She Cheats With Ugly Men
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss infidelity in relationships and why women cheat. We also talk about monogamy vs. polygamy and why it s better for men to be monogamous than it is for women to be polyamorous.
Transcript
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But I'm saying, like, what you're saying isn't true, that the men are leaving, it's the women leaving.
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They're filing for the divorce, but what's leading to the divorce?
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If I'm a woman at home with your kids and I'm taking care of the household, I'm being faithful to you.
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And just because you're paying the bills, you're out, you know, sleeping with every Sarah and Jessica that walks by.
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That's only a small percentage of men that can sleep with multiple women.
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So it's only like 15 to 20 percent of men, maybe 30 tops.
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I mean, it's so the majority of men cannot sleep with multiple women.
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Well, even if they sleep with one woman, it's still cheating.
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I'm saying like women find 80 percent of men is unattractive, ugly.
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So just because you find ugly doesn't mean we're not cheating with them.
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But I'm saying like as women in whole, like a lot of times women, we're emotional cheaters.
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There's, you know, some women might cheat off of looks.
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But when we decide to step out of a relationship, it is always because emotionally at home, something is being neglected.
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When you lack something in the relationship, you look for it elsewhere.
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If you try to deal with it first and you ask and you address the issue and you try to resolve it within and then another, you know, don't know, 10, 8 years later and nothing has happened to be resolved.
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But it's interesting because it's like you guys, whenever the woman does something wrong, like she leaves or she cheats.
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It's always like, well, why is men the same way that's why I just said, but if I mean, no, no, no, you guys didn't give that benefit of the doubt to the dad who left that there wasn't.
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You know, it is expected of a man like you expect.
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Like you got to think about when the earth was made, men back then were having multiple wives.
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So now we have this thing where, okay, you know, they're bringing polygamy back, but before they really brought polygamy back, now we have this thing where, you know, it's one and one.
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Well, it's actually, women are picking polygamy.
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I actually think that monogamy benefits more men than benefits women.
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Because when we're in monogamy, that means like more men are getting laid.
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One out of three men are virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
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And that's, that's primarily the switches when women have more mate selection.
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So a hundred years ago, that was when women started to move into apartments and be able to basically like be on their own.
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Before it was like, yeah, before it was like dad's house, husband's house.
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And it's funny because the more mate selection we have, the stupider we are.
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But it's always, the bigger the menu, you don't know what to eat, right?
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We'll go for a smaller and smaller percentage of men.
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I've had so many girls come on the show and say they've dated a celebrity.
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How many girlfriends still like all of these high value, you know, guys have?
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Like they say, but the fact that, the fact that, you know, this shows it's common, right?
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And so really, it's the men that have more choices.
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But if you actually look like eligible men, when it comes to dating, if you look like eligible
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men, not even just age, the ones that are not in jail, that are not dead.
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What person of the population do you think is in jail?
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Like if you've been running into men in jail, that's you probably.
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You literally can go to the corner store in New York and get locked up.
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Like there is no, you know, so you can be dating a guy and he gets locked up.
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That's happened to me a couple of times, more than once.
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But I'm saying if you actually think of like eligible single bachelors, right?
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Who's not married, who's not dead, who's not in jail.
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All the men now, and I don't want to bring it here, I don't want to offend anybody, but
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So if you add that into it, who's really left for women?
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I mean, I would argue what women are left for men.
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If you look, okay, if you look by, and a lot of people think I hate on women, but it's
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just if you look at an evolutionary point of view, most women today would be cast out.
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Age for one, like over 30, you were kind of done.
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Not being a virgin on your wedding night, your chance of being married was like, no, you're
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But 95% of women are not virgins on their wedding.
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I'm not saying we have to be, but I'm saying if we're going from a historical point of view,
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But because it was chauvinist male society, that's why.
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What percentage of male are virgins on their wedding?
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Like women don't give a shit about a man's virginity.
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Women don't care about purity, so it's not the same.
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Stability is what most women after a certain age go for.
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You know, it's funny because women, like if we're going to go for traditional values,
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like maybe men don't make like enough for one income, but they still make more money
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But I would say most women are more sexually experienced than most men.
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Well, because I just, one out of three men are either virgins or having had sex in the
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When you look at those statistics, you got to remember, that's just like a small population
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that they sit there and, you know, study and ask these questions.
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Well, I mean, we can argue they're lying by 10 percent, but if they do it in multiple
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cities and they're coming up with the same conclusion in the West, you start to see a
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But this is where I'm saying, because like, like, I mean, if you want to take like body
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count statistics for women tend to be way more variable than like men, because again,
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But what's just but it's still a targeted populated audience.
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It's not like in whole, because if you actually look at it in whole and you like fairly went
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to every single different group, every cultural race wise, all of that, those statistics would
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But they sit there and it's a certain audience they target so they can get the results that
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It's like in multiple cities, they're all talking to each other and saying, try to get
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So when you're in the West, it's like they've done it in different cities and it's roughly
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OK, so if you look in the UK and US, right, did they sit there and go to the same demographic
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Like, did they sit there and go to maybe all of the well to do hospitals or were they going
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Accidents like were they going into every single region, like different cultural regions to
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There was probably one set group that they wanted.
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So the statistics that are given to us is actually one in twenty three, one for black women dating
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What like as far as like to get a single man, one in twenty three for black women to get
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I thought it was like forty five percent were single childless and in the middle class
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I could be wrong, but I thought it was like thirty five to forty five percent.
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But a single straight black man, single straight black man.
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And it is hard for us to get by because we are fighting with thousands of other women
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It's like we'll kind of blame the men instead of looking at the quality of women because
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the trend of women not getting married is across the board.
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Like like I think white women, it's fifty percent like in every generation, it's coming
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So a lot of times it's like we'll blame the men when it's like we don't look at the quality
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But you're looking at the things that like men want in like that women want in men.
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If you're a man and you have 20 different hot women in front of you, it's like the Hunger
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You're literally playing the Hunger Games to get a man these days.
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Just I think that you're kind of removed from the average male's experience dating because
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I don't think that's the average guy's experience dating at all.
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If you look at each man, right, the average man, he's at least probably talking to six
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No, because the data shows the number one way people under 30 are meeting is dating apps.
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So a lot of people say dating apps isn't real life, but it is now.
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That's the number one way that people are meeting under 30.
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So what percent of the time do you think women swipe right and say, yes, I'd like to go on
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Like one in 20 pictures or something like that?
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But I have actually friends who met on Tinder and got married.
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Oh, how many pics she swipes until she says, yeah.
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As an avid dating app user, I would probably say less than 10%.
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So if women, the number one way people are meeting is dating apps, and we're only swiping
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right 5% of the time, how is a guy going to talk to six chicks at a time?
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Because as soon as you walk out your building, yo, ma, hey, ma, can I talk to you?
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As women, we go on these dating apps a lot of time because it's easier for us to, you
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Like some men may be intimidated to come up and walk to a woman and be like, hey, let me
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So how many girls does a guy typically have to approach to get a number?
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I would say probably like every 15 to 20 girls, maybe.
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I mean, it depends on someone's ability and, you know, how much reference they have.
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But I mean, if I was out of a guy and seen him throw it down, he's probably going to do
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What kind of average are we talking about, though?
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Are we talking about, you know, the average for Johnny or are we talking about the average
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Like how many women are they going to have to approach to get a number and like they're
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not going to, you know, like there's no trickery like, oh, I've got a parcel that's yours.
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Well, yeah, but I don't think they're average men, Johnny.
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You've been taking them to India to meet the Dalai Lama.