Single Women Get ROASTED by Men Because of This
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In this episode, we talk about sex, sex education and sex education. We discuss the difference between men and women and how sex is different for each of us. We also discuss the lack of sexual education in schools and the sexual experience gap between men & women.
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sex in order for um sarah to get sex we need to have some type of value about us we need to be
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able to have something present i just walk out on the street baby i'm not like you man i mean i mean
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i wish i could be like i'm lying i'm lying so that includes having um finance being good looking
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being six foot being basically having um six foot two six six six deuce baby basically having all
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the things that women find attractive right in order for us to sleep with high quality women or
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any women in actual fact um in order for you three women here to sleep with with a man all you have
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to do is basically say i want to sleep with you and there'll be men that will want to sleep with you
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so in order for you to sleep with 100 100 men and and me to sleep with 100 women is completely
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different you can literally do this and this is why a lot of the times women think that men are
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having so much sex because they equate it to what they can get but that's not the truth of the matter
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the truth of the matter is i'm have to take a girl out i'm gonna have to three dates i'm have to do
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all these types of things in order to have sex but all you have to do is say i want to have sex
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and a man will have sex enough well i think can i just say right like there's two women here right
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yeah that are in i'm gonna use this as an analogy there's two women here and you got hoodies on
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right women can walk out on the street you women can walk out the street and just hoodies
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and even your bonnet right and you can still and you can still garner attention from men you still men
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will still be like yo no it's actually shocking it's actually shocking right but the thing is
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men don't get that they don't get afforded that if a man walks out looking quote-unquote bummy
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no one don't give a damn do you get what i'm saying but women can women can be mothers of five
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children and go on the school run right in their in their pajamas and men will still holler yeah
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she got a fat ass men do not get afforded that same thing one in three men are either virgins or
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having had sex in the past year yeah so it's not the most men aren't really getting laid like that i
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think it goes back to what we were saying earlier about what we see until we get told these things
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that you know body count i think when more people accept that men and women are built differently we are
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just we are completely we're built differently genetically the way you guys just get up and kind of put it in
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anywhere we know as women sorry you know what i'm saying no wait you know what i'm saying it's easy to
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just do to do that as a woman if you're doing that like that you kind of have to look at you sideways
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because it's a different experience for us though we experience it's different and i think for ages
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i used to get all funny about the body count thing because i think oh yes nasty but not saying that i
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want to be with somebody that has had a million bodies would you mean it's not nasty under what the
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man said no yeah that's what i'm saying i used to be like oh man's got too many bodies yeah but now i know
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how men i have three brothers yeah so the way men operate is different as a woman when you're
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accepting of that you see things differently but you know i say to you women don't want a man without
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sexual experience that's the only thing would you want a virgin exactly i'm saying so the fact i would
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so the fact that right but the thing is that's the difference between men and women yeah that's it
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yeah men want a woman who has a lower body count and would prefer to teach her yeah right what sex is
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women want a man to come to them and know her body right and a man and a man and a man can't
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know your body unless he's had sexual experience see when you come with that got got 3000 we're like
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we're enjoying it but we're like where did you learn that from at the end of the days you're supposed
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to learn no but this is the thing no no because we're enjoying it we're like damn but we're like
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damn where did she learn how many guys and then your brain starts doing the whole thing so for us men we
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don't prioritize sexual experience as anything in actual fact the less sexual experience you have
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the better for us we don't look at we don't look at you as sex as being something as a selling point
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for women they think they is but we don't for men you actually look at is that i want a man that knows
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what what to do but for us we don't actually want that so a lot of the times when we're trying to
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speech we're trying to say that whoever's told you this it's a fallacy it's a lie like men don't do
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not prize sexual experience when we're looking for women we look at femininity we look at loyalty we look at
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low body count some of these other things um obviously like um family family oriented but not
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once have we ever said you know what i want to know know what i had head techniques like but there's
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a flip side to me go on let me hear it we know that there's a there's a reason why men go to strip
