JustPearlyThings - Single Mother Gets OFFENDED with Pearl for Disrespecting Women

00:00:00.000 i would say i would say if single mothers were responsible by and large then the most likely

00:00:06.640 person to abuse the kid wouldn't be the next man if it's not the mother it's actually the

00:00:12.000 mother is the most likely but second most likely is the the man you do hear a lot about guys who

00:00:17.040 are on dating apps they're they're meeting single moms and the single mom is and the

00:00:19.920 single mom is then like oh you know how do you feel about you know i've got a kid and like and

00:00:23.840 they're sort of angling for somebody to become the new baby daddy you know i mean again that's

00:00:28.320 not statistics but there's also men there's also men that they are still active i would say there's

00:00:34.080 also men that actually prey on single mom yeah yeah because i think if we're being general i don't

00:00:40.400 think a lot of men are out here looking for single mothers i don't absolutely you're not looking for

00:00:45.520 no i'm not like um i mean i'm 33 years old and i've never i've never had any conversation with anyone

00:00:52.240 any guy and they're going oh you know what let's get out single single mother no you're not looking

00:00:56.960 for a single mom but there are there are some that pray ominous men out here that they they

00:01:02.720 prey on so what about the high value and actually desirable there's a lot of men out here that are

00:01:09.200 just trying to bum off which one yeah as well yeah that's a new phenomenon yeah the nowadays i think

00:01:14.560 men men they're like trying to women women wanted equality here you go here you go

00:01:20.880 they want a sugar mama yeah they want a sugar mama well yeah i think here as well i think

00:01:26.560 i think that's admirable i mean i think i think that's admirable i mean i'm absolutely in the market

00:01:30.320 for a sugar mama for a hundred percent i mean i mean i can always go to the gym i look good

00:01:37.200 you better start stripping exactly but i would agree with you i would agree with you i don't

00:01:41.120 think there's many guys who are out there actively looking for single mothers i think it's a bit more

00:01:44.720 like you know you meet the girl and then she turns out to be a single mother and you're like

00:01:48.000 yeah well okay maybe i could overlook that for me after you breed her and leave her exactly exactly

00:01:53.760 if there's a connection then yeah you're open to whatever can happen but yeah you're not actively

00:01:58.320 seeking a single mom yeah she just happens to be a single mom you're not actively seeking a single mom

00:02:02.800 but some men are i'm saying no no no no no i've heard stories that don't want to have her

00:02:11.440 i think what you're saying is the men are looking for single mothers because they feel

00:02:17.520 i'm not even saying it's an easy shag i'm saying when she was doing when she was saying about the

00:02:21.920 the the statistics and i was saying but in that there are some men that actually prey on single

00:02:27.680 women yeah because they want to be around their kids yeah oh that's a small percentage of that's

00:02:34.400 like a tiny percentage there's loads of pedos out there yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah but still a

00:02:38.640 tiny percentage i actually i actually i think that women actually prey on young men more than

00:02:45.760 men prey on young women i disagree

00:02:48.640 young men always chase me and i'm just like i don't know someone they chase me well i'm talking

00:02:58.000 about like um i i see it more commonly now where a woman gets in trouble for sleeping with a student

00:03:03.680 than vice versa you see them all the time in the news i think they're mentally ill because i don't know

00:03:08.720 why they would want to sleep with a child most of my friends growing up yeah that lost their virginity

00:03:13.280 as little kids or lost it to older women same with the the guys i know as well yeah would you go

00:03:19.440 younger kelly then i have dated younger but i wouldn't date someone underage or like not underage

00:03:26.000 if someone was juvenile to me god no what about 20 what about 23 24 definitely not actually i have

00:03:32.320 i have a question i have a question kind of pertaining to this who's more sexual men or women women women

00:03:39.840 different at different times women women when they're older men when they're younger okay we

00:03:44.960 have to go one at a time one at a time and then tell me why you think that so here i would say women

00:03:50.080 because i think we're very sensual we're very emotional and i think that when we're in the throes of

00:03:55.520 passion that we're kind of led by that sensuality oh yeah

00:04:02.480 go ahead i'm also saying women wow okay women why i think also emotionally we're just more attached to

