JustPearlyThings - She Tired To JUSTIFY Her DELUSION

00:00:00.400 Career is more important than motherhood. Yes or no when when I'm when so in in a society career is more important than motherhood

00:00:07.040 Yes, or no. Yes, or no

00:00:09.100 Depends. No, yes, sir. No, but it depends

00:00:11.540 No, because the way you're arguing the way the way you're arguing you're just arguing with everything

00:00:16.260 No, but you're not even making a clear point

00:00:18.540 If your point is if your point is that career is more important than motherhood say it it depends

00:00:24.720 No, I'm not even well because she's like this everyone comes from a different place here

00:00:29.080 What I'm saying is okay, we're dealing with the facts of the West right now in it like this is where we're at not in Africa 0.93

00:00:43.560 Not in do you get it like other countries where they have these values that oh, yeah

00:00:48.840 And some men still have that mentality that a woman so that woman's not it's like

00:00:54.720 What yeah, what results does that does that lead to are women happier in the West? I think so 1.00

00:01:03.360 I don't think

00:01:05.360 Okay, so how

00:01:07.360 Let me just think this through with you, okay

00:01:09.280 How would we measure if women are happier in the West or in other countries the rate of women on what antidepressants?

00:01:15.460 Because what you would agree depressed women take drugs to not be depressed 0.99

00:01:20.200 Right, okay, so if the women in the West are on antidepressants higher that means our results are not good

00:01:27.060 If we're more obese than other countries our results are not good

00:01:30.620 So yeah, we're more successful

00:01:33.260 Not in terms of happiness

00:01:35.900 You see your basic success monetarily success is about enjoyment of life. It's not about

00:01:41.160 I thought you weren't paid equally

00:01:43.460 What I thought you weren't paid equally

00:01:45.860 That's not what she said financially successful

00:01:49.180 No, she means more financially independent success is not about how much money because financial independence is important for example

00:01:56.340 I'll give you the average the average woman makes like twenty five thousand out a year 1.00

00:02:00.800 No financially they're not that successful

00:02:02.960 Can I ask you a question?

00:02:04.440 That's poverty

00:02:05.040 Okay, compared to the countries

00:02:07.840 Where they probably would have a better lifestyle because they live off of their family's income 0.72

00:02:13.080 Of their husbands

00:02:14.120 You know, sister, can I say something yet?

00:02:17.460 It's important for women to have financial stability 1.00

00:02:19.520 Because you can't always rely on men to be there to give you things

00:02:23.160 Financial independence

00:02:23.260 Because it's not just because men are trash and men are not reliable

00:02:26.320 Everybody dies

00:02:27.280 Which means that you as a woman need to also be able to count on a way to 0.97

00:02:31.160 To stabilize yourself

00:02:32.880 Because if you do have children

00:02:34.240 You also need to be able to provide for the children so things go wrong for example

00:02:37.860 So that's why certain things like financial independence and having a career can be important for women 1.00

00:02:42.140 And I know this because I speak like about my mom from experience

00:02:45.180 If she didn't go to work and she was a housewife 1.00

00:02:48.420 If she didn't go to work we would have been suffering

00:02:50.580 We should have had to go jump in bed with somebody else to provide for her 1.00

00:02:53.800 Which she didn't do so she went to work

00:02:55.260 So it's a good thing

00:02:56.220 It's a good thing for women to go and work and have a career 1.00

00:02:58.300 I don't think what we're trying to say that women working is a bad thing 0.95

00:03:02.600 What we're trying to say is women putting work over family is a bad thing 1.00

00:03:06.500 Because if you go back to what Pearl said the results have been bad

00:03:09.700 They've been horrible

00:03:10.420 Also as well a lot of work is not really what it's cracked up to be

00:03:13.220 I mean it seems like women have worked really really hard and fought really hard

00:03:16.280 To be able to go and work in cubicles for you know eight hours a day

00:03:19.400 Which is pretty shit

00:03:20.440 You know let's face it

00:03:21.740 Most people aren't going to become Cardi B

00:03:23.840 Most people aren't going to become like a world famous rapper

00:03:25.820 Or you know like a super influencer right

00:03:29.620 Most jobs are not very good

00:03:31.360 So why is there this why is this importance put on to that when actually most people are trying to get out of work

00:03:36.740 Because it's you know out of normal jobs because they're so terrible

00:03:39.140 It's because feminism made these women think that being a mother is a bad thing 1.00

00:03:43.480 That they're oppressed that they compared it to cows to being bred

00:03:46.980 They're not they don't see any value in being a mother

00:03:50.340 They compare themselves to men all the time

00:03:52.680 They want to go fix cars like we do

00:03:54.120 They want to go wrap like we do

00:03:55.240 They want to make money

00:03:56.200 Why is it men don't fix cars only? 0.98

00:03:57.740 See?

