JustPearlyThings - October 30, 2023


Reality Hits Fat Woman In Her Face


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

176.05797

Word count

1,782

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this week's episode, we discuss: 1) Why is there still a stigma around weight loss in America? 2) Why is it so hard to lose weight in America and 3) Why do we care so much about what other people think about our bodies? 4) Why does it matter if we are skinny or fat? 5) Is beauty subjective or objective?

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00:00:00.000 original vows yes I want to clarify that because yeah I have spoken to people I
00:00:06.540 know and asked them about the vow of to just I think it's to submit and obey
00:00:12.780 and almost everyone says that they chose to have that taken out that's the main
00:00:16.760 part of marriage I think that's disgusting yeah so I guess the summary
00:00:21.840 of all of this is that marriage by the state is designed for women correct yeah
00:00:27.180 a thousand percent you want to pull up the video King do the song one first
00:00:33.180 so I was on Twitter I saw this amazing song I actually I covered that I covered it on
00:00:43.920 Pearl Daily today wanted to get you guys's take um oh my gosh
00:00:51.360 my grandma paid me by the pound said I should try to slim it down went to meetings with my mom
00:01:09.300 less I ate the more they applauded being hungry made me feel so proud
00:01:16.300 still not full yet ten years
00:01:23.300 didn't know why to hate myself till I learned it from someone else didn't see what was wrong with me just live in my body did my best to lose the weight
00:01:43.300 did my best to lose the weight hoping the hurt would go away but damn skinny feels just the same
00:01:53.300 I'll always carry it in my body
00:02:01.300 um okay so Christine what'd you think of that
00:02:07.300 there's a lot is that a joke she's joking right no no I think it's serious yeah
00:02:16.800 so I don't know I thought potential heart disease feels the same as not potential heart disease is that
00:02:23.300 what she's saying I guess I don't know I I was thinking that was such a good opportunity like money wise I was like you can make like 200 bucks
00:02:31.300 she said she tried really I mean no doubt she can sing right oh 100
00:02:35.300 great pair of lungs yeah but you I tried so hard I mean if you tried that hard you wouldn't look like that
00:02:44.300 but she said that so she said being skinny and being big is the same so
00:02:49.300 skinnier version of her now
00:02:50.300 where's the skinny version
00:02:52.300 yeah they should have showed her
00:02:54.300 yeah they should have showed her
00:02:56.300 show the comparison of
00:02:58.300 what do you what do you think of the song Sterling
00:03:00.300 that's an American accent right yeah
00:03:02.300 yeah I'm pretty sure that it sounds like American
00:03:04.300 I think the thing that people get so wrong with like
00:03:06.300 weight loss is like
00:03:08.300 they think it's a case of oh like
00:03:12.300 endless like you need like endless discipline and you track every calorie and all this kind of stuff
00:03:18.300 it's it's a lot it's a lot easier to lose weight if you just have a bit of an education about like
00:03:24.300 hormones and how they affect your body like
00:03:28.300 like you want it look at this lady over here 1.00
00:03:30.300 yeah it looks stunning for her age
00:03:34.300 right the way you're the way you're eating is producing a certain result in your body right
00:03:40.300 it's and and being American like I guarantee that woman is eating food that is empty 1.00
00:03:46.300 it's empty there's nothing in it
00:03:48.300 she's she's she's but she's starving herself as well
00:03:51.300 yeah it's just that she's still
00:03:52.300 she'll tell you what my breakfast was
00:03:54.300 but that woman what I was gonna say was that woman even though she's like even when she's not starving herself she's still starving herself yeah
00:04:02.300 because there's nothing American food is the biggest pile of trash it's all poison so everything she's eaten even when she's trying to eat
