JustPearlyThings - She was FURIOUS with Men's Sexual Standard

00:00:00.640 so i think high value man is just someone that can

00:00:06.400 protect provide makes makes his money makes his way in life

00:00:14.800 to be honest like i'll look at myself as a high value man right six foot plus beard got a great

00:00:21.440 job business comfortable in life everything's going well you know i mean so i can really pick

00:00:27.200 whichever girl i want and at the end of the day like i will choose which what girl makes sense so

00:00:33.360 like the thoughts the babies they're for the streets they're for everyone else you know i

00:00:38.640 mean like i wouldn't personally pick a girl like that i would pick the girl that shows housewife

00:00:43.600 material qualities i mean so i think it kind of balances itself out like high value men will meet

00:00:50.000 their match eventually they'll run through all the babies and the the crazy thing is yeah is that you

00:00:55.600 get all these girls right that are babies and they'll be like six five sixes sevens at best 1.00

00:01:01.600 but they'll enhance themselves to make themselves seem like eight or nine right but then they base

00:01:06.320 their value off the guys that them yeah right so do you think it's common for high value men to sleep

00:01:12.480 with hoes yeah yeah because it's because it's easy because it's easy right it's at the end of the day 0.98

00:01:17.120 like as a high value man you have to pick of the bunch you can pick the good girls the bag babies

00:01:22.640 whoever you want do you think men lose respect for other men if they sleep with a lot of hoes 1.00

00:01:26.480 no no no you get you getting more respect because you know how difficult it is like the thing is it's

00:01:33.920 not easy to actually sleep with a lot of girls it's not it's actually very difficult to go out there and

00:01:40.080 do it you know i mean would you have more respect for a man that sleeps with a bunch of dirty hoes or 1.00

00:01:44.480 just high quality women it doesn't matter it doesn't matter because it's still difficult regardless like 1.00

00:01:49.920 it doesn't matter like you you could be the best looking guy most successful you go to a night

00:01:53.760 club you're not guaranteed to be no do you mean like you see a lot of guys at the end of the night

00:01:58.240 clubs trying to chase stragglers yeah right you're not guaranteed it you're trying to tell men what's

00:02:03.440 high value to women but we don't pick what's high value men pick what's high value because the men 1.00

00:02:08.800 the men have to pick who is the most alpha in the room they pick who leads society but um part of

00:02:14.560 being a high value more a man has to involve what woman you have by your side it's impossible to 0.90

00:02:21.600 say you're a high value man okay when you have a low i i i i agree with you on that point so like i

00:02:26.640 would say if i saw a high value man like i wouldn't look at a guy that's married to a only fans thing

00:02:32.720 and say you're a high value man because you're a waste man like why is your girl an only fan yeah

00:02:36.960 yeah but but even without that he's still a high value man yeah he's still behind oh yeah so he's not

00:02:42.000 not now no so basically he could be high value but i think he's a waste man okay i have a question

00:02:46.240 is drake is drake not high value because he had a kid with an only fans model i i i thought he was

00:02:51.440 an idiot for getting they're getting a a cornstar breakers right but again like babies happen like i 0.91

00:02:58.400 said babies just happen he wasn't probably definitely wasn't planning that it just happened like so you

00:03:03.680 can't really lose respect for him in that sense because babies happen but what i'm saying is if drake 1.00

00:03:08.720 decided to marry a porn star then i might look at him a bit like funny you know if we kill like

00:03:14.080 beyonce or rihanna like high value women let's say for example do you think that if drake had a baby 0.92

00:03:19.680 with someone like rihanna or someone like you think rihanna is a high value woman i would say so yeah 1.00

00:03:24.640 i would say so well beyonce i would say so give me an example i can't she's a 32 year old baby mama

00:03:30.560 yeah but why would she how is she high value but who would you classify as a high value woman 1.00

00:03:35.840 22 year old virgin and so who would that be there's one on the show a couple months ago let's

00:03:41.920 take a 22 year old virgin do you think if drake had a baby with a 22 year old virgin or the cornstar 0.99

00:03:47.760 what do you think makes him more valuable the 22 exactly do you know what women does have a role 1.00

