JustPearlyThings - Simp On The Panel EXPOSES Himself

00:00:00.000 Take on a coffee date for a first date, okay?

00:00:03.860 Date as many women as possible to tell the difference. 0.99

00:00:07.660 Make sure she's not on birth control. 0.58

00:00:10.760 And figure out what her relationship's like with her family and her dad.

00:00:14.860 What do you agree with, disagree with, and what would you like to add?

00:00:23.080 There's loads I need to add to that, man.

00:00:25.660 It's not that simple.

00:00:26.540 Don't forget the whole thing, man.

00:00:28.800 Start again.

00:00:29.680 Yeah, start that again.

00:00:30.740 Tell me that this together.

00:00:32.360 I said, yeah, we can keep going.

00:00:33.940 So you got to see her for three months.

00:00:36.340 For three months?

00:00:37.560 Yeah, cool.

00:00:38.620 I think three months.

00:00:39.220 You think that's enough?

00:00:40.140 You can marry a girl three months? 0.99

00:00:41.500 No.

00:00:41.960 No, you can't.

00:00:42.760 Oh, okay.

00:00:43.120 In three months.

00:00:44.580 You know why you come here?

00:00:45.840 A lot of women are chameleons. 1.00

00:00:47.080 No, 100%.

00:00:47.940 Yeah, trust me, they can shapeshift.

00:00:51.460 Have you ever dated a girl for three months and she changes completely? 0.99

00:00:54.560 Yes.

00:00:55.000 Yes.

00:00:55.300 She changes, like, you know when the biggest change of a woman happens? 1.00

00:00:59.220 What?

00:00:59.540 Which has a baby.

00:01:00.640 For me, that's when I see the biggest change in a woman. 1.00

00:01:03.580 So you won't even really know your woman until she has a child properly. 0.87

00:01:06.760 That's what I believe.

00:01:07.560 So in order to find a good woman, you have to get her pregnant? 1.00

00:01:10.040 No, you don't have to, but I'm saying...

00:01:11.480 Don't worry about that.

00:01:14.200 No, you don't have to, because there's certain things you'll see.

00:01:16.380 But I'm saying, from my experience, I have three kids, innit?

00:01:19.160 So I saw the biggest change when the woman had a child. 1.00

00:01:23.220 Okay.

00:01:23.980 So how long should you see her before you marry her, knock her up, whatever? 0.99

00:01:28.440 I don't know about marry her or knock her up. 0.98

00:01:29.980 Three months is a good time to determine whether she's being genuine, if she's wearing a mask or not.

00:01:34.120 So you've got to see her for three months in order to date her?

00:01:37.220 Like, what's the...

00:01:37.880 I mean, it's going to be everything.

00:01:38.660 I don't think, as you said, you can't really determine anyone as the true person, as they're being genuine, as they say they are, for like the first three months, generally.

00:01:46.540 If you've lived with someone, that's different.

00:01:48.940 If you move in with someone, you can see the truth a lot quicker.

00:01:51.420 Actually, can I...

00:01:52.640 I'm sorry.

00:01:53.560 I'm a little ADD sometimes.

00:01:54.880 No, go on.

00:01:55.220 When do you guys expect to sleep with her? 0.94

00:01:58.900 You know what?

00:01:59.960 That's subjective.

00:02:00.740 You see that question there, yeah?

00:02:02.420 It is very subjective, yeah?

00:02:04.900 In general.

00:02:05.820 Are you saying expect?

00:02:06.760 Yeah, expectation is a big word.

00:02:08.080 I don't have an expectation.

00:02:09.160 I don't have an expectation.

00:02:10.280 They expect straight away.

00:02:11.040 On the first date.

00:02:11.760 You know what it is?

00:02:12.620 Fourth date.

00:02:13.180 I'll be honest, yeah?

00:02:14.280 I don't think there's too much of...

00:02:16.320 It's not a problem if you sleep with a woman the first night or you sleep with a woman two months down the line.

00:02:20.900 Because man can move different.

00:02:21.900 Man can wait...

00:02:22.640 Sleep with her as soon as you can.

00:02:25.400 Yeah, but...

00:02:26.160 You know what it is?

00:02:27.100 Because you can sleep with a woman straight away and have a great connection and a great relationship with her.

00:02:31.940 Or you can...

00:02:32.980 A woman can hold out for six months and whatever and there's a man out here that will sit there for six months. 0.66

00:02:37.340 How married?

00:02:37.780 Clark and bust out.

00:02:38.800 Did you get what I'm saying?

00:02:39.640 All right.

00:02:40.000 How long is too long?

00:02:41.560 I'm just gonna...

00:02:42.280 I need hands, okay?

00:02:43.740 How long is too long?

