JustPearlyThings - March 15, 2023


She ADMITTED This About Women


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

182.29793

Word Count

1,566

Sentence Count

120

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

14


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to breaking up with a partner. We discuss who wins and who loses in a breakup and who is more likely to move on after a break up.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 But you said it sounds like you're saying that the women lose and the men win.
00:00:03.740 Yeah.
00:00:04.120 Okay.
00:00:04.700 You said the opposite when you started.
00:00:06.700 No, I thought I said that the women lose.
00:00:10.700 Am I crazy?
00:00:12.080 Maybe.
00:00:12.660 I thought I said the women lose.
00:00:13.980 Maybe you did.
00:00:14.820 Okay, go ahead.
00:00:17.020 I think it is a difficult one.
00:00:18.920 It is a broad one.
00:00:20.300 I think if you're looking at high profile celebrity status and breakups,
00:00:24.040 I think generally depending on how they break up,
00:00:30.640 I think it depicts on how it would end up.
00:00:33.100 But probably women would lose in terms of emotionally,
00:00:37.800 I think especially if there's children as well.
00:00:40.000 Pretty much in terms of men,
00:00:45.080 I don't think they're emotionally attached as much as women.
00:00:47.540 I think women tend to be more emotionally attached than men.
00:00:50.380 So in a breakup,
00:00:52.600 I think when women break up,
00:00:54.860 they break up way before they actually physically break up with a man.
00:00:58.180 Whereas a man,
00:00:59.740 I think they're quite flippant and they will do it spur of the moment.
00:01:03.360 It's how they're feeling.
00:01:04.620 So I think in terms of who generally wins,
00:01:08.580 I would probably say men in that aspect,
00:01:10.440 because I feel like they're mentally there way before women are probably there.
00:01:15.680 Okay.
00:01:16.240 What do you think?
00:01:19.300 See, I think the opposite to you.
00:01:21.340 I feel like a woman knows in her head that she's going to break up with a guy
00:01:25.540 before she's actually going to do it.
00:01:29.300 Yeah.
00:01:29.520 Like the other way around.
00:01:31.240 Because I think that's what she said.
00:01:32.420 I think that's what I said.
00:01:32.940 Oh,
00:01:33.280 yeah,
00:01:33.860 you just repeated exactly what she said.
00:01:35.480 My bad.
00:01:36.860 My bad.
00:01:37.680 So,
00:01:38.140 yeah,
00:01:38.660 I feel like when it comes to actually breaking up,
00:01:42.360 I feel like women are more prepared for that actually happening.
00:01:47.120 I don't think men think to,
00:01:49.280 especially if they're comfortable in the relationship,
00:01:52.120 they're not really thinking about it too tough.
00:01:56.320 So I would say maybe men lose more because I just think they're going to,
00:02:02.880 they don't see it coming as often.
00:02:05.080 So you think men are more hurt after breakups?
00:02:06.780 Yeah.
00:02:07.000 And women,
00:02:07.280 like women move on quicker.
00:02:08.560 Yeah.
00:02:08.940 Okay.
00:02:09.680 Or like they start that process before.
00:02:13.020 Yeah.
00:02:13.080 Because by the time the woman does it,
00:02:14.560 she's been thinking about it for six months.
00:02:16.300 What do you think about dating options after?
00:02:18.200 Do you think,
00:02:18.840 who do you think typically is more dating options after a relationship,
00:02:21.760 men or women?
00:02:25.980 I think it depends on the man or the woman.
00:02:29.120 Right.
00:02:29.460 So in high profile cases.
00:02:41.980 Again,
00:02:42.460 I think it depends on the.
00:02:44.020 If you had to pick one.
00:02:44.860 Maybe men in high profile cases,
00:02:52.620 because I think for a high profile man,
00:02:54.540 you'll have more women wanting to do whatever for you than the other way around.
00:03:00.700 Auntie,
00:03:01.240 what do you think?
00:03:04.320 At first I was going to say,
00:03:06.840 before you brought the sexism into it,
00:03:08.400 I was going to say the person with the most money wins initially,
00:03:13.740 because they're out of it.