00:03:54.320 no no i'm saying but but but i'll be honest with you drake can't lose his value this is like like like

00:03:59.360 yeah that's like he just can't lose his value he can't lose his value to low value no no no no he

00:04:04.880 just can't lose his value in order for drake to lose his value he needs to basically do what kanye

00:04:08.720 done like would you get me 22 year old virgin want to be married to drake do you think yes yes 0.57

00:04:15.200 yeah but the difference the difference the difference is though you were saying nice

00:04:20.000 girls don't go for bad boys no no no he was saying once a nice girl goes for a bad boy she's done if

00:04:27.520 she can lock him down cool is a high value woman a nice woman is a high i think a high value woman 1.00

00:04:33.600 has to be chosen by a high value man yeah i don't think you can just be a high value woman by yourself

00:04:37.920 i think women say that because they're delusional but you know what could have thought be high value 0.89

00:04:41.760 for like a drake cornstar yes yes she's now high value if if she's chosen by a high value man just

00:04:47.920 high value status yeah so now that cornstar has a high value to you guys well are you joking she

00:04:52.320 have you not seen how drake's cleaned her up go look at go look at her life defining value by such 0.99

00:04:57.040 no no no no it's not to me basically to me to me she's the same right yeah but the society he's

00:05:03.040 gonna clean the rock he's presenting he's now he's put her back to the instagram world and she's so

00:05:06.640 mother she does she's now high value no no no no no no to the world

00:05:11.040 she's represented her now and now she's on instagram and she's doing art things and she's

00:05:14.800 got she's a good little mummy is she really that's that's a superpower that high value men have yeah 1.00

00:05:19.760 he's literally granted what he's done to her now she's like she works in galleries and she does art

00:05:24.640 and she does these things and she doesn't know what you know what you know what it is money and 1.00

00:05:27.440 status change everything or in both sides like so as for a man if you've got higher value high status

00:05:33.440 and you've got money then all the rules don't apply to you and it's the same with women like you see 1.00

00:05:37.920 like the city girls all these women online they're the ones that are promoting the most ratchet 1.00

00:05:41.600 behavior yeah but they will still probably settle down and marry someone but at the difference is 0.86

00:05:46.080 is that them women have money and status so they can kind of get away with it to an extent whereas 1.00

00:05:50.880 the women that want to be like them they don't have the same money or status so they can't act the 1.00

00:05:55.040 same i just don't think it's true that nice girls don't go for guys just because they picked a bad 1.00

00:06:01.920 girl at one point you don't like i don't i don't think drake is going to have any problems so do you

00:06:08.880 think that when a drake say for example a drake takes a pawns a cornstar sorry um does he raise the

00:06:16.480 cornstar status or does she decrease his status because to me she decreases his status he doesn't

00:06:22.000 raise hers because nothing can raise hers no he's raised hers what are you getting to her status

00:06:26.480 to who to who because she could then settle down with a nice guy afterwards she can she cannot

00:06:32.880 because her ex is drake and she's got a part i i agree that a bad woman can lower a guy's status 1.00

00:06:38.000 absolutely i i agree with you i i think that a bad woman can lower a guy's status but i don't think it

00:06:42.640 makes him not alpha like that's my whole point like my whole point my whole point my ability to have sex

00:06:47.760 no no see the problem no the the point is that women want to screw him and why do they want to 1.00

00:06:52.560 screw him because he has money status power whatever it is you're defining alpha by ability to

00:06:56.560 have sex a dildo can have sex but that's not so you know so like yeah but the point is exactly 0.65

00:07:04.000 people that have sex doesn't mean power uh respect the ability to alpha is not defined by the ability

00:07:11.120 to have sex it's the ability to have women submit okay okay i hear okay i hear and then submit as well 0.99

00:07:16.480 okay cool i hear i hear i hear where you're going with it yeah yeah i hear it but in reality it's

00:07:22.240 not going to be that way i hear it i hear everything that you're saying and to be classed as alpha you

00:07:26.880 know you can't have promiscuous women they can't but it will not diminish drake's status and it will 0.99

00:07:32.240 not diminish any man of his status someone like me might look at that and say oh that's an l i wouldn't