00:03:58.120 And why is it men don't wrap only?

00:03:59.460 Because women women aren't as good at it 1.00

00:04:01.460 Well if I get stuck in the middle of nowhere

00:04:03.600 Look at the top ten

00:04:04.380 Look at the top ten

00:04:04.520 Look at the top ten

00:04:06.460 Look at the survival skill

00:04:07.780 Look at the top ten

00:04:08.440 Look at the survival skill

00:04:08.580 Dinalva wait

00:04:09.000 The top ten rappers of all time are they men or women?

00:04:12.560 There's a woman in there 1.00

00:04:13.460 There's a woman in there 1.00

00:04:14.420 Are the majority

00:04:15.080 Stop

00:04:15.640 Come on

00:04:16.540 Are the majority men or women?

00:04:19.460 Men

00:04:19.720 They're definitely men

00:04:20.220 Okay

00:04:20.460 So women aren't as good at it 1.00

00:04:22.060 Well

00:04:22.480 That doesn't mean that they're not as good at it

00:04:24.440 That's exactly what they're doing

00:04:25.420 No that doesn't mean that

00:04:26.980 That's exactly

00:04:28.440 It's not

00:04:29.780 Do you know why?

00:04:31.200 Because that's the same thing as saying

00:04:32.760 Women have only just started going into science 1.00

00:04:34.880 Because it's more encouraged

00:04:35.940 But because there's more men engineers

00:04:38.240 They're all better than women 1.00

00:04:39.460 No

00:04:39.780 Women can't be good at it 1.00

00:04:40.940 But they're just still trying to go into things

00:04:42.640 Because we are still catching up

00:04:44.640 With something that's been there for men for a very long time

00:04:46.880 No because

00:04:47.360 No because

00:04:48.000 We're picking

00:04:48.860 They're trying to push women into industries 1.00

00:04:51.660 We're not naturally good at

00:04:52.760 Listen

00:04:53.020 Wrapping is like poetry

00:04:54.380 You're basically saying

00:04:55.140 No one can't write poetry as good as a man

00:04:56.740 Wait

00:04:57.020 DeNalva

00:04:57.260 Wait

00:04:57.520 Jesus

00:04:57.860 Wait

00:04:58.600 DeNalva

00:04:59.360 It's like

00:05:00.360 It's like

00:05:00.940 We were trying to make women into men 1.00

00:05:02.600 And we're not men

00:05:03.520 No

00:05:04.200 Wrapping is not for men 0.89

00:05:05.740 Because wrapping is art

00:05:07.180 So you can't use that

00:05:08.340 If women wanted to do it 1.00

00:05:10.980 And were good at it

00:05:11.840 They would do it

00:05:12.820 Men as rappers sell more

00:05:15.060 Because whatever it is

00:05:15.960 That they're wrapping about as well

00:05:17.580 Is more like

00:05:19.180 It helps men feel empowered

00:05:21.540 Feel this

00:05:21.960 There's a certain advantage

00:05:23.460 For men within that industry

00:05:24.760 That's just a fact

00:05:25.420 Can I ask you a question

00:05:26.380 Why aren't men like top of the

00:05:29.560 What's the word

00:05:30.780 Top of the list

00:05:31.500 When it comes to like

00:05:32.440 The beauty influence

00:05:33.520 They are though

00:05:34.380 No they're not

00:05:35.700 Why aren't men

00:05:41.020 Who dominates the modelling industry

00:05:42.460 In men or women

00:05:43.180 Why does Giselle make more than Tom Brady 1.00

00:05:45.040 Exactly

00:05:46.220 Clearly because they're better at it

00:05:48.040 Women are better at makeup 1.00

00:05:49.220 Men are better at other things 0.98

00:05:50.660 We need to stop acting like

