JustPearlyThings - She Said This Without Any HESITATION

00:00:00.000 all right if you had to go like go down a standard deviation iq but you get a perfect body for the

00:00:08.760 rest of your life would you do it oh that's like whatever your dream like whatever your dream body

00:00:16.660 is you get it like frozen in time the rest of your life if i did an iq thing i 100 would do it i'm a

00:00:23.340 smart ass bitch no you would have to go down you're dumber now oh fuck no fuck that body 1.00

00:00:27.560 okay so you'd keep the iq what would you do um i want somebody else to go next no no come on it's

00:00:35.140 all right be honest you know what to be honest i know what it's like to have brains because i have

00:00:40.100 it now so i'm going to already have i'm going to go with the brains okay you'll keep the brain yeah

00:00:46.020 you know i think i'd keep the brains too because hopefully i'm smart enough to make enough money

00:00:51.340 to buy my body that part okay what about you um so if even after after i was like i like my body

00:01:02.160 even let's even when you have a kid you just the kid comes out and it's right back and just goes

00:01:07.320 right back right back you don't have to work out or anything okay okay so but you just gotta be

00:01:12.020 because you gave me that i have a kid i must be married so i don't care to have my brain so i guess

00:01:16.260 i'll go down and keep my body looking good right then you get a smarter guy you know what i mean

00:01:21.420 i'm like a smart guy doesn't need a smart lady he's smart you know i'll do the body that's fine 0.99

00:01:27.460 i am so annoyed by stupid people i would never want to be one of them i need to be able to carry 0.96

00:01:32.660 a conversation but that doesn't mean you're stupid just go down a little bit right yeah yeah i mean

00:01:37.740 you go down like like a couple iq points but you get this perfect body the rest so you didn't say

00:01:42.760 that at the beginning i didn't realize that stupid i said okay you weren't specific enough

00:01:48.160 so you're dumber technically you didn't say it specifically so i need the right angle of the

00:01:53.500 altitude of the percentage considering the fact that i'm already really fucking smart i could 0.83

00:01:59.540 drop it you'd still be fine yeah right right all right no change my answer

00:02:03.040 what percent of like 60 year old ladies really have perfect bodies like you'd be like the hottest 1.00

00:02:14.400 60 year old 70 year old right now i'm like at the top of the cream of the crop so if i was to drop a

00:02:20.860 view i'd still be at the bottom layer of cream yeah you're so good you're not like you'll be a

00:02:26.260 average bear or i'm just fine as fuck i wouldn't be a dummy for a body but like i can drop a couple 0.93

00:02:31.160 yeah like we'll give some off i mean like a b plus student as opposed to like i've seen her do an

00:02:37.060 amazing little thing with like losing weight and like you could do it on your own girl don't leave

00:02:41.740 not the boobs like you can't get big boobs out of nothing no body what i said body no i i know 0.59

00:02:50.180 when i lost all that weight my kids also but she's saying you can do it on your own i'm saying unless

00:02:54.480 you want to put like a foreign object in your body which you know or like talking about magic here oh i

00:03:00.240 got foreign objects in my body you ever wonder like how does that work with like kids you know

00:03:05.200 like breastfeeding like it doesn't that it's so fun you can still breastfeed yeah oh wow isn't that like

00:03:10.600 the plat because this is just how i think like doesn't the plastic or whatever's in it just go

00:03:15.680 over it and like then the kids like drinking like plus whatever the hell is i just can't imagine the

00:03:23.720 implants like are good for you no they're they've actually come a long way so i have like uh i have

00:03:29.640 gummies so it's like if if it pops it doesn't leach but then it's like every 20 years all the women 1.00

00:03:35.320 come forward and they're like oh fuck i have i think that was the old 0.93

00:03:38.300 but they just invent something new and then 20 years later chicks have the same problem 0.58

00:03:45.240 it's gonna be cyborgs and ai robots they're gonna be robots yeah okay what about you perfect body but

00:03:51.540 you got to be dumber i'm definitely taking brains immediately because i'm always at work like damn 0.97

00:03:56.620 if i was so smart i could just figure out how to ai this shit but yeah but but it's like we get the 0.72

00:04:01.940 perfect body but for me i mean me being smaller me being larger i've lived both lives and i

00:04:07.660 get attention regardless i have always been able to attract all different type of everything so none

00:04:13.180 of that matters to me physicalness is just so surface level but for me if i have the brains to

