RED PILLED MILLIONAIRE Gives His Thoughts On Cold Approach
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss how old is the perfect age to date and how old should you be if you're in a relationship with someone you're interested in dating. We discuss the age range of women in the modern dating world and the age at which is ideal for a woman to date.
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what is the perfect age to date for you guys two years two years older two years older two
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maybe a year younger two years older okay three years maybe four that's no more than that okay
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what about you um yeah i'll say two years older okay
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to say plus minus two but i think uh issue with my age range is a lot of people have a little bit
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maturity differences so yeah i'd say plus minus two well i'm married for 10 years we're the same
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age we're both 40 yeah if you were to date again what age would would you do um be careful dimitri
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no that's actually that's fine like no like that's actually a really interesting question there's some
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depth to it you know i'll tell you you could even say if you had a friend dating at your age no no
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i would say i would say this like when i was when i was let's say 25 26 and i was to be asked if i
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find 40 year old women attractive i would have said no like it was just it'd be weird to think that way
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but i've noticed myself now like uh my like i still find my wife very beautiful i like i do and if i
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didn't like we'd have a problem um and and i and i think like for me like as i've gotten older i found
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like now i look at a 20 year old chick and i'm like that just looks like a teenager to me it's like you
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know when you're in high school and you see a college kid they look massive it becomes the
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opposite when you get older i just look at 20 i'm like are you like 15 like i can't really tell
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that well anymore it's crazy um but i mean if i mean realistically as a 40 year old man probably
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anything 24 let's say and up is pretty reasonable like chicks it's a lot of it's like the chicks
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still go for it yeah they do so they're pretty wide range i mean look at pacino he just had a kid
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with a 27 year old he's like 77 78 80 he's 80. i'm curious how old would you guys be if he looked
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good would you date a 45 year old no no 40 no 35 no 30 oh she's yeah you're not 35 yeah like 32
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probably 33 no come on like the most beautiful women in the world are like look at anthony kitas
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from the from the red hot chill he's like 60 and like i would i would never probably 40 year old
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schwarzenegger's girlfriend's like 38 or something he's 76 like like like but you say no because you
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want a virtue signal but come on these guys aren't dating ugly 30 year olds they're dating beautiful
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30 year olds yeah but is it because of their status obviously it is obviously it is i'm not saying why
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would it not be of course it is so if a man is high status enough you're going to be like no i'm sorry
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like schwarzenegger like it's like no you're going to be like cool but i do not think it depends on
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what someone or what depends on the individual wants in the relationship probably yeah so but but
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again we're looking at high status very old men that are like pushing 80 or are 80 and they still
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have seemingly have no problem getting 26 and 30 year old women to want to be with them so like i'm just
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looking at the big data right but then like say if you were to bring like a gold digger situation
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oh sorry i know you're okay uh you know what um age men peak on dating apps for plenty of fish
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probably around 42 would be my guess say late 30s 37 it's crazy i was so surprised when i saw this
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i'd say probably 40 45 50 really yeah i know guess what age women peak 22 28 i was i bet it's older
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but it's actually i'll probably say the same 18 18 18 yeah yeah yeah well they've done smell they've
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done smell tests for men and men will still pick younger women just based on smell yeah wow but for
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the men the 50 year olds that are on there has to be like a selected amount like has to be all silver
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foxes or a higher percentage because you wouldn't assume there's that many average or below average 50
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year olds on tinder you know i i mean there aren't most people on it was plenty of fish but i think
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like didn't you say 80 of people on dating apps like don't get any sweat yeah 50 of people like if you
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get one match on like tinder then you're in the top 50 you're like like half of men never get a match
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ever i think i read this or i see this somewhere online and it's true like if you're most compatible
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you will show up to more people whereas if you don't get swiped so you're not gonna go you're
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not getting women only swipe right five percent on the time so if you go on a date with a guy from
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a dating app it's it's probable that he like basically he has a ton of options because if
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you got on the date that means like he's part of the five percent that women are swiping on
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most likely scary isn't it yeah i mean you think of it yeah but that's why relationships are so
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fucked up because i feel like that's the number one way people are meeting under 30 nowadays
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that's the number one way yeah is dating apps so it's like all the girls are going on the same
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dates with the same guys i mean haven't you seen those stories on like tiktok where the girls are
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like oh my god we went on the date with the same guy you know you know what a great opportunity though
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like for a man that is a little bit more brave a little bit more cunning like to to learn how to
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approach and talk to women in real life that like the premium on that now the amount of points you
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get for doing that now because so few because when i was growing up right like again i'm from
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i'm the pretender generation like i met my wife in real life that's how people dated we'd walk
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around with blue balls and we'd have to like be desperate and approach women no but i grew up in
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a time too like we didn't have high speed internet when i was like 18 that was just coming in right
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and so there was no visual stimulation to get yourself off so you're just always horny and that
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like that desperation you're just like i'm just going to approach and talk to women because
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otherwise i'm never going to see a boob so it's like now you know that's been completely like
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destroyed right men are just destroying their own testosterone and drive and risk seeking behavior
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but for a guy that's like a little bit more ambitious if you learn that skill to like approach
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women the premium you get in status is insane because nobody's doing it i agree i completely
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agree with you and that completely agree if i was to be approached somewhere it because no one does
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it no one no one does anything like that nowadays yeah at all it's that chivalry is pretty much
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in the pan yeah because women killed it yeah they have and i think it's it's probably a really
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popular opinion like opinion coming from a woman but like they have they totally have they have
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because it's like women will will call men creepy if they approach like i know so many guys that have
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gotten not i don't want to say so many but i've met guys that have like gotten kicked out of gyms
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just for like looking at a girl too long like someone will go to the manager i know i know more
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than one guy that's happened to yeah so it's like but notice that they're getting kicked out for not
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approaching that's actually a big misconception you're like oh they're getting kicked out for
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approaching no they're getting kicked out like it's like the friend zone thing like you're not
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in the friend zone because because you asked her out and made your intent clear you're in the friend
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zone because you didn't and you didn't right so so that's actually a really important distinction
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like if you approach a chick in the gym you're like hey you're really cute i know it's the gym
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this is crazy okay whatever whatever you say i'm not i'm not purporting to be a po you guys do
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your thing right but getting that tension out of the way gets that tension out of the way
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like you're being you're being told you're creepy because you are being damn creepy