00:05:52.000 We can do the same things

00:05:53.260 No it's not

00:05:53.600 Because women are visual 1.00

00:05:55.060 Sometimes there's exceptions

00:05:56.600 Sometimes there's exceptions

00:05:57.980 I know there's a male YouTuber

00:05:59.180 Who can probably do more makeup than me

00:06:01.140 But if we're talking on a general sense

00:06:02.820 Let's be real

00:06:04.040 Let's be realistic

00:06:04.660 Because women please the visuals 1.00

00:06:06.260 You just argued

00:06:07.380 And we're good at that

00:06:08.260 You just talked

00:06:08.980 And we're good at that

00:06:09.800 It's true

00:06:10.280 But we also need to admit

00:06:12.660 I'm getting a chance why

00:06:13.060 I said because

00:06:13.900 I'm not arguing

00:06:14.940 I'm agreeing

00:06:15.520 But the same way we can admit

00:06:18.580 Women are better at this 1.00

00:06:19.660 And women are better at visuals 1.00

00:06:20.760 And so why are we so afraid

00:06:22.100 To admit that men are better 1.00

00:06:23.260 Than other things than we are

00:06:24.700 Exactly

00:06:25.240 For example

00:06:26.280 I would not want to have a man 1.00

00:06:28.340 Running a nursery school

00:06:29.840 Because I wouldn't want to leave

00:06:31.160 My small child with a man 0.97

00:06:32.140 I'd rather leave it with a woman 1.00

00:06:32.880 But then why do you argue so hard

00:06:35.080 I don't have you

00:06:36.680 Wait

00:06:37.180 Wait

00:06:37.680 That men are better rappers

00:06:39.860 Than women 1.00

00:06:40.500 Because the results show it

00:06:42.360 No

00:06:42.680 Because there's more men rappers

00:06:44.400 And they do better at it

00:06:45.680 It's like I'm talking to a kid right now

00:06:47.360 You're very childish

00:06:48.320 I understand why you think she's good TV

00:06:50.100 Because you just talk

00:06:51.260 You're just talking

00:06:53.400 Like what are you talking about

00:06:54.720 Okay

00:06:55.000 I'll tell you why

00:06:55.780 For example

00:06:56.540 Rapping

00:06:57.180 What is rapping?

00:06:58.360 Rapping is

00:06:59.000 You write lyrics

00:07:00.020 It's poetry essentially

00:07:02.280 Right

00:07:02.800 Okay

00:07:03.480 The only difference between poetry

00:07:05.200 And rapping

00:07:05.600 Is because when you rap

00:07:06.720 You flow on a beat

00:07:07.780 Cool

00:07:08.300 So that has nothing to do

00:07:09.360 With you being a man or a woman 0.99

00:07:10.360 Now

00:07:10.960 When it comes to taking care of children

00:07:12.860 And babies for example

00:07:14.360 Then there

00:07:15.160 I'm going to say

00:07:16.260 Yeah it is about being a man

00:07:17.360 And a woman 0.86

00:07:17.760 So there are certain things

00:07:18.840 Where the rule does not apply

00:07:19.920 And there are certain things

00:07:20.820 That the rule definitely apply

00:07:21.840 So I am not stupid sir

00:07:23.080 No but then

00:07:23.440 Actually

00:07:23.740 I'm not calling you stupid

00:07:24.740 But just because you're speaking loud

00:07:26.080 It doesn't mean that you're making a good point

00:07:27.300 I can't hear myself too well

00:07:28.320 So obviously I have to project my voice

00:07:29.660 Listen a little bit

00:07:30.700 Because you're not making a good point

00:07:31.920 Just because you're speaking up

00:07:32.900 Okay

00:07:33.180 Why did I not make a good point?

