Shocking Statistics On Obesity
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Summary
In this episode, Natalie and Natalie talk about obesity, self-esteem and how to deal with the harsh truth that most people don t want to face. Natalie opens up about her own struggles with obesity and how she overcame them, Natalie talks about her weight loss journey, and Natalie shares her story of how she went from being overweight to being a healthy weight loss success story.
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know how many people die from obesity every day 1400 people die every day you know how many people
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died in september 11th how many just 500 no just over 3 000 i don't know i just guess you know so
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you're having like i was on brian carter's show and he was telling me this so he says like every
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three days you're having a september 11th in modern life so you know it like yeah i think
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it's just it's because nobody wants to be called fat nobody wants to be told you're ugly nobody
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wants to be sexually unattractive men or women we all want to be hot we all want to be sexy
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you know we want to be good looking it doesn't that never leaves you and so when you're confronted
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with an uncomfortable reality most people and it's sad to say but most people can't handle the truth
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yeah and so they choose a nice little lie that makes them feel better and that's why oprah has
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money that's why the view has money that's why dr ross has money that's why dr phil has money
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sit down down and lie to women come on down you know and sometimes it's like i think harsh truths
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that time can make you make life changes yeah like like i i was i was pretty heavy at one point and
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what made me like 200 club yeah what was your weight um what was the highest that i like like 210
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i don't know what that is like 90 92 93 kilos i saw a picture of myself no that was personally
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well i'll tell you natalie that happened to me i'll tell you i'll show you the picture
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i'll tell you i'll tell you i'll tell you i played i played volleyball my whole life so i was training like
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five hours a day from the time i was like i don't know 10 years old so i was just an athlete and when
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i stopped playing my eating habits were horrible like absolutely horrible so i gained weight like
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really really fast because i just couldn't burn off all the calories i was burning before
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and i was working a sales job and there was a guy i had a crush on at work i had the biggest crush on
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this guy's and i heard i heard him laughing with um the other guys at work saying oh like
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the the one guy was like oh i'm like 190 or something and he's like you can't be that big
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that's so that's so heavy i would never like and then they were talking about girls and they're like
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i would never date a girl over 200 and i was like they didn't think i was that big because i'm tall so
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i carry it a bit better yeah but really but that but that harsh truth like i lost a bunch of weight
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after that and i and i've kept it off ever since yeah so you know sometimes you need that kick don't
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you just to make you realize yeah and like you know it might have been harsh at first but it was true
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if we're talking about self-esteem doesn't you mentioned being weak-minded earlier hearing
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your crush or people that you might fancy and and realizing that your type doesn't like you back
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does that not make you weak-minded then if self-esteem is really in self and you're hearing
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people you find desirable talk about you in an undesirable way and you're saying that made you
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change even though the change was for the positive let's say does that not make you weak of mind
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because no i think it makes me strong because i made me do something strong i ran a marathon
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because i was like you know if those are the type of guys i want to date this is what they want
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and the difference is women have never heard what men want but men always change to try to get us
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like they try to make more money they try to get a better shade they take steroids
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they learn how to talk to women and it's like we have never heard what men want like ever because
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the media is constantly telling us what we want to hear so no i i don't think it makes me a weak
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person i think i could have it would have been weak to go and cry but i went and did something
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about it yeah but taking on someone's opinion and letting that influence your lifestyle and your
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actions is not weak i i don't think it's a bad thing to be maybe it's not an opinion i mean i mean
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it's a fact yeah i think i think because then you you kind of fall into the school of thoughts like
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you know because like if you're getting fired from job after job after job you'd be like well
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these people have a poor opinion of me like but that's what's can i just say something that's
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what's that's what's wrong with the world people care too much yeah yeah and and and i think people
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don't care enough i think people don't care enough like you said earlier but i think i think we should
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care about outcomes especially as women because it's like if we don't in our 20s and like early 30s
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get our shit together like we don't get to have children but power and so it's like like one obesity
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effects effects if you get to have kids and two it affects the type of husband you you get because
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geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 don't ever assume big people can't they're honestly big people likely
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to conceive i'm not even gonna i feel ugly most of my life but when i went nights bridge i'm not gonna
