JustPearlyThings - She Proved Why Modern Women Are NOT Marriageable

00:00:00.000 yeah if you're gonna okay let's let's say it like this if a guy said to me what's your body count

00:00:04.320 i'm not gonna answer him because i just think that's inappropriate disrespectful

00:00:09.380 actually i don't even want to talk to you anymore so i'm just gonna get up and leave you think it's

00:00:13.920 disrespectful i think i think men should i think men should know that to be honest um i don't think

00:00:20.380 i think it's disrespectful if it's someone like you don't know i mean i disrespect like it's it's

00:00:25.160 private right but it's like if so if he wants to if he's taking you seriously and wants to marry

00:00:29.400 you i think it's a valid question i just think it's only valid if you've been with someone that

00:00:34.080 he is associated with like friends or family i feel like a guy that has no kind of connection to your

00:00:40.360 guy i don't think it actually matters and furthermore you can ask a woman however many times

00:00:45.500 what her body count is first of all she's always gonna lie even if she doesn't lie how do you know 0.68

00:00:49.820 she's telling the truth were you in her body for all the years she's been alive never tell on

00:00:54.480 themselves like guys start to count like because you'll be like oh this sex like that's what guys

00:00:58.280 telling me that the women will tell on themselves later yeah i think most guys like don't ask to

00:01:02.380 be fair but i mean when you look at the numbers as a guy i don't know how you wouldn't care

00:01:07.460 especially men have so much to lose in divorce um court today it's like if the girl's a virgin on

00:01:13.160 her wedding wedding night she has an 80 chance of a happy marriage you know it drops down to if she 1.00

00:01:17.140 slept with more than five people 20 so if you slept with more than five people your chance of a happy

00:01:22.660 marriage in 10 years goes down to 20 percent and if you slept with more than 10 it's like you're

00:01:28.240 you're probably going to be divorced like more likely than not within five years have they said

00:01:33.320 what the reason is for that i mean i think i think it's going against nature like throughout all of

00:01:38.460 history like when have women been as promiscuous as they are today you don't undo biology just because 1.00

00:01:43.000 we have birth control now so do you think that's down to because she's experienced so many partners

00:01:47.740 that she then doesn't feel fulfilled or do you think it's down to the man finding out and not

00:01:52.080 respecting her what do you think it's down to well it's the women leaving so it's not the men like

00:01:55.660 women usually leave not men um so i think it's the psychology of choice if you have 10 meals in front

00:02:02.480 of you and you pick one you're not as happy but if there's one in front of you you're happy you're

00:02:06.020 just happy to be eaten you know what i mean and so i think girls start to compare so they'll say like 0.66

00:02:11.060 the first guy uh he had this second you're not a no it's true no i agree with that i actually agree with

00:02:16.260 that yeah and then i think like the the more you've been with it's like the odds are the guy

00:02:21.020 you married isn't your favorite and so now you're getting married to your second choice is that good

00:02:25.680 and i think we can all like think of a girl that maybe had an ex that she kept going back to or

00:02:30.860 didn't get over maybe an ex that you that happened to you you know um i think that's common

00:02:35.680 women start running out of time so they run to their like second or third choice 1.00

00:02:39.740 true that's what i think anyway you know there's no i hope that never happens to any of us but yeah

00:02:44.860 no i mean i mean the data honestly shows that half of us aren't going to have kids

00:02:48.480 50 percent in here single and childless if you hit 30 and you're still single you're sure if you're

00:02:54.460 if you hit 30 you're still single your chance of having a kid drops below 50 percent so you're

00:02:58.620 actually more likely to not have a kid than have one is that just females yeah yeah women i rebuke 1.00

00:03:03.180 these stats and i um no no it's not like rebuking i think i think it's good for women to know

00:03:08.940 because that's what's going to happen if like you know and it's a fact as well like your eggs just

00:03:14.240 yeah yeah yeah we know that yeah but 90 90 of your eggs are gone by 30 and then they sell you

00:03:20.660 ivf as an option but the majority of ivf treatments don't work so the majority of women that go get 0.98

00:03:26.320 like ivf they don't actually get get a kid at all i'm just a firm believer i feel like the way my

00:03:32.400 life is supposed to pan out it will pan out just perfectly and yeah the stats are important but i

00:03:38.660 just feel like if i'm not ready now and i'm ready later and it doesn't happen maybe it just wasn't

00:03:44.540 meant to be i'll just leave it to to life yeah i think a lot of women feel like that but you know 1.00

00:03:49.660 then they hit 45 and they're on antidepressants and more depressed than any other group like women 0.97

00:03:54.680 over the age of 45 are more depressed than any other group like more anxious and the same thing