00:07:34.840 You're not having any stance

00:07:35.960 You say you're not a feminist 1.00

00:07:36.880 But you're saying that women 1.00

00:07:38.000 Should be scientists too

00:07:39.300 Yes

00:07:39.760 We can rap the same

00:07:40.660 But also I'm not

00:07:41.520 Because I'm not a feminist 1.00

00:07:42.500 I just think people have skills

00:07:43.660 You've been talking the most

00:07:44.800 Out of anyone on this panel

00:07:45.800 Of course

00:07:46.000 And you have no specific point of view

00:07:47.880 I've got the most

00:07:47.900 My point of view is simply to say

00:07:50.120 To talk

00:07:50.580 You guys just want to argue about

00:07:52.280 Black and white

00:07:53.260 When there's great points in the middle

00:07:54.840 The same way that sometimes

00:07:56.360 The rule applies where

00:07:57.320 Men are better at something than women 1.00

00:07:58.920 And sometimes it doesn't

00:08:00.040 That's why I'm not a feminist 0.61

00:08:01.580 But Dinalva

00:08:02.540 You've been on too many shows

00:08:04.400 To not know that we are talking about in general

00:08:07.020 Like I've told you this so many times

00:08:08.900 And I've been on too many shows

00:08:10.100 To know that I sit here to tell my point

00:08:11.960 So that I can then take the content

00:08:13.160 And put it on my page

00:08:14.880 The right way for my brand

00:08:16.120 You can say your point

00:08:19.560 But that doesn't mean you're right

00:08:20.900 No but this looks better

00:08:22.620 So there you go

00:08:24.220 It's not about

00:08:24.900 For everybody watching

00:08:25.800 It's not about making a clear point

00:08:27.420 It's just this is her time

00:08:28.680 She's on camera

00:08:29.460 You like talking

00:08:30.480 It's about empowerment

00:08:31.080 It's about calling bullshit

00:08:32.280 On black and white

00:08:33.100 You like hearing your own voice

00:08:35.020 I love my voice

00:08:36.060 And I like looking at myself

00:08:37.020 This is narcissism

00:08:38.260 You have no point of view

00:08:39.780 You're just here to talk

00:08:40.920 I disagree with you

00:08:41.520 Because you're saying things

00:08:43.000 As if I should be

00:08:43.880 I'm going to

00:08:45.400 I want to hear from you

00:08:46.780 Because I don't think we have all show

00:08:48.560 I'm just here getting heated

00:08:50.340 A little bit

00:08:51.040 I just feel like everything

00:08:52.780 So feminism 1.00

00:08:53.820 It's just women demonizing 1.00

00:08:55.620 Everything that women are good at 1.00

00:08:58.300 So being able to give birth

00:09:01.860 Reproduction is beautiful

00:09:03.500 It is a beautiful thing

00:09:05.540 Why are we demonizing it?

00:09:07.620 Why are we relating ourselves to cows?

00:09:10.180 Yeah I don't get that

00:09:11.560 Who said that?

00:09:12.400 Who was it that said that?

00:09:13.420 A rapper

00:09:13.940 And I hate to bring religion into it 1.00

00:09:16.720 But as a Christian

00:09:17.360 I can only speak on what I know

00:09:18.440 In the Bible

00:09:18.980 Like the main focus for women 1.00

00:09:21.020 Is to reproduce

00:09:21.940 So for you to try and make it seem like

00:09:23.780 It's a bad thing

00:09:24.320 Is literally ludicrous to me

00:09:25.980 We're on this planet to reproduce

00:09:27.660 And this is why I say

00:09:28.320 There's nothing else to it

00:09:29.480 Forget society

00:09:30.200 Forget everything else

00:09:31.080 We are literally here to make children

00:09:32.820 And this is why I said

00:09:34.060 Feminism is demonic 1.00

00:09:35.140 It is demonic

00:09:36.360 I'm here for more than just

00:09:39.440 To give birth

00:09:40.160 To give birth to a child

00:09:41.340 Actually

00:09:42.140 I can be a mother

00:09:43.540 But I also

00:09:44.180 I am an educator

00:09:45.000 I'm here to help other people

00:09:46.240 But you're getting it the wrong way

00:09:46.780 We're not saying that

00:09:47.320 I'm not here to just give birth to a child

00:09:49.280 That's what you're saying

00:09:50.740 That is what you're saying

00:09:51.620 I'm not saying that I'm here to just

00:09:52.680 No you guys are saying

00:09:53.760 Guys

00:09:54.620 Guys

00:09:54.980 One at a time

00:09:56.240 One at a time

00:09:56.760 Wait

00:09:57.360 Thank you

00:09:58.380 I'm going to let you go

00:09:59.240 Go ahead

00:09:59.580 That's not what we're saying

00:10:00.520 Because when she asked for a fun fact

00:10:01.720 I said first

00:10:02.440 My career

00:10:02.900 We're not here

00:10:03.720 I'm not saying that I'm here

00:10:04.980 To just become a mother

00:10:06.260 To just give kids

00:10:07.000 But we are saying the main

00:10:08.320 He said the most important thing

00:10:09.840 Is motherhood

00:10:10.380 And you guys are trying to take away

00:10:11.320 From the fact of the matter

00:10:12.420 The fact of the matter

00:10:13.080 Is that the most important thing

00:10:14.380 For a woman

00:10:14.740 Is to be a mother

00:10:15.680 You can want a career

00:10:16.920 You can want to be rich

00:10:17.800 Mental health

00:10:18.520 All of that

00:10:18.840 That's all nice and fun

00:10:19.720 But the main factor of life is

00:10:21.080 The most important thing

00:10:22.140 Is being a mother

00:10:23.240 And you guys are just trying to argue

00:10:24.460 With the sake of arguing

00:10:25.200 Because what you guys are saying

00:10:26.020 You're just both contradicting yourself

00:10:27.380 And you're both bumping heads

00:10:28.320 Which makes zero sense

00:10:29.340 As many of you know

00:10:30.500 I was just banned on TikTok

00:10:32.640 And we are demonetized

00:10:34.360 On a daily basis

00:10:35.600 On this platform

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JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2023

She Tired To JUSTIFY Her DELUSION

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