She Claims That Men Are Insecure
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Summary
In this episode we talk about cheating and why men cheat. We also talk about why women cheat and why they let themselves go of control in a relationship. We discuss why women should be able to take control of their relationship.
Transcript
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But at the same time too, like, again, like, let's just, like I said, make it with me and you,
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like, if you're my girlfriend and you don't want to sleep with me, the, the, my first go-to isn't
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to go try to sleep with someone else. I'm not getting it from you. I would want to explore
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the emotional depths of whatever you're feeling. What am I not doing? Why do you not want to be
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close to me? I want to be intimate with you. But you're thinking like a woman and that's how a
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woman, right. Right. But like, like men, it's just, come on, you know how guys are. Like,
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I'm sure you, you especially like, like, like being, being as beautiful as you are. Like
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most guys, if you put yourself on a platter in front of them would be down. Yeah. I mean,
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yeah. Yeah. That's saying much, but yeah. Yeah. I mean, but that's, that's what I'm saying. Like
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men, men have, if you're giving him sex, you'll still cheat because there's options. I would say
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most men that have women on them on a silver, for them on a silver platter will cheat. Yeah. Like I
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would say most, but not all men, most, most men work a normal nine to five. They go to work,
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they come home. There's maybe one or a couple girls in the office, whatever they, he might
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cheat there. But most men, girls aren't really checking for. So if you date an average guy,
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unless you're starving him of sex, it's a lot of work for men to go out and get sex. That's
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why I say, what part did you have to play in him cheating? Like, okay. If you were, you were
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with elite athlete, right? They're just going to cheat. That's just, I see the normal. I saw
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D three basketball players. I can't, I can't look at NBA. I was like, I can't, but okay. But
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like your average nine to five, Joe, it's a bunch of work for him to go out and get a girl. So
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it's like, what part did you have to play? A lot of women are always nagging on their husbands.
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They got, they gained a bunch of weight after they had a kid, Brittany showing us firsthand.
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You don't have to do that. And, and it's like, then they stopped sleeping with him. And the
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men are like, wait, wait, wait, wait. I thought I got 120 pound wife. That was going to sleep
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with me all the time. Now she got the ring where I'm locked into a contract for life. And you could
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take my kids with me and my money and put me on child support, all this stuff. And now you're
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going to gain a bunch of weight and not sleep with me. Like, what did you expect to happen?
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You're not holding up your, yeah. And so men, like, that's another reason men don't want
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to get married. Cause I'm like, Oh, I even had a guy tell me this. He's like, I don't want
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to get married. I don't want her to get fat. But you know why, why a lot of the time as
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well, I may just say one thing. A lot of the time, the reason why some, some men get a little
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bit messed up comes down to insecurities and let me land. And I'll explain to you why
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a lot of the time, the women that let themselves go in a relationship or in a marriage is also
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down to the fact that men, now that they own the woman, they do not want the woman to be
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approached. They don't want the woman to be desired by other men. It comes down to the
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whole territorial thing, which then means that you are now going to punish or going to complain.
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Are you going to put the woman in a position where she feels like whatever she looks like
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is a problem. So she'll let go of it and she won't even work for it. That's also another
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thing. Another side of things. Women don't just let go of themselves for no reason. They start to
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let go of themselves because there's no desirability in general, many to understand as a woman for you
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to be beautiful and to feel beautiful. It's not just about you telling me that I'm the most
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beautiful girl in the world. You know, I just, to me, like that's just nonsense. Girls let
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themselves go because they eat too much and they're lazy. I know a couple girls that got
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married and gained like 50 pounds. None of them are happy they gained the weight. They
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all wish they were thinner, but they're too lazy to fix it. It's like, I don't know. And
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now they have the ring. It's like less incentive. You know, when you get, you guys know, when
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you get breakup with someone, you are in the gym, you're trying to look like you're not me
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too. Me too. I'm not saying I'm special. Me too. Or in the gym, we're trying to like get
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our bodies right. All this stuff. And then we get a man and we don't, we don't keep it.
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I mean, the way I was raised, you cater to your man. So you've got, this is your king.
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And I'm not, I'm not saying you, you need to look good for him. So I don't know about
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letting yourself go. No, I've got him now. I need to keep him.
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I, I, I agree with you, but I'm not saying you in particular. I'm saying this is what the
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men are saying. This is, these are the issues they're saying.
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Yeah. Obviously I think it's wrong. Like when you get into a relationship, I don't think
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like letting yourself go, I think it's a problem as a woman. Like why should you do that? Because
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it's going to leave you. So I do agree with that.
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Do you think a man can leave a woman if she lets herself go? He's asked her multiple times
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to lose the weight and she won't do it. I wouldn't say. Assuming, let's say there's no kids involved
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because kids kind of change things. Well, let's say there's no kids. Well, to be honest, yes,
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because no, but it's not unfair. You'll be telling your guy, how many times do you say,
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listen, I told him a million times to not this, to not do this. I told him a million
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times to get up off his ass. I told him a million times to do this. He didn't do it.
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I left him. If you as a man, you're speaking to your girl and you're trying to make sure
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that she improves and she is better and she is not doing that. The problem is not that
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she's not losing the weight. The problem is the mentality, which is the fact that you are
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not willing to be better and get better so that we can both be happy and have the spark for life.
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See, this is what I mean when I say it's like, there's little things that are open
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misandry against men and we don't always realize it. So like in this instant, you kind of hesitated.
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But if I came forward and I'm not saying I don't think it's intentional, but if I said,
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yeah, I left him because he wouldn't work. He wouldn't get a job. You would be like, yes,
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girl. And you know you shouldn't be with a bum. And it's like, that's a female bum,
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