JustPearlyThings - She Accuses Her Father Of Misogyny

00:00:00.000 video i'm going to have us react to is um another narrative that i see common commonly in society

00:00:09.300 um and this was by a conservative pundit and political commentator who does do any of you

00:00:15.500 guys know who tommy lauren is let me show us shut up you don't know tommy lauren the woman the the 0.92

00:00:22.280 fox the blonde girl yeah the blonde she's a blonde um lady who works for fox news um so recently she 1.00

00:00:30.300 has had um a new narrative about men and it's interesting because girls seem to switch um

00:00:36.720 to really like how do i put it they they view men in a positive light until the age of about 30

00:00:44.480 when their standards get higher um and so let's just let's just play the clip blessing

00:00:52.420 you know because i was on your podcast talking about my little psa to men where people say i was

00:01:07.160 trashing men there's a big difference andrew tate actually trashes women i don't trash men 0.83

00:01:11.720 i trash men that i think are soft that i think are pathetic that i think are little boys and i 0.97

00:01:18.360 think that there is an epidemic i will call it a pandemic the real pandemic is soft men in this 0.98

00:01:23.700 country and i know that you agree with me in a lot of ways but i'll tell you this there are so many

00:01:27.360 women out there who are successful who can't find anybody out there because successful men want the 1.00

00:01:32.620 25 year olds who just want to be on instagram and post their purses and their yachts and this and that 0.75

00:01:38.160 so i think we have a scarcity of real men and i don't know how we change that we start spanking

00:01:44.940 kids again we start holding people accountable we start letting people lose we start like taking

00:01:52.080 away the first place trophies from everybody on the team you know we go back to the old traditional 1.00

00:01:57.960 values where you know you you raised a man i don't even know if that would solve it though at this

00:02:03.440 point it would if everyone did it society has gotten so entitled and everybody is such a victim

00:02:09.680 and all you know it's when they say the meek will inherit the earth the meek are inheriting the earth 0.96

00:02:15.060 but not in the way that it's biblical in the way that we we'd like to see it it's not the underdog rising

00:02:20.240 up okay so my question is do you think that men are weaker in 2022 100 yes in what way though i think

00:02:34.480 there's something still playing blessing oh there it's off okay absolutely from from what i think

00:02:41.200 i'm going to compare the men i see now to what my dad was now my dad took it overboard he was he was over

00:02:49.760 like masculine over misogynist if that's the word um whereas now i'll talk about the physical side but

00:03:01.280 this is not the important side i'm just saying like now i'm a dancer i've been a dancer for a few years

00:03:10.000 now i see dancers putting on uh like makeup and just not nothing nothing wrong with that absolutely

00:03:17.920 nothing wrong with that but it's it's a feminine trait right so it it also comes into like the 1.00

00:03:24.400 personality side where the men i see now are not as tough as probably my dad was he was he was he was

00:03:32.320 proper like i run the house i don't cook the woman cooks um this is my role this is the woman's role 0.97

00:03:40.960 whereas now it's all it's all very mixed um so i'm just curious why is that misogynist

00:03:49.280 you said misogynistic what why is what like your dad like why why do you use that word uh because he

00:03:55.520 was he was he was um he never cooked a meal in his house not when he was with my mom or with my stepmom

00:04:03.440 he would say that certain things are for her to do and not for him to do anything that was to do with

00:04:08.480 like the cars and fixing or diy he would do it that's not misogynistic that sounds perfect that's

00:04:14.000 just that sounds perfect yeah like if i could i just gotta cook he's fixing everything yeah he would

00:04:20.480 do all like the hard labor stuff whereas she would do like all the and that sounds that sounds good

00:04:25.600 for women and i would think that is where exactly i think men are not many more they don't do they

00:04:30.400 don't do that they don't do that anymore yeah they would look at me and tell me what do you bring to

00:04:34.000 the table ask them can you fix anything like do you know how to fix anything can you fix a

00:04:38.160 toilet can you fix a car can you change your tire do you know how to do that most men don't know 0.99

00:04:41.680 how to do that i i like some men some men i like those traits i like those traits still i like sticking

00:04:46.560 to part of it and i feel like you can still be a feminist and have no you can still be a feminist 1.00

00:04:52.160 and have traditional roles yeah and have a home yeah but the problem is like you guys aren't young

00:04:56.400 virgins so you're that's like demanding traditional outcomes when you're not traditional women 1.00

00:05:01.360 like if you're a traditional woman you'd be a young virgin like i don't understand yeah yeah 1.00

00:05:09.840 like like okay so you're you're describing things you're saying to the men like you're not traditional

00:05:15.600 men and i i agree but we're not traditional women we're not 22 year 21 year old virgins they value

00:05:23.120 purity in youth the average age of first marriage in the uk is 31 that that's not pure or youthful how many

00:05:28.640 bodies you got by 31 oh okay loads well yeah if you look at your mom and dad if you look at your

00:05:34.560 mom and dad yeah no 100 it won't be like that but if you look at your mom and dad how many partners

00:05:39.280 did they have before they got they just got together i don't think we're not exactly but i just think i

00:05:44.240 don't think that and we're over we're overweight too that's other thing yeah i don't think men are

00:05:48.880 getting weak i don't think men are getting weaker i just think that society wants them what society

