JustPearlyThings - July 26, 2023


She Was Caught Trying To Evade This Question


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

194.13158

Word Count

2,459

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

40

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

What does the average woman bring to the table in 2023? Why do men typically want to marry young women? What are the most important things a woman brings to a relationship? Why is it important for a woman to be in a relationship with a man?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 okay what about what about you what what does the average woman bring to the table in 2023 well
00:00:10.960 um so i don't know exactly no no wait i want to i want to give a good a good actual answer
00:00:20.800 i mean there are many things you know you have to you have to sort of be mentally aligned because
00:00:26.400 you want to have like good communication you want to be able to talk about self experiences and
00:00:30.480 you know things are women good communicators some are or is the average woman a good communicator
00:00:36.160 um some are no no i said is the average woman i am okay okay so no yeah okay so do men typically
00:00:44.800 want communication from women is that what they seek they want they want communication they want
00:00:49.920 um they want femininity as well to be honest okay and they and they want they do want attractiveness
00:00:54.880 obviously okay but you you can't it's you can't be that superficial for like for one day yes maybe
00:01:01.280 two but then the third day men do want communication yeah okay so the average woman brings communication
00:01:08.080 what else well i don't know about the average woman but you know good women okay that get good okay okay
00:01:14.080 keep going what else women that get good husbands um they also want um yeah they want someone that looks
00:01:19.760 good they want someone that you know is their level to be honest okay so they they want to grow so
00:01:26.160 they bring looks and communication what else care femininity whatever that are women feminine in
00:01:32.720 2020 not really there's a lot of alphas out there okay so but you kind of have to be okay it's a dog
00:01:39.120 eat dog so maybe a lot of fake alphas though well what what what there are a lot of fake alphas out
00:01:44.480 there including men yeah that's okay so women women bring femininity sometimes sometimes okay what what
00:01:52.400 else do women bring um well they can bring status depending what they do as well do men care about
00:01:59.120 status i don't know i think some do some do my ex actually did okay does the average man care about
00:02:05.040 status i don't know about average men i've only dated quite you know okay good okay okay i mean
00:02:12.080 yeah you and everyone does the man women typically want care about status no because he'll probably
00:02:19.360 bring her up if you're going to go average but i do think that if you are a certain level of guy
00:02:24.960 then you want something more than just a pretty girl on the arm okay okay so the average woman brings
00:02:31.600 communication no no not the average woman okay the slightly above average okay the slightly above
00:02:36.560 average woman brings communication femininity they should and looks they should i'd like how you're not
00:02:42.320 answering the question i asked it's like women when we you don't like the answer that that we would have
00:02:47.760 to give it's like let me answer how i want to answer okay so ask the question one more time what does the
00:02:53.520 average woman bring to the table in 2023 so the average woman it depends usually i guess don't
00:03:01.920 remember that's a banned word yes it's banned okay so the average woman i guess is everyone that is on
00:03:07.760 social media so they bring looks how about that as simple as that anything else i mean i'm sure there
00:03:13.440 are but if you're going on a date and you don't know the person how do you know you get to know okay
00:03:16.800 okay what does the average woman bring yes we're talking about average average means already that it
00:03:21.520 doesn't bring much right and women are being forced to to bring on the table things that i
00:03:28.000 think for men is not very useful anymore so we've been forced like if you talk to most of girls here
00:03:33.520 they have like really good jobs working for governments high education and that's not what
00:03:38.160 men's need like in a relationship like sex if you put on the top for men's number one right and
00:03:43.440 unfortunately the other things affect women on this way and things like this why were forced to get
00:03:48.480 jobs you don't think it was a choice pardon women were forced to get jobs i think nowadays it has a
00:03:53.840 very big uh pressure okay a really big pressure if you don't want to be uh very well educated and