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clubs yeah right there's a reason why men indulge in corn right to such interesting to this degree
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it's because they fantasize about these women that can do all of these things right we do we fantasize
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about this woman that can do all of these things but then when we go into our relationship
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we don't want a woman like that because that's going to be our wife but there's that there's that
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okay if a woman can show you sexual experience and she can show you all of these things we get
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turned on it turned on by it so there is literally there's a there's a bit of a dichotomy
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there with men and and i think i think a lot of women struggle to understand that so we understand it
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as men no i fully like like i fully hear what you're saying and you're right and i've heard
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women say oh but why do you guys like these like all these girls pictures on instagram yeah yeah
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you're looking at you're looking at one night versus a lifetime exactly so if you want to be the
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girl for what there's so many girls like the girl for one night you know like they don't get the ring
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they don't get the life they don't get none of these things they just get the one night they get
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the they get the champagne bottles they get the sparklers they get their back blown out and that's it
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they might even get a bag from one of these guys they don't get anything other than that and at
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some point even those girls want something more you know i'm trying to say to you so i think a lot
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of the times you're just looking at things from a different from a different angle and that's why
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i agree with you a lot but men we just want these things for now not for a lifetime and you what
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would you rather be a girl for now or go for the lifetime so i've always said to women like do you
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think that you can differentiate attention from men like do you understand when a guy is looking at you
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and it's giving you attention because he wants to you basically or can you differentiate it when
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a guy wants to actually make you his long-term partner that i think a lot of women i think a lot
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but i think a lot of women struggle with that like they struggle with differentiating between that type
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of attention especially depending on the setting and stuff as well yeah and yeah i know that i agree
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and so what happens is because it is a tension and women like attention they think a lot of the guys
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that are trying to pursue them which is why a lot of women think oh i can bag this type of guy because
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blah blah blah no he will show you attention because he wants to you but he's not showing
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you the attention because he wants to be of you long term and so a lot of women have had attention from
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guys who are of that top percentage and they think oh i can bag me that guy it's like no but he will
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you and that is a hard pill to swallow for a lot of women they don't get that they're the woman that
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guys just want to and they don't want to have a long-term relationship with do you know what
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i mean like there's a lot of women there's someone for everyone what i said there's someone for
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everyone how how how how when women make up 55 of the population yeah there's more of us than there
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yeah but yeah i genuinely think someone's got to be the hookers
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someone's got to do it by sheer numbers the world's oldest profession someone's got to do it
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i would never want someone i love to do it but but someone will and someone's gotta but what you say
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there is by sheer numbers someone's gonna have to share a man yeah because just if you paired
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everybody up one one with each other there's gonna be how many millions of women on the sideline like
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yo what about me question for the ladies you you have a guy six feet six figures six inches would
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you share him they want more than six inches yeah i'd share him you'd share yeah i'd share him with how
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many just one other like what if it was like oh two as long as i'm honest like living in the mansion
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yeah you know got the kids driving the bentley you're like see no evil here no yeah i don't
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most people are actually doing that now anyways it's not it's nothing new yeah so then that goes
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back to the traditional relationship are they dead so you're saying as a woman you'd be you'd be like
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okay okay i can share it man that's not a traditional relationship no but i would argue that probably yeah
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way back back yeah i would argue yeah i would argue like sorry that's it is a little bit even if
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they didn't like what pearl used to say like they had you know they had a whole families across the
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road like they didn't back in the day so they just wasn't so i mean only only 40 of um men have
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reproduced historically or it's either 40 or 60 i can't remember off the top of my head but there's a
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good portion of men that have not reproduced there's a reason why i'm asking this because essentially i think
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traditional relationships are polygynous and polygamy i actually think those are traditional
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relationships that human beings have engaged in since i think i think for a small percentage
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yeah i don't think like by and large pull it like that makes sense for societies but i think it does
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make sense for the small percentage i think i think the western world came in if you there's a book
