JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023


She Got Pregnant Even After Taking Contraceptive Pills

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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7 minutes

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1,633

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3

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In this episode, we discuss abortion, birth control and birth control options. We also discuss whether or not women should have the right to choose when it comes to having a child. We have a special guest on the show this week, who has a very interesting opinion on the matter.

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00:00:00.000 Are abortion rights needed to create a truly equal society? 1.00
00:00:04.000 No.
00:00:05.200 Can you explain it a bit further?
00:00:07.200 Like, what do you mean by abortion rights?
00:00:09.680 The right to an abortion.
00:00:10.840 You guys have it here up to six months, but in the US we don't.
00:00:14.000 It's an American channel.
00:00:15.080 So, yeah.
00:00:16.280 So are abortion rights needed to create a truly equal society? 0.96
00:00:22.080 I don't even understand the question.
00:00:23.600 Yeah, of course.
00:00:24.800 Oh, like, should abortion be allowed? 0.98
00:00:27.520 Oh, yeah. You should have a choice.
00:00:30.200 What?
00:00:30.840 Of course.
00:00:31.960 I think abortion should be illegal. 0.73
00:00:36.840 However, obviously we have common law in this country.
00:00:39.720 I do think that there should be some kind of, you know, common law where under specific circumstances you might qualify for one.
00:00:48.740 But I think the general standard legislation should be that it's illegal.
00:00:53.960 And then under certain circumstances or situations, which I think they're pretty obvious.
00:00:59.520 We all know, then it should be allowed.
00:01:02.700 And also, like, if it's, you know, if the child is going to be born, like, disabled or something, I do agree that maybe you should be able to decide if you want to.
00:01:13.180 So, I don't know.
00:01:14.140 That's a really difficult one.
00:01:14.960 I'm not going to get into that because I don't actually know how I feel about that.
00:01:16.920 But generally, I don't really believe in abortion at all, really.
00:01:21.020 What about you?
00:01:22.560 No, I would like to have that option.
00:01:25.600 I would definitely like to have that option.
00:01:27.320 When things happen in life and, you know, I might fall pregnant and I'm...
00:01:33.700 How do you fall pregnant? 0.74
00:01:35.460 Well, I don't know.
00:01:36.780 Things happen.
00:01:37.520 By not being careful.
00:01:39.240 Like, fall pregnant. 0.96
00:01:40.740 That takes all the accountability off of you.
00:01:42.540 Yeah, but if I become pregnant... 1.00
00:01:44.320 Pregnant, yeah, but if I become pregnant and, God forbid, my husband lost his job and, you know, we're not really great financially, whatever the circumstances are, and we are not fit to raise children, of course I want an abortion. 0.83
00:01:58.580 And I should be allowed to do that.
00:02:00.160 Are you typically with men that don't have jobs and can't raise children?
00:02:04.600 I agree with that.
00:02:05.380 I hope not.
00:02:05.960 I agree with that.
00:02:06.540 I hope not, but we never know what will happen in life, you know?
00:02:09.540 So, you've got to have...
00:02:11.080 I would like to know that I have that option.
00:02:13.400 But you have the option of contraception, so why not pick that option first and think preventatively instead of reactionally?
00:02:20.900 Yeah.
00:02:21.740 Of course, and not always 100%.
00:02:24.060 So, things happen.
00:02:26.300 It's 99.5% effective if you get an IUD.
00:02:29.620 I had the contraception pill and I got a child.
00:02:31.680 It didn't work for me.
00:02:33.560 Like...
00:02:33.920 Did you get the IUD and wear a condom too?
00:02:36.220 I don't wear...
