JustPearlyThings - May 16, 2023


SHOCKING FACTS About Single Mothers


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

208.34781

Word Count

3,198

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

27

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What does that look like dying alone okay most women you need 2.5 million to retire okay and
00:00:13.720 and there's a lot of evidence to suggest that the UK is going to start rolling back the benefits
00:00:17.780 that mostly women are on so what does that look like dying alone um I don't know on the streets
00:00:22.720 being homeless could you work it out with your husband not every woman that isn't in a relationship
00:00:27.480 is alone they might have a family they could have kids it doesn't necessarily mean they're alone
00:00:32.760 just because now you have to mooch off of everyone around you instead of working it out with your
00:00:37.020 husband I would rather do that I mean I would rather do that I look at it like this if you if you've left
00:00:44.900 your husband you have to understand and you have to take on board the damage that was caused now if
00:00:52.640 I was married and I've I've bought forth 10 children for you and I feel that we've built
00:01:00.680 our empire and we've got our you know our tribe and we're good we're strong and then I was your
00:01:07.920 world and you was my world and then we had our children you have to sit down and think well
00:01:13.460 why is she alone because the damage sometimes is irreversible it doesn't matter how many times you
00:01:20.960 go and you sit down and you talk to somebody and you're like well this is what's happened or have
00:01:25.780 you tried this sometimes if that's not enough so damage but who has to suffer in these situations
00:01:31.520 the kids no no no and I was going to get there and you know at the same time the damage can be
00:01:37.560 unreversible so that's why they tend to be alone and yes you're right it is the children that do end
00:01:44.420 up suffering because you know they've growing up thinking oh mommy and daddy's in love and you know
00:01:49.560 they're always together no no no no no I'm just speaking on this you know and then it turns out
00:01:56.960 that that may not be the situation now I know quite a lot of people that you know you grow in a
00:02:03.800 household you hear an argument parents do it all the time they think oh the children are in bed
00:02:08.840 they're sleeping but actually no we're hearing everything and it does affect the children I've
00:02:13.500 worked with children and I've seen the damage that it's caused you know but the effects of a
00:02:19.480 single mother home are worse and every stat will tell you you're more likely to commit suicide you're
00:02:23.900 more likely to make homeless they're 80 percent of the prison population like every real problem in
00:02:28.640 society is literally linked to a single mother home and so and so my thing is like I just think
00:02:33.720 once you have a family it's not about you anymore it's about your kids and so it's like this you know
00:02:37.920 this idea that we can't work through cheating I just think it's silly you know it's all about
00:02:41.660 honesty I reckon you know honesty is I think like cheating wouldn't be a thing if it was for the
00:02:47.960 honesty side of things you know I mean depending on what you're looking for see like in in 2023 now
00:02:52.780 yeah um even myself I've been involved in a thruple yeah it was only for a couple of weeks
00:02:58.580 I've got a girlfriend and well I've got two girlfriends and my girlfriends are girlfriends
00:03:12.760 well not currently it's not the situation
00:03:14.520 that's a thruple you know I mean but it's just a case of honesty you know I mean so I was honest
00:03:25.380 with them they were honest with me no one got hurt in the process how the fuck did you pull that off
00:03:29.740 seriously it was a crafty one it's like 23 percent of women are actually open to that where only six
00:03:35.260 percent of men are yeah I think it can happen if you're like you said honest and open like I think
00:03:39.660 well I mean how many women like do like we all we all know a lot of women who have no idea they're
00:03:45.680 being cheated on but like yeah like every guy is going back to his girlfriend me like he's cheating
00:03:51.060 now like a lot of women out they just have no idea they're being cheated on so like maybe they would
00:03:55.800 be happier if they were just at least honest about it and the mom was like this goes around
00:03:59.820 comes around I promise you I've experienced it myself I was in the dark you believe me I promise
00:04:04.820 you exactly I'm disagreement I've seen a lot of nice people get fucked over and a lot of assholes
00:04:09.720 get great lives but you haven't read the end of the chapter you haven't read the end of the book
00:04:13.980 have they died so long we all die in the end I know but there's so long as there's life there's an
00:04:18.780 opportunity for karma to be inflicted I'm telling you if you are a man who breaks people's hearts
00:04:23.100 and you boast about it and you're proud and you look in the mirror and you feel more of a man
00:04:26.520 then there's something right guys let's ask this question get straight to the chase your mom gets
00:04:33.880 cheated on how do you feel yeah you'd feel bad you'd feel bad why would you feel bad about something
00:04:38.660 that's normal no it's normally to say however we did we said a majority of people cheat so it's normal
00:04:44.580 now no no I said throughout history the top 15% of men have always cheated women cheat more than
00:04:50.700 men nowadays yeah yeah but still regardless of the statistics and where they sway it's a wrong
00:04:55.200 thing you know what it is the side of cheating which is wrong is the emotional damage which is
00:05:00.940 provides to the other person that's that's what we fail every time around you know I mean so when