00:02:45.180 No matter how good the girl is, you ain't waiting. 0.97

00:02:47.640 Like, this is ridiculous.

00:02:48.300 I think three months is the max to wait. 0.53

00:02:50.800 I just want...

00:02:51.220 I want hands for the max.

00:02:52.840 Are you waiting one...

00:02:53.840 All right.

00:02:54.260 Wait, wait, wait.

00:02:55.360 He's coughing.

00:02:56.300 He's coughing.

00:02:56.720 I need hands.

00:02:58.280 Are we waiting a week?

00:02:59.560 Is that okay?

00:03:00.660 All right.

00:03:01.060 Yeah, but I'll wait.

00:03:02.260 Okay, I just...

00:03:02.980 I need you to go...

00:03:04.120 Put your hand up when it's too long.

00:03:05.940 Yeah, yeah.

00:03:06.380 Okay.

00:03:06.760 All right.

00:03:07.480 Two weeks.

00:03:09.000 Three weeks.

00:03:10.980 He's...

00:03:11.340 So you're putting in three weeks?

00:03:12.660 It depends on the context.

00:03:14.100 I mean, has she made other people wait?

00:03:16.760 You don't know.

00:03:17.740 You don't...

00:03:18.060 You never know that.

00:03:18.860 Yeah, that's a stick.

00:03:19.500 You never know that.

00:03:20.180 You don't know.

00:03:20.660 You don't know.

00:03:21.360 I'm not gonna be the one that waits.

00:03:22.640 I mean, like, how old is she? 0.74

00:03:28.560 I mean, she's some kind of born-again virgin.

00:03:31.380 I don't know.

00:03:32.540 I'm not...

00:03:33.460 You're getting a girl from first date, like, so you don't know.

00:03:38.000 You've just met her off the street, whatever, dating app, whatever.

00:03:41.140 So you have to determine.

00:03:42.440 All right, so three weeks you can wait.

00:03:43.920 You're not...

00:03:44.460 You're...

00:03:45.260 He's...

00:03:45.580 Okay, four weeks.

00:03:46.840 Four weeks too long for anyone?

00:03:48.760 No.

00:03:49.140 Five weeks.

00:03:50.560 Okay, two months.

00:03:51.480 Two months too long to sleep with her?

00:03:54.180 The two months is the max.

00:03:56.080 All right.

00:03:56.440 After that, yeah.

00:03:57.460 I'm gonna go with two months.

00:03:58.520 I might lose a little job.

00:04:00.120 Yeah, I get bored easily, so after two months, I might...

00:04:02.480 Two months.

00:04:03.460 Yeah, I'll go with two to three months.

00:04:05.160 Two to three months.

00:04:05.980 All right, so three.

00:04:06.920 All right, so you guys, too.

00:04:07.800 You said she can have three. 0.56

00:04:08.400 But I don't know, but the thing is, I'd done three months when I was young.

00:04:11.560 Maybe when I'm older now, I don't know.

00:04:13.740 That's why I'm in...

00:04:15.480 But when I had the three months...

00:04:16.700 No, but I'm asking now.

00:04:17.520 That relationship lasted.

00:04:18.580 Now you meet a nice woman. 0.57

00:04:20.460 You think you're looking for a good one?

00:04:22.900 If she's the one, then I could wait like a year, but I have to be convinced.

00:04:26.360 Yeah.

00:04:26.900 Yeah, no, I don't care.

00:04:28.000 If she's the one one.

00:04:28.820 How do you know she's the one, though?

00:04:29.800 But then you have to know...

00:04:30.980 You have to be in her life for that whole time.

00:04:35.100 I understand her.

00:04:35.880 How old are you again?

00:04:37.080 I'm 29.

00:04:37.540 Okay, you're 29.

00:04:39.060 So how old women do you usually date? 0.99

00:04:41.360 Around my age.

00:04:42.320 So if she's not a virgin, will you wait for a year for her?

00:04:45.560 She's not a virgin, but I wait for a year.

00:04:47.500 If I was...

00:04:48.920 Yeah, I could do.

00:04:49.980 I could do.

00:04:50.640 It's not likely.

00:04:51.480 I could do.

00:04:52.180 Are you sleeping with other people at the time?

00:04:53.840 You're waiting?

00:04:54.120 I don't know what she's waiting for.

00:05:04.840 I'm saying I don't know what...

00:05:05.640 That's a good question.

00:05:06.580 Okay, okay.

00:05:07.240 So you got a year.

00:05:08.760 You went from two months to a year.

00:05:11.040 Yeah, but I'm saying it depends how much...

00:05:13.200 All right.

00:05:15.400 The average, the nice...

00:05:17.680 I don't know.

00:05:18.160 Your favorite girl that you've been on a date with.

00:05:20.460 Let's just take her. 1.00

00:05:21.260 You guys can think of.