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called um out of eden by a guy called um uh robert barash and he he and in that he shows that the majority of
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humans whether you go to asia middle east africa prior to the coming of like the western type of
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relationship they were living in some kind of polygamous or polygynous type relationship and so
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if this new um if this new type of one man and one woman even though if you look at it biblically there
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were certain people in the bible that had more than one do you know what i mean if it's new
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is it correct but sarah like how many how many people share baby fathers now that's what i'm
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trying to say like and they will actively know let's see me personally if a girl's got a girl's
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got a kid i don't touch her like that's just me personally i don't i don't date women with kids
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i'm not going to be the step i just know i just don't do that that's something i won't do um so
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what do you mean for long term you mean oh well at this stage i know you had sex with a woman who's
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got children bro no no no see see let's be honest no no so that's not dating like what what like if
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you want to get your back you said you wouldn't touch her that's why i was that you know i'm saying
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i'm like no no okay okay okay let me um let me reiterate right and still now i wouldn't touch now i
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wouldn't touch her because i have like i just i don't once once i hear a kid i leave that for the
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guys with the kids and you know i mean i'm sick i don't have any kids so why am i going to entertain
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a woman right okay and that's and that's my thing and and and that's my thing but if a woman had a
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child there's no way i'll be saying by another man that you know i'm going to give you another child
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but women will happily have a baby with a guy that they know has got a baby mother two of a baby
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mothers and a guy that left his woman already like or left her like like there's difference
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between a lot of a lot of times man just have babies with girls and they just keep it moving
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because it's in that top 20 yeah but then you will still go and do that so women always share baby
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fathers and that because one guy will have one but that's why women are always fighting with other
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women over the man yeah so that polygamy thing they do it whether or not they they do it like
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consciously they accept it when they say you know what you've got a kid i'm going to chat to you the
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moment a man says to you he's got a kid you're supposed to tell him to move on i don't deal with you but you
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women will still chat to him the moment you still chat to him is the moment you agree with it
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me personally you got a kid now that that's never going to happen because i know i'm not going to be
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a step there that's so you're saying people with children should do people with children
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people without children to do people without children yeah like see blending the family that's
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all good like if you got if i got a kid you got a kid we get together you know i mean brady bunch
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whatever you want to call it but personally if i come out single i hate being out in an in in
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single environments and meeting people with kids because i'm like where's you like why are you
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listen i don't i don't disagree i i think you know i i think everyone should set their own standard
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yeah do you know what i mean like if you don't want to do like if women don't want to deal with
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me because i've got a child so they're going to want to no but here's the thing they're going to
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want to deal with you that's the and and this is the real thing in real life right a lot of the
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times i don't know your situation i don't know if they they're full-time with you um but a lot of the
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times is is my co-parent okay there's no benefits for us being a stepfather i said this in the last show so
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if i come into your home and you have a daughter or you have a son and you know i want to move in
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with you if it was going to be me and you we could have maybe just bought a one bedroom good to go but
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now i need to automatically buy a two bedroom that's without us having a child right if we want to have
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my own child we need to have a three bedroom so automatically now there's a cost incurred women
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always say that you know what um it's not going to be your responsibility none of that but you know if we
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live if the child's in my house now it's under my provision so you know if i if i took out my let's say
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we both have kids now and i use the example before i take my kid out to thought park you know and you
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got your kid there if i buy my kid you know mcdonald's in there if i buy my if i go and win my kid
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things and then your kid wants something i said actually no go and get your father to buy it you're
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gonna have a problem with that but that's what i mean automatically that child's gonna become a cost
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if he goes to school and if i decide that i want to send my kid to private school because i have the
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funds for it but i tell your kid not to send tell his father to do it women gonna have a problem with it
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if i decide i want to buy my kids jordans but i want to buy your kids some actually i don't want to
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tell you and this is the thing the thing is i've been for it what you're talking about i've actually
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lived it if you have a daughter and then you know the daughter grows up in the future and she's and she
