JustPearlyThings - She STRUGGLED To Come To Terms With This Fact

00:00:00.000 could tell me from a guy's point of view you want to be the guy that she breaks rules for 1.00

00:00:03.700 yeah like she made everyone else wait but she slept with you right away and you're not the 1.00

00:00:07.540 guy she's doing it for isn't it nice but then on the other hand he's gonna think is it say that

00:00:11.380 again isn't it nice to do the opposite as well though like maybe she slept around a load of 1.00

00:00:14.980 guys but she wants to take it slow with you because she really likes it okay no no no guys

00:00:19.160 i want to hear from every guy in this room is that nice no wait i didn't hear what you said

00:00:24.800 she said if you do the opposite she sleeps with everyone it takes it slow with you i want to hear

00:00:28.900 from everyone in the room if she's wife material surely i don't get that what do you mean

00:00:32.540 isn't it nice to have rules broken for you so if a woman sleeps around a lot yeah yeah then she 1.00

00:00:40.560 meets you and she's like right i want to i want to get him to be my husband i want to take things slow

00:00:44.980 yeah isn't that a sign to you that she really likes you and is invested so what if she likes me i don't

00:00:50.520 care if she really likes me it's not well then she's not gonna be a wife it's nothing to do with 1.00

00:00:53.820 me liking you i've i've already disqualified you because i know what you're like but you know what

00:00:58.620 i think so you say that you would your friend would give you the lowdown yeah she's a hoe and 1.00

00:01:03.540 then you're gonna buck her and say yeah why go on yeah maria um let's go out on a date but really

00:01:07.860 all you want to do is smash no not date who said date wow well whether you want whether it's a smash

00:01:13.080 date or a dinner date or whatever you want to smash but then you're not being transparent so then

00:01:17.760 because you're not telling that you just want to smash no but a lot of girls like he doesn't take

00:01:22.060 them out on a date he doesn't treat them like a girlfriend and then they sleep together and

00:01:25.860 then she's mad because he doesn't wife her but he never was he never they weren't dating

00:01:31.660 intentionally ever anyway i never told her i want to be your wife i want you to be my wife i didn't

00:01:35.600 say that i'm just chilling with you and we happen to have intercourse i'm not taking it seriously

00:01:40.600 i don't understand why is it why is it so bad for a man to be sexually active as much as a woman 0.89

00:01:48.820 sexually active and have the freedom to be sexually active and not only that you see really

00:01:54.780 it isn't because i'm not saying you're not allowed to be sexually active i'm just saying you can't be

00:01:59.980 sexually active with me i hate what you're saying i hate like okay that's not what you want to wife 0.91

00:02:03.960 but i think like what you just said is the total reversal of what we know is true like it's okay

00:02:09.620 for you guys to be hoes but as soon as a woman has slept around yeah it's because men and women 0.99

00:02:16.400 are different it's a double standard no definitely that's what i'm saying but you said it like in

00:02:20.900 terms of what because if if if your girlfriend's man slept around you're not going to be like it's

00:02:26.360 all right darling like it's men i'm not right so there we go so let's not make it out like i was i was

00:02:32.380 brought up by a man i was raised by my dad so i was instilled early into me that what what we think 0.97

00:02:38.740 of women who fuck around because after my mom passed away all my dad did was fuck around so i 1.00

00:02:45.920 soon got to see how women that fucked up got treated so i knew that from the start and i wouldn't be 1.00

00:02:51.600 happy for my daughters to sleep around that is what's instilled in me all right it's like this 0.99

00:02:55.400 a male gold digger a male gold digger yeah is looked at worse than a female gold digger as in

00:03:01.280 that show what was that show called the 100 the um twin the swindler the thing that girls do every 1.00

00:03:06.740 single day on this earth he was dishonest how women are dishonest every day what are you talking 1.00

00:03:12.160 about he was the the tinder swindler yeah he was dishonest how women are dishonest he was saying 0.92

00:03:18.340 yeah he was saying that old people coming to get him and people trying to yeah but girls do that 1.00

00:03:21.980 every day no no no no i'm serious like there are entire industries built on women scamming men 1.00

00:03:28.900 online because one in three men under the age of 30 hasn't had sex in the past year or is a virgin

00:03:33.880 one in three men yeah so so there are entire industries built off of women doing webcam and 1.00

00:03:41.580 that sort of thing getting money and extracting money off of men that's how andrew tate made his

00:03:46.060 money that's why he's a multi multi-millionaire and nobody bats an eye nobody cares when it's a guy 0.98

00:03:52.280 and they say you should have known better but with the women they get a whole goddamn documentary 1.00

00:03:56.120 yeah but they're they're getting something out of it it's a transaction no no no because they'll sell 0.95

00:04:01.580 him the dream that's what they do and like like andrew tate like breaks this down where they will

