0.68
00:05:06.860 They don't know whether she'll accept you.
00:05:08.860 Bill, Bill, Chris, why are we complaining?
00:05:11.860 Western men, Western men with men from third world countries and acting like they're the 0.99
00:05:15.860 same public sculpture.
00:05:17.860 Sadly, the truth is that it's more beneficial to be a toxic man than a nice guy because women 1.00
00:05:22.860 will choose the toxic guy over the nice guy.
00:05:24.860 I'm Christopher Surdak pillow girl.
00:05:26.860 Just accept that you're a misandrist and call it a day.
00:05:28.860 You will never be married 90 free to pay.
00:05:30.860 90 free to pay.
00:05:31.860 There's a study of men of a man on dating sites telling women he's a pedo, but still
00:05:35.860 got dates because he was hot based on their messages to him.
00:05:39.860 Jesus Christ.
00:05:40.860 Um, Peter Mitchell, um, for the girl in the black, I would treat you right. 0.72
00:05:44.860 And I have my own goals.
00:05:45.860 Like auntie said the sex though, but I wouldn't cheat or do you wrong.
00:05:49.860 Um, dub man, Pearl explained to women that we don't care about their money because we're 1.00
00:05:53.860 not going to, we're not going to be able to spend your money.
00:05:57.860 Christopher Surdak using words without knowing what they actually mean or making up definitions
00:06:02.860 based on your feelings.
00:06:03.860 This is the definition of modern women. 1.00
00:06:05.860 Men use words to describe reality. 0.99
00:06:07.860 Women use it to try to change. 1.00
00:06:09.860 It came all you girls don't know how a hard, our hard on works.
00:06:14.860 We wake up.
00:06:15.860 It's there.
00:06:16.860 It's, we are thinking B or B thinking.
00:06:18.860 It's there.
00:06:19.860 We go to bed.
00:06:20.860 It's there.
00:06:21.860 Bin fact.
00:06:22.860 It doesn't show up when we worry.
00:06:23.860 It's our Terry Crews.
00:06:24.860 90 free to pie pie, not pay.
00:06:26.860 Please, please.
00:06:27.860 The super chats a little bit slower.
00:06:29.860 Um, 90 free to pie.
00:06:31.860 Sex isn't the main thing, but I don't buy a house just for the bathroom.
00:06:35.860 Don't let me use it once a month.
00:06:37.860 Don't respect.
00:06:38.860 Don't restrict me.
00:06:39.860 Cheating for man is providing resources for another woman, not sex. 0.98
00:06:43.860 We don't care about the nuts.
00:06:44.860 Women thinking cheating is sex, but also say that sex is just physical. 1.00
00:06:49.860 The UK economist.
00:06:50.860 Is it true that women enjoy sleeping with a non-committed man, but not with a provider 0.82
00:06:54.860 husband. 0.98
00:06:55.860 90 free to pay who let garbage batch doll speak passive aggressive AF girl beside 1.00
00:07:00.860 auntie keep up the good work of splitting up the family. 1.00
00:07:03.860 Um, almighty T on auntie is spitting. 1.00
00:07:06.860 Now these, um, Oh, these modern women are lazy. 1.00
00:07:10.860 Um, Fox, that man doesn't want you. 0.99
00:07:12.860 He will either sees you as just sex or he knows something about your past that he doesn't
00:07:16.860 forgive you for, but won't tell you.
00:07:18.860 Um, broke homes need to go to jail. 0.72
00:07:21.860 Um, she's got a big reason.
00:07:22.860 The money thing is cap.
00:07:24.860 Tim Neuroth all excuses.
00:07:25.860 I'm married.
00:07:26.860 We both work together and know that we are both not perfect.
00:07:29.860 I acknowledge I'm wrong.
00:07:30.860 She acknowledges she's wrong, but I can't, I can see here.
00:07:34.860 You haven't said anything about your critiques.
00:07:36.860 Always someone else's fault.
00:07:37.860 Sadie daughter, six years old, traumatized at uni by a guy.
00:07:41.860 She keeps bringing up.
00:07:42.860 Could it be daughter is six years old, traumatized at uni by a guy.
00:07:47.860 She keeps bringing up.
00:07:48.860 Could it be the kid is his and not her husband's could explain the separation.
00:07:51.860 Um, LSA call him Russell Warren.
00:07:54.860 Love it.
00:07:55.860 Um, Ruma.
00:07:56.860 God bless you.
00:07:57.860 You look as tired as most men feel. 0.89
00:08:00.860 And we do this every day.
00:08:01.860 These young women better believe the altruistic ideals as much as they can and not see the 0.64
00:08:06.860 correct path.
00:08:07.860 Isn't white or black, but gray.
00:08:09.860 Um, almighty TN.
00:08:10.860 She's capping.
00:08:11.860 She was the problem.
00:08:12.860 LSA shorty with the tire pig or tiger pillow is all caps. 0.78
00:08:17.860 Doom tracks.
00:08:18.860 If he's not where he wants to be, if he's not where it wants to be, wouldn't it be a great
00:08:23.860 idea to be that woman who would help him get there?