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makes an allegation against me are you going to believe me as the as the guy that's been in the life
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for 10 15 years or are you going to automatically think that's a these are the things can i discipline
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your child the way i want to if we break up am i still going to have access to all of these things are just
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too many variables for a man that hasn't got kids to deal with when i can just meet a woman and we're not going to
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have any of these issues so i think a lot of the times when women are are single yes and they're
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single mothers they love their children i understand that they just don't understand how much i'm talking
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about a new contract would would you guys be um open to dating a guy with kids um ladies um for me
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personally i'm not at this stage how do you oh i'm 29 um yeah i'm 29 um but it's you have children no
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i don't have any children but it's more about what if i wouldn't if i was to get into that
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situation it is knowing that i would eventually become a stepmom so i want to know that i'd be
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able to like you said provide it children are expensive like i have niece and nephews i took
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them out a couple days ago it's a lot it's a lot so i but i'm not i just yeah i'm not at this point in
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time i wouldn't get into it because i feel like i'd then become part of the unit you know what's so
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funny every woman breaks their rules for the work for the right guy yeah i'll take that i'll take that
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there's no woman on this planet that can make me become a stepdad bro no i'm not saying men no i'm
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just saying when i hear that i'm like nah i don't give a damn because i've listen i know rihanna i don't
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want to talk about personal but every woman breaks their rules for the right guy what about you two
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um would you date a guy with kids yes or no or in general sure i'm not sure leaning more towards
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no at the minute no okay i don't see a problem with dating a man with kids because if he's treating
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me better than the man that hasn't got any kids i don't see the problem do you know the thing i've
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noticed is that when as a man if you can show a woman that you are actually a good father yeah
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it works in your favor so when as i said when women say oh no i wouldn't date a guy with kids
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you meet a guy and you can see oh my god he's such a great dad like you're going to start thinking
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what about our child he'll be like and that's how women start thinking they start thinking oh my god
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he'd treat our child great yeah no that's definitely a thing right that's what i'm trying to say yeah
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it's not it's not gonna be me could i could i read a statistic there's nothing that bad about it
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i just think like it's easier when you don't i i found that my parents relationship is easier
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because they've only dated each other and they've only had kids with each other and i just think it's
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easier when there's not exes around right whether it's on his end or her end right i i think it's
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easier now we're in 2022 it's it's it's wild you know the average age of first marriage is 31 so
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obviously people are going to have exes but i just think the less baggage that comes with and like
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that's you know i'm going to read a statistic right yeah go ahead um this was reported by the national
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um uh it was reported by sky news but it's from the national um statistics on the in the uk so the
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rate of marriages between men and women fell to a record low in 2019 according to figures from the
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office of national statistics there were 18.6 marriages per 1000 unmarried men geez and 17.2
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per 1000 unmarried women the lowest record since it began in 1862 a total of 213 122 heterosexual couples
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tied the knot in 2019 which is down 50 percent since its peak in 1972 and the lowest since 1888
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people ain't getting married now like people people don't even believe in marriage and when
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they're going back to what i said earlier on as marriage being a joke the people don't care about
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it yeah but why would my so before listen look before we had to fight we had to fight slay dragons
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man we had to go you know like we had to all it took was the you know she would just drop slay dragons
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no no no no where the dragons at no but essentially we had to duel me and you on on guard like right
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okay for the woman like we were going the dad was sending us on the quest like this is what
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traditionally what men would go and do just for the smell of a woman and the virgin woman right
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now men don't have to do that men just need a nice car if that a rental and tinder yeah tinder
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men just need a a good profile picture they've got and then essentially the abs the standard has
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been dropped so soon so women control the standard if they required marriage in order for us to have
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sex you think the standard really has dropped though of course it has i don't think so i think women
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have higher standards than ever no average men used to be able to get average women they can't anymore
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where it's it's for a small percentage of men sure standards have dropped but for every other man
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standards are definitely higher i think i think women's expectations are higher but the standards
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have dropped so the expectations of what they want standards for themselves yeah but they don't
