She Said He EX Did This To Her
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about how to deal with a breakup and how to get over a bad one. We also discuss how to move on from a bad breakup and what to do if your ex moves on from you.
Transcript
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I shouldn't put my hand up really because nobody I've been at
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I was like, why are you half raising your hand?
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Do you guys get mad if the girl you feel like is prettier than you
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Or you can, just not someone better looking than me.
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I mean, it's taken me a while to get here, to be fair.
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But I think everyone, there's a reason behind everything and a why.
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And I think if we're not meant to be together, then we're not meant to be together.
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I think if it's a bad breakup, you're seeing with somebody else, you think,
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But then if it was a good breakup, you know, you just think to yourself,
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Because you ain't going to be as good as me, but well done.
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And they're always going to say things like that.
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You're not going to say you're going to be happy for someone,
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If I and I was to break up with someone, there's either two ways I can break up.
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One, we have the most craziest fight and I say, fuck you, and I leave.
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Or it could be, right, we're going to sit down and talk.
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We're going to figure this out, why it didn't work out.
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But at the end of the day, I just don't want to be with you.
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Like, in which circumstance am I going to be like, yeah, you know what?
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If you moved on to another girl, I'll be like, yeah, good for you.
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Because either way, if we end up in a fight and you left, I'll be like, good for you.
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So which would you prefer, the bad breakup or the amicable one?
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Sometimes if it's a bad breakup, it's just like, it makes you get over it faster.
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I'd prefer the bad ones because it's just like, done and out of the way.
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I mean, it's like, you don't because you don't want to deal with the drama of it.
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But at the same time, then you're just over it.
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Because this sounds like, usually they're doing something.
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I think two months after I ended it, he broke into my flat and hid in my wardrobe.
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So, I supported him through the breakup, obviously, so he could get his own place.
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Because I knew if I kicked him out, he'd turn back up on my doorstep.
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I was even praying to God, like, please, just let this go nicely.
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A month later, I'm hearing my name outside my house.
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I'm thinking, what the hell, calling my family?
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Everyone's saying, are you sure you're not having a mental breakdown?
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And then, on my birthday, which was like a month after that, he'd broke into my house.
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Like, he didn't come out, but I could smell him in my house.
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And I took my heels off and run up four flights of stairs.
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And then, I've gone in, shut the door behind me, and everyone's trying to get in.
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And I was just like, when I find you, it's over.
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I could just smell him in my flat, and I couldn't find him.
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I've heard of a woman breaking into a man's house.
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I've heard of a woman breaking into a man's, but it's the first time I've heard of a man breaking into a woman.
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Aunty, what are you doing if someone stands out of your house like that, and comes inside into your wardrobe?
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So, way back in my past, I'm not going to go to my recent.
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Way back in my past, I had someone that was a bit obsessive actually.
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And then he thought he could go away for the weekend, mess around a bit and come back.
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And then he was finding me in the streets on his hands and knees, crying, begging.
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And he would try and break in, but he didn't ever succeed.
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He put a ladder up to the window and also, there was a lot.
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So he put a ladder onto your door and tried to, or up to your window.
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I think I just got out of the way of the window.
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That's, I can't believe there's two people in here.
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I mean, he did do some weird things over the years, but I'm not going to go into stuff.
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Um, is dating a younger, more attractive man than your ex considered a win?
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Doesn't it depend on how he treats you and what person he is?
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Um, how he carries himself, whether he's holding doors open for you, whether all those nice things that you like from a man to be treated like a woman.
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Can I just say if I was to date a younger guy than I am like was dating or I'm dating, whatever the situation may be, I'd probably catch a case.
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The question's based on the, um, Tom Brady and Giselle.
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I mean, I don't know if I'd want to date a man that's that much younger because it takes a man, it takes men a while. They have to get some things out of their system before they settle down.
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No, but then you've got to look at is, are you actually looking to have a, are you, for this younger person, you actually looking to have a relationship?
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I don't, I don't date without having a relationship.
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I don't get involved with anyone unless I see a relationship potential.
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One thing that I would point out is women typically don't want younger men and attractive is somewhat secondary.
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Um, I think for men, if they had a, you know, a younger, more attractive, um, new person than their ex, then it would be a win for them because that is kind of their dating metric.
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Uh, whereas with women, I would typically look for someone that's older.
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Um, and attraction, you know, a lot of times women can replace that with, for example, you know, status or money.
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Whereas with men, if you're not attractive, they won't even give you the time of day.
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So, uh, the question was kind of asked in reverse.
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It wouldn't be, you know, a win for women, but definitely for men.
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