JustPearlyThings - April 10, 2023


She Got HUMBLED After HEARING This


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

191.15044

Word count

1,728

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

sentences flagged

Hate speech

4

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode of the podcast, we discuss whether or not single Black women are happier than single Black men. We discuss the statistics regarding single black women and how they differ from the statistics on single Black females across the world.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 not in alignment with where i where i find my foundation so i'm like pushing back on the
00:00:05.600 opinions that he has so heteronormative i i still think it would be sad if you were a single lesbian
00:00:11.920 woman so like i think like personally we're like we're also like making assumptions that she's 1.00
00:00:17.200 single she didn't say that she just said that she doesn't want to have children
00:00:22.080 fair enough but like this like whole conversation was under the perspective of whether or not
00:00:26.080 she would be happy without having children and then the second the second yeah i mean it's a it's
00:00:29.840 a valid question i think yeah your answer could be i would be perfectly happy but i just which is what
00:00:35.120 she said over and over and over again and he's trying to like break down why she's wrong and all
00:00:40.880 these possible i mean i think he's just putting out points that maybe she didn't think about and
00:00:44.720 maybe she has and maybe like but i think that's what we're supposed to do on a podcast and i'm
00:00:49.760 and i'm exploring the idea that i think he's wrong okay wait wait so so what do you what do you think
00:00:56.480 uh what what is it that he said misogynistic i think that like making the the assumption that like
00:01:02.560 her the prospects of her life her future happiness is based upon whether or not a man and objectively a
00:01:09.920 man would find her attractive after the age of like what 35 that he said for me is like
00:01:15.440 is like is misogynist oh i think that's true i don't this i told that i think that's your opinion
00:01:23.120 yeah i mean i think it's true i think most women aren't happy that are that are single childless over 1.00
00:01:28.080 the age of like 45 they're the least happy demographic that's interesting that's interesting i
00:01:32.880 just i just could not get behind that i was asking if you have statistics on that really yeah there's
00:01:37.840 like multiple stuff what about single black women do you have statistics all about black women like 1.00
00:01:44.320 because like i feel like and the only reason i'm asking this is because i feel like we like black
00:01:49.360 women from my perspective again i'm only speaking from my perspective we are very we have such a strong
00:01:56.720 like sense of community that like i i just we don't have i just feel like our our culture is different
00:02:04.400 so those types of statistics i think aren't going to be applicable across i think what like what it
00:02:09.920 would be to black women i must say i think it's applicable very genetically and very very i think
00:02:15.760 i think biologically can i just say one thing real quick right understand people like i'm five foot six
00:02:21.920 give or take half an inch in it so like at the end of the day my entire life i have felt the effects of
00:02:30.640 not being the societal standard of what women expect to you feel me so at the end of the day
00:02:36.320 like for example i'm a man like i can either cry about it and be like oh no women don't like me
00:02:41.600 because i'm short whatever or i can do something about it for for example for me personally i started
00:02:47.520 boxing you feel me so like i started boxing and i tried to show that you know what i'm on the shorter
00:02:53.040 side of things but i can still protect you do you get it and like at the end of the day
00:02:58.400 life throws certain things at you and you just kind of have to deal with it now as a woman there
00:03:04.080 are certain things and i'm so sorry to tell you this but there are certain things you can do that
00:03:09.520 can completely ruin it for you for example if you're a woman and you have only fans i'm sorry but i'm not
00:03:16.880 going to take you seriously that's your opinion dude here's the thing here's the thing look understand
00:03:22.960 i'm an average man i'm not a rich guy or anything like that but i can tell you right now a millionaire
00:03:28.400 if he's looking at you and he knows you got only fans he's not going to take you seriously because
00:03:32.560 there's certain things us mandem look for you feel me nah that i'm curious any any guys any of you
00:03:39.360 take an only fans model seriously no way no way no no no i've not but you know what like
00:03:45.920 what don't sit what did you do for the morning girl you want to make
00:03:57.280 sorry go ahead no so personally i think you can always argue like like people would never take
