JustPearlyThings - She DEBUNKED Modern Women’s Delusion

00:00:00.000 this is the thing like we compromise where it always benefits us and never benefits the man

00:00:04.000 because when we compromise it's like at 30 and that's not what men want

00:00:10.160 when you talked about the dating market do all the women on the panel believe that women are

00:00:14.240 the problem with the dating market they contribute they contribute 100 they contribute because there's

00:00:20.560 one can i just say this yeah there's more women on the market in the dating market and how i would 1.00

00:00:26.480 put it is everyone so a lot of women say they're the prize but they don't act like a prize so they're 1.00

00:00:32.480 readily available if you're available to 25 men how are you a prize you're readily available i put

00:00:38.880 it like this if you have a rolex they don't advertise rolex you know the value of it if you see a ferrari

00:00:45.440 they don't advertise that you know the value of it if you're on socials dating apps advertising

00:00:50.960 yourself with no clothes you know trying to get male attention are you really a prize but what

00:00:56.720 that sounds like to me is a cognitive dissonance huh that that sounds like a cognitive dissonance to

00:01:00.880 me so like you think of one thing but you're not the other so that still goes back to the fact that

00:01:05.280 women are potentially the problem in the dating market because of this delusion that they they 1.00

00:01:09.280 carry i'm the prize yeah i deserve this and i deserve that yet read i'm not actually the prize 0.50

00:01:14.560 like how can you be a prize at all if you're a virgin if you're not a virgin

00:01:17.440 no i'm saying like back in the 19 in the 1950s like like you were a hoe if you if you slept with 0.99

00:01:27.440 like two people i think men nowadays would pray for two and so it's like like how are you a prize if

00:01:34.960 you're not a virgin and you're well the first of all that sorry the social parameters have changed

00:01:40.800 okay we know this and we're acknowledging that's the case here in this but men haven't changed just

00:01:45.200 because the social parameters but the thing is the social the social parameters have changed to

00:01:49.280 appease women yeah and so so but men have remained the same they want the same things women have 0.56

00:01:54.800 changed no but as i said the social parameters have changed so the social parameters for men have

00:02:00.320 changed and the social parameters for women have changed what do you mean by definition social 0.95

00:02:04.480 parameters so for example materialistically men are supposed to still provide be able to provide

00:02:12.080 at a higher rate at a faster rate from a younger age this is a social parameter change it's not

00:02:18.500 realistic it is set out by women i agree but with the women with the ladies now a lot of us we have

00:02:25.420 a materialistic approach to how we view men and when they can't provide that we get upset we don't

00:02:32.080 actually look at like what you said the characteristics the moralistic values we don't

00:02:37.320 look at actually when i look at this man do i see family because a lot of people they're they're

00:02:42.640 they want uh financial benefits but they don't actually want family what does that make women 1.00

00:02:49.380 the problem then yeah because men are the same like if anything more is expected of men is less

00:02:54.580 is given to them i think that um we're getting married a lot later in life and that's you know

00:03:04.180 part of it so like for example maybe 50 years ago getting married at age 16 to 18 might not have

00:03:11.860 been a big deal whereas now when a when a a young woman wants to get married at 21 it's like are you 0.94

00:03:19.000 ready for this you know have you finished uni yeah have you traveled there's there's so much that

00:03:24.300 women are doing that they weren't doing 50 years ago that they're doing now and it's it's affecting 1.00

00:03:28.780 the age that people get married so that's gonna make women the problem yeah oh i never i never 0.95

00:03:34.200 said women are not but then but you did did you not say that they were the prize i said we're the

00:03:39.960 prize when we're younger oh yeah yeah before 40 and i'm curious i haven't heard much from you what

00:03:45.180 do you think because i don't agree okay i feel like men are the problem okay oh great tell me why

00:03:50.660 tell me why because i'm young isn't it so i'm just thinking when i was younger women were always the 1.00

00:03:58.060 one um more involved in the relationships men were always the one cheating treating the women wrong

00:04:05.340 so that now i'm 21 all of us are tired at the age of 21 why did you pick them

00:04:10.920 if you if you if women hate being cheated on why'd you pick the ones that cheat girls know you know 1.00

00:04:18.100 early on that they're gonna cheat on you you know you know damn well which you know you know you

00:04:21.720 know you know damn well you know damn well that that guy is capable of cheating so how that's how

00:04:27.600 is that on him when you picked him do you know what after i finished with the guys that cheat i was

00:04:32.600 not like let me go to a nice guy yeah but now you're but now you're a leftover for him oh but i was

00:04:37.740 only like 18 so look i'm not i'm not saying i'm just saying that's how men view it 18 yeah i mean i mean

00:04:43.320 i don't i don't know i'm not gonna ask like what i'm just saying like i'm saying this is common so

00:04:48.680 so you're young but i'm saying this is common where girls will go through the bad boys and the cheaters

00:04:52.440 until they're 27 28 and then come to the nice guys who they've been rejecting the last decade

00:04:57.360 right and saying take me oh i'm ready for you and they're like well now you're chad's leftovers

00:05:03.720 i hate that but it's like how is that on them when we pick them because one out of three men are

00:05:10.060 either virgins or haven't had sex in the last year so there's a lot of men that won't cheat on

00:05:13.700 you you just don't want them look at me look at look in your friend zone or go to go to you guys

00:05:24.140 don't have talk do you guys have taco bell here you do go to go to taco bell ask the guy out behind

00:05:28.760 the counter i bet you he won't cheat on you come on don't do that go ask him out

00:05:33.560 what you know how we're talking about the whole team don't we feel like back in the day there was

00:05:40.920 no social media like they were writing letters everyone's covered up from head to toe i feel

00:05:45.540 like because now there's more temptation even for the guys because women because yeah because women 0.63

