JustPearlyThings - Should Modern Women Be JAILED For This？？

00:00:00.000 have any of you ever told a guy you were on birth control when you weren't

00:00:05.680 isn't that like kind of grapey

00:00:10.880 do you know what i mean no yeah everyone like i think that you have to be transparent about that

00:00:16.880 have you ever heard of anyone doing that yeah yeah yeah first hand yeah yeah yeah tell me what

00:00:23.840 what did she do um yeah she she told him that she was on and she wasn't and she got what she wanted

00:00:32.560 she got pregnant off of it yeah do you do you think that in that situation since she lied that he 0.99

00:00:40.720 shouldn't have any rights to the or that he should be able to get rid of his rights to the kid i mean

00:00:47.600 no because she lied so he was he was performing off of something that you know off of the security

00:00:54.320 that she was on it and she wasn't so that kind of no but i mean so when when he has the kid

00:00:59.840 or when she had i'm assuming she had the kid right so did um do you think that in that case that he

00:01:07.280 should be able to sign off all rights because he didn't want the kid to begin with i mean when you

00:01:12.240 say it like that because it's it's it's in a way where it wasn't his choice because had he known he

00:01:18.960 wouldn't have made that choice um so when you say it like that absolutely i mean rightfully the kid's

00:01:25.440 there at the end of the day so i mean whether he wants it or not unfortunately that's his seed that's

00:01:30.640 his future um but yeah it is in his hands to make that decision um but then it comes into do you want

00:01:38.800 to be a father what type of father do you want to be to that kid that you weren't ready for but now

00:01:42.880 you are a father now so yeah what do you who who who do you know that lied uh i i know someone that

00:01:51.200 got into a bad situation because they um well they didn't like their own birth control but they lied

00:01:56.880 that they were bulimic um so they didn't disclose their bulimia so they're making themselves sick while

00:02:01.760 taking birth control um which obviously makes it ineffective um and she she did get pregnant

00:02:08.640 energy keep it yeah yeah they worked things out and like they're a happy couple now but um it was a

00:02:15.680 big i live with them it was a big point of contention at the time do you do you guys think that should be

00:02:19.600 punishable as a crime i think lying to a guy about birth control definitely yeah a hundred percent yeah

00:02:28.080 you take accountability that's so sorry i feel quite passionate yeah it's so unfair on the man

00:02:34.560 if if you lie about it like obviously if an accident happens as an accident right it's

00:02:38.880 both both parties fault but yeah if you lie about it then yeah a hundred percent if it was like

00:02:44.720 premeditated yeah exactly it's like coercion in a way it's similar to like essay of a woman if you

00:02:51.120 lie about having an scd it's i would say that's like a similar thing but i don't think that means you

00:02:55.280 should sign away all rights to the baby it's not it's not the baby's fault you know what i mean yeah but

00:03:00.240 you don't think if the woman has the right to get an abortion he should have the right to sign off 0.60

00:03:03.760 his rights no because like you don't think if the woman has a right not to be a mother he should have 1.00

00:03:08.560 the right not to be a father especially if he was coerced into doing it no because like if a woman 0.99

00:03:13.680 an abortion is different sorry like so if um if a woman's great i have to say great do you do you

00:03:18.560 think she should be able to get an abortion yeah but i think abortion is different to when the baby 1.00

00:03:23.120 is at the point of a baby in your arms i think that that is your life responsibility and when you

00:03:28.160 have sex in general you take the risk whether someone's lied to you about the risk or not isn't

00:03:32.560 that that's a terrible thing to happen but you still take the risk of that one percent of um oh this

00:03:36.800 woman could get pregnant even if you think she is on but what if the woman wants to give up the 1.00

00:03:40.400 kid for adoption should she have that right uh not if the father wants to keep it no yeah if the

00:03:46.640 father wants the baby the father should be able to have full custody and the woman should pay chance 1.00

00:03:49.760 for no but i'm saying i'm saying if she wants to give up the kid for adoption she should be able to

00:03:53.600 right yes but not if the father wants yeah but so i'm saying if he didn't sign up to be a father

00:03:59.440 like why should he be forced to because isn't it like rewarding bad behavior no i think that when

00:04:04.720 every single time you have every time i have sex with my boyfriend there is a small percent chance 0.82

00:04:09.200 that i could get pregnant and we both have sex knowing that that can happen when you do it with 0.97

00:04:13.440 a stranger you know that that's a yeah but the women but the women are the we're the only ones 1.00

00:04:16.960 that can have all the information up front that's because so yeah but that's that's my point my point

00:04:21.760 is like there's no male birth control so women we we can when we have sex like we have all the 1.00

00:04:26.480 information we know if we're ovulating we know if we're going to take a plan b we know if we're on