00:04:08.800 that kind of stuff so okay i think men why right because men men can just have so many different

00:04:16.400 partners and have like so much sexually sexually yeah and i just think they could just go from one

00:04:22.560 to the other and just not even worry about that mental connection like yeah i would say men also

00:04:27.680 because i saw this um documentary where there was this woman that she was um like trans she wants to

00:04:33.120 trans into a man a male who laughs but anyways that's what she was doing and um she said like as

00:04:44.480 as a woman her sex drive was healthy and then when she started um taking taking her just like oh my

00:04:51.200 god my sex drive went through the roof i think hormonally um men are gonna feel more

00:04:57.120 more sorry pale say what was the question again who's more sexual men or women oh okay men i think

00:05:04.400 definitely men i think you're right because they could just bang it bang bang bang see okay this is

00:05:09.280 this is what's got me i could honestly i could honestly be convinced either way but i've started

00:05:16.480 to think it's women yeah and the reason i think it's women this is just my thoughts yeah

00:05:21.120 we talk about relationships 24 7. it's like when we're with our friends and wine what do

00:05:27.520 women talk about boys but not sex though that's like power struggles that's like oh my god he didn't

00:05:32.720 do this or he did this well yeah but i think we seek attention and men seek sex and that's what we

00:05:37.760 get like that doesn't make us more sexual though does it i would say yes i think more emotional

00:05:43.120 i would say because the ways we seek attention is sexual and wearing tight clothes taking off our clothes

00:05:48.800 like dressing very sexually i would say is how women seek sexual attention oh yeah i think if you go

00:05:55.440 into a gym um that the clothes that women wear today would have been banned like 20 years ago um in some

00:06:02.960 cities like vegas in america the women wear like stickers on their boobs you go to bikinis like when i was

00:06:09.680 growing up most people wore one pieces and then like the bikinis were kind of like out there now we're in

00:06:14.240 thongs yeah people used to get sent off the beach for bikinis didn't they yeah yeah do you know the

00:06:18.560 other thing as well i don't know if you guys have ever read the book uh my secret garden by nancy

00:06:22.800 friday but it was this book okay i think it's i think it came out in the 70s in the 80s but it's

00:06:26.800 this book of sexual fantasies that this psychologist collected women's sexual fantasies and i mean some

00:06:32.080 of the stuff in there is frankly crazy you know this is some of the stuff am i able to google it yeah yeah

00:06:37.760 my secret my secret garden by nancy friday it's really it's really eye-opening to read and the

00:06:41.760 other thing of course was the 50 shades of grey phenomenon you know best selling book ever you

00:06:45.920 know and it was this complete so i think that while i agree on the point about testosterone and yeah guys

00:06:51.680 like bang bang bang whatever but i think women once they get into it they're really into it they're

00:06:55.280 really into the whole fantasy side of it the sensuality side of it i think probably more than men

00:07:00.240 because let's be honest men want to just get their end away and then have a cigarette and you know go go

00:07:03.840 go to sleep whereas women they get much more bought into the whole you know the whole drama

00:07:08.080 of the whole thing a bit more depth in it with with women i think a bit more passionate

00:07:12.080 are you changing your answer now no no no i still say men i still say men you still say men okay what

00:07:19.040 do you think i don't know i was going to say both but i do think it is women because i feel like i do

00:07:24.160 think it's women because i feel like with us it's true we use our our looks we use like obviously in

00:07:29.360 terms of the way we look um when a guy approaches us and then all of that we could be come across

00:07:35.040 very seductive at times i think i think it's women who breathed like that into the mic

00:07:49.600 a man obviously i think i think it's just like well if i talk to guy friends and they're like oh yeah i

00:07:55.520 i met this girl and you know yeah she came back to mine and yeah we banged or whatever it's very

00:07:59.680 sort of perfunctory and it's like right yeah we did that with women and then when i deal with women

00:08:04.240 it's very sort of like they go into this hole and then he took me against the wall

00:08:10.080 it's just even when i did when i when i've dealt with women that i maybe i've dated and stuff like

