She's An 8 But She has a Kid
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Summary
In this episode, the guys discuss the benefits of being attractive vs not attractive, why women don t rate men attractive, and the impact of having kids on your life. Plus, we talk about what it means to be an 8, a 9, a 10, a 11, or a 12.
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being attractive helps you? Like, let's say you're at work, right? Do you guys think being
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attractive helps you like earn more money over your lifetime? Absolutely. Yes. The numbers are
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staggering. So more attractive people earn on average, it's about $5,000 a year than less
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attractive people, which is like $230,000 over the course of a career. But if you were to take
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that money and split them to like monthly payments, whatever it is, like $411 a month,
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something like that. If you invest that, if you take the added income that people that are more
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attractive earn over less attractive people, if you just invest that in the stock market over the
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course of your career, it works out to $3.8 million that attractive people make over unattractive
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people. But that's not the crazy stat. Here's Pearl, the crazy stat. You might enjoy this
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because when I was reading those statistics, I was like, oh, women really get punished at work for
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not being like more attractive, but actually men get punished disproportionately. Men get punished
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way more for being unattractive. Well, women also have higher, men have higher beauty standards than
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women do. Like this whole like women have the highest beauty standards that we can't live up
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to. Men find like half of us attractive. It's like, it's like stupid. Like I couldn't believe
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like the guy, the girls, like guys will say they would like sleep down so much. You know what I mean?
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Like it's crazy when you go down to like how low they'll go. But women, it's like, we only find
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like five to 15% of men attractive, 20% on the high end. But with a correlation of 0.6, which is like
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unheard of in sociology, but 0.6 correlation to a man's status. So for a man to be more attractive
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to women, like, so again, when women rate men, they don't agree on who's more attractive without
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any context. But once you put clothing on that man, like you got a guy in a suit, you got a guy
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in a t-shirt, they consistently go for the status, right? So women have a very, very strong correlation
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So I'm curious from the guys, if a girl is an eight, but she's got a kid, what is she?
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She's an eight, but she's got a kid. What is she? I literally had this dinner conversation
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with one of my colleagues, like just now. He's like, knowing what you know about your
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wife, like everything. She's the same person, looks the same, acts the same, the same exact
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person, but you meet her when she has a kid. I'm like, yeah, I would not even know her
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name. What about you guys? She has a kid. She's an eight with a kid. What is she?
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I mean, purely aesthetically, I don't think it would take anything off.
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No, I'm saying like, in terms of like dating. It's okay. We don't got to be PC.
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Harsh knock, for sure. Brother, you're 22. If you say anything but a zero, we're going to
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have a talk after the show. I'm going to give you some old man wisdom. I'll say a four or
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Okay, so minus four a kid. All right, we're going to have a talk. If you were my kid,
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I'd be like, sun, sit down. What do you guys say? Minus what? She's got a kid.
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For me, it doesn't really make a difference. Minus zero? Yeah, it doesn't matter.
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All right, we'll average. You're minus infinity. Minus everything. Zero points. Don't care.
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Do you want to, okay, do you want to, again, I don't want, I don't want to stack myself on
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here, but like, dude, like, so, did you know, did you know that once a woman has a
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kid, she carries that kid's DNA forever, and it doesn't just go into the womb. It
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goes straight to her heart. There's actual science to show that that kid's DNA, which
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means another man's DNA is living inside that woman, and now you're producing kids
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with a woman who's, like, DNA is, like, mixed with another dude. That's, is that
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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's life. You can get pregnant, like, three days
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a month. I am so tired of, like, oh, it just happened. It's just life.
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No, no, no, no, no, no. In as much as, in as much as I'm talking about, like, the choices
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of being with somebody that's got a child or not, like, I think it's just down to preference
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So kid, no kid, they're exactly the same to you.
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Yeah, like, if you're beautiful, and, like, my intention with yourself is the same, we've
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got pure intentions, and it is what it is at the end of the day.
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No, but I'm saying, like, you have two girls, they're exactly the same, both equally hot.
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One has a kid, one doesn't. You're picking which one?
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If there's a choice between two, then it should be the one without the child.
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But that's what I'm saying, like, you're saying it wouldn't make a difference, but it would.
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Like I said, for myself, it hasn't made too much of a difference, like, in my past relationships,
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but maybe moving forward, if I had two females that I deemed to be eight, one had a child
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and one didn't, I would go for the one that didn't have a child.
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Two girls, exactly the same, one has a kid, one doesn't.
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It depends the person that treats you right at the end of the day.
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No, they treat you the same, just one has a kid, one doesn't.
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I'm going to do an average of three, because you said infinity.
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For example, if you're a single guy and you're just hooking up, whatever, you might not consider
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it, right, but at some age, you become a more serious man, and you want to take the danger
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that you've built on yourself and turn it into a sagacious commitment and become a more
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There is age-appropriate problems you have to solve, right?
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And it's like, you work really hard, gents, and this guy here told me he's an entrepreneur
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before, it's like, yeah, you're going to risk 50% of everything you've ever earned before,
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and after you're through with that relationship, you're going to risk it on somebody that gave
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her genetics to somebody else at the beginning.
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Ah, well, you didn't say you would marry her, maybe, right?
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So at 22, maybe it doesn't make a difference, but as you get older and you start solving older
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men problems, you look for a long-term relationship, somebody to raise your children.
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No, it would definitely be a harsh knock for sure, but I was speaking purely aesthetically.
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A girl, she's an eight, but she's got an OnlyFans.
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She's an eight, but she slept with two of your friends.
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She's an eight, I'll show you two of your friends.
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I wouldn't say it's Donzo because, yeah, sometimes it's good for the gangists.
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That's so scarce to think that a dude would pick up a no.
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We're going to do negative five for two friends.
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We're going to do negative eight for 10 bodies or 15 bodies.