00:05:56.000 wants us to believe it and because nowadays everything's too instant like you were saying

00:06:02.080 about oh men fix the car men do this men do that nowadays your car breaks down they make a phone

00:06:08.560 call it gets fixed yeah i mean we as women we can we can do that you know there are some women like i 1.00

00:06:13.840 can fix my car i can i can put a light bulb up i can i can put a table from ikea certificate in car

00:06:19.520 maintenance so but i'm not doing it i do the pink jobs and he does but do you know what i say i i still like

00:06:24.800 obviously we are not going to be virgins at this age of course not but um i i do like the fact that

00:06:30.320 my partner when something breaks in the house i love seeing him take take out his tools and doing

00:06:35.520 that and then oh baby let me make your sandwich while you do that i like that i still like that

00:06:40.320 obviously it's not going to be i'm not i'm not the 30 year old virgin hell no but no and and i i agree

00:06:46.800 with you like i think it's attractive but it's just like we're asking for traditional outcomes but

00:06:51.760 we're not traditional women oh no not at all we're not also i'd like to point out like the fact that

00:06:57.280 i think paul pointed out as well that you use the word misogyny which is a negative word and i think

00:07:01.680 what you explained was your dad just having roles in the house and relationship and i think i think

00:07:06.160 that's a pertinent thing to notice that that that misogyny is like a disdain for women yeah don't 0.98

00:07:11.600 forget there's one of those um key words the one they've been there was new words that they use i'm

00:07:16.640 writing them down i've been writing them down in a minute all this all these words keep on coming

00:07:21.840 out and everybody's using it yeah oh is it i'm gonna throw a cataract is it a cataract or whatever

00:07:27.360 it is they're gonna throw at you oh no i agree i agree when you say the word misogyny is not it's

00:07:32.000 not good but the reason why i say it is because he went he went overboard like one time we were in

00:07:37.280 a restaurant i went i went to karameh back on holiday and he was like oh let's go have a meal in a

00:07:41.360 restaurant and um and we were at the restaurant and the way the way he was treating the waiters like

00:07:48.000 bring me this and why are you not bringing me this and i was like because he to him he was he

00:07:53.520 was the alpha male wherever he was or wherever he went and because he had businesses and and good

00:07:58.720 status or whatever he he carried himself like that and that's why i say he was so misogynistic that i

00:08:06.080 i i don't agree with you he might just think to himself you know what i'm paying for a service

00:08:12.560 and i want the service right exactly yeah but he did it in the like the wrong way he wasn't i mean

00:08:18.160 he could be rude yeah what is what is misogynistic to you okay my understanding is some uh masculine

00:08:28.000 in its overbearing masculine no that that's what she actually thinks though like i think people people 0.80

00:08:34.320 modern feminists that's what they actually think they think misogyny is just being a man it's 1.00

00:08:37.840 masculinity that they think that's the problem um but it's a disdain for women so misogyny is kind 0.97

00:08:43.360 of like judging someone purely based on their gender and kind of an oppressive way i think like

00:08:47.520 saying things like you you can't it's the hatred of women yeah but the action of misogyny is is kind

00:08:53.360 of like you can't you can't have this job because you're a woman you know xyz that's how it you know 1.00

00:08:58.400 shows itself it's not being rude to a waiter or saying uh my wife she cooks i pay for the bills that's not

00:09:03.840 misogyny that's just being you know a man who believes in roles maybe overbearing at times but

00:09:07.760 do you know what i was just thinking her dad sounds like a older version of andrew tate

00:09:14.000 yeah a hundred percent i mean that's what i'm trying to say but it's not misogyny is it

00:09:20.080 alpha male he he didn't have a big mouth like tate does but he was he was very in his actions very

00:09:27.600 that's the woman's role and this is the man's role and there ain't no in between and that's fair 0.99

00:09:32.480 enough you have a right to define roles in your relationship is consensual right if if if i say

00:09:36.720 you have to do this and i do this yeah but you know something even though she looks in it as if

00:09:41.840 it's something negative it worked for her parents and it works for them and notice they they like

00:09:49.280 aspects of it so no one complains that like you know my dad was paying too much of the bills and

00:09:53.440 taking care of too much stuff and really kind of protect us too much it's only like random small

00:09:57.760 things than it's like misogyny and you know the thing is the older they get the more they realize

00:10:02.720 you know what i i want to be like my parents that they didn't have it so bad because the older you

00:10:07.840 get you're going to realize that all these roles that they had works it works and everybody's going

00:10:14.080 towards traditional and they're looking at their parents and thinking nah they were too traditional

00:10:18.720 but when you think about it look at the longevity of your parents relationship compared to the

00:10:24.320 longevity of the relationships now where people decide they want to mix modern with traditional

00:10:29.520 which don't work it never works auntie would you describe yourself as a modern woman no would you

00:10:35.360 how would you describe yourself because you've said you're not traditional so i would say i'm a

00:10:39.680 traditionalist okay what does that mean that means that i'm not a virgin okay and i'm having loads of

00:10:47.520 sex and i still know my place but i would say that if i was a virgin and i was the same person and i was

00:10:57.440 married i'm traditional i'm not i'm just an old bird with traditional values i was just banned on tick tock

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JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023

She Accuses Her Father Of Misogyny

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