JustPearlyThings - She Got Alpha Widowed By Leonardo Di Caprio

00:00:00.000 knows who tom brady is yep yeah you don't no you know who tom brady is so you know no oh what

00:00:10.640 all right tom brady is one of the argue i'm gonna chat don't don't kill me i'm not a huge football

00:00:16.640 person but um arguably the greatest quarterback of all time um or one of depends who you who you

00:00:22.880 ask they'll argue about that i don't really care um so um tom brady married giselle and i giselle

00:00:30.720 boon chin i don't know basically supermodel okay fun fact about her she dated leonardo dicaprio 1.00

00:00:38.880 for like five years before before tom brady um so um tom brady is one of my fans sent this the

00:00:47.040 greatest nfl quarterback of all time with seven championships rings and five mvp awards in his 22

00:00:54.480 year career tom brady is 45 years old and worth 250 million dollars giselle is 42 year old two years

00:01:03.760 old and is worth 400 million dollars they have two kids and they are seeking um they just got divorced

00:01:10.640 or they're filing for divorced and they're seeking joint custody tom brady has one child from a

00:01:16.400 previous relationship just giselle states that the plan was that after the 2021 season tom was

00:01:22.800 supposed to stay home with the kids so she could go back to work as a supermodel at 42 it's a little

00:01:27.920 delusional in my opinion um things to consider giselle was alpha widow do you guys know what an alpha 1.00

00:01:35.600 widow is no so it basically just means okay you ever seen a girl that can't get over that x you like

00:01:42.160 that girl like she always goes back that x every time she breaks up with one guy back to that x back 1.00

00:01:46.080 to that it's just like basically a girl sees him as the best she could have done and that guy had

00:01:50.160 like the biggest imprint or impact on her life basically um allegedly alpha widowed by leo leonardo

00:01:57.200 dicaprio she was with leo before tom she had no idea who tom was when they met and didn't know about

00:02:02.320 his status as a quarterback for the patriots when he was courting her what was tom's home life like that

00:02:08.400 he didn't want to retire rumors were that giselle was impossible to deal with she said i don't want to 0.99

00:02:14.000 have to be his caretaker when he gets old because of his injuries tom brady has doubled down on his

00:02:19.600 commitment to the tampa bay buccaneers and says that he isn't retiring anytime soon so question for

00:02:25.760 the men if you became a one percent man or maybe ten percent and you had to choose between your purpose

00:02:33.520 and your wife what would you choose purpose purpose purpose straight away why well she's not going to 0.92

00:02:42.000 stay around when i'm finished with my purpose from the sounds of it um you can always get another

00:02:47.040 wife like respectfully respectfully you can always get another wife you know but it's just that the 0.79

00:02:52.400 purpose is going to last longer you're going to be more fulfilled um i think everything you

00:02:56.720 get from your purpose she'll be getting all the benefits so that to some degree you'll be a happier

00:03:01.600 happier husband you'll be a better father and it'll impact their family positively

00:03:06.560 yeah you got you got things to do as a man and i think um well i strongly believe that if you put a

00:03:12.560 woman or relationship above your purpose then you're destined for failure because it's you got to be able

00:03:17.840 to keep that relationship going and um yeah you'll be sorry how would you feel about your wife

00:03:26.480 having you make that choice are ultimatums ever good in a relationship yeah it speeds up it speeds

00:03:31.920 things up i don't want to i don't want to like be in a situation where you're giving me these trying

00:03:38.240 to give me these ultimatums when um like we have kids together or i've already um taken you down the

00:03:44.080 aisle and then you're coming with these random ultimatums and stuff like that yeah give them to me

00:03:47.840 early so we can get this um we know where we're at and she should have known she knew what she signed 0.89

00:03:51.920 up for like she knew the game she knew that this is important to him and if she's also like

00:03:56.240 impossible to deal with it's like what we spoke about on i was on here before she's just giving

00:04:01.040 him a headache is there's more reason for him to go and play sport and and follow his purpose

00:04:05.680 have you guys ever been given an ultimatum

00:04:07.680 no no no not even like small ones like i want you to not serious not serious ones not serious

00:04:22.160 ones it's just like you know what i have been given those um those uh random questions you know

00:04:29.120 them games that you play like what would you do if i you know those are the worst games to play ever

00:04:34.880 like oh what would you do like if i got with megan good and like you know i mean just stuff like

00:04:38.480 that stuff that's never really gonna happen but they just breed a little bit of fear into your

00:04:42.400 relationship so uh yeah i don't play those games but um well yeah question for the women 1.00

00:04:49.280 you're wealthy and your husband is wealthy you want him to spend less time at work or retire and