00:07:36.560 do that but who the hell am i and what the hell do i matter even someone of his even another rappers

00:07:42.800 of you saw um what's his name pusher t pusher t literally finished drake yeah but it didn't do

00:07:50.000 nothing to drake's success pusher t literally finished drake embarrassed him about the story of

00:07:54.720 added on let everyone know about the kid about his adidas still messed up the adidas roll out

00:07:59.760 but what did it do to drake in the end all drake did was present clean up the woman

00:08:04.640 brung out his kid and started doing daddy in actual fact we owe everything to clean up women 1.00

00:08:08.640 look you can't clean up women but the thing is you're also you're also forgetting the fact that 1.00

00:08:13.840 we're in a different society so yeah in this particular western society anyone can tell us

00:08:18.640 yeah i think america is the worst place because i don't think america is a real place

00:08:25.520 that's been cleaned up i don't think there's a single woman whose past hasn't defined her future

00:08:32.080 she's still not cleaned up she's still she's still known for the streets no way come on kim kardashian is 1.00

00:08:38.400 not somebody people okay okay okay she's done well she's done and yet her sex tape still gets

00:08:45.920 talked about and she's got little kids that will see it she can't clean up okay okay but the point

00:08:52.080 but the fire are you married no i'm not married okay so the point is her results are still better than me

00:08:56.560 and you yeah she got she got three high value proposals three not one not two three but you're so so so we

00:09:03.040 could say we could shit on her all we want yeah but her results are better than ours because you're 0.80

00:09:07.360 defining results by if the men pick you if the men pick you and pick you the high value men it has

00:09:13.040 to be the level of men and also your parenting to find that now if your children can see you naked

00:09:17.520 having sex with another man you can never be a high value woman but you're pushing the boat out again

00:09:21.920 no i'm not you gave the example kim kim gets a blider again because money and status but the reality is

00:09:27.920 if your children can watch you have sex you are not a valuable woman i i i agree you should not pick a 1.00

00:09:33.920 girl that that has a sex tape on the end i'm with you i'm with you i'm i'm the with i'm with you and i 0.71

00:09:41.920 don't i'm with you but but if you're a high value a high value woman is picked by a high value man 1.00

00:09:48.880 and she was picked more than once so you're again it was how do we define a high value man i don't

00:09:55.600 you know what you know actually actually i'm gonna stand blessing the clip let's hold on hold

00:10:00.880 on let's you don't think he's insane no no no no kevin no he's insane but he's a billionaire so so

00:10:07.120 like i think you can't clean up a woman i stand by that you can't clean up any woman because look at

00:10:13.920 the trait look at it like let's take kim for example if you try and clean up a woman especially in this day 1.00

00:10:18.640 in age your kids can still see that mother doing the most you can't i i agree i agree it lowers your

00:10:25.200 status as a guy like you can have a girl that embarrasses you but i just i just don't think

00:10:29.360 he's not out like drake is not alpha because he screwed a porn star his child can watch his mom 0.91

00:10:34.480 the mother i think he's i think i think that i think that you've done your child a disservice let's go you

00:10:40.480 know you gotta remember drake did not marry that woman again babies babies happen babies happen yeah 0.63

00:10:45.680 but he's still alpha so it's like it's like protection the protection quality of an alpha

00:10:50.240 has gone out the window he's still alpha like he doesn't have you protected your child from seeing

00:10:54.800 the melmite sex elon musk is where elon musk ain't with the woman of his child does that make elon musk

00:10:58.720 not an alpha damn man this guy literally runs the world like you know i mean you're defining alpha by

00:11:02.880 just money and ability no but we're not but what if we're not but you can't see the thing about us men we

00:11:07.760 can see us men can pick the alphas right because when in the room we can literally put ourselves into um

00:11:13.520 into an order pecking order we don't need women to do that you women argue about stuff us men we 1.00

00:11:18.080 can literally go in the room and we can i would argue wait hold on hold on a second yeah we can

00:11:23.120 work it out that's why women always argue men we already know that's what when it comes down to an 1.00

00:11:27.600 argument with men we won't argue for more than 60 seconds because after 60 seconds we're about to go 0.79