00:04:07.520 literally convince these guys that one day they're gonna meet one day they're gonna sleep together

00:04:12.360 one day one day one day and like this happens every day no one cares maybe they should stop watching

00:04:17.960 disney so okay but when she said maybe maybe maybe the girls in the tinder swindler should stop 1.00

00:04:23.120 watching disney absolutely but i'm saying people did fundraisers they're raising money for these 0.68

00:04:31.280 women yeah but to me i'm like that's your own damn fault why on earth would anyone donate to that 0.73

00:04:35.700 and that's what i would say to the guys too but for the men they do it yeah like they don't nobody 0.91

00:04:41.860 cares the women people care no definitely when your heart is hungry you eat so i want to ask you 0.99

00:04:46.700 something ladies how would you not feel if males exploited women the way how women exploit males in 1.00

00:04:54.360 the porn industry in terms of this all right we're getting there now so let's get there so we know that

00:05:00.820 this man at home is sitting down lonely he has no sex he has he has no female interaction but you're 0.78

00:05:06.780 using that as your tool to get money out of him okay is that not exploitation i've i i only watch

00:05:13.240 porn from with men oh say corn say corn corn corn yeah i only watch corn with um and male and female

00:05:20.500 so how are we exploiting because no i'm saying in terms of like only fans in terms of like only fans

00:05:25.500 um um chatter bay i'm talking about all these websites where they have girls it's a website where 1.00

00:05:31.980 girls sit down in front of the cam and they're like you're right i'm lonely guy four five six 1.00

00:05:36.660 yeah send me send me some dough i'll show you my feet pics like i'm your best friend i'm saying

00:05:41.500 this exploitation happens what would you mean is exploitation or is it just an exchange of services

00:05:50.480 can you hear that okay so you could you could argue that's what the tinder swindler did

00:05:55.240 they got to go on a private jet

00:06:01.080 i never watched this so i can't comment but he did get taken to court right didn't he actually

00:06:06.880 like con them which is slightly different no they just made his career

00:06:10.080 it's i would say it's slightly different because he's met these individuals in person

00:06:15.960 he's built a rapport of them he's actually thought allowed them to think that they are getting

00:06:21.080 to know him as a person like if i was to meet any of you today if we were to go out

00:06:25.460 there were some individuals that thought they were engaged to this man they they physically

00:06:32.720 been together okay okay but so so the same way like the way you're talking is literally how

00:06:37.820 andrew tate describes how the women need to talk to the men like i'm telling you word for word basically

00:06:43.820 and so just like i think it's delusional of those men to think that a woman like that is going to

00:06:50.140 take them seriously i think it's a delusional of those women 100 average average looking girls 0.96

00:06:55.540 to think that a multi-millionaire is going to take you seriously is there not a difference when

00:06:59.780 there's a um web screen put put in the way because the chats that we were talking about that's kind of

00:07:06.720 you're paying for something virtually as opposed to something with the tinder swindler where that's 0.93

00:07:11.680 in person you're meeting these people and build can i give you a stat so um the results revealed

00:07:18.260 that 23 of women have engaged in a foodie foodie call on an occasional basis with a number of them

00:07:23.720 believing it was socially acceptable the second study analyzed 357 female participants and further 0.97

00:07:29.200 discovered that 33 of women would go on a date purely for a free meal right so this happens like 0.96

00:07:35.760 every day face to face so you like when you said you'll make him wait there's nothing stopping you

00:07:41.640 from actually having sex with him on day one well it comes down to my own values i know whenever you

00:07:46.980 you're ready obviously after a couple more dates after i've spent my money on you after i after wait

00:07:53.500 hold on because you potentially after the three months could say you know what i actually don't like

00:07:58.900 you but i've already invested in you for three months well isn't that dating for for for for you

00:08:06.080 that's dating for me that's an expense but why are you assuming that it's an expense because you

00:08:10.320 because you know what i want that the male's paying no no you know what i want what do you want 0.96

00:08:14.280 so what does every man want from a woman that he's going on a date with no no no i'm not saying

00:08:20.160 that he's not saying that you have to just give it up he's talking about there's two different

00:08:24.000 types of girls right there's a type of girl that makes you wait because it's genuine and there's a 0.84

00:08:28.840 girl that makes you wait because she she's been ran through and she's afraid of getting ran through 0.99

00:08:32.760 again and it's just completely different to guys i think both are justified to make somebody wait i

00:08:38.020 think it could be justified to a female perspective but that's not how men view it because they value

00:08:42.560 chastity they value purity and so it's like you're you're the product right and it's like you're upping

00:08:49.120 the price that they have to pay to get the product without adding any extra value it's like you're a

00:08:55.200 lower value she might have learned a few tricks you said it perfectly it's all about choice though

