JustPearlyThings - July 27, 2023


She Admits This SHOCKING TRUTH About Herself


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

195.93614

Word Count

1,890

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

5

Hate Speech Sentences

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what what was the most surprising thing you've learned from like you learned from the show
00:00:04.940 yesterday i think it was that statistic i can't remember which one it was now so
00:00:11.300 it's not much use but um definitely i think it was like the oh the percentage of men that are
00:00:19.040 over six foot tall is only 15 percent it's really shocking it kind of makes sense though when you
00:00:24.820 think about it yeah like because women are always saying like men are trash yeah and all that you
00:00:28.920 know it's like oh they always think they're dogs yeah we're the ones yeah literally yeah that
00:00:37.100 definitely and it was also good to hear other people's views like a few um a few things did
00:00:41.740 actually change my perspective on things men are actually simple creatures i was saying this
00:00:47.260 earlier they don't need a lot what do you think of blessing when he like came in and was like asking
00:00:52.220 the questions what do you guys think no i think it was good to have a men's perspective i actually do
00:00:57.320 because we didn't have any other obviously there was no men on the panel and it's good to hear from
00:01:02.560 the actual male point of view i understood his perspective but i don't necessarily fully agree
00:01:07.900 with it what do you not agree with i don't agree with the fact that if i have something to say i
00:01:13.880 should be like just i get the submissive part but i just don't think it's like right for me not to
00:01:18.740 have a voice or not to have a say yeah yeah but it's understandable i understand but you know i do
00:01:23.920 think though i think the point he was trying to get across is if you're with someone and you're
00:01:28.120 married you guys have the same views you're not going to really disagree on or you you should
00:01:32.460 right yeah you should there's not going to be much disagreement there because if you disagree on
00:01:36.180 everything or you question everything then you guys aren't really compatible i was curious what was
00:01:40.180 it like growing up in a multi like were your parents religious or they weren't religious my mom
00:01:45.480 was religious my dad was kind of religious i mean he wasn't really yeah he was he was just like
00:01:50.740 open the quran close it because just give them a background your your mom is what and your dad is
00:01:55.220 what so my mom's nigerian and my dad is from iran so he grew up as a muslim and a bit spiritual as
00:02:01.320 well and my mom grew up as a christian and spiritual as well so they had like yeah both of those but my mom
00:02:07.240 has always been really open-minded to other religions so has my dad and that's why i feel like they
00:02:11.680 that was already yeah that was already like an open gate for them to get to know each other
00:02:18.580 um i moved around a lot countries wise so i was born in germany oh shut up yeah
00:02:25.780 but i also lived in nigeria and that was a complete switch of like scenario and environment and it was
00:02:39.920 you looked in nigeria for eight years really wow so how old were you when you moved um i was eight
00:02:45.940 years old and i left when i was 14 or 16 no way do you think that was good for you as a kid no no
00:02:52.420 very traumatic yeah extremely just chaos but i don't blame anyone for that i feel like i just need to
00:03:00.520 learn and grow yeah i guess because you're moving around so much you have to like leave all your friends
00:03:04.640 and when you're younger you're not you have to like re-adapt and like build new friends then you
00:03:08.380 you're a complete different country you kind of lose those connections exactly so it's like starting
00:03:12.960 fresh each time it's a lot when you're younger because you obviously when your friends mean so
00:03:16.380 much to you when you're younger when you're older you can kind of pick up exactly 14 where'd you go
00:03:21.580 from 14 here i'm here yeah wow she lived in three wow that is so insane crazy how many siblings did
00:03:28.820 you have three sisters was it easier because you had the sisters at least oh they made they made life
00:03:36.020 so much easier okay keeping up with the kardashian was like a religious thing for us
00:03:40.920 like every i think saturday or friday or whatever it was we would like come together as a family and
00:03:47.220 watch it together just for the sake of like having that family time not even paying attention to what
00:03:51.180 we was watching just having that closeness was very important so i can't imagine doing that as like
00:03:57.360 an only child or like two kids like at least i i came from a big family i had nine siblings total so
00:04:03.400 it was a lot of us but i'm like i can't imagine three countries no siblings yes that would be crazy
00:04:08.300 it's a huge culture shock as well because yeah i'm a big family person out of all of my sisters my mom
00:04:14.860 i'm the biggest like i'm the most attached to my family and so what country was your favorite to live
00:04:20.700 in germany because i don't remember a lot yeah and i still had my dad around there but as we moved to
00:04:29.920 nigeria things just got absolutely just horrible wait your dad wasn't around in nigeria he he did come
00:04:37.720 but he was like in and out of prison he was just like affiliated with gangs your dad was in prison yeah
00:04:43.440 oh my gosh he was like a mafia you should write a book is he still right where's he now oh you don't
00:04:49.600 know he just vanished disappeared off the face of the earth literally yeah crazy do you think that's