00:04:09.300 yes that's why you gotta grow your own chickens and grow your own cows and stuff
00:04:12.300 and then she can probably do it because American land is very cheap but like even if she's trying to like eat healthy and stuff it's gonna be like low fat 1.00
00:04:20.300 it's gonna be packed full of sugar it's just there's so much deception around like weight loss and how to do it correctly
00:04:25.300 it pisses me off honestly when I see a woman like get that woman could be gorgeous 1.00
00:04:31.300 yeah she could be gorgeous 1.00
00:04:32.300 why isn't she gorgeous 1.00
00:04:33.300 she's because she's quite overweight 1.00
00:04:35.300 so weight equates equates to beauty
00:04:39.300 it doesn't make you prettier that's it doesn't make you prettier
00:04:42.300 you will get prettier when you are at a healthy weight
00:04:46.300 but I think pretty is subjective
00:04:49.300 to your opinion
00:04:50.300 not to men
00:04:51.300 I think so
00:04:52.300 no it's not
00:04:53.300 because the men with the most option date the same types of chicks
00:04:57.300 so it like it's like saying like men that can't sleep with anyone else
00:05:01.300 will sleep with ugly overweight chicks but the men with the most options don't do it 1.00
00:05:06.300 you look at Leonardo DiCaprio if you look at the hottest most successful men who they pick
00:05:10.300 people are hot according to whoever is looking at
00:05:13.300 so this is a question that has pondered in human history for as long as we can remember
00:05:18.300 and I actually did a video on my channel go check it out guys is beauty subjective or objective
00:05:23.300 but the point is there has to be an objective standard for beauty
00:05:27.300 otherwise how have we decided what we like all over history
00:05:32.300 take it away from human beings right
00:05:34.300 we can all agree that certain architecture is more beautiful than other architecture
00:05:39.300 so there is an objective standard there that we are aware of at least most people are somewhat aware of
00:05:45.300 but I feel like people feed themselves this lie that because people have certain preferences to things
00:05:51.300 that they might find attractive in someone that say someone else might
00:05:55.300 that doesn't take away from the fact that there is such thing as objective beauty
00:05:58.300 they've done multiple studies on this that find for example people whose faces are more symmetrical
00:06:03.300 most people will agree that those people are more attractive than people who have less symmetrical faces
00:06:08.300 there's actually something called the golden ratio which is a number that appears in all of nature
00:06:13.300 I'm talking across cells to plants to human beings to buildings
00:06:18.300 I can't remember the number now for the life of me
00:06:20.300 it's like a really crazy number like 6.18 something something something
00:06:24.300 but when you see this ratio reflected in a human beings face
00:06:28.300 not only that in their body as well like how their body looks
00:06:31.300 there is an objective standard that generally most people will find attractive
00:06:36.300 that's not to say like everything there is always exceptions to the rule
00:06:40.300 but there is an objective beauty standard that's not something created by society
00:06:44.300 to make people feel bad about themselves that's just human nature
00:06:47.300 in the same way that peacocks they do that thing where they display themselves in a certain way
00:06:51.300 that's because the other peacocks will agree we like that
00:06:54.300 and we can't forget that we are animals too and we do have something that we all like and can agree is mostly attractive
00:07:01.300 okay
00:07:02.300 well said
00:07:03.300 most men just like women 1.00
00:07:06.300 women they like it 1.00
00:07:08.300 what did you think of the song?
00:07:10.300 hey
00:07:12.300 she sounds hurt
00:07:14.300 she
00:07:16.300 she seems sad
00:07:18.300 well my question is I don't understand why she took it as an insult