00:04:18.620 make as much money as i want i mean because i trade i do options i do forex so for me like if i had

00:04:23.660 the brains truly to see things on a different perspective i would but then but then it's like if

00:04:28.480 if we were like the ultimate hotties then you could just get a super smart guy you know and

00:04:34.400 then you wouldn't have to think at all you could just be at home chilling i don't want to get bullied

00:04:37.780 well let me say wait a minute i i have that option now so so it doesn't really lean me more to it's

00:04:48.400 like oh the perfect body first of all just having that man who is that man who takes care of me i

00:04:54.800 already have that so it doesn't make me feel like oh i gotta get this perfect body so i can get the

00:05:00.120 man that's already gonna take care of me but what about like keeping the man you got what about it i

00:05:04.880 got him well i'm saying like wouldn't it i mean are you married you said you're in a relationship

00:05:08.780 in a relationship right so it's like maybe the perfect body he's like ring right here no i don't

00:05:14.120 think so i think it has to do with i want to go back what we were just talking about you said

00:05:17.920 something about uh what did she just say i lost my train she said she can attract anybody big or 0.95

00:05:23.680 small anyway and that she wants to be able to create ai and all types of stuff at work so she

00:05:28.280 doesn't want to lose her brains okay yeah i can't i lost the train of thought we were my bad well i

00:05:33.000 would want to i would want a perfect body so i can look in the mirror and be like damn bitch it's 1.00

00:05:37.260 fucking fine satisfied not so i can catch a man or yeah it's not for a man yeah it's for yourself 0.87

00:05:42.320 i wonder why this is like gut reaction of us women whenever it's like we have with this you 0.99

00:05:48.400 could have this for a man it's so interesting because we'll always have to say no no no it's

00:05:54.520 for myself but it's really interesting because a family is supposed to be selfless families only

00:06:00.720 work if we're selfless and we're thinking about the other person for your kids yeah and it will

00:06:04.960 and the husband and it's interesting too because we'll give up stuff for our kids and we'll do stuff

00:06:09.180 for the kids but it's like why why is it a bad thing to say i want to have a perfect body for the

00:06:14.240 man i think like the whole like feminist like movement of being like an independent woman and 1.00

00:06:20.300 even saying that you're codependent on somebody it almost is a negative tone these days but it's not

00:06:25.280 i mean technically you are you're in a relationship it's okay to be codependent on each other yeah like

00:06:30.160 i i would love a perfect body to get married and then a husband and then that's his body like i think 1.00

00:06:35.560 that'd be great like what's wrong with that it's nothing wrong with that's just how you view it you

00:06:40.100 know what i mean i think everybody has to live with what they would feel comfortable with so if

00:06:45.720 she doesn't feel comfortable with having a perfect body but she feels comfortable with having a perfect

00:06:49.500 brains that's her mindset now and what she'll live with right and there's nothing wrong with that but

00:06:54.920 i'm just more asking like why do we have this gut reaction that anything we do like for the men we

00:07:00.020 have like whenever girls say oh i don't put on makeup for the men i do it for myself i don't do this

00:07:04.760 for the men like why is our gut reaction as women like this is for ourselves when if we want to be 0.99

00:07:10.540 in a long-term marriage you're supposed to do a lot at least for him you have a guy grows a beard

00:07:15.900 because his wife wants him to is that equivalent to what you're saying no because i think men and

00:07:20.860 women are different and i think women are here to serve they have an exception that we don't yeah 1.00

00:07:24.940 because i think we're lied to and saying that we're equal and i think the natural order of the world

00:07:29.460 is we're not i think everybody should be living for themselves and their own happiness and that you

00:07:33.200 should never be codependent on your partner i think i think i think i think i think that's

00:07:37.980 the problem we'll be happy together so so these people talk about being independent independent

00:07:42.460 means you're alone yeah you're not independent independent means to fail look i'm a provider

00:07:47.580 protector my responsibility as the king of the house is to provide and protect for her not control

00:07:52.300 her right you brought something up but like treat you bad there's always except there's always these

00:07:56.560 exceptions i was in a toxic relationship everybody's been in bad relationships right but my duty and

00:08:01.660 responsibility and honor is to serve her and provide and protect her her responsibility

00:08:06.700 she takes care of the home she cooks the food this is how we live our life now when you say that if

00:08:13.400 i say i'm independent well then why am i in a relationship right i rely on her to take care 1.00

