JustPearlyThings - August 25, 2023


Russian 304 Meets Her Maker

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Gary Jesse Brooks Kate
Modern Woman REBUKES This Fact On Promiscuous Women This Happens When Women Make Decisions

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

188.87

Word count

1,731

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

25

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

12

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a good housework partner and how to deal with conflict in your marriage. We talk about how to be realistic in our expectations and realistic in the expectations you set for your significant other, and what to do when conflict arises.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 this couldn't happen with me and my wife her job is the dishes it's her complete responsibility 1.00
00:00:05.400 I also cannot ask her if I do the dishes because it's an insult to the position however if she 0.98
00:00:10.880 asks me to help her do the dishes I will help because I care enough to do so doesn't that
00:00:15.460 sound like a partnership I feel like it works better when we are both striving to help love
00:00:19.440 and serve each other yep and when the conflict comes what happens so guys I want to point
00:00:25.500 something out women wanted to work a lot of women will complain that like men now we have to have 1.00
00:00:33.980 two incomes no no no no no no women had the choice to stay home and we chose to work and my thing is
00:00:41.260 if you're going to choose to work please do not complain about the outcome I've seen women on 1.00
00:00:46.780 TikTok that are literal doctors and she still comes home and cooks her husband dinner every night 0.92
00:00:55.500 and guys think think about this do you think most men most husbands if the women said 0.88
00:01:01.000 I really don't want to work I want to stay home and be with my kid genuinely do you think most guys
00:01:06.900 will say no or do you think most women work because they want to have a career 1.00
00:01:12.020 uh genuinely so Gia says my husband doesn't do housework ever and I I responded I said it actually
00:01:21.140 helps women to be realistic in our expectations rather than expect things we cannot have
00:01:26.480 and she says a hundred percent now you know the simps come in I hope both of your significant others
00:01:34.040 help out around the house in the near future you too can raise your expectations it takes very little
00:01:39.060 effort to wash dishes or a load of laundry no I won't be red pilled I help my wife around the house
00:01:44.700 when I can being red pilled means listening to the philosophies of pickup artists when they said
00:01:49.800 me man she woman we work she cleans now you know it's interesting I think the average screen time
00:01:56.020 of a chick is like six seven hours a day so it's like okay if we find the time to go on our phones 0.75
00:02:02.660 for like six hours a day we can't find the time to cook to clean um you know and this isn't saying
00:02:10.320 the husband can never help you most men are willing to help but the idea is that you are supposed to
00:02:16.840 serve your husband that is the role of the wife to help me and yet women will expect their husbands 1.00
00:02:23.220 to work full-time and serve their every feeling their every need and that's not how it's supposed to 0.99
00:02:29.880 work no I don't like waking up to a dirty kitchen I care all right I care I busted my ass all day
00:02:37.260 cleaning this house and then cooking that meal and I work today it would be nice if you said thank 0.99
00:02:41.560 you and helped me with the dishes fine I'll help you do the damn dishes oh come on you know what no 0.98
00:02:48.260 that's see that's not what I want you just said that you want me to help you do the dishes I want 0.99
00:02:51.880 you to want to do the dishes why would I want to do dishes why see that's my whole point are you
00:02:59.900 telling me that you're upset because I don't have a strong desire to clean dishes no I'm upset because
00:03:04.020 you don't have a strong desire to offer to do the dishes I just did after I asked you Jesus Brooke
00:03:09.480 you're acting crazy again don't you call me crazy I am not crazy I didn't call you crazy I didn't call
00:03:14.220 you crazy no I didn't I said you're acting crazy you know what Gary I asked you to do one thing today 0.99
00:03:18.480 one very simple thing to bring me 12 lemons and you brought me three damn it if I knew that it was 0.99
00:03:23.520 going to be this much trouble I would have brought home 24 lemons even 100 lemon I know what I wish I 0.96
00:03:28.100 wish everyone that was at that goddamn table had their own little private bag of lemons it's not about the 0.93
00:03:32.140 that's all you're talking about I'm just saying it'd be nice if you did things that I asked it 0.98
00:03:36.200 would be even nicer if you did things without me having to ask you well I do seem to remember
00:03:42.900 doing something for you this morning without you asking Gary come on I'm serious no I'm serious I
00:03:49.660 really am come on you knew I was working today and I made that meal and you could have thought to