00:05:50.260 got worse yeah because because men will do anything to get laid literally literally anything so 0.97

00:05:55.760 if if we required marriage to get laid we would all be married 0.68

00:05:59.600 if we if we required a fancy date so our values have lessened that's what you're saying

00:06:04.920 i would say women have thrown it at them yeah like we're less valuable to men because men are the 0.99

00:06:10.040 same so can we ask the men that what's valuable to them that would be yeah go ahead

00:06:14.360 what do you mean like what what does value mean to you in a woman uh femininity uh submission

00:06:25.140 um being my piece that's the key one yeah it's important so important they love that one yeah

00:06:33.620 that's it yeah i would say literally the same stuff as him like literally the same i'm being feminine

00:06:38.860 peace of mind um being able to look at yourself as well and have self-development like be able to

00:06:45.100 actually say accountability yeah do you know i mean and being able to have a conversation about stuff

00:06:48.960 like if there's an issue which some a lot of people can't do to be honest so also question do you

00:06:54.520 guys value purity would you guys would you guys rather have a girl that slept with 100 guys or 0.99

00:06:59.600 one guy okay let's let's say would you rather have a girl that slept with 10 guys or 50 1.00

00:07:09.280 10 obviously okay okay so you value purity yeah yeah definitely yeah same thing yeah yeah okay what

00:07:15.620 about you same as me boy you know what's crazy um that you're talking about purity i went into

00:07:21.140 someone's tiktok live but it's about purity and she was talking about andrew tate and you know he

00:07:24.960 said the same kind of thing yeah with girls sleeping with loads of people and the girls sleeping with 1.00

00:07:28.780 less um and she said well i don't really care what guys think i'll sleep with whoever i want and as

00:07:34.040 much people as i want nothing you could do about it in my head i just thought this is the problem

00:07:38.880 because i don't know if there's like something that's mad but they will still get wiped so

00:07:43.100 yeah but not by like but no i don't agree with it i don't agree with that i think that's very

00:07:47.420 tapped but that's crazy but those kind of girls i'm sorry but those kind of girls i feel like i 0.97

00:07:52.440 strongly disagree it's mad because you get like let's say i've seen good guys that will go for that

00:07:57.500 and i'm just there like what i'll tell you why they're the nice guys picking up the leftovers and

00:08:02.160 the problem is those girls don't respect him because they actually want the dude that cheated 1.00

00:08:05.960 whenever whenever a girl whenever a girl has a guy that she always complains about that's who

00:08:10.900 she loved the most it's not it's not the one that she doesn't really talk about he said he was such

00:08:15.740 a good boyfriend he was such she didn't like him you're laughing you know it's true and so those guys

00:08:22.080 pick them up at 30 and then they'll still cheat with the the guy they really wanted or wish they

00:08:27.580 were with him yeah what done for but that's that's why that's why like virgins should be preferred like 1.00

00:08:34.700 if you if you've slept with one person and you get married what is your chance of a happy marriage

00:08:39.920 do you think i heard your podcast you actually mentioned this but then do you know what i find

00:08:45.400 crazy that you also get the guys that complain that oh my day she didn't know what she was doing 0.99

00:08:49.540 in bed and then now he started cheating five years down the line because she's so dead and also no

00:08:53.860 wait no wait no wait no i've heard a guy say we actually weren't sexually compatible that's the 0.64

00:08:58.260 reason why because he was probably too much of a freak most girls can't have good sex serious 0.91

00:09:02.520 most girls are not good at sex how do you know 1.00

00:09:05.500 no honestly most girls just take wood let's be real like but if it's your partner would you not 0.92

00:09:15.600 teach them and would you not would you lot not like grow like as in you're teaching her what you

00:09:20.500 like she teaching you what she likes of course it's contextual um i don't think you can be your

00:09:24.440 partner and not expect her to like certain things but that's what i'm saying certain guys

00:09:29.360 they're just overly freaky because most men are very simple to please

00:09:32.340 it's true but guys would prefer a girl they could teach

00:09:38.480 versus because if she's coming in a freak he's like where'd you learn that

00:09:42.120 where'd you where'd you

00:09:44.720 i i i do you know what's so funny i have this discussion with like my male cousins my brothers

00:09:50.480 i feel like every guy says listen i'd be read men are from mars women are from venus

00:09:53.720 one of my favorite books men are so simple well what you lot say peace of mind when they don't

00:10:00.460 want to talk just leave them he will come back when he's ready and i feel like because we're so

00:10:05.060 emotional and erratic sometimes it's like you know how men are quite logical when you call your man of a

00:10:09.280 problem we just want to hear is it is it he's like the reality most times we're not doing well because

00:10:14.360 of our nature we don't we try in our heads we're like like me for example i feel like i can be very

00:10:20.180 peaceful i can be very understanding but there are times in the month where i'm not i'm just not

00:10:26.620 having it because of my i don't know maybe i can blame it on hormones or or that day is just not

00:10:31.680 the day or i'm in my head about something that he's done as much as i want to be peaceful i might

00:10:36.720 not be peaceful that day and so i feel like somebody then it wouldn't be your character

00:10:40.520 i'm not saying that it's it's good that i'm like that i know that it can be a problem but

00:10:46.600 relationships are never perfect you know i mean so you could control that at work right i i can and

00:10:51.300 the thing is i do control it in my relationship as much as i can there's no relationship that

00:10:55.700 doesn't have fights or arguments you know i mean so but sometimes you go from zero to a hundred and

00:11:01.440 you know you've done as long as you acknowledge you've done it and you're able to apologize and

00:11:05.340 accept um accountability and try and change you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are

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JustPearlyThings - April 01, 2023

She DEBUNKED Modern Women’s Delusion

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