JustPearlyThings - May 20, 2023


She Was Rendered Speechless After Being Asked This Question


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

195.77826

Word Count

2,059

Sentence Count

211

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

18


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the Chris Brown and Rihanna beef, why Cardi B got away with drugging and robbing men, and why there was no public outcry when she publicly admitted to the crimes. We also discuss the double standard in society when it comes to believing men and believing women.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 was a man. Why do you think that so many people canceled Chris Brown after like the Rihanna
00:00:07.280 incident, but they didn't cancel Cardi B when she was publicly talking about and robbing
00:00:14.300 men? That's a good question, actually. I really don't have answer for that. It's interesting
00:00:21.040 though, right? Yeah, I didn't even think about that. Do you know what? I love Rihanna down
00:00:25.400 to like, that's my girl. But like, I think they squashed it. So why should I beef him?
00:00:30.000 Why do you think there was a public outcry for the Chris Brown and Rihanna situation?
00:00:34.860 However, there was not the same outcry when Cardi B publicly admitted to drugging and robbing
00:00:41.020 men. A lot of things that happen to women are predominantly done by men. So obviously, like,
00:00:47.060 we're all target men for things that they do. Obviously, us women were very scared. Like,
00:00:50.660 we go outside, we see a man, we want to run. But obviously, with Cardi B in that, like, we
00:00:55.060 are like kind of, we're kind of like saying, oh, that's girl power. Yeah, do that to that
00:00:58.920 men. But obviously, I don't agree, though.
00:01:01.660 Did you know men are more likely to be victims of a violent crime?
00:01:04.540 Really? I did not know that. Wow.
00:01:06.880 When you think about it, we talk about women walking home alone at night. Men can't walk
00:01:10.080 home alone at night either. But if me and you walk home and we get attacked and we
00:01:14.080 scream, a guy might come help us. Who's helping another guy?
00:01:17.900 That is so true.
00:01:18.660 I didn't see it, right?
00:01:20.140 Yeah, that's actually very true. That's sad, actually.
00:01:21.760 Do you think that if we hit a guy, that he should have the right to hit back?
00:01:25.240 Absolutely. I believe in equal for that. Because if I'm hearing you, I'm expecting it.
00:01:29.820 Absolutely, yeah. Why are you hearing men?
00:01:31.580 Okay.
00:01:32.020 So do you guys remember the Chris Brown and Rihanna situation?
00:01:35.540 I'd let them beat me.
00:01:36.640 You'd let them beat you?
00:01:37.660 Oh, yeah, I would. Yeah.
00:01:39.460 I hope there's two sides to every story.
00:01:41.300 So what do you think happened?
00:01:42.680 I think they had a fight. I think she's just as rowdy as he is. And that's that.
00:01:47.960 Do you think if a woman hits a man, she should expect to get hit back?
00:01:50.720 Definitely. And I'd tell my son the same thing. If a woman hits you once, walk away. If she hits you twice, you hit her back.
00:01:56.840 Why do you think that there was a public outcry for Chris Brown and Rihanna? However, there was no public outcry when Cardi B publicly admitted to drinking and robbing men.
00:02:08.700 It's corruption. They post what they want you to see.
00:02:11.920 Do you think there's a double standard in society when it comes to believing men and believing women?
00:02:16.420 Absolutely.
00:02:16.840 Why was Chris Brown cancelled for the Rihanna situation, but Cardi B publicly admitted to drinking and robbing men and faced seemingly no repercussions?
00:02:28.680 I would like to know the damn answer.
00:02:30.420 I would definitely say time and error. Between 2008 when it happened and 2018-19 when Cardi B was doing their thing, a lot of things changed standards and it kind of dropped a lot.
00:02:39.180 So that's why she probably got away with it.
00:02:40.660 Why do you think that Chris Brown was cancelled for his situation with Rihanna, yet Cardi B faced seemingly no repercussions for publicly admitting to drugging and robbing men?
00:02:52.660 Because he's a man and a black man.
00:02:54.820 Because she's a woman and women get away with more than men.
00:02:57.960 Why do you think that is?
00:02:59.140 Because the world is sexist.
00:03:00.960 Do you think that's fair?
00:03:01.880 No.
00:03:02.960 Now a lot of things are easy to slide with, whereas back then it was very much like, oh my god, and because it was Rihanna, it kind of made it worse, I think.
00:03:12.100 I feel like it's just because he's a guy and there's massive gender inequality about it. That's the only reason I think, yeah.
