JustPearlyThings - November 01, 2023


Samantha Lee REGRETS Divorcing Tyrese Gibson


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

162.48393

Word count

1,433

Sentence count

127

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

sentences flagged

Hate speech

11

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Summary

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Samantha Lee and Tyrese got divorced and now she s having second thoughts about it. She says she regrets it and wants to go back to her ex. Gabby calls her a heartless heartless bitch for celebrating her divorce.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Gabby, what are we celebrating?
00:00:02.760 My divorce!
00:00:07.460 This is disgusting.
00:00:09.900 It is absolutely disgusting that you would celebrate the erosion of a family.
00:00:15.160 Guys, when you grow up in a single mother home, you are more likely to go to prison. 0.53
00:00:20.440 You are more likely to be a rapist.
00:00:22.460 You are more likely to be a mass shooter.
00:00:24.680 You are more likely to run away from home.
00:00:27.180 You are more likely to be enrolled in a mental institution.
00:00:30.880 You are more likely to drop out of high school.
00:00:33.820 Every negative thing in society is linked to single motherhood. 1.00
00:00:38.120 And yet, women parade and cheer each other on as they do it. 1.00
00:00:42.620 The last woman that was criticizing me said, 1.00
00:00:45.260 it's not like women just do this for no reason. 0.97
00:00:47.960 Yet, we have women throwing parties about something that is genuinely sad.
00:00:52.420 Something that you are supposed to take seriously.
00:00:54.560 How can we say women are taking this seriously when we are having parties celebrating it? 1.00
00:01:00.900 That shit is disgusting.
00:01:03.260 That is disgusting.
00:01:04.800 In no world should you be celebrating a divorce.
00:01:08.960 And it's interesting, guys.
00:01:10.460 Notice that the comments section, when it comes from men,
00:01:14.860 is a lot more honest than from women.
00:01:16.860 Because women comments tend to cheer this shit on. 1.00
00:01:19.520 Or male comments tend to really tell you how it is.
00:01:23.820 So this guy, Butt Tobani, says,
00:01:27.860 it doesn't look like she's happy about the divorce.
00:01:29.880 That's how it looks to me, though.
00:01:31.680 Another commenter says,
00:01:33.520 I need a follow-up in a year to see if she sounds like Tyrese's ex. 0.97
00:01:37.860 Yes.
00:01:38.340 And a lot of women leave these situations, 1.00
00:01:41.020 thinking the grass is greener on the other side.
00:01:43.500 They think that all the men that give them attention
00:01:45.860 actually want to date them.
00:01:48.240 When really, they just want you for a weekend.
00:01:51.300 They don't want you long-term.
00:01:53.020 I cannot stress this enough.
00:01:54.800 The majority of single mothers do not remarry.
00:01:58.260 And if they remarry, they are more likely to divorce than they are to stay with their partner.
00:02:03.500 15% roughly of single moms get remarried. 0.93
00:02:06.940 22% get a guy to live with them.
00:02:10.240 Meaning 60%, the overwhelming majority, do not remarry.
00:02:15.400 And why does every single mother think that she is special? 1.00
00:02:18.880 Every child you have with a man decreases your sexual market value by at least a point.
00:02:25.840 At least.
00:02:27.160 It doesn't matter how good-looking you are.
00:02:29.240 You have two, three kids with another guy.
00:02:31.620 You're done.
00:02:32.120 Don't expect to remarry.
00:02:34.340 And we see this in real time.
00:02:35.960 You know, Samantha Lee had no problems getting divorced from Tyrese. 1.00
00:02:41.140 Everything seemed good.
00:02:42.260 She thought it was the right decision.
00:02:43.680 And last week, we covered that it, in fact, was not good.
00:02:48.020 And now she's having second thoughts and regretting her divorce.
00:02:51.220 She went out there and dated again and realized the grass probably is not going to be greener on the other side.
00:02:57.300 She puts out a video saying that she regrets it.
00:03:00.040 And let's see Tyrese's response.
00:03:02.880 The truth about the matter is that if I had different people in my ear at that time, I would not have made that decision.