00:11:31.520 into blows because men we don't like to do those type of stuff we're going to say what you're saying

00:11:35.280 what you're saying and then we discover who really is that yeah that's the point the point is like we

00:11:39.040 don't get to pick the men pick who but uh but you uh i think i even heard kevin samuel talk about

00:11:44.560 this one so if you actually we're gonna pull up like kevin samuels because yeah kevin samuel said you

00:11:50.480 know your woman does define you though yeah yeah he would say that a woman defines you because he was 0.53

00:11:56.640 talking once about how he went to some event with the that's not the only i agree though it's the woman

00:12:01.840 you choose in it absolutely you're talking about babies and babies no i just think your choice of

00:12:07.760 definitely removes your alpha if you choose promiscuous i just know like what is elon musk

00:12:11.920 not a high value man can we just clarify how we're defining high value because for me the protection

00:12:18.560 is as much as a provision you guys are just focusing on provision for me protection and provision is the

00:12:23.120 same thing when it comes to masculinity it has to be the same level if you can't protect your children

00:12:27.440 and your wife you're not high value no matter how much money you got and if your children can access

00:12:31.600 pictures of their mom having sex with other men you haven't protected that child

00:12:35.360 if the if your wife can go have sex with other men or put her body up father you're not protecting 0.85

00:12:39.680 your woman so the protection is as valuable as a provision yeah but now for man yeah but you 0.97

00:12:44.800 i would look at you different but i wouldn't it wouldn't change the fact if you're successful i'll

00:12:48.240 look up but success is not alpha no no no can i say something though okay so no no but it's all the key

00:12:53.760 so okay so when we're talking about high value men we're talking about men that earn over six figures

00:12:59.280 they've done it consistently for over five years we're talking about um blessing you're gonna play

00:13:03.680 it oh you're gonna you're gonna yeah just um from this front because it goes over the high value

00:13:10.400 because i think we're talking about alpha and we're talking about high value men and i think those are

00:13:13.840 different yeah i think it's getting a conference i think it's getting it well i would imagine it

00:13:19.280 before he has a woman yeah and that's a fact well you could be high value imagine this we get into a fight and 0.97

00:13:26.640 because because you um you're not in you know you're not with your baby mom no more you knock me out 0.72

00:13:31.520 man i said he's not alpha i'm with my missus so i'm alpha bro i just got knocked out by a man that

00:13:36.640 a man that's not with his girl he's definitely alpha yeah yeah god glad you asked let's define it

00:13:49.760 i know the best version of themselves each and every day but who are we kidding the reason you're here

00:13:54.960 right now is because the term high value man seems to be everywhere full disclosure i didn't create

00:14:01.440 the term guys high value man has been with us for a long time i have just put my own unique spin on it

00:14:08.720 and kind of popularized it and it has kind of gone viral but here's the thing so many people are talking

00:14:15.440 about high value this high value that and many times they're actually talking about me and saying as

00:14:21.600 though well kevin said this or kevin saying that and many people are getting it 100 wrong so in an

00:14:28.240 attempt to make sense of all this i want to give you guys the simple six basic principles that i define

00:14:35.200 as being high value now again you don't have to agree with what i'm saying but this is what i'm talking

00:14:41.760 about when i'm saying a high value man so your mileage may vary your opinion is your opinion but when

00:14:47.840 i'm talking about this is what i'm talking about so let's get it started first of all let's go over

00:14:52.240 some basic definitions high great greater than normal in quantity size or intensity value the

00:14:58.240 regard of something held to deserve the importance worth or usefulness to something and man an adult

00:15:04.400 human male so when you put all that together what do you have an adult human male that's greater than

00:15:10.000 normal importance or usefulness to what their group basic economic principle states that the value of

00:15:16.480 something is what a market is willing to pay for it the value is determined by what the market

00:15:24.080 and when we're talking about individuals the market is other people men or women so a high value man is

00:15:31.440 completely determined by the market case in point you can have a vehicle a home anything in your possession

00:15:40.160 you can hold it dear it could be supremely important to you but when you put it on the market

00:15:45.280 the market decides and there's an upper limit and a lower limit it doesn't really matter if you think