00:05:06.180 you're in a relationship with a person that you love like for instance I've been in a relationship a
00:05:09.960 long-term relationship I cheated on my missus you know I mean and to me personally it was nothing
00:05:14.900 to do with um whether I love her or not you know I mean I just found out in later life that I like
00:05:20.820 different types of varieties of pom-pom that's just how I roll you know I mean but at the same set
00:05:26.600 time that doesn't mean that I didn't love my girlfriend I definitely agree yeah no for real you can
00:05:32.320 still love your girl but it's just the excitement of another female it's just the excitement you're not
00:05:38.920 ready to be in a no no but you can be you can still love that female you you're still going
00:05:43.000 back to that girl you're still wanting to pick her up you're still waiting to do everything
00:05:46.660 basically what you're saying is as a woman if you want to get in a relationship we have to expect the
00:05:53.560 men to cheat on us you say like the top like 15 to 20 men cheat right so I feel like as women we
00:06:08.780 do need to take the more responsible role of choosing better men because we have that 80 whole
00:06:12.800 percent of men that don't but my thing is what better man means and I've learned that like the
00:06:18.380 last actual couple months only recently and I've learned that and that's big from watching your
00:06:23.340 show is actually and it's opened my mind a lot because it's just like we have a whole 80 percent
00:06:27.820 and we don't want to generalize men because not everyone cheats well and when you think about it so
00:06:32.380 like women used to select for resources right more more so than looks because when because we
00:06:39.280 like we didn't work and usually you would live at your dad's house and then you would go to your
00:06:42.640 husband until about the 20s when women started to go to work so what happened is when that when women
00:06:48.400 started being the like selectors of mates our first choice is looks in our 20s and so but what percent
00:06:55.620 of men do we find attractive only 20 percent women find 80 percent of men is ugly so back in the day
00:07:00.800 the dad would like like say oh no he's gonna cheat on you stay away from that boy and then he would
00:07:05.040 like pick the provider guy maybe we need to be with an ugly guy women in their 30s they'll switch
00:07:16.740 because it's like they need a kid time's running out um and so they'll switch from um selecting for
00:07:21.480 looks to selecting for more provider first but it's like if you did that in the beginning but this is
00:07:27.080 the thing though these these men we're sitting here going right the top 20 percent cheat why do
00:07:31.480 they cheat because they can't you mean to tell me the other 80 percent if they had it on the table
00:07:36.100 they wouldn't do the men or just men you know like us labeling these 20 percent as assholes just because
00:07:41.860 they have the height the resources uh could we agree that all men cheat then no i i think there's
00:07:46.760 there's definitely exceptions to the rule like and like i think me and um my guy over here have a similar
00:07:51.300 story you know unfortunately like we have this thing where we're very immature and we mature later
00:07:58.460 on in life as men i agree so yeah we we go through this period where like let's be real you want to
00:08:04.020 experience more we want to try everything on the menu you know we don't want to be sitting 50 year old
00:08:09.240 wondering what was what would that have been like we want to know and actually you kind of have to get
00:08:14.160 that out your system before you go you know what this is actually childish and one woman who looks
00:08:18.760 after you who's got your back and really cares about you is the real deal but you're not going
00:08:23.440 to come to that when you're in your childish state of mind so yeah we have to go through that and
00:08:27.520 unfortunately some of you girls are victims during that period and that's yeah it's collateral but i
00:08:33.540 also think like women like we should know what we're getting ourselves into like if you go for the
00:08:37.480 guy that's rich he's got money he's tall like you know it's a it's a strong possibility he's gonna do
00:08:41.820 that so what are you gonna do if he does don't have a kid and then cry cheating later if you know
00:08:46.800 that's gonna be a possibility facts because girls are going central London for instance they're
00:08:51.360 looking for the guy with a Lambo they're looking for guys with a Mercedes they want a guy with this
00:08:55.740 this this this these big chainsy that's what girls that's what girls that you treat to
00:09:08.880 like you can have everything you can be tall he can have money he can be good-looking and he's
00:09:18.000 gonna be monogamous question though yeah so it's a girl's you you girls um like men are only as
00:09:27.960 faithful as their options but are women really any different like let's let's let's say you meet two
00:09:32.280 guys at the same time one guy's sweet and lovely and the other guy has all of these things you're you
00:09:37.500 are gonna also be a bit more drawn like to this guy who's the provider the the alpha this day and
00:09:46.000 age I think I feel like you know years ago wasn't so much accessible well judging by Instagram and
00:09:51.600 the way women post anything that is like like outside in restaurants before where a woman has
00:09:57.940 literally had a guy taking pictures of her eating her fucking dinner for 15 fucking minutes wondering
00:10:02.880 why is she taking a picture in this restaurant because she wants everyone to know what restaurant
00:10:06.540 she's in and he's the one paying for it and he's getting laid base off of that so let's not like
00:10:11.040 women don't value this because it's literally all over London every week but what sort of what we when
00:10:15.660 we keep using this term so it's really are a me women what what a real woman doesn't do that my