00:03:17.440 I think there's a double standard where when men are victims, it doesn't really matter.
00:03:21.580 A million percent, yeah.
00:03:23.120 Do you think the world would be a better place if women couldn't vote?
00:03:25.500 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:03:28.580 I mean, voting in itself, I have questions about the validity and the use of voting, but hey-ho.
00:03:35.420 Who do you think makes more logical decisions, men or women?
00:03:38.480 Men.
00:03:42.100 Let's talk about logic.
00:03:43.200 Depends, depends on the situation.
00:03:44.500 No, don't you, you know, you know.
00:03:46.660 No shade, but women are just more leaned towards an emotional response that may not make logical sense.
00:03:52.960 Females have compassion.
00:03:54.240 What are some things that women are naturally good at?
00:03:57.000 Everything.
00:03:57.740 Giving birth.
00:03:58.720 What are some things that men are naturally good at?
00:04:01.340 Naturally good at sports, I suppose.
00:04:03.760 What are some things that women are naturally better at than men?
00:04:07.200 Playing game.
00:04:08.260 Loving.
00:04:08.560 Playing game.
00:04:09.460 Yeah.
00:04:10.160 Communicating.
00:04:10.980 Yeah, communicating, loving.
00:04:12.640 I don't know, just, I don't know, absolutely nothing.
00:04:16.820 Women are better at everything.
00:04:18.400 What are some things that men are naturally better at than women?
00:04:21.880 Trying it on with a woman.
00:04:23.240 Trying to what?
00:04:23.960 Trying it on.
00:04:24.780 I am.
00:04:25.660 I'm not.
00:04:26.520 You mentioned that women are more compassionate.
00:04:29.260 What are some things that men are better at?
00:04:31.380 Decision making.
00:04:33.280 Future planning.
00:04:34.800 Vision.
00:04:36.040 Direction.
00:04:36.680 I think we don't talk enough about divine masculinity.
00:04:39.940 We talk a lot about divine femininity, but there's divine masculine, which is not flashy.
00:04:45.420 It's just about decision making, processing, logic, sense.
00:04:49.260 You know, I'm not saying these are things that women can't access because everyone, male or female, has their masculine and feminine energies that they access.
00:04:56.940 But we have a natural lean in.
00:04:58.980 What are some things that men are naturally better than women at?
00:05:02.440 Physical sports because they biologically have more testosterone.
00:05:05.800 Do you feel like when you're with a guy, you want to trust his decision making?
00:05:09.580 I can't make a decision that I'll trust his.
00:05:11.540 But if I have my decision, then 50-50.
00:05:13.620 It's always really nice to trust his decision anyway.
00:05:15.720 If a woman hits a man, should she expect to get hit back?
00:05:21.440 Yeah.
00:05:21.920 Yeah, I think so.
00:05:23.080 True, right?
00:05:23.680 If she expects to hit him and not get hit back.
00:05:25.400 If you can give it, you can take it.
00:05:28.140 Definitely.
00:05:29.080 I think, why should it be any different?
00:05:30.700 Like, I know men shouldn't hit women, but if a woman hits you fast, then why shouldn't they be right?
00:05:35.540 Retaliate.
00:05:36.200 If a woman hits a man, why should it be treated any differently to a man hitting a woman?
00:05:40.960 If a woman hits a man, that he should be allowed to defend himself.
00:05:46.560 Weird.
00:05:47.700 I don't know, because I feel like if you're fully banging a guy in the face, I don't know.
00:05:53.780 Sometimes I feel sorry for guys.
00:05:55.920 There's only so much someone can take.
00:05:58.380 Some girls are fucking strong.
00:06:00.400 I don't know.
00:06:01.000 It's not acceptable, but at the same time, it's like you shouldn't...
00:06:04.840 I don't know.
00:06:05.320 No one should be hitting anyone.
00:06:06.620 Full stop.
00:06:07.620 Agreed.
00:06:08.120 It's wrong for a man to hit a woman, but if the woman is provoking him and kicking him to the floor,
00:06:13.260 how else is he going to defend himself?
00:06:14.980 He's going to hit back.
00:06:15.980 However, if a woman isn't doing anything and it's just an abusive relationship, that is obviously wrong.
00:06:20.860 Do you think that if the man and the woman are hitting each other in a relationship,
00:06:24.860 that it's maybe not an abusive relationship?
00:06:27.440 They're both just toxic or they're mutually abusive to each other?
00:06:31.180 They are mutually abusive to each other.
00:06:33.180 Like, fuck that.
00:06:33.960 Like, you shouldn't...
00:06:34.460 No one should be like...
00:06:35.280 If that is your relationship, like, game over.
00:06:37.720 Like, end up.
00:06:38.340 Can men hit women in the name of self-defense?
00:06:41.440 I don't feel like you need to hit a woman to self-defend yourself.