00:04:30.000 birth control where the men it's like they they have the they have the option condom or no condom 0.86

00:04:34.960 but even with like plan b that's not that effective because if you are plan b only works

00:04:40.000 to delay ovulation so if you're ovulating at the time that you have sex yeah but it does nothing

00:04:44.960 yeah but there's 41 forms of birth control for you and you only can get pregnant like three days a month 0.94

00:04:50.080 there's still people do all the time that's why 16 year olds are pregnant you know it's never 1.00

00:04:54.000 deliberate is it sometimes but i would beg to differ on that but i'm saying in this case it was

00:05:02.000 deliberate yeah so it's just interesting because i i feel like if he's not able to sign off his rights

00:05:07.360 when she does something wrong like why wouldn't she just keep doing it why wouldn't women just 1.00

00:05:11.200 keep doing it i just i don't think that that's a real problem i don't think women are actually doing 1.00

00:05:14.720 that oh my gosh you you haven't seen the nba the nba issued statements telling the men to wear

00:05:20.400 condoms because all these models were lying to the men about being on birth it's a real issue 1.00

00:05:25.680 i mean you think drake wanted to get pregnant a corn star pregnant that's like a very specific issue

00:05:30.960 based on very very wealthy men like when you have a lot of wealth and you have a lot of like fame you

00:05:36.720 are obviously at more risk of people taking you to court of people abusing you in every single way

00:05:40.400 so like that's a very specific thing to nba stars that like your average joe but a lot of men that aren't

00:05:45.600 nba stars and i think there's a lot of men that are in i'd say comfortable positions that women would

00:05:51.360 want to be in that situation with them and see an opportunity i think you know there's a lot of

00:05:56.320 women out there that sometimes even just get to a state where they become selfish because they might 1.00

00:06:01.360 receive news that they might not be able to ovulate as much in the next two years or whatever the

00:06:06.000 situation may be i think on both behalves it is kind of selfish in a sense where i think it's wrong when

00:06:12.240 a woman does that anyway because that's unfair on the child forget about even the man's rights the 1.00

00:06:16.640 rights as a child to be able to be accessible and my parents to both be accessible i think is so

00:06:21.920 important so me taking away the opportunity of my child having their father in their life before

00:06:27.440 they're even here is selfish so before we even get to a point of the man's rights what about that that

00:06:33.120 that child's right it's 100 you know you said you're you said you're passionate about it why

00:06:40.480 yeah i just i just don't know do you know someone that's happened to um heard stories

00:06:48.160 yeah i think it's happened to a couple of the boys actually um but yeah it's just something that is

00:06:53.840 just so unfair and i just feel that um yeah men just literally have no right at all they have no say

00:07:01.120 and if it is something that's deliberate for me i just don't think a baby deserves to be brought up in

00:07:06.000 that type of world um especially if the father's not ready and it's coming from a lie so i think the

00:07:13.040 baby so i think the dad should have a decision on you know what happens to unfortunately the baby

00:07:18.400 especially if you're both young but the dad has had a decision to put a condom on in the first place

00:07:22.880 right he made that she could pull calls on that's what i mean i mean that's gonna be pretty obvious

00:07:28.720 she's gonna lie if she's gonna lie about being on birth control then you know that does happen people do 1.00

00:07:33.600 put pins through i know it's a rarity but they steal condoms and like you know in that case though

00:07:42.400 even if like a man is coerced into um having that child i still think he's taken the risks anyway even

00:07:49.440 if he thought it was a much slimmer chance than it was um and that woman should be treated as if she'd 1.00

00:07:54.240 street but then don't you think in the case of abortion like that she took that risk like i'm just

00:08:00.160 it's just interesting because this sounds like equality when it benefits us it's not real equality

00:08:04.720 because it's like okay what do you mean by like when abortions involved so a woman has the right

00:08:10.080 not to be a mother so if i if i have an accidental pregnancy i can terminate it up to six months in

00:08:15.200 the uk but men don't have the right not to be fathers true so it's like why why do we call the

00:08:20.000 man a deadbeat dad but we don't call the woman a deadbeat mom when she gets an abortion and so i'm

00:08:25.120 saying if we really want equality like why wouldn't we make it equal where the men can sign off

00:08:29.280 but i think that's like how again we'd want an ideal world to be do you know what i mean in a

00:08:34.880 sense where i would but she's saying no fair enough that's just society like that's the way society is

00:08:41.040 and unfortunately that's uh how can i put it like unfortunate on the men's behalf in the world

00:08:46.800 because that's something that they're out of control of there's a lot of things i'd say like

00:08:51.120 in a relationship or in other situations us women are out of control as many of you know i was just 0.99

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JustPearlyThings - April 16, 2023

Should Modern Women Be JAILED For This？？

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