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i learned the power of being big all these people from uae they'd be beeping the car so they'd be saying
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hello there's numbers on this at least for women i i don't research it as much for men but like i
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research it more for women like men that don't make as much money tend to date bigger but like it's
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really yeah because they get free food probably and they get hugs and cuddles
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no because because again like i mean what what guy with money power and status married a big girl
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someone who has a preference yeah but nobody but i'm saying i'm saying nobody the guys that have
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all the options nobody does it just like a beautiful woman is never gonna pick a broke man in the same
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way so the most the top the top 10 15 no no it's not agree it's like if we look at the men that have
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everything the most desired men in society they don't typically pick big girls the same way the most
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desired women in society don't typically pick broke men yeah just like i've actually got my own
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pam pam disagrees i want to hear what because it's it falls down to to your preference what you actually
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like when you like so if you know yourself and you know what you like whether that person has money
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or not it wouldn't even matter yeah just like it from from women to men or men what are you talking
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from women's like men from my from women to men to men so if you don't have any money or you need a
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help but i like you anyway i'm gonna like you for who you are yeah first i've got a theory by the
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way guys can i say my theory data it just doesn't like it's really nice when we could say this and
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maybe that applies to you but at large it just doesn't like women when women get a promotion at
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work they're more likely to divorce their husband when women out earn their man that's really why i think
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that people are crazy i think the world has gone mad my theory is okay people who have come up to me
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like a lot of people have come up to me and i don't know why once i asked one of them how long
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were you breastfed for four and they replied saying oh a bit older and i realized everyone
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that likes big people yeah they've been breastfed for long and or their mom or their are they had a
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big auntie or a big mom so and they're used to like that sort of feeling so as an older adult that's
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what they seek and that's the truth that means unfortunately it's a cycle i don't know if it's
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also unfortunate but it is a cycle i mean fat fat fat people raise fat children because they pass
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you you pass your ways on you do no but sometimes the parents ain't even big that's why rich people
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typically their children are also rich because they pass on the knowledge of being rich but sometimes i
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know families i know families where the parents are like twigs and the kids are like monsters i literally
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and i don't mean that in a bad way but compared to the parents this whole physical look this is an
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open invite look at anybody that thinks they cannot lose weight for whatever reason it's impossible
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look at i'll pay for it come come to london and eat the client come on down
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yeah you need to be careful what you say because there might be a lot of big people that start
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messaging you stop messaging okay okay first first two first two yeah not unlimited you know
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can i say something there yeah yeah um i just wanted to um touch on the point of food
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the reality is it doesn't really matter what you eat processed foods healthy foods the reality is the
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science is clear if you eat more calories than your body can can convert to energy you're gonna get
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fat yeah that's irrefutable that's not i don't believe in that i'll tell you what i mean it look
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it looks like he doesn't believe in that though it's true i'll give you my anecdotal experience okay
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for the most part of my life i have i have been eating unhealthy like i don't eat healthy the only
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times i really ate healthy was when i was young but for most of my adult years i don't have time to cook
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i don't have time to do all of that but i eat once a day and i exercise so it's the science is clear
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i don't know if anyone here is repeating the science does anyone here disagree that the more
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calories you consume and you don't exercise yeah we all agree on that i think sugarpuff said he
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disagreed okay you can't put calories on a leaf you can't put calories on spinach you can't do that
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it's you just eat it goes from the ground that's when i think with all this calorie counting and
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stuff like that how do you actually calorie count a carrot because each carrot is different or each
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and also did you know calories did you know you weigh the food you know food calories when they say
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on the label like whatever calories it is did you know each person consumed in their body when they
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consume food the calories change and it's different for each person it then boils down to your metabolism
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yeah yeah pretty much but you can do a metabolism like my whole point is this is all we can all fit
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like this is something that can be fixed it can be changed and that's the great thing about like women
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most of the things that men want can be fixed like men want fit feminine friendly women those are all
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things that can be fixed we're faithful yeah good good trust them right but on the other hand it's
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like men they can't make themselves taller no but they don't complain near as much as we do about
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men's preferences we are we can we are our own worth enemy to be fair