JustPearlyThings - November 11, 2023


She Got SILENCED By This Question


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11 minutes

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1,823

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In this episode, we discuss what deal breakers a man should look out for in a potential housewife and what deal breaker a woman should not be allowed to be a housewife. We also discuss the age range of dealbreakers a woman can have in a man.

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00:00:00.000 okay um from not being a wife housewife a housewife if you're just not if you're not ready
00:00:07.260 for it it's not your bag no no no i'm saying like what would disqualify the woman so like the woman
00:00:13.700 comes to him and says oh i want to be your house i want to be your housewife what would disqualify
00:00:18.860 her onions i'm joking i'm joking hide's feet it's true she can't cook i don't know i was going to say
00:00:33.460 that but she will say but she can she can like have a maid to cook for her she's like who needs to cook 1.00
00:00:40.220 she's gonna have a maid okay i just saw that in your face i mean is that really like i don't think
00:00:46.340 that's like a deal breaker yeah i knew it i just got back from like yeah my mind is blown
00:00:50.760 you don't pay for anything when you're in nigeria yeah they're a whole different level she's like
00:00:56.880 yeah all right so can't all right so give me a deal breaker then give me one i there's nothing a chick 1.00
00:01:06.580 can do nothing okay if she's a corn star okay thank you for remembering that thank you go ahead
00:01:15.540 remember that my day what would disqualify you bad money management overspending yeah he's gonna be
00:01:25.440 really rich no no no you gotta you can't you still gotta like we need life next month as well like
00:01:31.400 exactly overspending yeah okay go ahead if she's a cheater cheater or a lesbian 1.00
00:01:40.700 that could be an advantage i know people that love that situation when they have freedoms i don't
00:01:51.360 know i think there's someone for everyone you know all those things they're listed i think someone
00:01:55.840 well there's only housewife positions for 10 percent of women okay infertile 1.00
00:02:00.920 yeah okay i'll go with that i would agree with that yeah but unfortunately but yeah so so by that
00:02:11.580 logic over a certain age over say i'm just saying infertile somebody else can add that in
00:02:16.860 what if they are infertile but hope to like have other treatments to have children or even adopt
00:02:23.720 depends if he's patient for that you know but power is saying like if they're like pre-menopausal yeah
00:02:28.920 well well i'm well then partially somebody can say age yeah well because i'm saying also um
00:02:35.080 i mean why would a man choose that if he didn't have to yeah like this is a guy with all the choice
00:02:40.520 um okay so we're sticking at high value men disqualifying a housewife for a high value man
00:02:46.680 okay yeah i mean i i feel like i spoke to two randomly two men recently that were saying that they
00:02:53.320 went through the whole ibf thing with their women i don't know how high value they were but they
00:02:57.880 weren't low value so i don't know i do think some men consider that but again i'm sorry were they
00:03:02.120 successful i do believe they were successful yeah you did you do believe or you know yeah i don't
00:03:06.120 know that's why i said i don't know they were high value but they were absolutely not low value but
00:03:09.480 okay yeah don't you don't you think medium don't you think they probably found out that she couldn't 0.54
00:03:14.760 have kids specifically told me his whole life story on this flight and it was like no what i'm saying
00:03:19.400 is they knew before that she was gonna have trouble having children they decided to get married 1.00
00:03:23.560 and everything it was an issue he really got into it on that flight yeah honestly stop talking to me
00:03:27.400 but he was adorable but yeah did you did i what didn't it mile high
00:03:39.240 i did not anything um where were we in the circle you you did you go siri did you go i just said i just
00:03:48.760 took um miss ling's answer for the infertility because i i guess for high value man if he's 0.98
00:03:56.280 trying to expand on his if his offspring with his whatever expand his name yeah with his yeah
00:04:09.320 yeah over what age are you disqualified from being a housewife i don't know because this is the thing i 1.00
00:04:14.200 i just think it's such a broad vague question because guys so in general we know so men there's
00:04:21.080 going to be exceptions to every rule so we're just talking in general we're not talking about the one
00:04:26.840 chick there but like by by and large by the rule over what age are women disqualified from being a 1.00
00:04:33.320 housewife 30. do you think no yeah i think so when you marry a man she's like 60. and you could be in 1.00
00:04:42.520 your 40s you're still a young thing to him i know he's the high value guy as well right but you've
00:04:46.920 probably already been a housewife once or twice prior to that but by 60 he's probably he's probably
00:04:53.800 married he probably yeah so he's like high value by like 40. he's divorced and he's looking for a new
00:04:59.240 a new beans and then and then and then you're like a divorce and you're looking to him because
00:05:05.400 you're like in your 40s and you look good for your age you're better than him and you know what you