00:03:55.080 yourself you know you could have said yeah I think I'm gonna get Brooke some flowers you said on our very 0.92
00:04:01.340 first date that you don't like flowers that they're a waste of money every girl likes flowers 1.00
00:04:06.580 Gary okay you see how confused he is and this is funny okay this is what happens when women try to 1.00
00:04:13.360 control men I'm serious guys you know does that does that look like she's submitting to his authority
00:04:20.600 when she's whining that he brought 12 lemons instead of three like okay maybe it's annoying
00:04:27.580 but it's not the end of the world and we cause these like big fights over what lemons and it's so
00:04:34.680 it's so funny because women tend to work longer than men but we never take that into account where
00:04:40.160 men tend to have harder jobs men tend to work longer hours where it's like I mean I think she was like an
00:04:46.720 art gallery person in this video in this movie so all right like you know and what was I gonna say
00:04:54.740 um oh and it's so funny because she says can you help me do the dishes and then she puts on a fuss 1.00
00:05:01.320 and this is the problem guys like get into when they constantly like agree to women after we put
00:05:08.100 on a fuss because it just shows us that we can like control you because now she knows every time she 1.00
00:05:12.860 bitches she's gonna get her way now the interesting thing is though she he does what she asks and is she 1.00
00:05:19.180 happy no you're not doing it in the way that I want you to do it and then she says on the first date 0.96
00:05:24.400 no I don't like flowers he doesn't buy her flowers now she's mad he didn't buy her flowers and it's
00:05:31.180 just you know men aren't mind readers and I think a lot of times you know again we get so frustrated
00:05:39.620 because we expect things that we shouldn't expect from men so in this she's expecting him to behave
00:05:46.360 like a woman and he's not a woman and and we're gonna constantly have relationship problems if we keep
00:05:52.720 expecting men to be women and communicate like women and read between the lines like women they're 0.97
00:05:58.860 not women they're never gonna be women and the more we try to control men and impose our will upon 0.96
00:06:04.700 men um I just think the worst relationships are getting and I think that's what we've seen in the
00:06:10.540 last hundred years you'll see clips from like 60 70 years ago where a woman says he's the boss
00:06:15.600 uh does does that seem like she refers to him as the boss and you know men men feel like this they
00:06:21.740 they feel demasculated over a long period of time and it's really sad to see what happens over 30 40 50
00:06:28.440 years of this this is why you know honestly ladies this is why men are walking away from marriage they 0.98
00:06:32.960 don't want a lifetime of women telling them what to do and how to do it and if they listen they're never 1.00
00:06:38.720 happy this is what a lot of men are signing up for and until we as women you know improve our
00:06:44.900 attitudes and offer more to men we're gonna keep seeing them walking away from relationships walking
00:06:50.980 away from marriage and you see that in clips of like of guys that choose not to be in a relationship
00:06:56.960 because they don't want a girl telling them what to do all the time so you know women are we're so 0.95
00:07:02.960 addicted to attention these days we have to put into context that women are rewarded for getting 0.99
00:07:08.560 attention from other men imagine if men were rewarded for watching porn how off the rails would they be
00:07:15.200 but that's what you see in media nowadays remember women are addicted to attention so a supermodel 1.00
00:07:22.840 actually died after hitting a lamppost while hanging out of her car window so there was a video i saw on
00:07:29.160 twitter of and we're gonna have to blur this or something but of a chick naked hanging out of a car 0.98
00:07:38.560 yeah and that's so sad like it's it's sad to me that you know a hundred years ago 50 years ago that
00:08:01.160 would have been a wife a mother but she became so attention addicted that it literally led to her death 0.98
00:08:07.560 that's why we see these chicks like or that's why we see like women on their phones not even watching 1.00
00:08:13.860 their kids like really what the equivalent of the average chick on the market today is equivalent to 0.96
00:08:22.100 a guy addicted to porn imagine that a guy was so addicted to porn that he literally died and we see
00:08:28.540 case after case after Kate we see this as a trend a growing trend more women getting so addicted to 1.00
00:08:33.880 social media that they ruin their marriages you know they don't watch their children and they
00:08:39.740 literally die for attention um so i think before you know we go with the men we really have to look in
00:08:46.380 the mirror and say uh what what does the average woman offer the average man nowadays so you know guys um
00:08:54.440 and i think we gotta identify trends so let me know what trends you see happening in society
00:08:59.580 and let me know um what you want me to cover tomorrow on pearl daily make sure you like the
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