00:03:14.980 But then the women,
00:03:16.660 but then it's the man and he's got most money and they split up.
00:03:19.800 Then the woman might think she's winning because she gets like money and the kids and whatever.
00:03:26.560 But then she's less attractive to the outside world.
00:03:33.180 So she might think she's won initially.
00:03:36.720 But then I think the men in the end win,
00:03:40.020 because they can get any woman out there.
00:03:41.320 They're the one younger that looks a whole lot better than the old bag that they've left.
00:03:45.000 So,
00:03:45.820 you know,
00:03:46.860 all the stretch marks and everything is gone.
00:03:49.160 Because when you look at all of those,
00:03:50.660 whoever had the most money,
00:03:52.840 got someone younger.
00:03:55.180 And even though their partner's gone,
00:03:57.260 and thought,
00:03:57.620 well,
00:03:57.740 yeah,
00:03:58.260 like,
00:03:58.480 what do you call the guy,
00:04:01.840 the perfume,
00:04:02.440 the aftershave guy,
00:04:03.160 what's his name?
00:04:04.460 The one you just mentioned.
00:04:05.360 Tom Brady?
00:04:06.300 Yeah,
00:04:06.740 that's him.
00:04:07.740 The aftershave guy?
00:04:08.720 I don't know,
00:04:09.240 they're an aftershave name like that or something.
00:04:12.000 You're thinking of Tom Ford.
00:04:13.480 Oh,
00:04:13.760 sorry,
00:04:14.160 see,
00:04:14.420 I don't want to say it.
00:04:15.660 I don't want to say it.
00:04:16.720 Okay,
00:04:17.500 I know it's something to do with sports,
00:04:19.340 but
00:04:19.700 he split up
00:04:21.420 and she's gone
00:04:22.720 and she's got this guy.
00:04:23.600 So when they said about women,
00:04:24.640 I find that
00:04:25.280 in the public eye,
00:04:26.520 sometimes the women move on faster
00:04:27.780 because the men are less cautious
00:04:28.720 because they've lost a lot of money.
00:04:29.880 So they're not moving on fast,
00:04:31.200 but
00:04:31.440 afterwards they can get a younger person.
00:04:34.220 So the women would go out there
00:04:35.580 and they would say,
00:04:36.120 oh,
00:04:36.180 we're going to get married again
00:04:37.040 or we're going to get hooked up,
00:04:37.980 we're going to settle down.
00:04:39.060 And the men would just go out there
00:04:39.980 and get a young lady
00:04:40.680 and play the field
00:04:41.300 because they can.
00:04:42.820 So the women might lose out.
00:04:44.580 You know,
00:04:44.760 the men lose out more financially,
00:04:47.640 but in the long run,
00:04:48.720 of course they got lucky.
00:04:49.960 They can go and get any young brother
00:04:51.240 that they want
00:04:51.800 because when you're a mature man
00:04:53.400 and you've got money,
00:04:54.080 you're attractive.
00:04:55.400 Unlike
00:04:55.760 the women out there
00:04:57.360 that got money
00:04:58.080 because
00:04:59.380 they don't look all that,
00:05:01.680 all the plastic surgery
00:05:02.440 and stuff
00:05:02.740 that they need to keep up their looks,
00:05:03.920 but men just work out
00:05:04.880 and they still look good.
00:05:06.440 Can I say something?
00:05:08.760 Tom Brady,
00:05:09.520 so if you've specified
00:05:10.420 it's a high profile breakup,
00:05:11.640 then I'm guessing
00:05:12.040 we're talking about money here
00:05:12.920 most of the time.
00:05:13.960 I'm talking about popularity.
00:05:15.560 Yeah.
00:05:16.980 Can I ask when
00:05:17.860 they actually got divorced?
00:05:19.560 Do you know when?
00:05:21.840 Officially October 2022.
00:05:23.380 I was going to say
00:05:27.300 because as an athlete,
00:05:29.440 Tom Brady's spotlight,
00:05:31.080 the reason why
00:05:31.720 his spotlight
00:05:32.200 is always going to
00:05:32.980 constantly change.
00:05:34.680 Like when he said
00:05:36.060 he was going to retire,
00:05:37.120 the spotlight was on
00:05:37.880 just retiring.
00:05:38.880 Ain't nobody mentioned
00:05:39.620 about him breaking up,
00:05:41.400 but...
00:05:41.900 I don't know.
00:05:42.980 It was all over
00:05:43.740 my YouTube feed.
00:05:45.580 Yeah.
00:05:46.100 It was just on...
00:05:47.460 Meg and Kelly
00:05:48.220 just did a special on it.
00:05:49.600 Yeah, right.
00:05:50.080 So I think my main...
