She STRUGGLED To Come To Terms With This Fact
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the double standard when it comes to sex and sex education. Is sex a dirty word? Is sex even a word? Do women who have slept around cheat on their partners? Do they deserve to have sex? Is it a bad thing if a woman has slept around? Should men and women be allowed to be sexually active in the same relationship? What is the difference between a woman and a man who sleeps around and a girl who does not cheat on her partner? What does it mean to be a wife and a hoe?
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could tell me from a guy's point of view you want to be the guy that she breaks rules for
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yeah like she made everyone else wait but she slept with you right away and you're not the
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guy she's doing it for isn't it nice but then on the other hand he's gonna think is it say that
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again isn't it nice to do the opposite as well though like maybe she slept around a load of
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guys but she wants to take it slow with you because she really likes it okay no no no guys
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i want to hear from every guy in this room is that nice no wait i didn't hear what you said
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she said if you do the opposite she sleeps with everyone it takes it slow with you i want to hear
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from everyone in the room if she's wife material surely i don't get that what do you mean
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isn't it nice to have rules broken for you so if a woman sleeps around a lot yeah yeah then she
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meets you and she's like right i want to i want to get him to be my husband i want to take things slow
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yeah isn't that a sign to you that she really likes you and is invested so what if she likes me i don't
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care if she really likes me it's not well then she's not gonna be a wife it's nothing to do with
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me liking you i've i've already disqualified you because i know what you're like but you know what
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i think so you say that you would your friend would give you the lowdown yeah she's a hoe and
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then you're gonna buck her and say yeah why go on yeah maria um let's go out on a date but really
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all you want to do is smash no not date who said date wow well whether you want whether it's a smash
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date or a dinner date or whatever you want to smash but then you're not being transparent so then
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because you're not telling that you just want to smash no but a lot of girls like he doesn't take
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them out on a date he doesn't treat them like a girlfriend and then they sleep together and
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then she's mad because he doesn't wife her but he never was he never they weren't dating
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intentionally ever anyway i never told her i want to be your wife i want you to be my wife i didn't
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say that i'm just chilling with you and we happen to have intercourse i'm not taking it seriously
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i don't understand why is it why is it so bad for a man to be sexually active as much as a woman
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sexually active and have the freedom to be sexually active and not only that you see really
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it isn't because i'm not saying you're not allowed to be sexually active i'm just saying you can't be
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sexually active with me i hate what you're saying i hate like okay that's not what you want to wife
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but i think like what you just said is the total reversal of what we know is true like it's okay
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for you guys to be hoes but as soon as a woman has slept around yeah it's because men and women
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are different it's a double standard no definitely that's what i'm saying but you said it like in
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terms of what because if if if your girlfriend's man slept around you're not going to be like it's
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all right darling like it's men i'm not right so there we go so let's not make it out like i was i was
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brought up by a man i was raised by my dad so i was instilled early into me that what what we think
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of women who fuck around because after my mom passed away all my dad did was fuck around so i
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soon got to see how women that fucked up got treated so i knew that from the start and i wouldn't be
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happy for my daughters to sleep around that is what's instilled in me all right it's like this
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a male gold digger a male gold digger yeah is looked at worse than a female gold digger as in
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that show what was that show called the 100 the um twin the swindler the thing that girls do every
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single day on this earth he was dishonest how women are dishonest every day what are you talking
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about he was the the tinder swindler yeah he was dishonest how women are dishonest he was saying
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yeah he was saying that old people coming to get him and people trying to yeah but girls do that
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every day no no no no i'm serious like there are entire industries built on women scamming men
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online because one in three men under the age of 30 hasn't had sex in the past year or is a virgin
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one in three men yeah so so there are entire industries built off of women doing webcam and
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that sort of thing getting money and extracting money off of men that's how andrew tate made his
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money that's why he's a multi multi-millionaire and nobody bats an eye nobody cares when it's a guy
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and they say you should have known better but with the women they get a whole goddamn documentary
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yeah but they're they're getting something out of it it's a transaction no no no because they'll sell
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him the dream that's what they do and like like andrew tate like breaks this down where they will
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literally convince these guys that one day they're gonna meet one day they're gonna sleep together
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one day one day one day and like this happens every day no one cares maybe they should stop watching
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disney so okay but when she said maybe maybe maybe the girls in the tinder swindler should stop
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watching disney absolutely but i'm saying people did fundraisers they're raising money for these
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women yeah but to me i'm like that's your own damn fault why on earth would anyone donate to that
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and that's what i would say to the guys too but for the men they do it yeah like they don't nobody
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cares the women people care no definitely when your heart is hungry you eat so i want to ask you
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something ladies how would you not feel if males exploited women the way how women exploit males in
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the porn industry in terms of this all right we're getting there now so let's get there so we know that
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this man at home is sitting down lonely he has no sex he has he has no female interaction but you're
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using that as your tool to get money out of him okay is that not exploitation i've i i only watch
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porn from with men oh say corn say corn corn corn yeah i only watch corn with um and male and female
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so how are we exploiting because no i'm saying in terms of like only fans in terms of like only fans
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um um chatter bay i'm talking about all these websites where they have girls it's a website where
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girls sit down in front of the cam and they're like you're right i'm lonely guy four five six
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yeah send me send me some dough i'll show you my feet pics like i'm your best friend i'm saying
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this exploitation happens what would you mean is exploitation or is it just an exchange of services
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can you hear that okay so you could you could argue that's what the tinder swindler did
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i never watched this so i can't comment but he did get taken to court right didn't he actually
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like con them which is slightly different no they just made his career
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it's i would say it's slightly different because he's met these individuals in person
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he's built a rapport of them he's actually thought allowed them to think that they are getting
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to know him as a person like if i was to meet any of you today if we were to go out
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there were some individuals that thought they were engaged to this man they they physically
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been together okay okay but so so the same way like the way you're talking is literally how