00:05:22.300 Whoever your favorite ex is, whatever.

00:05:24.600 All right.

00:05:24.820 Would you have waited a year for her?

00:05:27.740 Yeah, I did.

00:05:28.600 Oh, you did.

00:05:29.260 Okay.

00:05:30.600 So you'll wait a year.

00:05:32.220 You'll wait...

00:05:32.620 Two months.

00:05:33.220 Two months.

00:05:33.880 You'll wait what?

00:05:35.400 When you say...

00:05:36.180 Now you're saying favorite girl.

00:05:39.120 He says you're looking for a wifey. 0.99

00:05:41.260 I'm just...

00:05:41.680 I was just trying to get her to visualize something.

00:05:43.380 I would wait.

00:05:44.020 But one of the...

00:05:44.720 If you're talking about favorites, it didn't last...

00:05:46.820 It didn't take long.

00:05:48.140 It was first time.

00:05:49.160 No, but how long would you wait for a girl you liked?

00:05:51.560 That's what I'm saying.

00:05:52.380 I just used that as, you know, giving...

00:05:55.100 I don't know.

00:05:55.620 I can't answer that question.

00:05:56.900 Please answer the question.

00:05:58.060 It's hard for me to...

00:05:59.020 You're here to answer my question.

00:06:00.360 No, 100%.

00:06:01.440 This is what you're here for.

00:06:02.480 How long would I wait?

00:06:03.600 Please just give me an answer, please.

00:06:04.860 It doesn't have to be sentence.

00:06:06.040 Oh, wait.

00:06:06.420 Two months.

00:06:06.720 Yeah, two months.

00:06:07.160 Okay.

00:06:07.640 Thank you.

00:06:08.000 Thank you so much.

00:06:08.880 So, you're like three weeks, roughly a month, a month.

00:06:12.580 Yeah, three weeks.

00:06:13.100 So, one month, two months, a year.

00:06:15.080 We got to...

00:06:15.820 A year, you know.

00:06:16.900 Okay.

00:06:17.180 So, step one.

00:06:18.640 Sleep with her as soon as possible and wait up to... 0.66

00:06:24.600 A year?

00:06:25.400 Up to one month to a year, depending on the guy.

00:06:33.300 Because what if you wait a year and you don't like it?

00:06:35.500 Mm-hmm.

00:06:36.440 Good point.

00:06:37.160 I wasn't only in that one, into that one.

00:06:40.080 So, you know what I'm saying?

00:06:41.160 Yeah.

00:06:43.520 Okay.

00:06:44.060 Well, okay.

00:06:44.700 So, don't wait.

00:06:45.380 Now, we're going back.

00:06:46.340 Don't wait.

00:06:47.180 I don't...

00:06:47.660 Just for him, though.

00:06:48.660 He's waiting.

00:06:49.240 Yeah, he's waiting.

00:06:49.600 Okay.

00:06:49.900 So, next step.

00:06:51.040 Okay.

00:06:51.420 So, when should you ask her to make you a coffee?

00:06:54.680 That's what we have.

00:06:56.280 I don't even drink coffee.

00:06:58.080 Okay.

00:06:58.500 So, what else?

00:06:59.240 How else do you vet for a good woman? 1.00

00:07:02.280 You know what?

00:07:04.560 To vet a good woman, yeah, I think you need... 1.00

00:07:06.640 It depends on the communication and the conversation that you have.

00:07:09.000 So, going coffee is...

00:07:10.980 I agree.

00:07:12.640 And the maddest thing is, the girl I'm seeing now, this is the first time I've ever gone coffee

00:07:16.260 and we had a mad conversation in Costa over coffee.

00:07:18.680 And I've never done that before.

00:07:20.440 Which is mad.

00:07:21.880 I'm telling you.

00:07:22.900 But once you have a good...

00:07:23.980 Through conversation and through certain things, a man would get an idea.

00:07:28.240 So, adding on to what Rome's the same with family values, traditional, maybe even Pharaoh, God.

00:07:34.340 Like, conversation with her, you will understand a lot more about her.

00:07:37.180 You know what I'm saying?

00:07:37.540 If she can...

00:07:38.080 Can she even conversate? 0.71

00:07:39.080 Can we have a proper conversation together?

00:07:40.860 You know what I'm saying?

00:07:42.380 Okay.

00:07:42.900 So, take on coffee date.

00:07:44.460 Sleep with her as soon as possible.

00:07:47.040 Coffee date after I finish waiting.

00:07:48.680 Oh, so that...

00:07:51.100 Okay.

00:07:52.080 You're getting on coffee date after you finish waiting.

00:07:54.440 That's a waste of time.

00:07:55.240 Nah, man.

00:07:55.700 You've got to go first.

00:07:56.640 What?