00:05:50.980 So what I'm trying to say here
00:05:51.960 is that the spotlight
00:05:52.600 as an athlete
00:05:53.220 for Tom Brady
00:05:53.740 is going to change constantly.
00:05:54.980 So people are going to
00:05:56.220 eventually forget
00:05:57.500 that he's been divorced
00:05:58.940 if he moves on
00:05:59.720 with another person.
00:06:00.840 So I think for the female
00:06:02.080 it's more so like
00:06:03.200 she's the one that
00:06:04.120 broke up with Tom Brady
00:06:05.300 is such a big deal.
00:06:07.020 And I think the hate
00:06:07.980 that's going to come
00:06:08.640 for the women
00:06:09.180 is more than it is
00:06:10.220 for the men.
00:06:11.160 Just considering the fact
00:06:11.980 that he's such a
00:06:12.440 high profile athlete.
00:06:13.540 Would you say in society
00:06:14.420 men are valued more
00:06:15.740 for what they build
00:06:16.760 where women are more valued
00:06:18.280 for the relationships
00:06:19.240 they can keep?
00:06:20.420 A hundred percent.
00:06:21.700 A hundred percent
00:06:22.600 because Tom Brady
00:06:23.620 can now do something crazy
00:06:25.000 and invest in this many stuff.
00:06:26.860 Invest like a billion dollar
00:06:28.000 company maybe.
00:06:29.220 That's what's going to be
00:06:30.020 that's what he's going to be
00:06:30.700 in the spotlight for.
00:06:31.540 Or it's like Elon Musk.
00:06:32.760 I mean how many baby mothers
00:06:33.800 does he have?
00:06:34.820 But no one.
00:06:36.680 Each to their own isn't it?
00:06:37.920 But no one really
00:06:38.580 talks about it.
00:06:39.740 But if the roles
00:06:41.000 were reversed
00:06:41.560 and it was a woman
00:06:42.280 and she had the same company
00:06:43.760 but she had like three
00:06:45.460 I don't know how many he has
00:06:46.400 but like three, four baby fathers
00:06:47.780 people would still look at her funny
00:06:49.020 no matter how successful
00:06:50.060 she is.
00:06:50.600 It's going to be long for her
00:06:51.700 and that's just how it is
00:06:52.680 unfortunately.
00:06:54.980 Have any of you ever
00:06:56.860 looked at an ex's
00:06:58.100 Instagram or Facebook
00:06:59.600 to see how they're doing
00:07:00.920 after a breakup?
00:07:02.280 Yeah.
00:07:02.520 All the time.
00:07:03.240 Has anyone ever done that?
00:07:06.320 Anyone?
00:07:08.020 Two?
00:07:08.680 Okay so the majority.
00:07:10.240 What are you?
00:07:11.400 I shouldn't put my hand up really
00:07:12.560 because nobody I've been out
00:07:13.460 has done Facebook.
00:07:15.200 Why are you half open?
00:07:17.020 Huh?
00:07:17.520 I was like why are you
00:07:18.260 half raising your hand?
00:07:19.100 Because I don't know
00:07:19.560 if I should say too much.
00:07:20.700 I'm joking.
00:07:21.780 I'm joking.
00:07:22.160 Anybody that's watching
00:07:22.940 I'm joking I promise.
00:07:24.940 I think you promise.
00:07:25.700 Yeah I haven't.
00:07:28.320 Do you guys get mad
00:07:29.340 if the girl you feel like
00:07:30.900 is prettier than you
00:07:31.780 or better looking?
00:07:32.840 Not just happy.
00:07:34.320 You're happy for them?
00:07:35.360 Good for you.
00:07:36.240 I feel like for me personally
00:07:37.440 it depends on how soon
00:07:39.180 after the breakup.
00:07:41.100 So how soon would
00:07:42.880 would piss you off
00:07:43.960 versus how soon
00:07:44.720 would make you happy for them?
00:07:47.620 After she's moved on.
00:07:48.960 Yeah.
00:07:50.640 If I haven't moved on
00:07:51.720 you can't.
00:07:53.620 Or you can
00:07:54.460 just not someone
00:07:55.440 better looking than me.
00:07:58.240 Does it depend on the ex too?
00:08:00.880 Like how much you liked the ex
00:08:02.160 whether you're happy
00:08:02.860 for them or mad?
00:08:04.040 No.
00:08:05.060 No just happy
00:08:05.800 to move on.
00:08:07.380 So I kind of look
00:08:08.900 at life as lessons.
00:08:09.880 So for me not to be
00:08:11.240 with someone
00:08:11.760 I mean it's taken me
00:08:12.780 a while to get here
00:08:13.460 to be fair
00:08:14.060 but it's my stance now
00:08:15.860 it wasn't previously
00:08:17.060 possibly maybe before
00:08:18.500 but
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