JustPearlyThings - She Was Caught Trying To Evade This Question

00:00:00.000 okay what about what about you what what does the average woman bring to the table in 2023 well 1.00

00:00:10.960 um so i don't know exactly no no wait i want to i want to give a good a good actual answer

00:00:20.800 i mean there are many things you know you have to you have to sort of be mentally aligned because

00:00:26.400 you want to have like good communication you want to be able to talk about self experiences and

00:00:30.480 you know things are women good communicators some are or is the average woman a good communicator 1.00

00:00:36.160 um some are no no i said is the average woman i am okay okay so no yeah okay so do men typically

00:00:44.800 want communication from women is that what they seek they want they want communication they want 1.00

00:00:49.920 um they want femininity as well to be honest okay and they and they want they do want attractiveness

00:00:54.880 obviously okay but you you can't it's you can't be that superficial for like for one day yes maybe

00:01:01.280 two but then the third day men do want communication yeah okay so the average woman brings communication 1.00

00:01:08.080 what else well i don't know about the average woman but you know good women okay that get good okay okay 1.00

00:01:14.080 keep going what else women that get good husbands um they also want um yeah they want someone that looks 1.00

00:01:19.760 good they want someone that you know is their level to be honest okay so they they want to grow so

00:01:26.160 they bring looks and communication what else care femininity whatever that are women feminine in 1.00

00:01:32.720 2020 not really there's a lot of alphas out there okay so but you kind of have to be okay it's a dog

00:01:39.120 eat dog so maybe a lot of fake alphas though well what what what there are a lot of fake alphas out

00:01:44.480 there including men yeah that's okay so women women bring femininity sometimes sometimes okay what what 1.00

00:01:52.400 else do women bring um well they can bring status depending what they do as well do men care about

00:01:59.120 status i don't know i think some do some do my ex actually did okay does the average man care about

00:02:05.040 status i don't know about average men i've only dated quite you know okay good okay okay i mean

00:02:12.080 yeah you and everyone does the man women typically want care about status no because he'll probably

00:02:19.360 bring her up if you're going to go average but i do think that if you are a certain level of guy

00:02:24.960 then you want something more than just a pretty girl on the arm okay okay so the average woman brings 1.00

00:02:31.600 communication no no not the average woman okay the slightly above average okay the slightly above

00:02:36.560 average woman brings communication femininity they should and looks they should i'd like how you're not 1.00

00:02:42.320 answering the question i asked it's like women when we you don't like the answer that that we would have 1.00

00:02:47.760 to give it's like let me answer how i want to answer okay so ask the question one more time what does the

00:02:53.520 average woman bring to the table in 2023 so the average woman it depends usually i guess don't 1.00

00:03:01.920 remember that's a banned word yes it's banned okay so the average woman i guess is everyone that is on

00:03:07.760 social media so they bring looks how about that as simple as that anything else i mean i'm sure there

00:03:13.440 are but if you're going on a date and you don't know the person how do you know you get to know okay

00:03:16.800 okay what does the average woman bring yes we're talking about average average means already that it 1.00

00:03:21.520 doesn't bring much right and women are being forced to to bring on the table things that i 1.00

00:03:28.000 think for men is not very useful anymore so we've been forced like if you talk to most of girls here 1.00

00:03:33.520 they have like really good jobs working for governments high education and that's not what

00:03:38.160 men's need like in a relationship like sex if you put on the top for men's number one right and

00:03:43.440 unfortunately the other things affect women on this way and things like this why were forced to get 0.99

00:03:48.480 jobs you don't think it was a choice pardon women were forced to get jobs i think nowadays it has a

00:03:53.840 very big uh pressure okay a really big pressure if you don't want to be uh very well educated and

00:04:02.000 have a job of course if you live in london if you don't work if you don't make money the city is

00:04:05.920 gonna stop right do do men typically want to marry young women yes of course so what what was

00:04:11.760 stopping us from getting married at 21 yeah that's a really good question we wanted to be more we