00:08:13.680 that like that there's just so much more to it this whole like sexual like fantasy and this kind of

00:08:18.640 the imagination and everything and he didn't just say good night babe he sent me a smiley emoji with

00:08:23.600 hot eyes it's gotta be a woman it's gotta be the aubergine doesn't it the aubergine oh yeah oh yeah

00:08:31.760 because shops like i still think it's men because i feel like everything we've just described is

00:08:37.760 like a woman uses sex to get the emotional connection to get the spiritual connection when

00:08:43.040 we are in our bag we're so central because we're trying to get to that place and i kind of rate men for

00:08:48.160 being able to be like this is sex i'm gonna do it here it is love it all right cool move on whereas

00:08:53.440 women it's always like i'm doing this for this and that and this and then it's not like about the

00:08:57.440 sex yeah but no just out of interest do you genuinely think that or do you not think that

00:09:01.040 the women are actually getting off on that as well i think women are sexier than men right but i think

00:09:06.400 men are more sexual than women like if it was like a man's gonna give me like the spiritual and

00:09:11.760 emotional connection i thought i would get if i was having badass sex with him then i would probably just do

00:09:16.960 have that conversation what is what is the spiritual and emotional connection that's when you're like

00:09:20.880 looking at him and it's like this is it we are so connected we are like you know you just look at a

00:09:28.960 guy and you're like so it's like it's like bring adding more meaning to everything because you're having

00:09:34.560 this great time and it's like yeah so if you were to tell a guy he says i want to make a spiritual and

00:09:40.640 emotional connection how would you do that um if he just like wanted to see he sat me down and he

00:09:46.000 was like i'm just like so into you i think you're great and i think we're gonna have this amazing

00:09:51.120 life together and he just again the fantasy thing he he leaned into all the fantasies of this wonderful

00:09:55.600 life i want to live then i'd probably like just like do women okay i'm not saying i don't need

00:10:03.440 questions every question do women typically like the men that like them or that don't like them

00:10:08.960 um typically don't i would say okay so aren't you giving them the wrong advice then giving who what

00:10:14.480 the guy is when i asked you how to give you a spiritual and emotional connection for me oh for

00:10:20.080 you for me i don't i don't know about anyone else but for for me there's going to be a lot of boxes he

00:10:25.520 needs to tick in the first place and then there's going to be the life and the fantasy and and the

00:10:30.240 experience i want i think i think like with a lot of women's advice it's probably you would want

00:10:35.440 that but you would want that from a dude that you're already attracted to oh hell yeah yeah

00:10:39.840 don't like chat me up on tinder and be like i'm gonna get into your mind yeah yeah yeah

00:10:46.000 so if he's like chris hemsworth or whoever right and or whoever you like and he's coming out with

00:10:50.400 his chestnut and he's coming out with this stuff then you're going to be into that but

00:10:54.080 my chestnut in gardouche he doesn't shake my head i like how you went for thaw mine went for thaw

00:10:59.200 but that's the problem that's that's the problem with female that's the problem with female dating

00:11:02.560 advice though sometimes when it's aimed at guys because women will say well we want a guy who's

00:11:06.720 this we want a guy who's honorable who's noble who does these things he's chivalrous blah blah blah and

00:11:10.960 guys think right i've just got to do those things but actually it's about so much more than that because

00:11:14.800 women want it from the guy they're already attracted to and i still have sex sorry and i

00:11:19.680 still want to have sex yeah yeah well we want men that are good in bed yeah yeah and know how to like

00:11:24.880 treat as well oh but would i use it as much if i felt like i could connect with you on a different

00:11:30.560 basis i don't think men are capable of connecting the same way women can so i don't know if i would

00:11:34.800 well i feel like i'm more basic than that i actually think i feel like i actually think i think men

00:11:41.120 connect better than women facts yeah they're more straight way i think i think men are women are

00:11:47.760 a lot more heartless where men actually have hearts absolutely i actually i think you're right because

00:11:54.480 i think men get upset because you can break their heart and sometimes i think men can take things like