00:15:50.560 the low is too low or the high is not high enough that's what the market is willing to pay for it

00:15:56.640 and that is its overall value that has been with us forever so when we start talking about that we're

00:16:03.200 dealing with people it really throws people off because it seems so cold so calculated but like it or not

00:16:09.120 that's the way the world is so let's get into this whole high value man thing number one in order to be a

00:16:15.040 high value man it starts with money again like it or not i didn't put the six figure thing out there

00:16:20.560 it's been with us since the mid 80s and like it or not that's where this whole thing starts you can't

00:16:27.120 be high value and homeless so you have to make a certain amount of money and the line is roughly

00:16:32.080 at ten thousand dollars a month adjusted for atlanta dollars if you live in san francisco la new york city

00:16:38.240 where the cost of living is higher than 100 you need to adjust it so ten thousand dollars a month

00:16:43.920 gets the starting point off for high value don't shoot the messenger i'm just giving you what the

00:16:48.880 world gave me number two that money needs to be made over a length of time i.e performance and that's

00:16:54.800 roughly about five years and about the three-year mark you're kind of starting to scratch the surface

00:17:00.080 why does it need to be five years well because guys it's a matter of consistency and stability

00:17:06.000 look in the nfl the nba anybody can have a great season but having a great season does not

00:17:11.920 automatically mean you mean you're going to the hall of fame they want to see consistent numbers over a

00:17:16.880 period of time you know how this works just like i do in business you can't be a one-hit wonder or have

00:17:23.360 up here and down there consistency performance over a length of time that's why that five-year mark is so

00:17:29.520 important like i said around three years you're starting to scratch the surface but in five years people can

00:17:33.760 pretty much count on you to say this person understands and knows how to get it done number

00:17:38.720 three is group acceptance like it or not guys high value man is like a fraternity it's like a club a

00:17:45.520 secret society and high value men know other high value men they're welcoming men to the group they

00:17:52.080 know what it takes to be there they know what it takes to get in there and high value men group

00:17:56.800 acceptance is supremely important guys secret societies fraternities organizations have always

00:18:02.080 been with us and you know how this just works in just general interaction guys that just make their

00:18:06.880 own secret society club but it doesn't matter as much as somebody says that group is important

00:18:12.640 guys this is about separation high value men tend to huddle around other high value men for reasons i'm

00:18:18.880 going to go into a little bit later but group acceptance is another critical comp another critical

00:18:24.000 component of being a high value man why is group acceptance so important because the next part

00:18:29.280 a network you have to have a network of other high value men and others this is another stumbling

00:18:35.360 block for a lot of guys for a lot of people because they may have the money even the length of time

00:18:41.280 they may look like they fit the group but if they don't even have any of the high value contacts

00:18:45.520 or network a group of others that person is going to be looked at with a side eye think of it like this

00:18:50.800 if you're sitting at the table with 10 high value men in each of these 10 men has 50 contacts that's

00:18:57.760 500 contacts and you sit at the table and you have twice as much money as any other man on there

00:19:04.000 but you have zero contacts what can you effectively get done other than throw money at it these other

00:19:09.680 men can make phone calls exert influence move things to get things done and you can only do what

00:19:15.280 you can only do what offer money and potentially feed off that network of contact

00:19:20.240 one thing high value men no one understand that time is what's important and building a network

00:19:25.760 that actually works for you is extremely important in some areas it's called a book of business a book

00:19:32.000 of business can make you successful here here and here your contacts your network your network is

00:19:37.840 your net worth you've heard this before so you cannot underestimate how important having a network

00:19:43.680 of high value men and other people is to your status as a high value man after the network we

00:19:50.000 got to have the visibility guys your income and your position has to be linked in level think of it

00:19:56.800 like this this person says they're the ceo of a fortune 500 company this person is head of thoracic surgery

00:20:04.320 at johns hopkins this person is vp of mergers and acquisitions at bank of america and then someone

00:20:09.520 says hi i'm an entrepreneur three of those four people at a glance we can pretty much estimate who they are

00:20:17.280 what they do and their relative importance in the overall socioeconomic structure the fourth person