00:04:02.000 have a job of course if you live in london if you don't work if you don't make money the city is
00:04:05.920 gonna stop right do do men typically want to marry young women yes of course so what what was
00:04:11.760 stopping us from getting married at 21 yeah that's a really good question we wanted to be more we
00:04:18.400 wanted to be independent and this is the problem nowadays yeah but hold on i'm gonna get to you but
00:04:23.440 i'm gonna let her answer yeah for me at least i wanted to do more things right it was my personal
00:04:29.440 choice right so that's that's one of the main reasons why not correct but i'm saying like like that
00:04:37.040 it was still a choice we weren't forced yeah yeah of course a man of value like maybe didn't propose
00:04:43.360 maybe it wasn't the right man like that proposed why would why would a man not propose i don't know
00:04:49.600 because you're too young maybe or it's not or you don't bring like you're saying the young people right
00:04:55.200 in london it doesn't really like i don't know that many people that got married they've they've had long
00:04:58.800 relationships but they don't get married in their like 20s they just don't right but i'm i'm saying why
00:05:03.760 would a man not propose probably because economically he wants to be of a certain stature okay why why
00:05:09.680 couldn't she get a guy that is high that makes a lot of money well i think at 21 you don't have
00:05:15.760 maturity enough to handle a house nowadays nowadays you know but before they look for my mom my mom the
00:05:24.320 same but nowadays like i'm a teacher as well right i see the girls you know if even if i talk to many
00:05:30.240 friends of mine there so now in the past years things have been happening right that people are
00:05:36.160 not and that's what's going to happen if you're married it means in a while you're going to have
00:05:40.000 kids well maybe these people you know that's wrong no but mostly we're talking generally you're going
00:05:45.440 to have kids right if you get married right so the thing is nowadays people are being brainwashed
00:05:51.200 people are not getting mature they are not taking responsibility what is the most important people
00:05:55.600 are not able to take responsibilities if you get married young nowadays with the brain that they
00:06:00.080 are having they're not going to be able to raise kids properly and that's going to up the kid right
00:06:06.080 that's what i see in schools happening do you think it's harder for women to change the older
00:06:10.160 they are or the younger they are i think for every human being is harder the older you get and that's
00:06:14.880 okay okay scientifically okay so wouldn't it make more sense to get married younger rather than older
00:06:20.880 so you can molt like you can grow together with the man so it depends how the younger you get
00:06:26.720 usually the highest the rate of divorces are higher so it's not about the age it's about maturity because
00:06:32.640 you can find people 40 30 50 years old they're not mature and i've seen people getting married in a
00:06:38.720 young age so there's the wrong question first of all it is a matter of maturity do you think that's
00:06:45.280 what men want maturity i of course if a wise man wants maturity otherwise what happens with men
00:06:52.080 so what does the average woman bring in 2023 as i said average means already that it doesn't bring
00:06:58.080 much okay okay so she doesn't bring much average people don't bring much to the table either men or
00:07:04.240 women average i would i would argue that the average man does bring more to the table in terms of like
00:07:10.160 society like 40 you know half of men have infrastructure jobs that means one out of
00:07:15.600 every two men you meet is right but you mean bring to the table to society or to their relationship well
00:07:20.880 i'm saying a lot of times average women think they're better than average men in society would
00:07:26.160 they what they bring to society or in relationship i would argue that the average man brings more than
00:07:31.360 the average woman to a relationship because the average man makes more than the average woman but
00:07:36.160 the average woman is fatter than the average man and she's only having requests the average woman
00:07:42.240 she will have lots of requests what she will have lots of requests if she's the average woman yes
00:07:48.000 yeah she will request but she will not give what she's requesting and also part of what social media
00:07:53.520 has done to our society is back in the day before social media it would be usually very hard for a
00:07:59.760 woman to even date outside of her social class back in the days there was no she was not going without the
00:08:05.600 husband hold on hold on the point is these days a lot of women think they are more valuable than they