00:05:09.880 know okay you you know you know what you percent chance you have of a man marrying over the age of 35
00:05:17.000 if he hasn't already 0.3 percent oh don't 15 chance he marries oh yeah and before troy so there's still
00:05:25.960 15 charge no what about before then these these statistics are based on people that are actually
00:05:33.880 being honest like what are these numbers it's just like and it's and in the uk as well because yeah
00:05:41.960 uk and us are pretty similar so i mean there's sometimes there's a little differentiation it's
00:05:46.840 what people report is it not like the actual registry can't they just look that stuff up
00:05:51.160 yeah yeah yeah so it's pretty uh what what is it below what is it below 35 though i don't know off
00:05:58.200 the top of my head i think she's from nigeria honestly and girls you get married tomorrow in nigeria 0.93
00:06:04.440 what about you um not being attentive okay not being attentive go ahead super revolting personal
00:06:11.480 hygiene oh okay smelly okay i'm gonna go for something so obvious being selfish selfish okay
00:06:21.960 i'd say liar 0.71
00:06:27.160 liar there's some basic ones i'm surprised no one's getting let's see if you get it
00:06:31.800 um no pressure no pressure um sorry i wasn't ready being a hoe 1.00
00:06:42.280 you were going to say that
00:06:44.280 oh my gosh these hoes ain't no you can't 1.00
00:06:47.480 i'm not going to go into a house
00:06:52.760 he tried he did what he did yeah that was deja vu okay okay i want to see you have to get it
00:06:59.480 troy well i don't know bpd i think personality personality disorders because otherwise you end up
00:07:05.800 with amber heard right yeah right oh my god so like addictions you could probably put under the
00:07:10.120 same thing if she's like if she's like well if she's a drug addict or she's an alcoholic that's 1.00
00:07:14.280 going to be a problematic if she's using and if she's got um and if she's got um that kind of 0.88
00:07:21.880 personality disorder i mean if you could identify before she is definitely not in the field for being
00:07:26.360 a housewife okay so i'm gonna i'm gonna add some of mine yes enlighten us yeah yeah so number one you
00:07:32.920 can't be fat oh yeah yeah that's why i you will not get in the door that's not for what's considered
00:07:40.520 what's considered fat man okay so it's uk 10 and over um i would i would say look up your bmi and if
00:07:48.440 it's over that's that's rule of thumb i know i know there's exceptions right i know there's the women 1.00
00:07:54.920 that have the very shapely whatever because i was talking ph fat yeah i was like yeah well fat
00:08:03.960 but yeah there's none of this like thick where it's like the girls pretend they're thin yeah but 1.00
00:08:09.160 they're really fat i think you need to ask an idea and producer is there a producer there because he
00:08:14.040 i'm sure what's your preference but we're all skinny to you aren't we
00:08:17.480 the biggest girl here is i mean i mean
00:08:26.520 pearl and i argue about this all the time this is the thing so this is it's like when the doctor
00:08:30.760 goes you're a beast and you're like huh yeah but what but but it doesn't look at my core but still
00:08:36.840 no fat things still though what is fat in your perception that is fat isn't it like a mampi what
00:08:42.840 size yeah what size is that is that it's that it's that size it's like it's it's i think if you're fat
00:08:47.480 you know you're fat yeah it's like i think he's fat and your fat is very different are you talking
00:08:51.800 about i think so poe's fat and his nigerian yeah standard yeah we like curvy women yeah yeah but it's curvy 1.00
00:08:59.720 but you think it's a small waist though don't you yeah it's always european fat there's jamaican fat
00:09:05.080 and there's african fat they're all different things
00:09:11.720 men do like a bit of meat on them look it look it yeah i'm not even disputing that men like curvy 1.00
00:09:16.760 women i'm saying they don't like fat women some men like skinnies women my friend is really really
00:09:21.960 skinny and like when we're out certain men just gravitate towards her because she's cute and she's 0.94
00:09:27.640 like a twig that sounds childlike some men love twiggy women are like oh she's so heroine 1.00
00:09:32.840 yeah i'm into the heroine you know like the kate boss back in the day
00:09:42.600 number two that disqualifies you from being a housewife a child another man's child yeah now yeah
00:09:51.080 now now now i know sierra pulled it off but do you look like sierra probably not right yes
00:09:57.880 so so i would say a child in general disqualifies you from being a housewife not even it will definitely
00:10:15.800 it will definitely impact it somewhat i don't think that uh okay i will completely dismiss you
00:10:21.480 for it but it will impact it somewhat because they know that's an additional um person they have to
00:10:26.840 provide for it's bad then they've got the the your child's attitude yeah
00:10:36.680 what percent of single mothers remarry if they want to six percent 1.00
00:10:41.400 higher than that slightly what 16 no okay off the top of my head i i know what it roughly was it was
00:10:51.400 between like 10 and like eight like 17 it was somewhere between there 22 of single mothers get 0.98
00:10:58.920 a guy to live with them so yeah overwhelmingly 60 roughly of single mothers do never got to live with me
00:11:05.960 okay now