00:12:01.200 really to their heart after they've broken yours yeah but women can just forget about it but

00:12:06.560 have you ever like let someone down and they're absolutely heartbroken and they really take it in

00:12:11.440 don't they when they're heartbroken what do they do when they take it in what's the characteristics of

00:12:17.200 a man that's taking something to heart yeah so tell me did you know when you've just like you know

00:12:22.720 you're not bothered with them and that you've taken you out on a date and you just think oh no i can't

00:12:26.960 be bothered with him he's not my sort of type of guy and he's absolutely wounded because they take

00:12:32.480 it to heart you can tell you're speaking from personal experience here and say some poor bloke

00:12:36.560 who's watching this now going no the date was perfect i'll tell you why i think i think women

00:12:47.040 are more heartless because the amount of women that i've met that left their the father of their

00:12:52.080 children because they outgrew them is just like ridiculous i've met so many women that have

00:12:58.240 that have left the father of their kids broken up their entire family because they outgrew their

00:13:02.560 husbands yes but ultimately i feel like the fact that they outgrew them they the man was probably

00:13:08.800 more heartless than them in the relationship where they thought that they had i think i know i think i

00:13:13.760 think when women want to do something they make up any excuse they can to do it yeah and i think and

00:13:19.360 i think typically the women are not innocent they're a lot of times they play innocent but having outgrown

00:13:25.520 somebody i feel like things like i mean the fact that there's the term outgrow is that they're still

00:13:32.160 quite juvenile in some aspects but and in that in and in that i feel like men can just be really callous

00:13:38.080 sometimes and just really not kind of like elevated on their levels of like caring and just can i have an

00:13:44.320 example um so i feel like women are more obviously women are more emotional and women are more kind of like

00:13:54.640 um mature yeah mature no i disagree i just i'm just i'm just gonna say emotionally mature i disagree i

00:14:01.760 think women are more emotionally immature you think so i think we have all this propaganda we are

00:14:06.560 nervous they're more like sensitive i'm not gonna say women i think women stop aging like mentally when

00:14:12.480 they when they hit their like um attention peak so if women like become pretty at 16 i think they they just

00:14:18.880 stay 16 forever i think most women mentally are in high school i just i mean you know potato patah

00:14:27.040 but you know i feel like yeah in that aspect for the point i'm trying to make it's like if you're with

00:14:32.880 a guy and he's emotionally immature so he might do things that are very juvenile like you'd be like oh

00:14:38.080 i'm looking after the kids like i'm going out with the boys and you're like but what about the kids like

00:14:41.600 oh you know you saw it out and when i get back oh you know them ones when you're like oh i'm going out on

00:14:45.760 friday he's like i'm going out on friday and then you're like oh who's gonna look at the kids you

00:14:49.360 get a babysitter okay wait wait wait so the the big issue is that he wants to go out with the boys

00:14:56.320 you ask for an example i'm giving an example because that's i find that with a lot of relationships

00:14:59.680 women will say to me like the man will expect me to get a babysitter it's like the kids are my job

00:15:06.000 it's on me as opposed to it's an equal thing like oh we both booked the same day how are we going to

00:15:11.600 sort this out okay because because you're the mom it should be no no no that's you both had those

00:15:17.760 kids together and actually i did more i carried them for nine months i breastfed them they came out

00:15:26.160 of my jj but the men typically pay more so even in 50 50 relationships they still pay more typically

00:15:32.720 i've been a breadwinner in many relationships so that's alleged yeah but i'm not i'm not talking

00:15:37.120 about you but i'm saying i disagree but i can only speak of myself right but we're talking about

00:15:43.040 like if you are in a single mother home you're at every statistical disadvantage ever right no you

00:15:49.360 are you're more like i could be a millionaire but i just ain't gonna i i just have my kids by myself no

00:15:54.000 no i mean well it doesn't even matter like money doesn't replace a father i think we've seen that

00:15:58.560 with kim kardashian when you see the clips of the kids now and they're kind of going crazy but you're

00:16:03.600 attributing it to the fact oh the guy must have done something wrong and it's blah blah blah but