00:10:20.220 mom would never in a million years go to Nobukov and take a picture and be like hey real woman
00:10:24.380 okay can you can we make a general consensus that the women in their 20s today are diff are of a
00:10:38.660 different cloth and the women let's say in their 50s today yeah yeah the women in their 50s are more
00:10:47.180 traditional than the women in their 20s I have best friends who like who openly say to me like oh yeah
00:10:54.380 he's got a girlfriend or he's got a wife and they're happily ready to break a happy home I don't condone
00:10:59.600 in that no I don't condone no I think it's wrong again there's all the emotional damage yeah you
00:11:04.800 know I mean and I put myself in a category of um I'm like an honest fuck boy yeah that's why
00:11:11.000 does that make sense you know I mean I'm an honest yeah and um at that point you know I when I'm when
00:11:18.140 I'm honest about my my um my linkups and whatnot other women tend to be more attracted to the
00:11:24.340 situation you know I mean they tend to they tend to be more attracted first of all they go away a
00:11:28.560 little bit hurt and whatnot like oh Dave you shouldn't have done that and but then they come
00:11:32.500 back after a while and be you know they're reasonable you know they okay you do get a little
00:11:37.300 bit of pum pum over there that's no problem you were honest about it and then yeah it just seems
00:11:42.540 more appealing for some reason I don't know if you're addicted to pum pum like that yeah why not
00:11:46.540 just be out here proling and sleeping with a new girl every other day I've done that before but at
00:11:50.840 least you're not hurting another individual there's nothing there is nothing nice I don't care whether
00:11:54.640 we're talking about the 20th century or the 19th century there is nothing nice about harming
00:11:58.860 another individual that's what it is are you mean to say right because you know you you're uh on the
00:12:03.600 instagram and all these girls are after you all of them you're right i'm not six okay i'm five eight
00:12:14.720 i'll tell you okay so so you mean to tell me that all of these girls who you are sleeping with not one
00:12:20.140 of them had ideas above what you had because if i know women and i'd like to think i do i'm like my
00:12:26.120 man i keep it straight darling i'm a single but they think they can change you mate they don't they
00:12:30.860 don't they're not going to listen they're going to be like i'm going to be the exception yes i
00:12:34.060 agree with you bro but then the onus is on them i go to sleep with a clean conscious knowing that
00:12:38.620 i've not promised anyone i mean the idea of a relationship is commitment right okay i'm
00:12:44.140 confused go on no no tell me let's go let's go you're cool with me talking about your your job
00:12:50.580 okay okay so how are you commit like how are you faithful if you're on only fans precisely why i said
00:12:57.700 i haven't been in a relationship for as long as i've done only fans oh i thought you said you've
00:13:01.100 been in it for five years oh i miss i misunderstood i thought you were saying you're still in that i
00:13:05.880 guess what i have had many propositions from female content creators beautiful stunning head to toe
00:13:11.300 and i've said no because i know i'm not capable of you know seeing my missus having sex having
00:13:17.300 whatever sexual intercourse with some other guys so i know so i'm not in the business of harming people
00:13:22.160 and i know that some girls have said to me it's fine i don't mind seeing you of other
00:13:26.800 wait so you're 32 now yeah you've been on only fans two years for two years and then you had the
00:13:31.860 five-year relationship before that uh prior to it prior to yeah so the day i created only fans she
00:13:36.540 left no but bro how i was just i'm just confused i thought you said you cheated before i have when i
00:13:41.420 was younger 16 17 18 every single day every day i stopped i stopped the day i realized that there's
00:13:47.180 nothing so it's just a little bit like you're confusing me because in the end you did cheat on
00:13:52.460 her in a way because you started the only fans i'll break it down i'll break it down right when
00:13:56.660 i was young and naive yeah and i was ignorant i cheated because i thought it was cool i thought
00:14:01.040 it was a good thing to do right then i lost my job only fans presented itself i had a conversation
00:14:06.980 my fiance at the time and i said this is what i'm going to do whether you support me you either
00:14:11.320 support me and we stay and i'll do solo stuff or you walk away and that's fine i respect it and i
00:14:15.940 will do collaborations she decided to walk away i did it it changed my life i retired my mom i have
00:14:20.420 zero regrets but i will never no matter how many people and how normal it is glamorize cheating
00:14:25.320 it's disgusting i've seen it firsthand what it does to my family this girl agreed to marry you
00:14:29.240 that's a big deal a girl agreeing to marry you and you turn around and go hey by the way i'm
00:14:33.420 gonna fuck girls on only fans no no you're wrong you see no no that's not what you said let's be very
00:14:38.740 clear about my english i said i was going to do only fans only fans does not constitute having sex
00:14:44.680 with other people it could be solo stuff okay like i put on my instagram it could be feet stuff so
00:14:49.980 let's not go down there right but it's but it's still like something she didn't agree to in the
00:14:54.000 beginning great which is which i'm not and she left no i know but my point is it's a little bit
00:14:58.940 like hypocritical of you to go around saying oh i don't cheat like that's a horrible thing to do when
00:15:03.160 it's like you kind of did the same as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are
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