00:03:11.160 No.
00:03:12.560 Look, man, I was not going to respond to this video of my ex that's now gone viral.
00:03:20.440 She is loving it.
00:03:22.240 Congratulations.
00:03:23.180 You went viral again over something else that you said because you're trying to build up your YouTube page and get your followers up.
00:03:29.820 Listen, man.
00:03:31.600 Listen.
00:03:32.760 If you had people in your ear that influenced you into leaving your husband and your one-year-old child, your innocent one-year-old child.
00:03:43.320 But we both were divorcee kids, grew up in toxic environments, torn in between our old family, new family, stepfather, stepmother.
00:03:53.640 That's a life that we both lived.
00:03:56.600 And you packed up a one-year-old, put a COVID mask on top of the rain cameras.
00:04:07.720 And I was literally in an airplane on my way home to fight for my marriage and my family.
00:04:14.960 You're heartless.
00:04:16.180 And it's been three years.
00:04:20.700 I've moved on.
00:04:22.240 I'm with Zellie.
00:04:24.300 You moved on.
00:04:26.420 I don't even want to tell niggas the first nigga you started dating when we broke up. 1.00
00:04:30.800 Because you're going to go viral from that.
00:04:32.760 If I were to tell niggas who you started dating as soon as we broke up, you would go viral from that. 1.00
00:04:41.140 All you want is attention.
00:04:42.840 You want Facebook followers.
00:04:44.660 You want Instagram followers.
00:04:46.520 You're trying to be a life coach.
00:04:48.480 And you're trying to get niggas to drink the Kool-Aid. 1.00
00:04:50.780 You fucking with a real one right here.
00:04:53.720 So, a couple things that are interesting about this clip.
00:04:59.100 So, he says, if people were to know who you dated right after me, you would go viral.
00:05:05.340 So, I'm assuming it's some high-profile guy that we know that would never commit to her.
00:05:10.200 That she probably thought she could get commitment from and probably did what men tend to do with single-mother divorcees,
00:05:19.280 which is pass them on to the next.
00:05:22.240 Sorry, guys.
00:05:23.020 This is how men think. 0.59
00:05:25.220 And you can shoot the messenger.
00:05:26.800 But, guys, I interview thousands of men.
00:05:29.140 They typically think that divorcees are for fun only. 0.75
00:05:32.820 They don't see them as a long-term option.
00:05:35.800 And the data supports this.
00:05:37.560 Most single mothers never remarry. 1.00
00:05:40.640 Ever.
00:05:41.660 Most can't even get a guy to live with them again. 0.98
00:05:44.560 That is the future.
00:05:45.940 This woman is asking for $20,000 a month to raise a child. 1.00
00:05:49.560 What on earth do you need $20,000 a month for?
00:05:53.020 I bet he would be fine with $2,000.
00:05:55.280 That should cover all expenses.
00:05:57.000 Even $3,000.
00:05:57.560 I bet you he would even do $5,000.
00:06:00.260 That can get you a one-bedroom apartment in pretty much any major city.
00:06:04.820 And I even think that's a bit extreme.
00:06:07.920 I think if you choose to leave a marriage, then you should have a plan to financially support yourself and the child the rest of your life.
00:06:16.840 No, I do not think that you should be able to depend on the guy that you are no longer giving anything in return to.
00:06:25.000 I believe that is legal robbery.
00:06:27.740 And I think women that are legally robbing men should be treated as such. 1.00
00:06:33.320 Criminals.
00:06:34.340 Criminals.
00:06:34.820 Criminals.
00:06:36.060 The third thing he pointed out is that her mother was in her ear.
00:06:40.260 And ladies, this is a tough pill to swallow. 1.00
00:06:44.740 A lot of your mothers do not want to see you succeed.
00:06:48.860 They want to see you just as miserable as them so you can be her emotional tampon the rest of her life. 0.96
00:06:57.340 Because a lot of your mothers have failed again and again and again in relationships. 0.98
00:07:02.840 And they do not want to see you succeed.
00:07:05.900 There are mothers that are simultaneously telling their daughters that they love them and support them while trying to ruin their marriage.
00:07:14.540 This is common.
00:07:15.680 I would say this is more common than it is not.
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