00:16:07.760 that's what people that's what women will often say when these conversations come up but is it that

00:16:11.840 or is it the woman's just got a bit bored she's like oh we're a few years in yeah i'm just playing

00:16:16.320 devil's advocate i'm just saying the sex has got a bit boring you know the grass is maybe greener on

00:16:20.960 the other side the personal trainer for a bloody you know virgin active or whatever is pretty hard

00:16:25.760 yeah you know the grass is the grass is greener right and that seems to me to be what happens more

00:16:30.960 often than not i think social media kills relationships yeah yeah yeah years ago i think

00:16:38.560 when there's no social media there was no phones and people were still cheating in the slide

00:16:45.360 are you just gonna find out until their funeral when their 10 kids came out the high profile doctors

00:16:50.640 and everything that you speak of you found out at their funeral keeping it on the low

00:16:54.320 yeah but i think i think it's allowed women to just be like openly look for new men when you when

00:17:04.640 you look at instagram profiles today that's what it is that's why that's why i was sort of saying

00:17:10.000 when i was saying before about being married and like not being on social media i mean i'm not some

00:17:14.240 like red pill like you know something the table women shouldn't be on instagram i'm not really like

00:17:18.080 that but i do see the point because it's like basically you're putting out sexy pictures of

00:17:21.840 yourself on instagram even if you're not but even if you're not intentionally doing that what's that

00:17:26.560 going to do it's going to attract the attention of other dudes they could be sliding into the dms

00:17:30.560 you know things in your main relationship things your marriage getting a little bit dry a little

00:17:33.840 bit stale and then and then the temptation is there it's a bit like well yeah you kind of see where you

00:17:39.120 share in the sexual market i would never date a man on instagram yeah but the thing is if you're loyal

00:17:43.840 then it doesn't matter how many dms that you'll get yeah but yeah it kind of tells you like oh wow

00:17:48.880 like michael b jordan is into me you get like an idea of like oh i'm still i still got it

00:18:05.520 if anyone's slipping into your dms if you love your man you love your man you will not cheat but if

00:18:11.520 you're if you're loyal if you're loyal but how does that before the guy goes into the marriage or even

00:18:16.000 before the woman goes into the match how do you know that they're going to be loyal and how do you

00:18:18.560 know they're going to be loyal over the long term you just have women you gotta have faith

00:18:26.400 but women but women by and large are not loyal women i mean even when women win the lottery they

00:18:32.320 leave their husbands they tend to when men win the lottery they tend to stay i don't know who these

00:18:36.720 people that you're talking about it's not just the lottery it's also when women get promoted at work

00:18:45.520 they're more likely to divorce where men are more likely to stay when women get leverage um in the

00:18:52.800 relationship they tend to leave men when they get leverage they tend to stay okay because probably the

00:18:57.680 woman leveraged that man up to that position and the woman happens to be with that guy at that position and

00:19:04.880 then she leveraged up herself but didn't but what didn't he leverage her probably not

00:19:12.560 i want to show like this is gynocentric thinking so there's gynocentric propaganda like gynocentrism

00:19:17.600 basically is women are amazing and special and more awesome than we are whenever a man accomplishes

00:19:22.240 something we always attribute it to women but whenever a woman accomplishes something we never attribute

00:19:26.480 it to the man she's with but did you not say that women are less likely to succeed in their

00:19:32.000 their own companies so obviously so then they're not being supported by men no no i would say women

00:19:39.280 only succeed when they are supported by men typically so like kim kardashian didn't become a billionaire

00:19:44.320 until she was with kanye it's like a trend that i see where it's like when women come successful

00:19:49.680 typically they have a strong man behind them so this is why they're leaving them because women

00:19:54.400 typically are supporting men and the men are typically not supporting women so that's why

00:19:58.400 no no they're leaving them no no yeah i would i would say the men are supporting the women and a lot of

00:20:05.280 times the men support the women and get them to a certain point and then the women leave because women

00:20:09.600 are hypergamous you know we always want the guy to be above them so you hit that you hit that level

00:20:14.160 what's that word hypergamous hypergamous you took me nowhere today thank you there you go so it's