00:08:25.860 Wouldn't that make your bond with him stronger?
00:08:27.860 Knowing you were with him at the start.
00:08:29.860 Um, Boz. 1.00
00:08:30.860 Auntie told us how to keep a man a few shows back.
00:08:33.860 A few shows back.
00:08:34.860 Full belly, empty sack and peace.
00:08:36.860 Um, zero fallout.
00:08:37.860 She is a former 304 disguised as a trad con traditional con artist. 0.77
00:08:42.860 No wonder her husband doesn't want to get back with her.
00:08:44.860 She's full of cap tracks. 0.96
00:08:46.860 Um, she's a walking contradiction says one thing, um, but does another tries to get herself 1.00
00:08:50.860 out of the contradiction loop, but buries herself deeper and goes to add gas to the fire. 0.96
00:08:55.860 And some of the girls agree with her.
00:08:56.860 Um, how Cheryl Chad here, first time caller, the separated wife is genuine. 1.00
00:09:01.860 She's looking to figure out the female proverb of Jane Austin in the, in the streets and 50 shades
00:09:07.860 in the sheets.
00:09:08.860 Ask cool auntie how to regain proper femininity. 1.00
00:09:10.860 She brings to the bedroom spice. 0.96
00:09:12.860 The couples are looking for, um, Russell Warren.
00:09:15.860 Interesting.
00:09:16.860 Um, Doug MPA, the girl on the couch is a typical Western woman, encouraging broken homes 1.00
00:09:21.860 and single parenthood. 0.95
00:09:22.860 Black culture is lost. 1.00
00:09:23.860 What a shame. 0.99
00:09:24.860 Goku with Hellcat.
00:09:26.860 Wow. 1.00
00:09:27.860 That woman is dishonest as hell. 1.00
00:09:28.860 Russell Warren lead by example. 0.99
00:09:30.860 Don't worry about teaching lessons.
00:09:31.860 It usually comes off sideways.
00:09:33.860 Uh, Paula, what she is saying is if a better option, if a better option than my husband
00:09:38.860 will appear, I'm gone.
00:09:39.860 Life is not a fairy tale, fairy tale.
00:09:41.860 Go back to your husband and work out with your family. 0.71
00:09:43.860 Um, Karen Hunter, ma'am in the back.
00:09:45.860 It doesn't matter.
00:09:46.860 They're already together.
00:09:47.860 So they should get it together.
00:09:49.860 They, the, the, through the obstacle, the strength is gained.
00:09:53.860 Um, Tim Jennings, hot take. 0.76
00:09:55.860 Both parties are responsible for sex. 0.52
00:09:57.860 Men have a duty to protect women's purity and women have a duty to value their only purity. 1.00
00:10:02.860 Um, Dubman. 0.99
00:10:03.860 Pearl asked the panel.
00:10:04.860 If a guy told you, I want to be with you and still have other woman, would you say? 0.95
00:10:08.860 Sounds great.
00:10:09.860 Thanks for being honest.
00:10:10.860 Alistair Horton.
00:10:11.860 Sigh.
00:10:12.860 More evidence of motion is a weakness.
00:10:14.860 It's consistent and endless.
00:10:15.860 Um, Ona.
00:10:16.860 Hi.
00:10:17.860 I live in Nigeria.
00:10:18.860 We don't like baby mamas. 1.00
00:10:19.860 Oh, that's from the last show.
00:10:21.860 Oh, shoot.
00:10:22.860 Oh. 1.00
00:10:23.860 Damn. 1.00
00:10:24.860 What? 1.00
00:10:25.860 Um, oh wait.
00:10:26.860 No.
00:10:27.860 No, I lied.
00:10:28.860 That was from the show.
00:10:29.860 Okay.
00:10:30.860 Sorry.
00:10:31.860 They keep going.
00:10:32.860 Um, Omi Roma. 0.95
00:10:33.860 If his woman drains him every day, he will not have the energy to do so. 0.99
00:10:36.860 Um, Rasu.
00:10:37.860 Bezos' ex-wife is already getting a divorce. 0.91
00:10:40.860 Um, Tim Jennings.
00:10:41.860 After watching the past eight episodes, it seems like abstinence is the way to go.
00:10:45.860 Solves all the problems.
00:10:46.860 No comparisons.
00:10:47.860 No messy relationships.
00:10:48.860 Making dating choices based on all the other stuff besides sex.
00:10:52.860 Grindr.
00:10:53.860 Women will mess up your car if you tell them the truth. 1.00
00:10:55.860 Okay.
00:10:56.860 I actually, it's funny they brought up Jeff.
00:10:58.860 Oh, does anyone have anything to say to the super chats?
00:11:00.860 I'm sorry.
00:11:01.860 I didn't say them.
00:11:02.860 That one.
00:11:03.860 That was super fast.
00:11:04.860 Yeah.
00:11:05.860 Yeah.
00:11:06.860 Um, there's always a lot.
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00:11:14.100 on this platform.
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