00:04:18.400 wanted to be independent and this is the problem nowadays yeah but hold on i'm gonna get to you but

00:04:23.440 i'm gonna let her answer yeah for me at least i wanted to do more things right it was my personal

00:04:29.440 choice right so that's that's one of the main reasons why not correct but i'm saying like like that

00:04:37.040 it was still a choice we weren't forced yeah yeah of course a man of value like maybe didn't propose

00:04:43.360 maybe it wasn't the right man like that proposed why would why would a man not propose i don't know

00:04:49.600 because you're too young maybe or it's not or you don't bring like you're saying the young people right 0.99

00:04:55.200 in london it doesn't really like i don't know that many people that got married they've they've had long

00:04:58.800 relationships but they don't get married in their like 20s they just don't right but i'm i'm saying why

00:05:03.760 would a man not propose probably because economically he wants to be of a certain stature okay why why

00:05:09.680 couldn't she get a guy that is high that makes a lot of money well i think at 21 you don't have

00:05:15.760 maturity enough to handle a house nowadays nowadays you know but before they look for my mom my mom the

00:05:24.320 same but nowadays like i'm a teacher as well right i see the girls you know if even if i talk to many

00:05:30.240 friends of mine there so now in the past years things have been happening right that people are

00:05:36.160 not and that's what's going to happen if you're married it means in a while you're going to have

00:05:40.000 kids well maybe these people you know that's wrong no but mostly we're talking generally you're going

00:05:45.440 to have kids right if you get married right so the thing is nowadays people are being brainwashed

00:05:51.200 people are not getting mature they are not taking responsibility what is the most important people

00:05:55.600 are not able to take responsibilities if you get married young nowadays with the brain that they

00:06:00.080 are having they're not going to be able to raise kids properly and that's going to up the kid right

00:06:06.080 that's what i see in schools happening do you think it's harder for women to change the older 1.00

00:06:10.160 they are or the younger they are i think for every human being is harder the older you get and that's

00:06:14.880 okay okay scientifically okay so wouldn't it make more sense to get married younger rather than older

00:06:20.880 so you can molt like you can grow together with the man so it depends how the younger you get

00:06:26.720 usually the highest the rate of divorces are higher so it's not about the age it's about maturity because

00:06:32.640 you can find people 40 30 50 years old they're not mature and i've seen people getting married in a

00:06:38.720 young age so there's the wrong question first of all it is a matter of maturity do you think that's

00:06:45.280 what men want maturity i of course if a wise man wants maturity otherwise what happens with men

00:06:52.080 so what does the average woman bring in 2023 as i said average means already that it doesn't bring 0.93

00:06:58.080 much okay okay so she doesn't bring much average people don't bring much to the table either men or 1.00

00:07:04.240 women average i would i would argue that the average man does bring more to the table in terms of like

00:07:10.160 society like 40 you know half of men have infrastructure jobs that means one out of

00:07:15.600 every two men you meet is right but you mean bring to the table to society or to their relationship well

00:07:20.880 i'm saying a lot of times average women think they're better than average men in society would

00:07:26.160 they what they bring to society or in relationship i would argue that the average man brings more than

00:07:31.360 the average woman to a relationship because the average man makes more than the average woman but 0.99

00:07:36.160 the average woman is fatter than the average man and she's only having requests the average woman 1.00

00:07:42.240 she will have lots of requests what she will have lots of requests if she's the average woman yes 1.00

00:07:48.000 yeah she will request but she will not give what she's requesting and also part of what social media

00:07:53.520 has done to our society is back in the day before social media it would be usually very hard for a

00:07:59.760 woman to even date outside of her social class back in the days there was no she was not going without the 0.97

00:08:05.600 husband hold on hold on the point is these days a lot of women think they are more valuable than they

00:08:13.120 actually are and i'm not saying that to be this in terms of a woman who sleep with like maybe a 0.99

00:08:18.480 celebrity that went in a dm and automatically in her head she thinks that she can only get married to 1.00

