She Got TRIGGERED When Pearl Said This
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about point scoring, women confessing, point scoring and point scoring in general. We also talk about why women keep score and why point scoring is a red flag when it comes from a female perspective.
Transcript
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you know what i noticed though it's like the women that because i always hear this on the
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shows where it's like oh i gave him everything or i did all this for him and i realized the girls
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that say this they're actually spiteful and they keep score because the most giving women i know
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they don't keep score and they never talk about what they did for a guy and so that's what i
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realized it's like it's actually a red flag when she's like oh i did all this because she views
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herself as the victim and like she did nothing wrong it was all him yeah a million my my experience
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when women like women be like detectives they start digging up old shit that they did for you two
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years ago that you've forgotten about and and that i think that that's a really bad a point scoring
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like when you're in an argument and you start going back and forward and it's like well you did this
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no you did that and what started and it's like i'm never getting a sorry so fuck it fuck it
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i think sometimes as well like women can't help it that we just store this like in the back of our
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heads because we're so like emotional yeah and in that emotion i personally feel like when women
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are really upset with men like you guys uh you you want to vent and you want to like take that out
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on us and i understand that but you're not we're not solving anything right yeah but that's why i think
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like women having women friends that actually want you to win is so important like they have to be
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married they can't be single and they have to be happily married because it's like we don't we can't dump
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all our problems on the guys they don't want to hear about it that's why i was saying earlier i
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don't think men and women are like supposed to be best friends yeah it makes sense but wouldn't it
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be beautiful if they were exactly i mean i think i think that's what like society's been pushing to
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be honest and i don't think it's working like you know like marriage now people are closer to best
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friends than they were a hundred years ago and marriage doesn't work now that's true yeah i think
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you should be able to yeah enjoy stuff together but marriage doesn't work for so many other more
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profound reasons the likes of social media the likes of promiscuity yeah i think marriage not
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working is women's fault wow yeah you are amazing you're like a breath of fresh i've never heard of
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women confess no i'll tell you why because look at the numbers okay look at the numbers if you look
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at okay no fault divorce got initiated in the 90s and what did women do they left 80 of the time
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women are leaving and when men leave like the number one reasons it's like abuse infidel it's
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it's not that they're more serious where women's it's like financial and one other thing i'm butchering
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them but the last time i checked that's what they were and so it's like women like the average age
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or the average length of a first marriage is eight years it's not marriage anymore marriage is not
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marriage today because you change the whole institution by letting people be divorced because
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marriage is supposed to be for better or for worse forever forever and so when women got the chance
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to leave they did yeah because women don't need men financially as much and that's one of the
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main problems is now women are out here earning as much if not more than men equal they're looking
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at men like well what do i really need them for yeah and women would rather be alone than be with
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a guy that's that she views as equal or less and and that's what you see because that's the general
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trend since women started entering the workforce in the 20s yeah society's fucked
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and that's when women list their things that they're looking for in a man it'll be taller than
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me makes more money than me bigger stronger than me more intelligent than me like they want a superior
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yeah in a lot of ways and and most most women won't ever settle if they don't get like and that's the
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partially that social media came in and said oh you should all and disney you should all have prince
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charming he should sweep you off your feet he should do all of that that's why i said we've been
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conditioned yeah but disney never said what did cinderella bring to the table exactly again we've been
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conditioned we've seen this from young so automatically we're like oh that's what i want
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it's conditioning we've all been conditioned to think that's the norm the whole thing about bringing
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stuff to the table like i'm just confused by it because when our parents got together they came from
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nothing and came together and made something so i don't know maybe okay okay i was just about to say
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that but our very old school but and our parents generation is the first generation that got
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divorced like like our parents aren't the ones we should be taking advice from it's more of our
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grandparents or our great-grandparents yeah they didn't have context and the thing is and the thing
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is too like that women did bring they were more in shape they were they were more they were younger
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they were better looking like the question though like those people they did not have instagram so
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they didn't understand the lay of the land you could meet a nice guy he just works as a