00:20:24.320 more information is needed there's not enough visibility not enough transparency to be a high

00:20:29.360 value man it needs to be at a glance again your your position and your income guys you may have a lot of

00:20:37.040 money but if it's coming from sketchy areas no one can kind of understand where it's coming from

00:20:42.000 that does not give other high value men or even the public any kind of real confidence that you are

00:20:48.800 who you say you are again guys it's about the market it's what the market the world is thinking

00:20:54.400 they got to know at a glance that you are a high value man and the sixth part is probably my favorite

00:20:59.520 part guys a high value man is useful to others and the group a lot of times you hear people say i don't

00:21:05.760 want to be used i don't want to be used uh no i want to be used why because that means i'm useful

00:21:12.400 high value men are in demand and useful their presence is felt when they're there and their absence

00:21:19.040 is built when they're gone that is how you know you're really a high value man how you can move things

00:21:26.560 your ability to influence things and that is your relative usefulness in economics it's called utils how

00:21:33.120 useful are you to the group again there's no high value homeless neither are there any high value

00:21:38.480 loaners if you have all these resources all this stuff but it's all hoarded for your own selfish ends

00:21:44.400 and no one can benefit from your money your network or anything you have how valuable are you to the

00:21:51.040 group to the world to other people that's what this comes down to high value men are in demand and

00:21:58.880 useful to other people as i said yeah i just don't think it like says anything about women but that's 1.00

00:22:07.360 are we talking about alpha or are we talking about high value because we said that uh well for me an alpha

00:22:14.240 man is provision and protection you can't be an alpha with one of those missing and protection is as

00:22:20.720 important if not more because it signals more survival than provision you can provide all day every

00:22:27.360 day but if you don't have the strength or the ability to protect the people that you care about

00:22:31.280 you're a pointless man i think that's the important word the people you care about because a lot of

00:22:37.600 these men like you said not everyone that has a baby with someone might care about the person but you

00:22:41.200 should care about your children no no no no no no no no he said in the writing that sometimes mistakes

00:22:44.880 happen yeah no but men have so so okay so i think you're looking at it from a cultural aspect and

00:22:50.960 community aspect yes i actually believe everything that you're saying i just know in real life men have

00:22:55.920 always the top men have always had loads of baby moms and gone out there and then they're not top

00:23:00.720 men no they are because that's where we disagree because it's like to me future is not top man he's

00:23:08.480 trash tristan thompson trash to me that's not top you're telling me he had more reproductive success

00:23:16.720 than anyone in all of history you can't tell me he's not the difference would be his women would be 0.77

00:23:21.200 submissive and loyal to him they wouldn't be if they weren't would you change it absolutely of

00:23:26.640 course then they belong to everyone it's not a prize if everyone can have it if i if i take

00:23:32.000 if i take a chanel that everybody can have and it becomes primark it's no longer valuable now if your

00:23:36.720 woman is primark and not chanel you are no longer expensive so what you're saying if i've got five wives 1.00

00:23:41.760 yeah then i'm still alpha i'm still i'm still loyal to you they're submissive and loyal and uh like uh

00:23:49.200 modest absolutely but if they're five hoes you're the idiot no i'm pretty sure genghis can had some 1.00

00:23:55.360 bastards he had hundreds he had hundreds of children you're telling me he protected all of them with

00:24:00.400 anybody else okay so the women wouldn't have they would be killed i think i think you'll reach so

00:24:04.720 basically a man can go out here now yeah and have a hundred like like 20 baby moms yeah yeah he one

00:24:11.840 of them baby moms might have a kid by another person that does not stop that man from being

00:24:15.440 the fact that he's gone out there and still he's alpha like i hear what you're saying you're defining

00:24:20.400 alpha by ability to have no because i mean no no it's not it's not just that it's the ability

00:24:25.280 to go out there to command women to come up and still command men's attention and still be strong

00:24:29.360 can have sex with any man no no no see the thing about us men is yeah is like especially if she's a 0.89

00:24:34.560 home so so not if she's a whale i think you're confusing alpha and high value yeah like well

00:24:42.240 um maybe but i i think high value is of no use if he's not an alpha no no no no no because what's