00:20:20.080 can you spell that hypergamous so hypergamous yeah thank you i'll give you another example of a trend

00:20:25.760 that i see because the biggest thing is i kind of just look for patterns in like society and relationships

00:20:30.640 and just like trends that i see one of them is women politicians they always seem to get um like they

00:20:37.360 get elected into an office and then they they screw someone at work there's there's a girl in the us

00:20:45.520 that this just happened with lauren bobert something bobert she had four kids she literally gets elected

00:20:52.160 one baby daddy no yeah one one one husband baby daddy but then she divorces her husband and then like

00:20:59.920 six months later she's in the movie theater with some guy like what super viral did you see that you

00:21:05.200 know what i'm talking about yeah yeah yeah well liz trust got voted into office in the uk she screwed

00:21:09.120 the whole country well political yeah do you like do you like it because she she took the economy and

00:21:17.920 then she got chucked out well and that's why that's another trend i see like where i say women are bad

00:21:24.320 at business and typically leadership roles all of the shortest um terms of like prime ministers and

00:21:30.400 presidents are all like typically women she was she was the shortest she said like two days

00:21:38.160 because men have had more opportunities no that's what that's what they say women have more opportunity

00:21:44.400 than men in 2023 and we just still kind of suck with it it's only 2023 that you're gauging off of

00:21:50.000 isn't it so maybe we've had another decade then you can give a more no that's what they say it's been

00:21:55.600 like 50 years it's no it's been like 50 years of this yeah so we've had 50 years of like women's

00:22:00.720 empowerment and that's super sure but that's very sure it's a patriarchy at the end of the day let's

00:22:05.280 have this conversation again when we're like well how come back with us in my friends what did you

00:22:10.640 everyone here is under 50 right well yeah right so i'm saying everybody's lifetime has had a ton of

00:22:19.200 women's empowerment so you know it's a little bit more you're saying that women's empowerment but i

00:22:28.400 was alive when there weren't any black people on the tv so i feel like the women's empowerment came

00:22:34.320 after the black people in what era even now when i was young in the music there was hardly any black

00:22:40.320 people in the uk yes yes black people everywhere on the tv like commercials the phone would ring because

00:22:47.840 they'd be like oh my god there's a black person on the tv and i feel like this kind of empowerment

00:22:51.280 of women and like that's come after the black people on the tv and it's going to take time

00:22:56.080 it's going to take time i don't like i don't like women's empowerment i think it's actually really

00:23:01.120 insulting to women i think it's very insulting because you're saying we need special treatment

00:23:06.560 and privileges to do things more opportunities we just need more representation treatment we just

00:23:12.480 need representation matters yeah it's very we know yeah we all have feelings we have emotions we all

00:23:18.160 have i i know of course we do you say no no no no we don't know the exact same thing as that female

00:23:24.320 politician but it's what i'm shaking my head is to you when you said we need representation i'm saying no

00:23:28.960 i don't think we do need representation i think we need qualified people that are smart and competent

00:23:34.480 and i think we keep putting women into positions we're not good at well maybe they're putting these

00:23:39.440 certain women position women the wrong women to these positions to make an example of them say this is

00:23:44.480 what happens when you put a woman in this position because again it's still a patriarchy and i ultimately

00:23:48.880 feel like no i i disagree you disagree no i don't have the opportunity to know so you don't think women

00:23:54.480 should be put in in play and in positions of power no but you don't think that it's a patriarchy i think

00:23:59.600 i think it's a matriarchy actually i think women typically live life on easy mode i think where

00:24:04.640 a woman's life is much easier than a man's life i think some women women no no so

00:24:12.800 i'll tell you you you you turn you turn 21 you have the option to monetize your beauty

00:24:18.080 that that's what you're ugly yeah um even an ugly woman gets more attention than the average

00:24:24.000 oh i disagree women and i'll give you an i'll give you an example women rate hold on we know we

00:24:28.960 get easier than guys though for real women if you're pretty we do get easier even the ugly ones

00:24:35.200 women rate 80 of guys is unattractive even if you're unattractive i'll give you an example lizzo has