00:04:54.400 he doesn't do it do you stay or do you leave kids or without kids um those both give me both uh with

00:05:03.040 kids you stay without kids you compromise and so i think um if you're both wealthy i get a man without

00:05:11.440 a purpose is less attractive anyway you want a man who's got a purpose and he's got those things but

00:05:16.160 um part of the purpose should be to build a happy marriage as well and i think that should be embedded

00:05:20.880 in his purpose and if it involves completely neglecting the marriage and the kids that's

00:05:26.000 also it requires some compromise i wouldn't want it to just be you go do your thing and then we don't

00:05:31.120 matter because the kids need you i need you we need you and we need that foundation at home as well so

00:05:36.960 i would say without kids compromise with kids stay for kids is it more to do with time then time yeah

00:05:44.160 you just need their time a bit more okay what about you um i don't think i would ask him to retire

00:05:51.040 anyway because as she said like a man without purpose it doesn't like you need to value the

00:05:55.200 purpose of the man as in like he needs to value that as well right so i don't think i would ask such

00:06:01.040 questions because i know how important that is for him and i chose him when he had the purpose so

00:06:05.680 what's the point of me asking that later but if he's neglecting the marriage then we need both

00:06:11.040 of us to be in common ground if that makes sense so maybe we can find the solution to it but so i

00:06:15.840 would say i would say i would stay what about you um yeah i agree with you i think i probably wouldn't

00:06:21.840 ask anyway just because i don't know we don't want him to just be there with like i don't know sounds

00:06:27.680 boring but then if that is what i wanted and he didn't do it i would probably leave just because

00:06:32.960 it's what i wanted and it didn't happen and i get bored easily so i don't know you think we should

00:06:37.760 leave every time we don't get what we want i think me personally if it was something very serious

00:06:43.360 where it's like i feel like it could either go this way or i can't do it anymore then i'd rather

00:06:49.440 not do it anymore but i don't see myself getting to a point don't know okay have you ever been with

00:06:56.880 a guy that's really busy and really on his purpose because it you almost feel like you're single when

00:07:01.600 you are with someone that busy as a woman you do feel like well i watched i watched my dad do that

00:07:06.640 growing up yeah and as a woman you just you you live like you're single it's okay if you're okay

00:07:10.880 with it but it does feel like you're a single woman and if you've got kids it does feel like being a

00:07:14.640 single mom it's just that you get the perks of a good life and you know you get that financial but

00:07:19.680 in terms of your day-to-day it's just like well that's the thing modern women are sold to dream 1.00

00:07:23.680 like you can have everything and you you can't if you want a guy that's successful you think he's not

00:07:27.360 going to work a ton that's madness yeah that's madness i'm like my dad worked i don't know 80

00:07:34.800 hours a week most of my life you think you're going to be the center of his world oh my god no

00:07:40.560 yeah makes sense yeah makes complete sense all right question for the girls 0.97

00:07:45.280 if a guy had everything you wanted would you overlook cheating

00:07:51.520 no because that wouldn't be part of what i wanted yeah everything okay

00:07:57.760 interruption the capital is the cup alarm right

00:08:06.960 um what do you mean um because like if he had everything i wanted then he would be loyal

00:08:14.560 i guess and he wouldn't oh yeah but outside of that so so okay okay let's let me let me do you how

00:08:20.080 tall you want a guy to be um i like same height or taller okay so how tall are you five nine five eight

00:08:26.880 let's give him what would have you seem like a six three kind of girl six four six three six 1.00

00:08:32.720 okay i deal um taller but i can settle for same height yeah okay so let's say six three he's got money

00:08:42.720 status could you overlook cheating you don't think you could um and you don't have to work again

00:08:47.920 i could yeah i don't know you know i think i probably could just because i i don't know okay

00:08:57.200 and you said if it's like everything i wanted and advanced like my career and all of that then

00:09:01.360 sure okay what about you no it's not something i would accept to be honest would you prefer a guy

00:09:06.560 you liked less and that was faithful yeah 100 okay you too yeah i think you know what i wish i

00:09:13.840 was and this is not because there's anything wrong in forgiving and moving on i wish i was more

00:09:18.960 forgiving but i think um i'm not strong enough and i'm not forgiving enough as a person

00:09:24.640 and it makes me too insecure if i was more secure in myself and i was more able to let go it'd be fine

00:09:30.320 but because i'm already not the most secure person there is adding that to it i just won't be a good

00:09:34.960 partner going forward i won't be the best version of me you'll get a different version of me and one

00:09:40.400 that is not worth staying with so i wouldn't be able to for his for the sake of us i i don't

JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023

She Got Alpha Widowed By Leonardo Di Caprio

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