JustPearlyThings - June 11, 2023


She Proved Why Modern Women Are Single And Childless

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Her Delusion Knows No Bounds Rich Man Loses His Wife To Jiujitsu Instructor

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

182.79

Word count

1,483

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about cheating, being cheated on by a partner and what to do if your partner cheats on you. We also talk about pregnancy and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 out um and if he turns into a she he does the he she thing what do you mean you know when like the
00:00:07.760 trans thing when he becomes a woman or she becomes they start cutting their parts off 1.00
00:00:12.880 i feel like they can get out i'll give you a get out of oh as i get out of marriage and then they
00:00:17.920 start adding bits yeah like if you got married and you became a man i think that wouldn't really be
00:00:24.320 fair at the end of the day i feel like the people that don't believe in divorce we should get married
00:00:36.480 and not believe in getting out and the people that believe in divorce you guys can just stay
00:00:41.440 in the relationships and go that route but then but then my question to you is what if like your
00:00:46.800 partner is severely cheating and disrespecting you and you know i agree with the divorce i do agree
00:00:52.480 um but at the same time you know you gotta know how you feel in a position how you're made to feel
00:00:59.200 and respect you know maybe you know in that scenario how would you take it severe cheating okay i think 0.93
00:01:07.680 one women's definition of severe cheating is so it's like oh he screwed one girl at the strip club 1.00
00:01:15.280 now it's a severe cheater okay i think that we should try it should be a goal to work through cheating
00:01:22.720 it should be the goal i think when you have children it's not about you anymore your feelings
00:01:28.000 they don't matter and i think that's true and so i think at the number one goal work through it
00:01:34.640 100 you know what's the limit you know um i would be quite mad if he got another girl pregnant 0.99
00:01:42.400 so that would be it so cheat all you like but just don't get anyone pregnant um my my goal would be
00:01:49.760 for him to not cheat at me
00:01:54.080 that's the question though i think i think it's much more deeper than cheating though it's like
00:01:57.840 the reason for cheating no but it's the disrespect though you gotta understand how does it look to
00:02:02.720 your family how does it look to your kids if you've got kids how does it look to your friends and you
00:02:07.200 know what i mean my question for the women is why do they all know he's not out there tell i know
00:02:12.960 damn well the men are not out there telling everybody some men do though yeah some men are not
00:02:18.640 small well this is why we get cool this is why we should bring the fathers back in to help their 0.99
00:02:25.360 daughters pick because we can't do it we can we're incapable i'm quite good at picking i've actually
00:02:31.680 asked my dad to help but you're quite good at picking he refused what how so um i just think
00:02:38.160 all my boyfriends have been like amazing like amazing men and amazing boyfriends do you do you
00:02:43.760 want to be a mother yeah do you so do you have kids or no no so it's like my question is where
00:02:49.440 where's the marriage and the children then if they were also because i would think if they're
00:02:53.440 amazing you would you know i think my first couple of boyfriends they're amazing but i don't think we
00:02:57.360 were like perfect matches for each other it doesn't exist i think my current boyfriend is like a very
00:03:04.800 very good match okay so i am in money room periods okay so so yeah so can i can i get a wedding invite
00:03:11.440 yeah okay great i'll be at the wedding i'll be there i just think like women need to use their 1.00
00:03:18.160 intelligence and self-control a little bit more when they're choosing men if they're getting uh messed
00:03:22.320 around around like you just need to use logic um that's it i think even if i've maybe like been a bit
00:03:31.040 into someone i can get turned off very quickly if i don't think i've been treated well um yeah which
00:03:37.280 is a good you have the choice right then then to you know turn back or go forth yeah but would you
00:03:42.640 would you agree that by and large women if we had to pick like 10 women the majority left to our own 0.97
00:03:49.280 devices don't really make the best decisions in men at least in our early 20s which is when we have the
00:03:56.560 most options yeah most women i probably have more options now the age that i'm at now than i did i 1.00
00:04:05.280 think women always have options they will always have options not well it depends on a woman but i 1.00
00:04:11.440 feel like base everything on statistics sometimes real life no but like i said no but see what that
00:04:16.240 conversation i was saying like men can't like you know get laid all the time like you've got to work
00:04:23.920 for it right women can have options you can go out and look good sometimes you don't need to look 1.00
00:04:28.800 good you can go to the shop around the corner get your milk and bread and you can get i can get moved
00:04:33.360 to by someone in the car you know it's it's real you have many options and that's what's that's scary
00:04:39.200 over the age of like i'm gonna give women by and large tell like so um from okay by 30
00:04:50.640 your options statistically have decreased by 50 as women um 90 of your eggs are gone so that's another 1.00
00:04:58.480 thing and geriatric geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 yeah so so that's another thing coming but looks
00:05:06.720 wise yeah women still can get it in their 30s some women their 40s i think 50 but there's no 0.97
00:05:12.800 there's no there's no age limit we're supposed to live to 90 like you think women over 50 are really 1.00
00:05:19.360 getting hollered at by men they want some dude it depends how you look and how you present yourself
00:05:27.760 like yeah let's be real you're a man yeah let's be real you know it sometimes if a woman looks good 1.00
00:05:34.560 if a woman looks good she looks good like okay can we can we talk about the rule whether she 30s 40s 1.00
00:05:40.160 50s what rule the rule the like the exception or the rule do the majority of women in their 50s 0.98
00:05:48.000 get hollered at the same amount as women in their 20s can we probably not okay okay yeah okay i hear
00:05:54.560 what you're saying i hear what you're saying but if they look good they look good yeah do you know what
00:05:59.680 i mean it's about how they look at the same time i mean how old is ashanti do you know what i mean
00:06:07.280 i don't know who that is i'm just gonna assume i'm just gonna assume that this is some woman this 0.99
00:06:14.480 is what they always do not not you know this is just i've done enough they give some woman that is 0.97
00:06:19.600 a celebrity so she's already hot yeah she's already an eight nine or ten in her in her prime she's also 1.00
00:06:26.160 has all the access to the money she's not the average yeah she's not the average yeah there's 1.00
00:06:31.600 exceptions you know jay i thought i thought it was gonna be jlo yeah even her yeah that's right
00:06:38.160 10 out of 10. i mean it depends though it depends i don't think it i don't think it depends i think
00:06:45.120 the majority it's a no it's uh it's not the same i guess so um sorry just to go back a little bit
00:06:55.360 because i i did get cheated on once because he was still a very good boyfriend as in like my family
00:07:01.360 and friends some of my friends were like he's amazing to you he's so doting like why would you
00:07:06.720 want to break up apparently it was a kiss don't know for 100 but yeah so some that's debatable
00:07:12.640 whether he was an amazing boyfriend i guess he was apart from that so okay he probably still was i'll
00:07:20.960 give it to him it was just just a one a one kiss maybe apparently and and i did end up breaking
00:07:27.760 breaking up i did break out with him we had a break then we got back together and then i broke
00:07:32.080 up with him after but to what to your point that like you should be able to get past that when i look
00:07:39.920 back i don't regret it because i don't want to be with him because i love my boyfriend but i do when
00:07:44.880 i look back i'm like i can see the love much more than i could then because i was paranoid i had trusted
00:07:50.880 issues i couldn't i couldn't really see rationally how devoted he was until after