00:24:48.640 the point of a high value man if you can't protect no because every high value man isn't alpha so so

00:24:55.680 let's take kanya for example absolutely maybe high value and this but he can't protect no one because

00:25:00.080 he's in like he's insane okay so he loses his like to me he loses he's not an alpha in a room full of

00:25:06.560 men a man i feel like in the west men can't can't they can't be alpha no no they they legally can't

00:25:16.720 like like they've basically in the west castrated men because it's like how are they going to protect

00:25:21.680 your children when she can leave you and not let you see your kids like so how yeah like that's why you

00:25:29.280 pick why no no no but but see that that minima but you're minimizing but that's but that's this

00:25:34.080 and you're like you're minimizing what men go through women women can wait stop you keep interrupting 0.69

00:25:38.400 me women can put on a show women can completely trick a man like i have seen girls oh come on you're 1.00

00:25:44.240 telling me none of you have seen a girl that you would you would never know what she has done

00:25:49.280 and so so a good guy an alpha man can still get tricked that can still happen and so and so and so

00:25:57.600 and i i agree if it keeps happening yeah like but but the problem is it only takes one time to ruin a

00:26:04.160 guy it only takes one time to to ruin a guy's life where she can literally take half and take the 1.00

00:26:10.160 kids like how is he supposed to protect the how is he supposed to protect the children when legally she 0.66

00:26:15.520 can take them and she's paid to take them away from him and have another man move into the house 1.00

00:26:21.840 the law is absolutely disgraceful but just like you were saying when we're talking about women 1.00

00:26:25.280 choosing men that are bad your exact words where you can't bamboozle me more than once people men

00:26:31.360 like who like future and they've got five or six they're not bamboozled they just don't care yeah

00:26:37.440 so therefore then what you're saying doesn't apply to if you have to have the same mentality

00:26:42.400 for both men and women no because because because men and women are different so i don't have the same

00:26:47.760 i don't have i don't have the same mentality because men and women are different i get women are born 0.98

00:26:52.160 with value men must create their value a guy doesn't lose his value just because he picks the wrong woman 0.94

00:26:56.400 once apart from that men will always adapt to whatever environment they're placed in the high

00:27:01.440 value men in the west have adapted to the way society is with women and marriage you have to understand

00:27:06.320 the way you're speaking is yeah is if any one of us men speak like how you're speaking yeah

00:27:11.520 do you know how dangerous that is for us you can do it with my chest no because you're a woman they 1.00

00:27:15.520 can't literally no because you're you're trying to remove basically you're trying to say my throat to

00:27:20.080 be an alpha male yeah my woman can never leave my house no matter what no no no no no no no no no no 1.00

00:27:26.400 because you've literally said you cannot be an alpha from outside your home so if your woman leaves

00:27:30.400 you break it you're not an alpha anymore that removes your alpha so i have to control my women but we 1.00

00:27:34.960 leave in the in the west no no no no no no see you can't say select wisely and they still yeah

00:27:40.240 so you can't say that you can't say fuck off is fine but uh around is different we're not talking 0.64

00:27:45.680 about around like it keeps so it's hard for me to keep replying because it keeps moving so it makes

00:27:50.560 it hard for me to get to make my point stick but initially we was talking about one thing what makes

00:27:55.040 basically you were saying if you pick badly or if you you said tom brady was no you said tom brady

00:28:01.040 wasn't alpha because he's getting divorced from giselle giselle wasn't getting divorced because

00:28:05.440 she was out sleeping around she simply got divorced because he said he wanted to do another season the 0.98

00:28:08.960 nfl and she said it was selfish but i didn't say because she was sleeping around i said she's a 0.98

00:28:13.360 liberal woman a liberal woman's gonna have liberal values yeah yeah okay but once again once again 1.00

00:28:18.560 so i don't think personally if i date a supermodel i'm not talking about only fans model yet or

00:28:23.600 i don't consider that that's gonna make me less of an alpha i would think actually i'm picking

00:28:27.360 yeah yeah because that by that logic most high value men wouldn't be alpha because they date

00:28:32.160 models yeah but what do i mean leonardo dicaprio they can be high value but an alpha man would be