00:09:02.080 isn't it it's as simple as that you have a choice if you don't want to stay with someone who is a hoe 1.00

00:09:05.780 go if you do have fun yeah but you're the it's the deception so you're saying i should be able to

00:09:12.640 deceive and you have the choice whether or not you want to be deceived or not doesn't it doesn't

00:09:16.460 mean that the deceiver is right to deceive what is deceiving men deceive every day exactly but

00:09:21.220 does it make it right that they deceive every day that's not that's not no it doesn't make it right

00:09:24.500 but a very small percentage of men even have the option to deceive women again one in three men under

00:09:30.360 30 they're having had sex in the past year or are virgins so that's what i'm saying the reason women 1.00

00:09:36.840 like say phrases like that is because we're all sleeping with the same guys it's a very small

00:09:41.220 percentage of men that can even get girls i really find that shocking i thought everybody

00:09:48.060 could get a girl you just go to some of them clubs on a friday saturday night they're out there

00:09:52.820 well those are the guys that cannot those are the guys that can afford to make it to the club

00:09:56.660 just go outside you don't even need to go in get the tube

00:09:59.380 the girls are giving it out i see i think you're where where are these women giving it out 1.00

00:10:04.200 i know can you name an exact time and location

00:10:06.180 i'm gonna hook you up i'm gonna hook you up 0.79

00:10:10.920 even the most like out there man he still has to go through like hoodles and hoops to lay with women

00:10:18.400 even the even that 20 guy still has to be on point and do things right and be in the right place at

00:10:23.420 the right time say the right things be the right physique um take her to the right place say the right

00:10:29.320 things to her friends there's a lot of things that are hard for you guys it is so hard because you

00:10:33.560 don't have no expectations you could just come with your what do women have to do to get sex we 1.00

00:10:38.060 just have to exist no i'm not saying it's your fault but i'm saying like i empathize with men

00:10:45.360 because it's a lot harder for them to even feel like desired they have to go through all of this

00:10:50.060 work to even have girls interested in them where we just exist because we have such because of the 1.00

00:10:55.520 decision that men do we have such a guard up of what guys we do go around but but women go after 1.00

00:11:02.940 the bad guys and then complain so yeah uh so you've got that my thing is right so with this

00:11:09.800 hypergamous stuff is that these women a lot of these women will get with the key players these are 1.00

00:11:15.660 the guys that you know when you dance there's there's certain guys that just smash everyone

00:11:20.440 in it they take advantage of the new girls they tap everyone so those girls they go with that guy 1.00

00:11:26.400 and then now they've learned their lessons they've dated mr toxic he did this that this that he's

00:11:31.560 telling me i'm like uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh and then they're like oh you know i want to take it

00:11:35.880 a bit slow with you and i want to listen listen i was you know i was young then i just you know you

00:11:42.020 need to really and i and i understand it because you know i dismiss those women but do you understand

00:11:47.760 it though really i do i do understand because for a man the advantage we have that's never spoken of

00:11:53.820 we have the advantage of experience like yeah we get screwed over and it's a hustle but i get i have

00:12:00.740 infinite a lot of time to figure it out and that women don't really have that much time in it so for 1.00

00:12:04.980 me past a certain age past 27 when i've seen enough i'm like oh snap i really get it like um for me

00:12:11.600 every year there is a new cohort of young women who think they're grown coming in and it's easy 1.00

00:12:21.360 it's it's extremely yo you're a predator no it's not even but they all think they're like you know

00:12:27.280 i'm i'm 21 i'm graduated from uni i know it bro listen there's four of us here that specialize

00:12:32.320 in these women exactly like you i know where to take you i know what to say i know what you think of 0.63

00:12:37.300 yourself and and it happens so that's the advantages we have in it that every man is like born like an 0.93

00:12:43.500 rpg character in it we all start at level one everyone even the coolest guy leonardo dicaprio

00:12:47.440 do you mean as in um used because women after a certain age are haven't got that you're born with 1.00

00:12:53.900 it's harder value women are born with value so i have to earn my value yeah so i'm invaluable 1.00

00:12:59.880 say that again that's what that's what no i'm saying the more you sleep with men the less value 0.91

00:13:05.380 will you become oh i thought you know okay i'm not saying that i'm saying that i'm saying that i'm

00:13:11.160 not i mean either like you the older you get the less valuable if you're over the guy was it

00:13:15.660 kevin samuel 35 you're undateable it doesn't mean you're it doesn't mean you're not undateable

00:13:21.440 no it doesn't value but it doesn't mean you're undateable it means that you're less valuable than

00:13:27.160 you were when you were like 10 15 years ago oh you can't compete for the same guy you can't

00:13:33.040 compete for the same guy but i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - April 05, 2023

She STRUGGLED To Come To Terms With This Fact

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