Red Pilled Millionaire Makes This Dating Mistake
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss red flags on a first date and how to spot them. We also talk about our own red flags and why they are important to look out for in a potential partner. We hope you enjoy, sit down, and have a nice drink.
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Just keep your sound on in case they, I'll let you, you put your sound on.
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If we're talking about surface level red flags, it has to be not taking care of yourself.
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So the way that would show up on a first date would be drinking, vaping.
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Okay, and will you ghost after or will you send her a text like you're not interested anymore?
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It has to break a major barrier to even get to that point.
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So I'm not even risking, I'll never risk being on a date and then finding out about the red flag.
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I have to have a high level of confidence to even.
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So you have to like be friends with her first before you take her on a date?
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Not to say friends, but be, you know, familiarized.
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You wouldn't meet her off of an app or anything?
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I mean, you could meet, but it'd have to be like some, some investigations and some interrogation.
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Could be ghosted, could be very straightforward and just let them know.
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Well, so again, it's like how you meet the person matters.
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Like for example, today in 2023, I find that some women, I'm seeing the internet and it
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That would be a very big red flag, an immediate disqualification.
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But if I were to be honest, like, cause I can talk more honestly now, cause like I have
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Like, that's just like, sorry, but like you made a critical error in your decision making
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and I see you as a risk, uh, to any potential, anything period.
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And I can go much deeper into that, but that's like a, that's a miscalculation on your part.
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So, but you wouldn't know if she was fat before the date.
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Well, again, I'm saying it's like the context of what do I know?
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Because like, like I can see, obviously like we can get catfished into that.
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So if you misrepresented yourself, that's like, you're immediately an untrustworthy person.
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I mean, how transparent, I mean, again, like there's, you can list them all go on.
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Like, like the thing for me is like, transparently, like I'm a salesman and I know like I am, I
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am a salesman and like, as a salesman, my goal is always to close.
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And so when I went on a date, like transparently, my goal was to get laid and it was specifically
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entirely to get laid and everything I did and the way I optimized my actions through, and
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that sounds like a psychopath, but the way that I optimized my actions through a number
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of iterations of dates was like, I want to get laid on this date.
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Um, and, and, and again, I'm going to get like super castigated for this in the comments.
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Like I had gone on enough dates because I'd started approaching women and I started like,
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I'm not at the level of these risks guys now are, but I was very passionate about that
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because I like to make myself uncomfortable and cross the barrier into the new comfort
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I pick up the phone, I cold call and I learned to iterate, optimize, and then transform time
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Um, and I became extremely proficient at like the meet and close.
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Like I'm going to meet you and, you know, within about three hours, because I'm going
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to, you know, this dilute time through taking you to various venues, whatever the, that stuff
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was at the time, that's, what's going to happen.
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Um, so I don't know if I could, so maybe she stays the night, but she did something and
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I'm asking like, what would make you not call a girl?
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Um, I think, I think, I think what happens is over time is if you are successful that you
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start to notice some pretty resounding patterns.
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Like if a girl says, I never do this, it means she always does it, you know?
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Uh, so if a girl starts to give me signals of virtue that I know she's actually covering
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for the fact that she is promiscuous, um, which is very, I, okay.
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I, it is incredibly, um, hypocritical of me to say that obviously if I'm optimizing to
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get late and I'm saying, well, if you do it, then you're whatever.
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Um, but yeah, signals of non purity and non chastity would be, would be big.
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Um, one of the things that I absolutely, some examples other than that.
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Like, like, for example, look, when you're in a context of a date, like she absolutely
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You're just trying to make it, you know, seem like it's not happening, even though it's
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like, it just happened, but you know, it's clearly happening.
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Um, you know, if a woman exhibits more masculine behavior, for example, like it's very clear
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that like a woman that makes decisions and acts like a man is, is more promiscuous and science
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has actually proven that and backed that up as well.
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Um, but I'll say this one thing that really attracted me to the woman that became my wife
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is that it was very apparent to me that she really wasn't that experienced, um, in being
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Like it was very clear to me because, and this is why, this is where I have a divergence
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with a lot of people that follow your channel, because I'm generally a pretty conservative
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But then guys, and then you would say, well, so you're saying you should date to marry.
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I'm like, no, as a man, you should date to get laid because you want to learn about
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the nature of women, understand the patterns that they exhibit and make yourself the best
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version for the woman you'll eventually marry and be dangerous and have those options.
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And a lot of guys are like, you can't say that you're just giving out your body.
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Like you got to learn how for a woman to actually, to actually want you.
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Like that's, that's a really difficult skill to learn and a worthy one.
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Um, but for me, like if I can tell that she's more promiscuous, um, and you can tell
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those patterns very quickly once you've seen enough times, obviously that's like, okay,
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I can't escalate, but I'll, but I may have kept her around for other means and
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Well, so she was, I mean, I, I got what I deserved.
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She was a stripper, but I was, I was young at the time.
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Um, and she was like, just, she actually approached me.
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And there's a club and like, I think the sub penthouse or the penthouse floor in the
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Like she just looked like, I was like, I was blown away that she's talking.
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And then, and then I find out she's a sports fan.
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We go to a sporting event and there's all these, you know, players on the, on the, uh,
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in the arena playing whatever I was in the sport.
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And, and there was, I think 10, 10 players on, it was a hockey game.
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And she had like gone through and she had slept with eight of them.
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And then, and then she started like, this was after a few months that we'd been like
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I was young and, but, but she was so hot and sexually, she helped me grow so much
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because she was so sexually, like, she was just like taking me on a ride.
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I was like, this is, I'm calling my friends, guys, this is the greatest thing I've ever
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I'm like, I thought this was the greatest chick ever.
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It's like, no, she had, she owned a house in the early twenties.
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And then, and then it came out all the famous, cause she's asking me one time, did you ever
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So my other time I'm like, no, at that time I hadn't.
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And then, and then I realized that for her, she was one of those groupie chicks that like
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her, her confidence grew because she was able to get guys that other women couldn't
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because these guys actually could reject women.
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And then I'm like, and I'm like, holy crap, man.
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Like, no wonder she's blowing my mind sexually.
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And I realized right away, I'm like, oh, I can't take her seriously anymore.
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But I was infatuated because I just, you know, I, I was in my early twenties and when a woman
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that's that hot that she can sleep with eight list celebrities is giving you some, you're
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But, but obviously like, no, as a wife, like that, that would be a terrible decision.