00:07:57.060 Okay.

00:07:58.720 Go on coffee date either before or after you sleep with her.

00:08:03.640 Can I just say really quickly?

00:08:07.200 I promise.

00:08:07.960 The reason why you could say that now is because you're in a position to be open, to be receptive

00:08:15.540 to her as well.

00:08:16.660 You know, some guys would be like, what?

00:08:18.300 You know, like, we're going clubbing or, you know, it depends on the man as well.

00:08:22.720 Yeah, 100%.

00:08:23.420 I'm not putting blame on the man, but it's a two-way street.

00:08:26.780 A lot of Purley's list man has.

00:08:28.100 So, I've probably gone through dating women. 1.00

00:08:30.440 Yeah.

00:08:30.840 Gone through this.

00:08:31.680 Gone through that.

00:08:32.560 Yeah, yeah.

00:08:32.680 So, now when I meet someone, I can analyse a good woman. 1.00

00:08:35.640 Do you get what I'm saying?

00:08:36.580 Yeah.

00:08:36.720 And it's through action.

00:08:37.900 I feel like, to your question of where's all the good women gone here, I feel like a lot

00:08:41.580 of good women don't have the values of back in the day. 1.00

00:08:44.900 So, women, I don't know back in the day because I wasn't born back in the day, but I think

00:08:48.040 a lot of women don't want to show wife credentials before they're a wife. 1.00

00:08:51.860 So, they will hold things back expecting you to put a ring on their finger because it's

00:08:57.380 like, oh, I can do this, but I'm not going to do these until I'm your wife.

00:09:00.500 But why's it?

00:09:01.540 Man, I'm thinking, bro, all right, if you're going to, cool.

00:09:04.180 There's other girl out here that's going to show me what a wife is. 1.00

00:09:07.140 But imagine acting like a wife and doing full throttle. 1.00

00:09:09.420 Like, cooking's different, but full throttle, acting like a wife for you to go and see someone 0.96

00:09:12.440 else or play around.

00:09:13.440 100%.

00:09:13.560 But if you don't do that, the man's gone.

00:09:15.780 So, do you want to show him that you're a wife?

00:09:18.980 Because a man coming into it is showing you're ready, I'm a husband. 0.99

00:09:21.460 If you want a promotion, don't you do the job that he gives you first?

00:09:24.940 All right, girl, I'm going.

00:09:25.820 Or do you say, promote me with no work experience?

00:09:28.540 Because you know what?

00:09:29.880 Okay, one second.

00:09:30.700 Okay, me and you are in a relationship, or we're building up a relationship, and then

00:09:34.520 we go out, and then, I don't know, a gal beat you up or something happens, right, right.

00:09:39.520 I'm here to protect you, but I just stand there and just watch you.

00:09:42.580 When we go home now, what are you going to say to me?

00:09:44.120 But no one would, I mean, if no one would do that, it would stop it.

00:09:48.560 Because there's man out here that's not going to protect you.

00:09:50.820 So, our job is to protect someone.

00:09:53.380 A stranger would jump involved and protect someone.

00:09:55.100 Okay, forget the semantics.

00:09:56.600 My job is to protect and provide for you.

00:09:58.400 If I don't protect you when I'm out with you, when you're rolling out with me, when we go home,

00:10:02.200 what are you saying to me?

00:10:05.020 As in a fighting situation?

00:10:06.400 That's not a good example.

00:10:07.480 Okay, whatever the situation where you need protecting, and I don't protect you in that situation,

00:10:12.860 what are you doing after that situation?

00:10:14.460 I can't answer that question, because I don't know what you mean by protecting.

00:10:16.860 You're deciding that he's not the one.

00:10:19.680 That doesn't make sense.

00:10:20.220 It's happened to me before.

00:10:21.600 There was like an accident in Costa Rica.

00:10:23.660 There was like a canoeing thing, a kayak thing, and he didn't show up.

00:10:27.820 And I really questioned my future with this guy.

00:10:30.580 For me, it was done.

00:10:31.680 Done?

00:10:32.160 Of course.

00:10:32.540 Of course it's done.

00:10:33.640 That's different.

00:10:34.420 He didn't show up.

00:10:35.080 I was polite about it.

00:10:36.140 But if you don't show your wife credentials to the man, what do you think he's going to do?

00:10:40.240 The thing is, there's an extent, there's a limit.

00:10:42.280 You can't do everything, because you don't know if that man's serious yet.

00:10:45.180 You don't know what's going on.

00:10:46.140 So you can't do everything.

00:10:47.400 And I'm not, you don't out here proofing that.

00:10:48.520 He's serious when he approached you.

00:10:50.080 Listen, he needs to prove to you that he's a...

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JustPearlyThings - May 17, 2023

Simp On The Panel EXPOSES Himself

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