00:24:40.720 built an entire brand off of being unattractive she's not unattractive she's just overweight

00:24:46.320 she's not ugly she's got beautiful face yeah i think some men like man piguel some men like all

00:24:52.640 that men men don't buy a large like fat chicks i'm saying like okay if you go back if you go back

00:24:59.680 50 years right and she's not ugly if she was no i don't think she's ugly exactly so i don't think she's a

00:25:08.160 good example i would say she's unattractive because she's severely overweight oh in your opinion i would say

00:25:14.480 jamaican man jamaican men love fat girl yeah i i think i think i think you know i've had i've

00:25:20.720 had king do african men love fat girl no you don't like lisa jamaica man love fat girl okay okay

00:25:28.560 good good point so what kind of jamaican men like um fat girls is it the ones that typically have a

00:25:33.360 lot of resources or the ones that are broke and don't have anything i'll be honest and say i don't

00:25:36.880 know the answer to that but i know for a fact i do that a lot of jamaican men love fat girl

00:25:42.960 i love guys feel that yeah they're like big hills if you look at if you look at all the

00:25:49.360 most successful men that have ever walked the earth how many of them have you seen walking

00:25:54.080 around with the fat woman but also maybe they like fat girls but because i'm gonna i'm gonna guess

00:25:58.720 i'm gonna guess something right now what about trisha i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna guess something

00:26:04.160 i'm gonna look up jamaica's richest man okay i'm gonna i'm gonna guess i'm gonna guess

00:26:15.360 and let's look at what the men with the most choice pick okay i have no idea rebecca i could

00:26:21.040 be i could be wrong that's his wife including his side michael michael leachin is one of them so i'm

00:26:27.600 gonna pick this guy let's see what his wife looks like michael leachin and it depends on your

00:26:32.160 definition of facts because what you may think no side chicks as well no no no guys that's like

00:26:37.200 we know but again you know some men like big women yeah yeah not a fat chick

00:26:43.120 not a fat chick i think when we have chinese there's a huge chinese i mean i can't help you

00:26:49.520 i can i think when we have conversations about um women um

00:26:54.080 actually forgot let's be real we have conversations about men liking big women we should also factor in

00:26:59.040 if we're making the argument then we should also argue that women like short men that they're going

00:27:02.880 for short men i'm leaving why are you why are you yeah some women do like so why are you having that

00:27:10.000 reaction to women tolerate short men but they don't necessarily like voluptuous exactly i have

00:27:15.280 friends that like short men but she's short so she doesn't like men that's not okay so that's like but

00:27:24.080 she's she's right though in the same way like women tolerate short men men tolerate fat women exactly

00:27:30.000 it's the exact same thing some men like fat women they don't know some women like short men but not

00:27:35.120 majority i'll tell you why that's not true because when you look at the men with the most choice

00:27:41.040 if you say if i say okay if i'm broke and i say i don't like gucci bags well you're broke of course you

00:27:47.600 don't freaking like gucci bags yeah but i also feel like so if you look at the men with the most

00:27:52.400 choice the most ability to choose i just looked up jamaica's richest guy i know you said he was half

00:27:57.520 chinese but he's still half jamaican too right he he has a thin wife but i also feel like i also feel

00:28:04.240 like there are people that when they get to a certain position like for example and i'm going to use it

00:28:09.040 again like a lot of black footballers when they got to a certain position they all dated white skinny

00:28:14.720 models yeah prior to them being footballers they weren't dating white skinny models but when they

00:28:20.000 got to a certain level white skinny model no but they felt like no but they felt like it was the

00:28:25.120 status quo so they felt like that's what they were expected to do i don't i don't even if that's the

00:28:32.480 case even if that's the case it supports this argument that's a narrative women tell themselves

00:28:36.320 because of what they see how the narrative i've been told by these footballers actually no they feel

00:28:41.920 like they're more accepted they're more accepted as a black man when they've got a skinny white

00:28:47.280 woman by their size i think when they become a rich black guy they can actually date certain white

00:28:52.320 girls so they give that a go no but also i feel like they feel more socially accepted i don't believe