00:03:59.460 like body count is associated to all those things like anxiety depression like i can't remember the

00:04:05.080 list off the top of my head but there's a bunch of like negative like things that are associated

00:04:09.800 like negative mental health with high body count and sometimes you don't really know when you're

00:04:14.280 ready until it happens so a lot of like my brother has a baby and he was he thought he wasn't ready

00:04:19.120 to be a dad until baby happened and he's a great father yeah you become ready right yeah sometimes you

00:04:24.480 need the moment to to understand what you can and can't do that makes sense the women that are 1.00

00:04:31.180 depressed um do they have children no no yeah that's sorry i might not have said childless single

00:04:38.400 childless um um do you think you're above average and what would you bring to an above average man

00:04:45.380 i would say i'm currently average because i have a lot of improvement that needs to happen um

00:04:50.820 um my man is above average and what i bring to the table as a sense is um same thing you said babe

00:05:02.880 i am very nurturing the job that i have allows me to you know i feel like i'm going to be a very good

00:05:10.340 mum i feel like i'm very caring um money wise i'm able to take care of certain things as well so the

00:05:18.600 pressure isn't all on him i know a lot of people think oh you know it should be because he's the

00:05:23.360 man absolutely i agree with that but i want to help i don't want to feel useless in the household

00:05:28.980 um even if i'm just providing groceries do you know what i mean a little bit of something

00:05:33.160 um very understanding i i listen to a lot of things my ears are open yeah i think that is it's important

00:05:41.620 um i don't go clubbing a lot there's you know i haven't been with a lot of people before him

00:05:48.340 there's a lot of things that that would make me uh worthy perhaps of being with someone like that

00:05:55.800 if you're attracted in a above average man wouldn't you say you like you're above average

00:06:00.100 because you kind of are what you attract so he's he's older than me um and at the moment

00:06:06.480 i think as humans we'd be silly to think that we don't have a lot of growth

00:06:12.340 there's always room for improvement i'm not going to sit here and be like oh yeah i'm above average 0.90

00:06:16.920 no babe i've got shit to i've got shit to work on do you know i mean it isn't a negative thing 0.94

00:06:21.780 no no no and honestly it shows humility that you're like saying that to be honest which i think is 0.98

00:06:26.900 something men look for yeah perhaps um but yeah even for myself i know that i've got a lot of growth

00:06:33.860 that needs to happen so yeah what are you looking to improve on um work wise i can make a lot more

00:06:43.000 money i can improve in that area my my body can be a lot better my hair can be a lot longer do you

00:06:49.460 know men men don't care about money uh yeah exactly um some do but the bombs yeah not men that make

00:06:58.080 money but it's just it's just nice if the person that you're with has got ambition at least do you

00:07:02.400 know what i mean for women no with with the person that i'm with he doesn't really care about money

00:07:07.440 but he cares what are you where are you going in life yeah otherwise i can get with any woman what 1.00

00:07:12.140 are you bringing what makes you different so i've got ambition you know what is that i do in life

00:07:18.560 that's what intrigues him okay what else um what do you mean are you looking to improve on so you

00:07:25.340 said money fitness yeah it's okay if it's just that i was just curious uh yeah money fitness uh mental

00:07:32.080 health as well i think that's very important um i've still got a lot of a lot of growth to do in

00:07:37.140 that area i think we all do our money 24 so i have a lot more work to do but um yeah i think oh and

00:07:44.660 also being more more calm listening to him because i've also been very dominant in the past

00:07:50.340 he's told me that so i'm trying to be a bit more submissive yeah a bit more feminine that's it

00:07:56.820 where do you like why do you think you've been more dominant in the past like where does that come

00:08:00.820 from is that something you saw modeled growing up or is that just a trait about you so i didn't

00:08:06.020 really have a dad growing up so therefore i've naturally had to been had to be a bit more masculine

00:08:11.620 i've had to fend for myself i also grew up in a bit of a hood area you could say so yeah i came

00:08:17.780 from a bit of a rough background in a sense but um i feel like i'm dragging myself out of it and

00:08:23.780 better in myself how do you because i've always wondered how if you didn't grow up in that um

00:08:28.980 environment how do you learn to be like a wife or more feminine like where do you go um he has taught

00:08:35.220 me a lot um what i've what i've seen a lot of my family members and friends have also taught me

00:08:40.980 and if you're not willing to learn and change you're never going to you have to be able to do

00:08:44.980 that yourself it doesn't matter what background you've come from you have to be willing to learn

00:08:50.180 and to change and then you're going to it's that simple as many of you know i was just banned on

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JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023

She Proved Why Modern Women Are NOT Marriageable

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