She Dated A Feminine Man
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the issue of single fathers and how it affects single fathers, single mothers and single fathers in general. We discuss the importance of a single father and what single fathers need to do in order to be a good single father to their children.
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But I feel like, how can I, but I think that's how guys hear it when we, when we say we have
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to be masculine because there's no masculine, because there's not a guy around or we have
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I feel like for me, when I had to, was in masculine energy is when I was in a relationship
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He was allowing me to make this, I like making decisions, but it was a thing of where I was
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making all of the decisions like, oh, it's fine.
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I was in a masculine energy because the man wasn't operating in the masculine energy.
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So I was basically like struggling and fighting every single day for the, why are you picking
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Well, I was very young when I met him, I was 18.
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So I didn't know about feminine, masculine energy or young, oh, he looks good or he's
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So I didn't know that then it wasn't until seven years of gone past.
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But I was like ignoring it because I was like, oh, this is who I love.
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I want to be with and ignore when you're in love.
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So for seven years, you were masculine, masculine.
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Because I'd imagine like if you do something for seven years, how do you just break that
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So I'm single at the moment because I've had to learn that I basically stopped by not
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And realizing that, oh my gosh, I was operating in masculine energy because they wasn't.
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It's just something that they couldn't do wasn't within them.
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So now I'm in a learning process that, okay, I don't want to be masculine anymore.
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I want to be soft, but still, I'm not a type of soft person that just sit at home.
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I like to earn, but I want to be able to be for a man to look at me and be like, this is
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So for the single fathers, what actually stops the guy from getting a replacement woman?
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I mean, maybe he doesn't like the modern women today, a lack of wives, common law marriage.
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I mean, the risks that come with marriage, not wanting to bring a bunch of women in and
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out of the home, knowing they might leave, like knowing that's hard on a child.
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And even if he just finds a girlfriend to just facilitate the mother being there.
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So he doesn't have to be a full on feminine single dad.
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He might not want to be introducing women to his child because it's not easy.
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He might think, Oh, if I introduce this woman, how long is she going to be there for?
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I mean, women, I mean, women leave 70 to 80% of the time in divorce, like in marriages.
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And so if it's a girlfriend, how long is she really going to be there?
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I mean, I think that's a feminine point of view because for us, it's like there's always
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But for men, it's not always, I mean, one in three men are sexless.
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They haven't had sex in the past year or they're virgins under 30.
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And so it's not as simple as, Oh, just find someone.
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It's very, very, very easy to actually find just a normal, genuine female that can actually
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facilitate her needs because we have the feminists.
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I think it's extremely difficult to find anybody in the world today.
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Like when you say like there's men that have gone without being in a relationship for years,
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I'm, I'm one of those people, like I've gone years without seeing anyone because I'm not
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for seeing that particular with what I want in my life.
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And then in terms of like having someone around my child, I don't believe I could even consider
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I don't want anybody around my child because I know my partner would be upset about the
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fact that there's another man around his child.
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So I don't think that I find that very disrespectful unless your man has specifically said I'm happy
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But if you really think about it from the beginning, when you're actually dating someone,
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there's red flags and you've got green flags and it's very easy to actually suss out the
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People reveal themselves in many different ways.
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And like I said, we have the feminists out there that's revealing that they want to
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So it's now easy for men to point out, okay, this is what the feminists display as.
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I can say not just women, I say men, like once you become entangled in relationships
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like children, marriage, or living with somebody, I think that's when you really get to know
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Like people are pretending to be somebody, whether it's red or green flags, whatever you
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But once you generally get to know someone, things change, people change.
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One in four marriages are sexless and it's usually on the part of the women.
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No one can actually hide their true self throughout the whole time.
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That's up to you if you want to let the red flag pass.
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Some people get married and they'll buy a house together.
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And like, then the woman or all man will want all of the house, like they will lose everything
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Then you've got broken men and women in society who are truly broken.
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I know someone that got divorced and his ex-wife killed his dog.
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From the beginning, she would have displayed some time.
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I don't think that you're saying from the beginning, but you can meet someone in the beginning and
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And then they've gone through a life experience whilst being with you.
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But seeing someone and living with them is two different things.
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You never know someone until you live with them.
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And how much are you going to change in 40, 50 years?
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If you really want a long marriage, I mean, people change at times.
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Some guys do ignore red flags, but I just think when it's their kid that's at risk, it's
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like a lot of guys just would rather avoid that situation altogether.
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I think that's the most likely person that is to abuse your child sexually.
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Men don't meet their real wife until they meet her in divorce court.
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As a single father of three girls, it is effectively impossible to find out a woman who I could trust
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to be around them, and I need to be more masculine in the role, not less.
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There are certain feminine roles that I have stepped into.
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My ex refuses to put our daughter in a dress, so I make sure to do so.
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Tony, imagine managing people actively breaking laws made for equality for men and women and
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doing the same work for 60 years ago minimum in the Western world.
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As someone who has worked in construction all my life, no general laborer will make as much as a journeyman.
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I'm a 41-year-old man who raised four kids from 8 to 18.
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My decisions made more sense, but it went her way because I was at work longer.
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I fought more when I came home and I had two STR.
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Thank you, Pearl, for showing neutrality and acknowledging both sides of gender dynamics,
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which is an aspect of physics necessary to being at harmony at a societal scale.
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It all begins with the nuclear family and fatherless households with women who have daddy issues.
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The blonde woman is truly refreshing to hear from.
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She is so grounded and humble and, dare I say, beautiful.
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She is so humbled that she does not believe she's in the top 20%.
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Whichever one said that she would go to war is lying.
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Our countries are already fighting war in Ukraine without officially telling us, pack your bags and head out then.
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Women want equal rights but refuse to be drafted and or participate as equal under the law in context to what the substantial rights are for men and woman.
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Cutting your hair and talking deeper doesn't make you a XY in the slightest.
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For the blonde, admitting you're not 20% puts you in the top 20% for men.
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Keep your body count under 500 and you'll get a good man.
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Throughout history, women have always worked in some form.
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The fairy tale of women staying at home was always the rich.
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Only in recent times was the stay-at-home mom a thing for the masses.
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Why do modern women think being submissive to their boss is better than to her man?
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Women look for romance because it's foreign to them.
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I make six figures a year and the lady on the far right with the child is going to be alone.
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He has to make more and take care of her and the child.
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A man can't be the head of the household if his woman makes more than him.
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Men who are not the product of single parent mother homes make the best partners and husbands.
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Any woman who says I am the table has literally objectified themselves.
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It is an uncomfortable admission that they bring zero to the table.
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The greater the bravado behind it, the greater the lie.
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We call it post-nut clarity and all men feel that way.
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It is easier for us to have connectionless sex.
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