00:06:45.360 You could push her.
00:06:46.560 That's not hitting her.
00:06:47.860 Or run away.
00:06:49.120 Like, do you know what I mean?
00:06:50.200 Do you believe in equality?
00:06:51.200 I wish there was equality, but I don't think the world would make sense with complete equality.
00:06:59.660 I'm not here for violence against women.
00:07:01.800 Like, I'm not trying to...
00:07:02.880 What about self-defense against women?
00:07:05.400 Self-defense, but I think as a man you can contain yourself and, you know what I mean, control the situation.
00:07:09.060 If you're just going to make me a knife, then I've got to do what I need to do to protect my life.
00:07:11.580 Honestly, I have to do whatever needs, you know what I mean, whatever needs a must, you know what I mean, I'm going to do that.
00:07:16.120 I have a question.
00:07:16.920 If my producer at their blessing goes up to Dwayne The Rock Johnson and hits him, can Dwayne The Rock Johnson hit him back?
00:07:23.300 Absolutely, because you hit him.
00:07:24.560 I'm provoked.
00:07:25.700 So wouldn't you say that's a little bit of a double standard you have, then, for men and for women?
00:07:30.100 Man against man.
00:07:31.520 Man against man.
00:07:32.100 But that's a weaker man versus a man that's clearly stronger.
00:07:34.980 No offense, blessing.
00:07:35.940 Man against man, woman against woman.
00:07:36.780 You know what I mean?
00:07:37.200 It's all fair.
00:07:38.040 It's all fair.
00:07:38.440 How is it fair when Dwayne The Rock Johnson is much stronger than him?
00:07:42.060 Because Dwayne The Rock Johnson put in the fucking work and he put himself to that size, didn't it?
00:07:45.820 So if he happens to have that size and that strength, that's his business, you know what I mean?
00:07:48.420 But I think man against man is always going to be fair.
00:07:50.560 Woman against woman is going to be fair.
00:07:51.420 Man against woman, not so fair.
00:07:52.860 So you think Chris Brown was wrong for hitting Rihanna even if she hit first?
00:07:56.700 I'm not going to comment on that because...
00:07:58.500 Yeah, yeah, common though.
00:08:00.380 What kind of question is that?
00:08:02.200 I don't know.
00:08:02.760 I wasn't there.
00:08:03.300 I wasn't there, innit?
00:08:04.020 So I don't know what happened between them.
00:08:05.660 I don't know who hit first.
00:08:06.760 But we're glad Breezy's back.
00:08:08.440 We're glad Breezy's back.
00:08:09.080 We're glad Breezy's back.
00:08:09.880 We're hitting these stages, man.
00:08:10.740 That's the main thing.
00:08:11.340 Yeah.
00:08:11.460 I mean, it's been a while.
00:08:12.040 It's been a while.
00:08:12.640 Do you think that if a woman hits a man that she should expect to get hit back?
00:08:16.980 No.
00:08:17.760 No.
00:08:18.000 Completely not.
00:08:18.600 No.
00:08:19.020 A man is so much stronger than a woman.
00:08:21.040 So if I slapped a man and he hit me back, it'd be ten times stronger.
00:08:24.680 Like, men are the more physical, stronger gender.
00:08:28.900 Pick two out of the three, okay?
00:08:30.980 Looks, money, and loyalty.
00:08:32.500 I don't need him to provide for me.
00:08:34.220 I would like money.
00:08:35.940 So I'm just kidding.
00:08:37.740 Just because they're, like, for my family and stuff.
00:08:40.660 I thought you just said loyalty and looks.
00:08:42.040 Now are you switching it?
00:08:42.640 No, I'm switching it.
00:08:44.260 Looks don't matter as long as they're loyal to me.
00:08:46.720 But money supports me and my family that I bring into them.
00:08:49.960 So that means more to me.
00:08:51.660 If you had to pick two of the three, looks, money, or loyalty, what would you pick?
00:08:57.240 Oh, loyalty and looks.
00:08:59.740 Like, like, loyalty and money.
00:09:01.520 Hold on.
00:09:02.700 Loyalty and money?
00:09:03.460 Yeah, absolutely.
00:09:04.180 So, like, 300 pounds, you could still.
00:09:09.180 Yeah.
00:09:09.540 I mean, I could steal 300 pounds.
00:09:12.620 Yeah, you still got to hook up with them 300-pound guy.
00:09:15.340 The looks are gone.
00:09:16.340 He's ugly.
00:09:18.160 Or he could be hot and rich but cheat every once in a while, you know?
00:09:22.640 Nah.
00:09:23.180 Nah.
00:09:23.900 I mean, yeah.
00:09:25.520 I don't know.
00:09:26.400 I don't know.
00:09:27.640 Let's put a picture to it, okay?
00:09:30.360 Adam Sandler.
00:09:32.040 Okay.
00:09:32.440 Or Chris Brown, but he cheats.
00:09:36.980 Hell nah.
00:09:37.900 I don't have no cheaters, no.
00:09:39.460 Not in my corner.
00:09:40.220 I'm sorry.
00:09:40.520 So you're keeping Adam Sandler?
00:09:42.440 Yeah.
00:09:43.100 Loyal Adam.
00:09:43.740 Yeah, loyal Adam.
00:09:44.780 He's funky, so...
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