00:08:17.860 of the home that's what she does i didn't say independent did i no but i'm saying you said

00:08:21.940 codependency is bad it's not codependent like you're unable to like you can't survive

00:08:26.300 everybody that's not codependent it's just being a team well no no no so this is the other

00:08:31.320 misconception a relationship is not a partnership a partnership is where you go into business with

00:08:36.280 somebody we're not in a partnership we're in a relationship i leave the home is a business

00:08:40.280 but it's not this is this is where the problems come in we come in it's 50 50 no it's not 50 50

00:08:46.760 no and i agree with that i leave the home but here we are right here we are i don't believe it's

00:08:51.220 50 50 i don't believe it but this new generation set of men is why a lot of the women are the way 1.00

00:08:55.820 they are with the feelings of wanting to be so independent because the men are like so aggressive

00:09:01.000 with they don't want men are the new bitches let me tell you why because women ask them to be 1.00

00:09:05.940 bitches and 80 of the single parent homes are women and they're trying to raise these boys and 1.00

00:09:11.600 they're raising them as feminine men you need to do this you need to do this your grandma your 0.99

00:09:15.640 great-grandmother's like you go go out and find yourself a good man that can take care of you 0.74

00:09:19.580 a lot of not and when i say this i know a lot of the a lot of a lot of these women nowadays their 1.00

00:09:24.780 mamas are like you don't need a man you can be an independent boss bitch and then what happens is 1.00

00:09:29.480 you you become 50 60 years old drinking box wine watching netflix with your with your with your cats

00:09:35.220 right talking about angel numbers and horoscopes i'm fine i'm fine but let me tell you something

00:09:39.920 i'm fine i'm fine and then you come 60 you're like what am i going to do for work

00:09:43.640 you can't retire you don't have two three million if they picked the perfect body at 60

00:09:49.320 i'm not coming at you i'm just stating what what as a man of high value man we're looking we're like

00:09:59.660 i i talked i had a conversation last night i i talked to hundreds and hundreds of women i coach

00:10:05.160 men and women i get these challenges i've helped marriages now i'm not perfect i don't know everything

00:10:10.340 but i'm rarely in doubt because this is what i do and i see the challenges that some of the ladies 1.00

00:10:14.880 and men have and a lot of these men are simping i get it they're simping and they'll come up like

00:10:19.780 like pearl pearl was in a situation watch this pearl was in a situation a guy watched my podcast pearl

00:10:25.060 was on there he reached out to her somehow shape way or form and he wanted to date her and like soon

00:10:30.980 as he met her he goes i want to marry you it turned her off he was simping thirsty am i right 0.65

00:10:36.800 yeah yeah i did and these guys i say men stop chasing women stop chasing women what value does

00:10:45.900 a woman bring to the table i say that or to the relationship outside of sex what do you bring to 1.00

00:10:50.900 the relationship outside of sex i'm fucking hilarious dude men don't want to date comedians 0.88

00:10:56.420 they want to date models what i mean if that was true if men wanted to date funny if men wanted to

00:11:02.400 date funny well i'm a funny model so what's up chelsea you're you're not that i also have a

00:11:07.400 girlfriend so y'all need to keep that yeah i understand well they're right you're in a different

00:11:11.480 relationship you're in a different relationship yeah but but you know for men it's like they're not

00:11:16.040 looking for funny chicks otherwise you wouldn't see all these comedians they're always single 1.00

00:11:19.880 no that's not true have you seen that asian comedian she just came out with a movie and she 1.00

00:11:23.900 fucking funny you know you know it's so funny she was pregnant she already had that baby you know 0.99

00:11:27.600 it's so funny it's like you have to bring up the exception whose name you don't really watch

00:11:32.800 comedians well yeah but like just i can't remember her name but i've seen handlers by herself all the

00:11:38.040 big name comedians are by themselves that woman is pain i still do think like as much as you can be as

00:11:43.740 black and white with stuff i still think that men do choose you or fall in love with you or like

00:11:49.140 more because because of your personality and because of things that you bring to other things that you

00:11:53.220 bring to together they miss you when you're not around not because you're fine i know

00:11:56.540 these really nice bodies at that really nice bodies tatted up gorgeous i mean the the woman that all the 1.00

00:12:03.620 men walk in the room and want 1.00

JustPearlyThings - August 20, 2023

She Said This Without Any HESITATION

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