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andrew tate describes how the women need to talk to the men like i'm telling you word for word basically
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and so just like i think it's delusional of those men to think that a woman like that is going to
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take them seriously i think it's a delusional of those women 100 average average looking girls
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to think that a multi-millionaire is going to take you seriously is there not a difference when
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there's a um web screen put put in the way because the chats that we were talking about that's kind of
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you're paying for something virtually as opposed to something with the tinder swindler where that's
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in person you're meeting these people and build can i give you a stat so um the results revealed
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that 23 of women have engaged in a foodie foodie call on an occasional basis with a number of them
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believing it was socially acceptable the second study analyzed 357 female participants and further
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discovered that 33 of women would go on a date purely for a free meal right so this happens like
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every day face to face so you like when you said you'll make him wait there's nothing stopping you
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from actually having sex with him on day one well it comes down to my own values i know whenever you
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you're ready obviously after a couple more dates after i've spent my money on you after i after wait
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hold on because you potentially after the three months could say you know what i actually don't like
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you but i've already invested in you for three months well isn't that dating for for for for you
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that's dating for me that's an expense but why are you assuming that it's an expense because you
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because you know what i want that the male's paying no no you know what i want what do you want
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so what does every man want from a woman that he's going on a date with no no no i'm not saying
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that he's not saying that you have to just give it up he's talking about there's two different
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types of girls right there's a type of girl that makes you wait because it's genuine and there's a
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girl that makes you wait because she she's been ran through and she's afraid of getting ran through
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again and it's just completely different to guys i think both are justified to make somebody wait i
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think it could be justified to a female perspective but that's not how men view it because they value
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chastity they value purity and so it's like you're you're the product right and it's like you're upping
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the price that they have to pay to get the product without adding any extra value it's like you're a
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lower value she might have learned a few tricks you said it perfectly it's all about choice though
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isn't it it's as simple as that you have a choice if you don't want to stay with someone who is a hoe
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go if you do have fun yeah but you're the it's the deception so you're saying i should be able to
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deceive and you have the choice whether or not you want to be deceived or not doesn't it doesn't
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mean that the deceiver is right to deceive what is deceiving men deceive every day exactly but
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does it make it right that they deceive every day that's not that's not no it doesn't make it right
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but a very small percentage of men even have the option to deceive women again one in three men under
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30 they're having had sex in the past year or are virgins so that's what i'm saying the reason women
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like say phrases like that is because we're all sleeping with the same guys it's a very small
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percentage of men that can even get girls i really find that shocking i thought everybody
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could get a girl you just go to some of them clubs on a friday saturday night they're out there
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well those are the guys that cannot those are the guys that can afford to make it to the club
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just go outside you don't even need to go in get the tube
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the girls are giving it out i see i think you're where where are these women giving it out
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even the most like out there man he still has to go through like hoodles and hoops to lay with women
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even the even that 20 guy still has to be on point and do things right and be in the right place at
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the right time say the right things be the right physique um take her to the right place say the right
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things to her friends there's a lot of things that are hard for you guys it is so hard because you
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don't have no expectations you could just come with your what do women have to do to get sex we
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just have to exist no i'm not saying it's your fault but i'm saying like i empathize with men
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because it's a lot harder for them to even feel like desired they have to go through all of this
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work to even have girls interested in them where we just exist because we have such because of the
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decision that men do we have such a guard up of what guys we do go around but but women go after
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the bad guys and then complain so yeah uh so you've got that my thing is right so with this
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hypergamous stuff is that these women a lot of these women will get with the key players these are
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the guys that you know when you dance there's there's certain guys that just smash everyone
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in it they take advantage of the new girls they tap everyone so those girls they go with that guy
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and then now they've learned their lessons they've dated mr toxic he did this that this that he's
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telling me i'm like uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh and then they're like oh you know i want to take it
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a bit slow with you and i want to listen listen i was you know i was young then i just you know you
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need to really and i and i understand it because you know i dismiss those women but do you understand
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it though really i do i do understand because for a man the advantage we have that's never spoken of
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we have the advantage of experience like yeah we get screwed over and it's a hustle but i get i have
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infinite a lot of time to figure it out and that women don't really have that much time in it so for
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me past a certain age past 27 when i've seen enough i'm like oh snap i really get it like um for me
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every year there is a new cohort of young women who think they're grown coming in and it's easy
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it's it's extremely yo you're a predator no it's not even but they all think they're like you know
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i'm i'm 21 i'm graduated from uni i know it bro listen there's four of us here that specialize
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in these women exactly like you i know where to take you i know what to say i know what you think of
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yourself and and it happens so that's the advantages we have in it that every man is like born like an
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rpg character in it we all start at level one everyone even the coolest guy leonardo dicaprio
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do you mean as in um used because women after a certain age are haven't got that you're born with
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it's harder value women are born with value so i have to earn my value yeah so i'm invaluable
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say that again that's what that's what no i'm saying the more you sleep with men the less value
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will you become oh i thought you know okay i'm not saying that i'm saying that i'm saying that i'm
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not i mean either like you the older you get the less valuable if you're over the guy was it
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kevin samuel 35 you're undateable it doesn't mean you're it doesn't mean you're not undateable
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no it doesn't value but it doesn't mean you're undateable it means that you're less valuable than
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you were when you were like 10 15 years ago oh you can't compete for the same guy you can't
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compete for the same guy but i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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