00:28:57.600 that any guy dates somebody seriously for the social credit that they're going to get for that i think

00:29:03.120 that you say that for social reasons you say that as a white man troy i think they have a black man when

00:29:09.280 he's in certain environments to feel socially accepted he sometimes feels like he has to have

00:29:13.680 a skinny beautiful white woman in his arm instead of bringing a black woman on his arm

00:29:20.000 i'll actually say i agree with you he sometimes feels he needs a skinny woman not necessarily white

00:29:25.600 the problem is that there are too many black women that are just overweight so there are less

00:29:30.320 skinny black women to pick from that's the reality yeah you need to get me for the opening woman he makes a good

00:29:36.800 point because because what about a skinny black woman because i've dated various black women who

00:29:41.520 were who were quite slender and quite shaky that and that's great but i i would agree with the general

00:29:46.080 sort of concept here that the fatness is just not sexy for guys right whether they're black whether

00:29:51.520 they're white whether they're asian you know whatever some men like fat women though you cannot rule that out

00:29:55.760 but we're talking about the majority general right and some women like short men yeah but it's not the majority

00:30:01.440 but it doesn't matter we're just talking about it does it does it does matter it does matter and the

00:30:10.000 reason it matters is because if you keep lying to women about what men want they don't become what

00:30:14.960 men want and half of women are projected to die alone i'm not trying to be what a man wants i'm just

00:30:21.120 being me well height well you're born with that height isn't it but to to be a certain weight sometimes

00:30:27.760 like why do why takes a certain actually i have a question why do women lie to each other about

00:30:32.720 makes us feel better yeah like why i don't know why you keep lying when you know that men like thin

00:30:37.680 women like i know some men like thin women most men i just want to be the men you're around the men you're

00:30:44.240 around wait wait wait no i just want i just want to be real here you know that men prefer thin women

00:30:48.720 i've got a fat friend i've got a fat friend i've got a fat friend okay okay she's very beautiful yeah wait wait wait

00:30:54.080 wait wait wait you know that men prefer thinner women some men you do you know you know you know

00:30:58.880 my brother likes fat women you know you know my brother goes out with a very very large girl can i just

00:31:04.720 say something really really quick real real quick i believe that men prefer more of a woman in shape

00:31:12.000 but they're out of a small percentage like fat women right right right and that's it

00:31:15.760 but my question is why do we sell women dreams well no i'm not selling anyone

00:31:23.680 the fact i was like my friend she's a big girl yeah she's very beautiful beautiful girl and like she

00:31:29.360 goes on dating sites sometimes and she'll meet a guy and she'll be like oh you know when he sees me in

00:31:33.360 real life do you think he's not gonna like me because i'm fat and i said babe you look fat in your

00:31:37.040 pictures he knows you're fat so when he's meeting you he knows you're a fat girl so he must like fat

00:31:42.640 girls otherwise he's not going on a date wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait if i go on

00:31:47.920 and a man's five foot six why wouldn't you tell her what would help her which is that if you're

00:31:52.560 insecure about it you should lose weight she does go on a diet she does diet all the time but she's

00:31:57.040 just a bigger girl and she struggles i'm saying one thing would help her if her problem is that she

00:32:03.280 thinks men are gonna think that she's fat the truth is the truth is wait wait the truth is that they

00:32:09.840 will think she's fat some men and that the truth is they will think she's fat because even those

00:32:15.200 men are not blind and she should lose weight i feel like they can already see that she's fat i have

00:32:21.360 a lot of clients that come into my salon that are what's your what's your um i i have clinics um

00:32:27.840 around essex and i have clinics for what clinics std

00:32:34.640 how did you know

00:32:39.280 and some of my large ladies have more confidence than the smaller thinner ladies

00:32:45.280 you know their confidence is through the roof they don't want to lose weight they're happy in

00:32:49.600 this okay so that's not the point though it's not the point i don't care about confidence i care about

00:32:54.080 results and fat women have a harder time attracting men as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock

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JustPearlyThings - November 11, 2023

Single Mother Gets OFFENDED with Pearl for Disrespecting Women

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