00:28:39.680 a woman who's uh you won't know his woman leonardo dicaprio had jeff bezos's missus doing madness in 1.00

00:28:44.800 front of him when she saw him like he's actually like it's but leonardo is like he's alpha come on

00:28:51.360 he can be alpha i'm not saying he's not alpha but i'm just saying to you that um what you're

00:28:56.240 defining alpha differently but i'll be honest with you we define it you don't you don't no no we

00:29:01.600 do we do i think your definition of alpha is very unique to you yeah i think it's it's universal

00:29:08.720 provision and protection in human nature it's only changed in the west in africa if you take

00:29:15.120 people in their survival mode people in survival mode men have to provide and protect women have to 0.73

00:29:20.800 nurture in survival mode that means it's human can i ask you a question if two men have a fight

00:29:24.960 one man's girl's a hole and one man girl's not a hole the guy whose girl is not a hole yeah um

00:29:30.800 he gets knocked out and and the guy who's whose woman is a is a 304 and she's been outside and

00:29:36.080 everyone knows uh are you gonna tell me the guy that got knocked out is alpha because he's his wife 0.70

00:29:41.040 isn't all another the guy that i would say they're both beta uh no big so see alpha isn't that see

00:29:47.280 so that's not alpha that's not how alpha works see alpha is going to be the strongest guy it's one of

00:29:50.960 the things we can agree to disagree but i think human nature and human history and if you take

00:29:55.760 all tribes across the universe men masculinity and alpha is defined by provision and protection

00:30:02.640 and femininity is defined by nurture we can argue and we can try and outthink some biology because

00:30:08.320 only fans have been around but the guy that got knocked out would actually end up losing his woman

00:30:12.800 like so this will happen right if that was actually a tribe but the guy that stayed with

00:30:16.080 a hoe will end up being with a woman who's gonna sleep with other men no he's gonna end up getting his 1.00

00:30:19.920 woman plus all the other women that's what happens but it's only valuable if your woman is loyal having

00:30:24.880 a bunch of hoes is not valuable no it's called a harem it's called having concubines you're then 1.00

00:30:29.200 looking after women that could potentially be having sex with other men and having their kids so so it 0.96

00:30:33.760 the only thing that ever no the only thing that matters is your day one yeah these are side things i

00:30:39.280 don't know why we can't distinguish between this throughout life men have had hordes of women yeah 1.00

00:30:44.080 these men have had hordes of women these women have gone and done other things but they can't outthink 0.86

00:30:48.320 biology you do know that right yeah but what i'm trying to say to you is yeah if a man has got 20

00:30:53.040 women yeah 19 of them are his concubines and one of them is his main day woman he is still an alpha

00:30:58.800 man and if 19 of them are cheating on him he's a man they can't cheat on him because they're not his

00:31:03.360 main day sightings okay but regardless no regardless he's got 20 women let's say you've got 10 women in

00:31:09.360 your home yeah you're looking after all of them they're in your home yeah you're feeding all of them

00:31:13.120 but this one's sleeping with that guy this one's sleeping with that guy that's gonna aren't you the idiot that's 0.98

00:31:16.800 paying her bills no but listen to this yeah it didn't really you're an idiot no but he's not 0.63

00:31:21.120 gonna have it of course it's not gonna happen of course it's not talking about sightings of course

00:31:26.080 i know you're saying that tom brady is an alpha because he picked a supermodel most most high

00:31:32.320 value men date supermodels no that's like that's common no you're you're different like like i said

00:31:39.840 we can take high value and alpha we can agree they're different but i would not say that all the men that

00:31:44.640 you're selecting as high value are alpha i don't think kanye is an alpha i do think someone like

00:31:49.120 jay-z is an alpha i think he's more alpha because his woman's on smash you think jay-z is more alpha

00:31:53.920 than kanye absolutely his woman is on smash you don't hear you don't get much more alpha by doing

00:31:58.880 what kanye did wait wait wait wait you don't you see wait wait wait beyonce made the whole album

00:32:13.200 okay um we're gonna talk about something else because i'm really bored of this topic

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JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023

She was FURIOUS with Men's Sexual Standard

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