00:02:37.120 I wouldn't ever consider that with my partner, but I had the contraceptive pill and it didn't work.
00:02:42.800 And it's 99.9% effective.
00:02:44.620 Which one did you take?
00:02:46.780 What's it called?
00:02:47.840 The morning after pill?
00:02:49.060 Yeah.
00:02:49.400 Was it the 5-day or the 3-day one?
00:02:52.100 So long ago, I don't really know, but it didn't work.
00:02:54.840 Wait, you took the morning after pill?
00:02:56.380 Yeah.
00:02:57.720 I did.
00:02:58.380 That's like the last case resort.
00:03:00.000 I don't take contraception, so I did take the morning after pill and it didn't work.
00:03:04.540 Yeah, but that's a choice to not be on birth control.
00:03:07.160 Yeah, I don't...
00:03:08.480 I'm not on birth control, which is why I said I agree with you.
00:03:11.900 I believe that you should have the option, but I think the options that you choose in terms of not keeping a child,
00:03:18.200 I think you have to...
00:03:18.980 I believe that you should be able to justify them.
00:03:20.980 Like, if a woman feels she's not mentally stable to have the child or for all the right reasons, 0.91
00:03:26.520 I think if you've got options to do everything else, then I do believe you should have that option.
00:03:30.580 That's my opinion.
00:03:31.500 Up to how many months?
00:03:33.420 Oh, no, no.
00:03:34.140 I don't...
00:03:34.920 Like, it has to happen immediately if you do...
00:03:37.620 If it's like you've got a bump and I don't agree with that, I think that's wrong.
00:03:41.840 So here it's up to six months.
00:03:43.600 Do you agree with that?
00:03:44.240 No, no, no, no.
00:03:44.860 That's too far.
00:03:45.580 When do you agree with it?
00:03:46.880 Immediately?
00:03:47.600 Three months?
00:03:48.160 No, that's too far.
00:03:49.600 I think that's very long.
00:03:50.380 Even two, yeah, I'll say that two.
00:03:51.680 Immediately?
00:03:52.520 Like, as soon as you know, if you believe that you don't want a child, you've got to act really quick.
00:03:56.740 And I believe that a woman... 1.00
00:03:57.880 But the woman's body's a bit messy, so you might still be bleeding. 1.00
00:04:01.480 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:01.900 Anything past like seven, eight weeks, and I don't know.
00:04:07.740 I just don't think that's right.
00:04:09.140 A lot of people don't even find that until after two months.
00:04:11.860 I know a couple of people that they're like three months, and they're like,
00:04:14.900 this is your last day to choose.
00:04:16.540 I had somebody ask me to take them to a clinic in London, because I'm from Birmingham,
00:04:21.540 when she was like six months, and I wouldn't do that.
00:04:25.100 Couldn't do that.
00:04:27.440 That's a full-grown baby.
00:04:28.980 I understand it's got a heartbeat as soon as you're pregnant, but that's a full-grown child.
00:04:34.120 You've had long enough to decide.
00:04:36.220 I understand people are completely against it.
00:04:38.540 I respect that, but I just don't...
00:04:40.580 I think the woman should have a choice. 1.00
00:04:42.100 How do you not know for two months?
00:04:43.560 Some people don't get...
00:04:45.460 Some people don't know until eight months.
00:04:46.940 Some people don't know until eight months.
00:04:47.520 Have you heard that story?
00:04:48.380 They're on the plane, and then they had no last thing.
00:04:50.960 But it just goes back to...
00:04:52.300 To me, it's just being bailed out for a bad decision.
00:04:54.840 It's just weird.
00:04:55.460 At the end of the day, take birth control, or don't have sex.
00:04:58.900 But it's a personal choice.
00:05:00.060 Or don't sleep with people that wouldn't be good fathers,
00:05:03.100 or if you're not financially stable.
00:05:07.320 That's not as simple.
00:05:08.340 That's not always the reason for not having a baby.
00:05:10.760 But that's not always an excuse.
00:05:11.880 I don't think it's an excuse that people have one-night stands,
00:05:14.160 and I don't even think that we should be saying, 0.99