00:08:23.760 someone on that level that's true that is what messes up a lot of women the reality is most of those guys 1.00

00:08:30.400 just look at those women as okay well this is better than my hand but then the woman goes after 1.00

00:08:35.440 that and then she thinks okay well i slept with lebron james so now i can only get married to a 1.00

00:08:41.840 basketballer meanwhile she would actually be more equally yoked to get married to like a plumber for 1.00

00:08:47.120 most women who see themselves as above being married to a plumber that's the problem with society because 1.00

00:08:51.840 they are unrealistic they they they cannot make the difference between the reality and what they

00:08:58.320 have in their heads also sorry um sorry also the person that goes and sleeps with someone willy-nilly

00:09:04.080 like that with anyone whether just because they're a celebrity is like i wouldn't even say it's willy-nilly

00:09:08.960 i'd say women date celebrities for a couple months a year two years and think they're on the level 1.00

00:09:14.480 yeah but usually those celebrities have multiple girlfriends so it's just one of many so it's a hype

00:09:20.640 uh-huh so it all sounds like a hype that's a specific type of women which is okay which is 1.00

00:09:26.800 okay that's not a lot of women that's a certain that's like a few women i would say that's attractive 1.00

00:09:32.400 women yeah but not all attracted not all but i would say more do than don't i think it's a mentality

00:09:39.520 type though right it's not the same thing so like to generalize that is really quite we have to but we

00:09:44.400 have to talk in general yeah i i agree it's all women because this is the thing every woman unless 1.00

00:09:50.880 unless the woman is probably she has mental problems or she has like trauma usually women will go after 1.00

00:09:56.880 men that are better than them the problem is how do you secure that man so usually what should happen

00:10:03.920 is a woman if she's getting with this man she can't secure him gets to the next man and they're all 1.00

00:10:08.720 high value my men she should actually look and see why have i not been able to secure any of these men

00:10:13.840 what is wrong with me probably playing out of my league but they wouldn't do that no they would

00:10:18.400 rather keep trying to get to the next man who is probably even higher than all the men they've had

00:10:24.400 so instead of trying to find their level they are trying to go higher it's like the same thing with

00:10:28.800 the analogy of the women that go to the husband's store you go on the first floor you have men that

00:10:34.320 have like one thing that all women want and then you want to go to the next floor the next floor has 1.00

00:10:38.800 the man has something better and then you keep going until you get to the seventh floor and you

00:10:42.400 find out that there are no men left that's usually what happens to most women and i would say most women 1.00

00:10:47.280 yeah that's true and i agree that social media plays a very big role on that because if you check

00:10:52.960 like girls and influencers that they get more followers and likes it's because they expose their bodies 1.00

00:10:58.960 right and now the value of someone is measured on how many followers and like they have and that's

00:11:05.760 been happening in professional side and also into relationships right and i've seen also like men that

00:11:12.480 they will you know follow this girl these are there or like that there's gonna be who's the hottest and i 1.00

00:11:18.000 i have a lot of friends of mine males that they really want to be in a relationship and say like so why are

00:11:22.800 you not instead because there are many options and there and there is so social media that's why we have we

00:11:28.640 need to have critical thinking you know as a woman as a man what social media is adding value to and

00:11:34.880 it's brainwashing everyone so so what do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023 first 1.00

00:11:42.000 of all lots of requests huh lots of requests lots he's requesting no like i'm when i'm speaking about

00:11:49.840 this i'm thinking about most of the women that i met in this life yeah like colleagues maybe friends old 1.00

00:11:56.880 friends and i think they are their level was quite mediocre but what they they were requesting from

00:12:06.480 their partners or from the future partners because they didn't have a partner due to this request and

00:12:12.240 their level no this is reality like it's not funny it's funny in a way but it's sad because they they are

00:12:19.280 not able to make the difference anymore about what i was saying about the reality and about what they can have

00:12:26.000 right so they request too much yeah

JustPearlyThings - July 26, 2023

She Was Caught Trying To Evade This Question

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