She Proved Why Modern Women Are Single And Childless
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about cheating, being cheated on by a partner and what to do if your partner cheats on you. We also talk about pregnancy and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century.
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out um and if he turns into a she he does the he she thing what do you mean you know when like the
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trans thing when he becomes a woman or she becomes they start cutting their parts off
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i feel like they can get out i'll give you a get out of oh as i get out of marriage and then they
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start adding bits yeah like if you got married and you became a man i think that wouldn't really be
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fair at the end of the day i feel like the people that don't believe in divorce we should get married
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and not believe in getting out and the people that believe in divorce you guys can just stay
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in the relationships and go that route but then but then my question to you is what if like your
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partner is severely cheating and disrespecting you and you know i agree with the divorce i do agree
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um but at the same time you know you gotta know how you feel in a position how you're made to feel
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and respect you know maybe you know in that scenario how would you take it severe cheating okay i think
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one women's definition of severe cheating is so it's like oh he screwed one girl at the strip club
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now it's a severe cheater okay i think that we should try it should be a goal to work through cheating
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it should be the goal i think when you have children it's not about you anymore your feelings
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they don't matter and i think that's true and so i think at the number one goal work through it
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100 you know what's the limit you know um i would be quite mad if he got another girl pregnant
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so that would be it so cheat all you like but just don't get anyone pregnant um my my goal would be
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that's the question though i think i think it's much more deeper than cheating though it's like
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the reason for cheating no but it's the disrespect though you gotta understand how does it look to
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your family how does it look to your kids if you've got kids how does it look to your friends and you
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know what i mean my question for the women is why do they all know he's not out there tell i know
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damn well the men are not out there telling everybody some men do though yeah some men are not
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small well this is why we get cool this is why we should bring the fathers back in to help their
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daughters pick because we can't do it we can we're incapable i'm quite good at picking i've actually
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asked my dad to help but you're quite good at picking he refused what how so um i just think
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all my boyfriends have been like amazing like amazing men and amazing boyfriends do you do you
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want to be a mother yeah do you so do you have kids or no no so it's like my question is where
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where's the marriage and the children then if they were also because i would think if they're
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amazing you would you know i think my first couple of boyfriends they're amazing but i don't think we
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were like perfect matches for each other it doesn't exist i think my current boyfriend is like a very
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very good match okay so i am in money room periods okay so so yeah so can i can i get a wedding invite
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yeah okay great i'll be at the wedding i'll be there i just think like women need to use their
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intelligence and self-control a little bit more when they're choosing men if they're getting uh messed
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around around like you just need to use logic um that's it i think even if i've maybe like been a bit
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into someone i can get turned off very quickly if i don't think i've been treated well um yeah which
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is a good you have the choice right then then to you know turn back or go forth yeah but would you
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would you agree that by and large women if we had to pick like 10 women the majority left to our own
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devices don't really make the best decisions in men at least in our early 20s which is when we have the
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most options yeah most women i probably have more options now the age that i'm at now than i did i
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think women always have options they will always have options not well it depends on a woman but i
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feel like base everything on statistics sometimes real life no but like i said no but see what that
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conversation i was saying like men can't like you know get laid all the time like you've got to work
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for it right women can have options you can go out and look good sometimes you don't need to look
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good you can go to the shop around the corner get your milk and bread and you can get i can get moved
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to by someone in the car you know it's it's real you have many options and that's what's that's scary
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over the age of like i'm gonna give women by and large tell like so um from okay by 30
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your options statistically have decreased by 50 as women um 90 of your eggs are gone so that's another
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thing and geriatric geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 yeah so so that's another thing coming but looks
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wise yeah women still can get it in their 30s some women their 40s i think 50 but there's no
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there's no there's no age limit we're supposed to live to 90 like you think women over 50 are really
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getting hollered at by men they want some dude it depends how you look and how you present yourself
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like yeah let's be real you're a man yeah let's be real you know it sometimes if a woman looks good
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if a woman looks good she looks good like okay can we can we talk about the rule whether she 30s 40s
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50s what rule the rule the like the exception or the rule do the majority of women in their 50s
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get hollered at the same amount as women in their 20s can we probably not okay okay yeah okay i hear
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what you're saying i hear what you're saying but if they look good they look good yeah do you know what
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i mean it's about how they look at the same time i mean how old is ashanti do you know what i mean
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i don't know who that is i'm just gonna assume i'm just gonna assume that this is some woman this
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is what they always do not not you know this is just i've done enough they give some woman that is
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a celebrity so she's already hot yeah she's already an eight nine or ten in her in her prime she's also
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has all the access to the money she's not the average yeah she's not the average yeah there's
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exceptions you know jay i thought i thought it was gonna be jlo yeah even her yeah that's right
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10 out of 10. i mean it depends though it depends i don't think it i don't think it depends i think
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the majority it's a no it's uh it's not the same i guess so um sorry just to go back a little bit
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because i i did get cheated on once because he was still a very good boyfriend as in like my family
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and friends some of my friends were like he's amazing to you he's so doting like why would you
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want to break up apparently it was a kiss don't know for 100 but yeah so some that's debatable
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whether he was an amazing boyfriend i guess he was apart from that so okay he probably still was i'll
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give it to him it was just just a one a one kiss maybe apparently and and i did end up breaking
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breaking up i did break out with him we had a break then we got back together and then i broke
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up with him after but to what to your point that like you should be able to get past that when i look
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back i don't regret it because i don't want to be with him because i love my boyfriend but i do when
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i look back i'm like i can see the love much more than i could then because i was paranoid i had trusted
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issues i couldn't i couldn't really see rationally how devoted he was until after