00:05:16.380 like, oh, people have one-night stands, so shit, like... 0.99
00:05:18.460 It doesn't have to be a one-night stand. 1.00
00:05:21.120 That's the way you get pregnant, though. 1.00
00:05:22.420 Like, it just happens.
00:05:23.480 You could actually be in a committed relationship,
00:05:26.380 and then you want an abortion for whatever reason. 1.00
00:05:29.800 It absolutely could happen that way,
00:05:30.960 but you can make choices so it doesn't happen.
00:05:33.160 I agree.
00:05:33.500 You could not have one-night stand.
00:05:34.800 But it doesn't change the fact that it does happen.
00:05:36.740 But my whole thing is it's a bailout for poor decisions,
00:05:39.300 because at the end of the day, if you got pregnant,
00:05:40.760 you made a poor decision.
00:05:42.060 I agree.
00:05:42.640 If you didn't want to be pregnant. 0.93
00:05:45.140 There'll be a lot more illegal abortions, though. 1.00
00:05:47.360 Like, people will be going to, like, back corners,
00:05:49.260 and I think it's better to do it the proper way.
00:05:51.500 Well, obviously, there's no proper way to think,
00:05:53.780 but, like, the proper way, surgically, everything,
00:05:56.340 then to go to back corners, down people's alleys.
00:05:58.560 Do you know how abortions are performed?
00:06:00.560 How?
00:06:01.160 They're not nice.
00:06:02.300 They're really not nice.
00:06:02.760 They pull off the limbs one by one.
00:06:06.720 So they pull off the leg, then they pull off the next leg,
00:06:08.760 then they pull off the arm, then the other arm,
00:06:10.980 then they crush the skull and vacuum it out.
00:06:13.640 Is that true?
00:06:14.340 Yeah, that's true.
00:06:15.320 About how many months?
00:06:16.240 Like, six months?
00:06:17.440 You can have that done, like, as soon as it's got limbs.
00:06:20.000 The other way it starves the kid and it, like, falls out.
00:06:23.080 And I had a girl on the show explaining her abortion 1.00
00:06:25.120 at, like, two, three months,
00:06:26.640 and she said she was shocked by how formed it was
00:06:29.660 because it had, like, a full head, a whole...
00:06:32.040 I think she said it.
00:06:33.260 I can't remember the exact stuff she said,
00:06:35.140 but she said she was shocked
00:06:36.020 because a lot of the pictures, like,
00:06:37.180 they don't really inform you of that.
00:06:39.440 Oh, my God.
00:06:40.280 I feel like I'm on the fence, to be honest,
00:06:41.740 because I feel like everyone should have the right
00:06:43.360 to have a choice of what they would like to do with their body.
00:06:46.120 However, like what you just explained to me,
00:06:47.920 I don't agree with that because life...
00:06:50.160 But what about the baby's choice?
00:06:53.440 So what about the women, right?
00:06:54.980 What about the baby's life?
00:06:55.460 What about the women, right, in cultural traditions
00:06:59.980 who get pregnant, and if they don't get rid of that child,
00:07:02.900 their life's on the line.
00:07:03.960 Like, how would you justify that?
00:07:06.180 They are responsible, but they're also in a lot of danger.
00:07:08.940 If they're going to die.
00:07:10.420 But this is what people always do with the abortion argument,
00:07:13.500 is they always use the extremes.
00:07:14.720 99% of abortions are elective.
00:07:16.740 What do you mean?
00:07:17.160 10%.
00:07:17.960 So it's like you're using the 1% argument
00:07:20.220 to justify the whole thing.
00:07:21.500 If I said, okay, give you those abortions 1.00
00:07:23.820 in the life of the mother,
00:07:24.620 would you be okay with banning the rest
00:07:26.200 that are from poor decisions?
00:07:29.080 True.
00:07:29.420 I understand.
00:07:30.100 I do agree with what you're saying
00:07:31.260 in terms of it being a poor decision,
00:07:32.860 but I still think...
00:07:33.840 I still stand with what I believe.
00:07:35.220 As many of you know,
00:07:36.080 I was just banned on TikTok,
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