00:04:55.380 affected like your dating and relationships and your ability to like understand them it's affected
00:05:00.720 everything i know to be humane because i i i always try to put myself in people's
00:05:11.380 position and just like see things from people's point of view um obviously with my mom i grew up
00:05:19.320 very much with her like from what i remember it was all my mom my mom was my dad my mom was my mom
00:05:24.100 my mom was my grandpa my mom was my grandma so she filled in that role but emotionally i don't think
00:05:29.440 she was there a lot it was more like work keep the kids safe work keep the kids safe so because
00:05:35.100 just listening to your stories i kind of sense that maybe there wasn't a dad in the picture
00:05:39.520 just because like when you're describing your ex i'm like there's no way a dad would let that happen
00:05:43.600 honestly there's no way this is craziness yeah yeah you're right yeah i definitely think having a
00:05:49.700 father figure there present has a huge impact on the type of men you go for
00:05:54.260 mm-hmm 100 especially when you see how your dad treats your mom yeah has a huge impact on how
00:06:01.580 what you accept as in the dating because you're especially you you're naturally very feminine
00:06:08.240 like because some girls come on and they like act like dudes but you're not like that you act like
00:06:12.600 pretty feminine and that's because i've not had a voice for so long yeah i was i was so quiet i was
00:06:19.240 anxious i was scared of everything and anything because of how much trauma i had been through in
00:06:23.700 my life so i felt like everywhere i went was like a danger zone like i have to be on guard
00:06:28.800 come in thank you
00:06:30.800 we're live so that was
00:06:34.520 hey
00:06:36.760 we're live yeah
00:06:41.040 oh shit
00:06:42.320 he's like wrong time
00:06:46.200 the screen recording isn't the audio like the audio is picking us up but we can't do the screen
00:06:52.680 yeah like when we play the video we can't hear it in the headphones
00:06:58.400 yeah
00:07:00.400 yeah the crazy live
00:07:02.400 girl
00:07:03.400 i don't know
00:07:06.120 yeah
00:07:07.120 i don't know
00:07:09.120 i was so young i couldn't
00:07:13.400 uh
00:07:14.120 yeah
00:07:15.120 blessing
00:07:17.120 i was going to be
00:07:18.120 let me hear it now
00:07:19.240 sometimes
00:07:19.760 oh i can hear it now
00:07:20.800 yeah when i was
00:07:21.520 what did i have to do
00:07:22.480 my mom was going to be my
00:07:23.560 i'm sorry
00:07:25.120 but it ended up happening because my dad didn't want to go
00:07:27.680 i'm sorry
00:07:29.120 yeah
00:07:30.120 yeah
00:07:31.120 it's crazy my life would have been completely different
00:07:32.400 it's live i don't know what you want
00:07:34.040 you could have told me when i was coming
00:07:35.520 you could have looked too
00:07:36.840 i looked
00:07:37.440 really
00:07:38.000 you have been looked
00:07:38.880 but you could have looked
00:07:39.800 i said you could always look
00:07:42.000 it was the best trip ever
00:07:43.400 i like it
00:07:44.000 could you while you're here could you switch the thumbnail
00:07:46.240 i'm gonna look at holiday i've been on
00:07:47.040 i'm really
00:07:48.360 yeah it's still a thumbnail from yesterday
00:07:50.440 i thought i was gonna have a holiday on the question i do but it turns out
00:07:53.200 okay fine fine fine i told chris
00:07:56.640 i told chris
00:07:57.640 so yeah and he got picked out of school that i knew
00:07:59.760 because he chased um he chased the boy around the school with a stick on fire
00:08:02.760 okay that's fine
00:08:04.760 and they were like oh we're sending you a holiday
00:08:06.760 just uh text me and i'll tell him to go
00:08:08.760 yeah
00:08:10.760 are you gonna take both of them
00:08:12.760 he got sent to nigeria so he's been on holiday and then left him there
00:08:16.760 are you able to come downstairs yeah
00:08:17.760 yeah of course
00:08:18.760 i'll take one of you who wants to stay
00:08:19.760 oh i don't mind
00:08:20.760 yeah let's go
00:08:21.760 i mean i'll go because you guys have had like a more of a conversation live so
00:08:24.760 okay
00:08:25.760 might as well finish it off
00:08:26.760 yeah
00:08:27.760 yeah
00:08:28.760 yeah
00:08:29.760 bye guys
00:08:30.760 bye
00:08:31.760 bye
00:08:32.760 i think i should put them back
00:08:33.760 it's crazy
00:08:34.760 i have a question
00:08:36.760 what's up
00:08:37.760 why do you do
00:08:38.760 why do you make these so long
00:08:40.760 oh
00:08:41.760 well because
00:08:42.760 guys with the green
00:08:43.760 it's like
00:08:44.760 that's what i was thinking
00:08:45.760 i was like
00:08:46.760 she actually is very pretty
00:08:47.760 and actually i was like i think men would actually like
00:08:50.760 like her
00:08:51.760 but i'm like why do you market like this is like horror nails
00:08:55.760 like why is this this is like bad advertising
00:08:59.760 well i don't get my nails done very often and i was i went to germany recently to visit my sister
00:09:03.760 uh-huh
00:09:04.760 and so i was like you know what i'm just trying
00:09:05.760 yeah but it's like you can do it like here
00:09:07.760 my answer is the exact same thing too
00:09:09.760 not my real dad but
00:09:10.760 yeah
00:09:11.760 the and it's like the the eye the green
00:09:14.760 yeah you came in today you look like a different person
00:09:16.760 i was like what the why did she do this
00:09:18.760 actually i love it i love it i love to just i don't know just don't expect anything from me
00:09:26.760 don't expect anything from me
00:09:27.760 don't expect what do you mean
00:09:28.760 i'll be spontaneous like i'm very
00:09:30.760 yeah
00:09:31.760 okay we're gonna show you
00:09:33.760 frickin
00:09:34.760 um all right
00:09:36.760 i actually don't really feel like