00:07:23.300 when like clearly you're gonna have more problems later on if you're heavier
00:07:28.300 and like you can either take it as an insult and be the victim
00:07:32.300 or you can take it as your family trying to love and to help you
00:07:35.300 try to incentivize you to save your own life
00:07:37.300 yeah
00:07:38.300 yeah
00:07:39.300 what do you find for people that want to lose weight
00:07:42.300 what do you think the best way to do it is?
00:07:44.300 I think something more along the lines of like
00:07:46.300 carnivores
00:07:47.300 maybe not necessarily like extreme carnivore
00:07:48.300 but like just
00:07:49.300 like I personally like the structure of the paleo diet
00:07:53.300 because it's basically just
00:07:54.300 and people misconstrue it as actually being like full on carnivore
00:07:57.300 but it's really
00:07:58.300 all it really is is like eat meat and veg
00:08:01.300 it's no carbs isn't it?
00:08:03.300 it ain't that complicated
00:08:04.300 not necessarily
00:08:05.300 you can eat like you can add potatoes and sweet potatoes
00:08:07.300 or is that keto?
00:08:08.300 potatoes and sweet potatoes are fine
00:08:09.300 keto is totally no carb
00:08:11.300 that's an extreme
00:08:12.300 but like
00:08:13.300 if you eat paleo
00:08:14.300 you're basically eating like
00:08:15.300 a colorful array of vegetables
00:08:17.300 good meat
00:08:18.300 a few carbs here and there
00:08:19.300 it's
00:08:20.300 but it's all
00:08:21.300 it's real food
00:08:22.300 yeah
00:08:23.300 it's actually food
00:08:24.300 you know it came out of the ground
00:08:25.300 you know it didn't come out of a factory
00:08:26.300 it's really
00:08:27.300 it's not
00:08:28.300 that ain't rocket science
00:08:29.300 that's actually really really simple to do
00:08:30.300 yeah
00:08:31.300 and you can
00:08:32.300 and if you just know like
00:08:33.300 all you need is like two or three good recipes
00:08:35.300 you'll get shredded
00:08:36.300 but you know what
00:08:37.300 before all of that
00:08:38.300 you need to have the right mindset
00:08:39.300 you have to want it
00:08:40.300 yeah you need that want
00:08:41.300 you need to be in that right frame of mind
00:08:43.300 absolutely
00:08:44.300 to even get to that
00:08:45.300 because all the food we eat nowadays is so addictive
00:08:48.300 it's so
00:08:49.300 it's designed to like get you hooked
00:08:51.300 yeah
00:08:52.300 and if we're talking about the food that you said
00:08:54.300 sorry
00:08:55.300 you said the family is essentially incentivizing her to better herself
00:08:58.300 you know
00:08:59.300 a lot of
00:09:00.300 I can hear in my head a lot of people saying
00:09:02.300 oh but you know they could they could put it nicer
00:09:05.300 and you know we should we should Kate how she feels
00:09:08.300 this really bugs me
00:09:09.300 this idea that how you deliver a message
00:09:13.300 if you put it nicer it's gonna make a difference
00:09:16.300 actually the truth is
00:09:18.300 the biggest change comes from the harshest delivery
00:09:21.300 if you are told something
00:09:22.300 if someone really really insults you
00:09:24.300 that automatically in your brain
00:09:26.300 hopefully if you've got a healthy mind and not a victim mindset
00:09:29.300 that says well I'm gonna prove you wrong
00:09:31.300 whereas if I go you know
00:09:35.300 I've noticed that you maybe you're getting a bit bigger
00:09:38.300 how do you feel
00:09:39.300 like that gives the person who's receiving that message
00:09:41.300 every excuse under the sun to go
00:09:43.300 well they're still being nice so
00:09:45.300 it can't be that bad
00:09:46.300 whereas if you're straight up
00:09:48.300 you are gonna kill yourself
00:09:50.300 you're huge
00:09:51.300 they're gonna go shit right
00:09:53.300 and get their act together
00:09:54.300 it's more abrupt
00:09:55.300 yeah
00:09:56.300 as harsh as it sounds
00:09:57.300 but actually I think harshness can be the kindest policy
00:10:00.300 because it just it gets it done
00:10:02.300 it's it's it's a sharp you know
00:10:04.300 rip the plaster off it
00:10:05.300 it gets it done
00:10:06.300 yeah I mean