00:04:07.040 them seriously and your value goes down but it depends what kind of value you're looking at
00:04:11.600 so like their financial value goes up their sexual value goes up no yeah 0.99
00:04:22.800 how does their sexual value go up once people see you've got only fans there's always going to be
00:04:27.760 people in public they'll say nah i'd never be with someone from any fans but check their dms
00:04:32.240 not most to be there for a night yeah but check their dms and you'll see some okay okay i'll give
00:04:38.800 you an example like look look at lana rhodes she can't even keep a man she used to be my favorite 1.00
00:04:44.720 that's like i don't know that's one person from i know but that's like what one of the most i would
00:04:52.640 argue one of the most yeah i would argue one of the most beautiful women i mean i don't know i don't
00:04:56.800 i'm not a consumer of that content but is that part of because i feel like it changes across the
00:05:02.640 demographic obviously that's someone that we've looked at from a different one but there's people
00:05:07.600 like you i'm not sure if any of you have heard of ruby rose someone else yeah but there's people and
00:05:12.480 people look at her and still be like that's still a no no no no no but she's got only fans 0.99
00:05:19.360 she's got only fans so that's what i said her sex her sexual value went up but you'd still smash 1.00
00:05:24.240 i didn't say you'd want to be in a relationship with her but i said her sexual value yeah wait so 0.76
00:05:28.320 your your sexual your sexual value but your relationship like what guy's going to take you
00:05:31.840 serious i know but then some people might i think no no no i'm sorry i mean i mean i can't argue for
00:05:37.280 everyone i mean wait wait and i mean i i mean a sim a simp mate i know yeah see but see this is
00:05:44.160 simp culture people are going to be like oh do you know what you're on only fans i see you
00:05:52.960 can i just say real quick that and this is majority of women they need to understand this right 1.00
00:05:58.400 mandem we have two separate categories right we have one category which is for fun and then there's
00:06:05.280 the one category that is for seriousness you feel me now understand when you see all these insta hoes 0.99
00:06:11.440 sorry can i say hoes that that insta hoes and all that like who are you know dressing up in their bikini 1.00
00:06:16.640 and all of that that's us mandem like just enjoying a woman who's being you know showing off her body and
00:06:23.840 all of that but that's a separate category us mandem when we want to take someone seriously
00:06:29.520 we're looking at different things and that's not usually the whole things that majority of
00:06:35.040 women are showing off these days do you understand there's two different categories there's the fun 1.00
00:06:39.200 category and the relationship okay what were you going to see your hand up first oh yeah i was just
00:06:43.680 going to ask like so would you guys okay so we were talking about like the millionaire wouldn't take
00:06:48.880 the only fan seriously and um most people say like in order to become a millionaire you have to have at
00:06:53.520 at least six streams of income so would you guys genuinely in in a relationship or even like as
00:06:59.520 a married couple would you guys pass off an opportunity for a stream of income if your wife 1.00
00:07:05.280 was inviting you to create the only fans content with you absolutely absolutely i pass all the way up
00:07:12.240 the question i would like i would want my wife putting out her body but you're making it with 1.00
00:07:17.200 her it's yeah it doesn't matter i wouldn't i i wouldn't sell that to anyone would anyone screw
00:07:20.960 their wife on camera for only fans it's sexual stuff anyone raise your hand raise your hand
00:07:25.280 hell no yeah anyone would do it anyone no thank you i would take i would take three jobs night day shift
00:07:33.600 right but what is nice you didn't have to show your face to make sure that right i wouldn't have to do that
00:07:38.960 that's assuming someone knows your identity six months it's a creepy culture man it's a creepy
00:07:44.480 culture guys guys guys guys guys guys guys stop this is one at a time one at a time okay go ahead
00:07:54.560 to add to the um women staying single and lonely after 35 there's a study that says that um women in 0.99
00:08:04.560 this generation after they reach 35 plus they're going to i think it's going to be like what half
00:08:11.040 of the women they're going to be single and it's women women actually it's 50 50 you got to stop you 0.97
00:08:17.040 you don't have a mic like you got one more chance yeah we have to go out so so it's 20 or um 50 of
00:08:24.880 women or 45 of women between the ages of 25 and 45 are predicted to be single and childless so much so
00:08:30.400 that big investors are so that means out of out of all of us half of us will be single and childless
00:08:35.920 um as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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