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baker he's doing nothing wrong yeah you ain't got a clue that you could potentially have a guy like
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this rich guy sliding in your dms you are none the wiser so you are happy and ignorant
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exactly you have less opportunity women a catalog of men that they could never have and made them
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think they could and and also like our grandmothers and our great-grandmothers like they could cook
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things from scratch like i see girls on instagram like sometimes i'll follow y'all after the show
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but i'll see them out to eat like every day but i've never seen them cook anything on their store
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and then they worry that they're getting cheated on that now that there you have to agree
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if you don't want to be cheated on you best believe that you're doing every single thing
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correctly but i mean the important things i'm not on the platforms like that like i said i like to be
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you should be you might find your prince charming oh no you've got your prince charming sorry sorry
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if you're watching this girl i love you i see you but no i mean i'm i'm content i'm secure i'm okay
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in that side of things but i mean with me i've never i don't know maybe because of when i was growing
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up there wasn't anything called like the internet i remember when the internet came in and
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i feel that you know i just don't yes i love cooking and i love baking and i love doing all
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of those things but i just don't put myself out there like that it's your own yeah exactly and i
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don't knock anybody who has the confidence to go out and do that me personally i just couldn't put
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everything out there like that me personally but like sorry go no no sorry go ahead oh so yeah so you
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know back to the point that i was trying to make like it's just we're in a different time now where
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we are under pressure we are you know like our great grandmothers and great grandfathers yeah they
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were married until like they parted man and like i come from a stock where that was instilled in me
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where that's what i saw and they were still madly in love with each other and yes they may disagree but
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they still came together and they you know like you said there's a time where he could have just
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been a baker she could have just been a you know a stream rest and you know but they built something
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right but this is be this is it's genuinely because of like do you guys agree that in general sex comes
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before relationships nowadays yeah in general now yeah got some cappers on the couch sometimes sex happen
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just if you're just usually yeah but women are in control of who they sleep with like women are in
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control so if relationships are failing like and women's are the ones leaving relationships
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so it's unfortunate so when we get all the power go boy we abused it let me tell you but we use it in
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the wrong way do you think it's fair for women to expect monogamy if they have children from a previous
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guy i mean i think you should expect monogamy if the conversation hasn't been had otherwise
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you know i mean just generally exactly yeah um it's more likely if you i feel like if you've got
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children from a previous relationship um i think it's probably more likely that you're going to get
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cheated on um because you're going to know that that person probably has less option to just walk away
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after that it's more it's more likely that they will try and work out if they've already got children
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from a past relationship they don't necessarily want to lose that person that they've been in a
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relationship with you know what i mean so um yeah i i think that as long as there's honesty you know
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then anything's possible but without that then you know and don't ever undermine the power and
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influence of a stepfather or a stepmother yeah i came from a single parent family who'd shout my mom
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my dad ran away and this man came into my life and he's the biggest blessing that's ever happened to me so
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like honestly don't i know this is a random spur sorry it's just emotion speaking it's the most
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important thing it's the only thing that could potentially eclipse the heartbreak of not knowing
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your real father or your real mom yeah if someone's strong enough manly enough or willing enough to
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come in and take that role it doesn't fill the void it permanently but it does help it helps heal the
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hurt so much and it brought that male energy as well you probably need yeah but the issue is it's just a
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bad deal for guys to be honest to date a single mother but you say that though yeah but i could
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call my stepdad right now and i'll tell you for a fact i know i'm not talking about he hit the jackpot
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right i'm not i'm not talking about you i'm talking about in general it's not i'm a hypocrite on that
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because i was raised by a single mother my mother to me is an angel but i wouldn't want to go with a
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woman who already has a child and that's just no disrespect it's just like yeah for me yeah that makes
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sense for me i'm uh i just wouldn't want to do that because it's a lot to take from and there's
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another man in the situation i don't want to have to deal with that at the same time i'm a single mom
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yeah i'm a single mom and at the same time when you want to meet me you already know that i have a
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child and obviously she will be my number one priority it doesn't matter no matter what even myself
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i'm gonna put myself last and that's why it's it's kind of a respect from me is because i'm like as many
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of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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