00:08:13.120 actually are and i'm not saying that to be this in terms of a woman who sleep with like maybe a
00:08:18.480 celebrity that went in a dm and automatically in her head she thinks that she can only get married to
00:08:23.760 someone on that level that's true that is what messes up a lot of women the reality is most of those guys
00:08:30.400 just look at those women as okay well this is better than my hand but then the woman goes after
00:08:35.440 that and then she thinks okay well i slept with lebron james so now i can only get married to a
00:08:41.840 basketballer meanwhile she would actually be more equally yoked to get married to like a plumber for
00:08:47.120 most women who see themselves as above being married to a plumber that's the problem with society because
00:08:51.840 they are unrealistic they they they cannot make the difference between the reality and what they
00:08:58.320 have in their heads also sorry um sorry also the person that goes and sleeps with someone willy-nilly
00:09:04.080 like that with anyone whether just because they're a celebrity is like i wouldn't even say it's willy-nilly
00:09:08.960 i'd say women date celebrities for a couple months a year two years and think they're on the level
00:09:14.480 yeah but usually those celebrities have multiple girlfriends so it's just one of many so it's a hype
00:09:20.640 uh-huh so it all sounds like a hype that's a specific type of women which is okay which is
00:09:26.800 okay that's not a lot of women that's a certain that's like a few women i would say that's attractive
00:09:32.400 women yeah but not all attracted not all but i would say more do than don't i think it's a mentality
00:09:39.520 type though right it's not the same thing so like to generalize that is really quite we have to but we
00:09:44.400 have to talk in general yeah i i agree it's all women because this is the thing every woman unless
00:09:50.880 unless the woman is probably she has mental problems or she has like trauma usually women will go after
00:09:56.880 men that are better than them the problem is how do you secure that man so usually what should happen
00:10:03.920 is a woman if she's getting with this man she can't secure him gets to the next man and they're all
00:10:08.720 high value my men she should actually look and see why have i not been able to secure any of these men
00:10:13.840 what is wrong with me probably playing out of my league but they wouldn't do that no they would
00:10:18.400 rather keep trying to get to the next man who is probably even higher than all the men they've had
00:10:24.400 so instead of trying to find their level they are trying to go higher it's like the same thing with
00:10:28.800 the analogy of the women that go to the husband's store you go on the first floor you have men that
00:10:34.320 have like one thing that all women want and then you want to go to the next floor the next floor has
00:10:38.800 the man has something better and then you keep going until you get to the seventh floor and you
00:10:42.400 find out that there are no men left that's usually what happens to most women and i would say most women
00:10:47.280 yeah that's true and i agree that social media plays a very big role on that because if you check
00:10:52.960 like girls and influencers that they get more followers and likes it's because they expose their bodies
00:10:58.960 right and now the value of someone is measured on how many followers and like they have and that's
00:11:05.760 been happening in professional side and also into relationships right and i've seen also like men that
00:11:12.480 they will you know follow this girl these are there or like that there's gonna be who's the hottest and i
00:11:18.000 i have a lot of friends of mine males that they really want to be in a relationship and say like so why are
00:11:22.800 you not instead because there are many options and there and there is so social media that's why we have we
00:11:28.640 need to have critical thinking you know as a woman as a man what social media is adding value to and
00:11:34.880 it's brainwashing everyone so so what do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023 first
00:11:42.000 of all lots of requests huh lots of requests lots he's requesting no like i'm when i'm speaking about
00:11:49.840 this i'm thinking about most of the women that i met in this life yeah like colleagues maybe friends old
00:11:56.880 friends and i think they are their level was quite mediocre but what they they were requesting from
00:12:06.480 their partners or from the future partners because they didn't have a partner due to this request and
00:12:12.240 their level no this is reality like it's not funny it's funny in a way but it's sad because they they are
00:12:19.280 not able to make the difference anymore about what i was saying about the reality and about what they can have
00:12:26.000 right so they request too much yeah