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they don't settle 50 they're they're predicting that 50 of women will be single and childless between
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the ages of 25 and 45 no they don't settle after chad and tyrone because they get mad so they don't
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understand what the level is so that's so but it's because the expectation is so high if they actually
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was more realistic about it they'll get better results as long as you keep wanting the same as long as
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a hundred percent of women keep one of the 20 20 of guys you're going to still be getting the bad
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results because it's the expectation versus actually what your reality is right women have
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always wanted the 20 of guys always the difference is now they they have the option not to do it
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no but also the difference now is hypergamy is on steroids right now yeah yeah but then you're
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going to get to the point of where where you're gonna you're going to do all this for your 20s
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and if you don't cash out if you don't select a guy you're going to get in your 30s and then
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you're going to be competing with the women in the 22s that don't mind actually having a guy with
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a kid so now automatically you're in your 30s saying i don't want a guy with a kid then you've
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got a girl that's in 22. that says she doesn't mind i i agree with you but my point is that like i
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think standards are higher than ever before and that's why like that's why there's so many shows
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based off of this because you think in 1950 that the women there were saying six feet six figures six
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inches no they want to marry joe joe down the block okay he's got a secure job it's harder than
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ever for men to get sex the small percentage of men sure sure the the the good looking men over six
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foot with good jobs sure it's easy for them most men like life is hard for most men okay let's remove
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ourselves out of this for a second so we'll remove ourselves out because i'm thinking it from my
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perspective right but i would still say that that expectations are higher and maybe their standards
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are raised but what are you what are your reality what do you get in re in the real world your
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results and the results don't match the expectations or the standards that they place well i've always
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said that to him and i've said do your do your expectations match your results you said you want
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that guy that that that that x y z i'm like okay but do your results match that and a lot of the time
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they don't but they still want it and which is why so many women as they get older become are still
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single and become in my personal point of view bitter because they started making expectations for
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themselves and standards for themselves that they wouldn't that that were never realistic in the first
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place uh sorry i have a question would you ever get married oh in this current this current version of
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marriage no i i'm not gonna lie in this current the way it's so heavily skewed towards women i couldn't
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see myself what version of marriage could you see i just told you i got a whole contract no no i'm just
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saying like it would have to be like i'm because of the cut and that's what i'm saying it's because of
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the you would be with a woman long term though of course like 100 20 30 years 100 and you would love
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her right and you would be very devoted and committed to her right but you probably would
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have a hard time signing the contract right because the contract is my point the contract does not
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favor me and so i believe in love i believe in companionship i believe in men that the union
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between men and women i believe in all of that but that contract that you asked me to sign i'm like
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yeah that's the problem is what are guys like you supposed to do sure sure maybe maybe you had a good
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experience of marriage in your family but that's not everyone like some people watch their dad get
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taken to the cleaners some some men have like watched their dad commit suicide some some men
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thought that they their dad was a deadbeat just to find out he wasn't allowed in their life after 20
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years and so it's like what are what are those guys supposed to do sign the same contract they watched
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everyone else get wrecked by i was in a 10-year relationship and it doesn't mean he doesn't love
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the girl could have been classes of marriage but even after going through that and having the the isms and
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the schisms that happen after that when you've got a child with somebody etc etc i was like imagine if
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i was married but i'm having these problems without being married imagine if i was married i'm curious
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how long was it until the problem started coming i would say how many years i would say six years in
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six years and i would say about six years in would you would you say there was like a switch that was
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flipped or what did it did you see signs early on i would say that i could say looking back hindsight
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is 2020 i would like you missed that yeah you missed that oh you missed that didn't you but because
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there's a whole thing of when you're in a relationship you're just in one and people
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from the outside can see it which is very interesting about love people from the outside can say yeah i saw
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some things and you're like no i love them i'm cool everything's fine and that's what and the thing is that's
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essentially what people are supposed to do in relationships they're not supposed to allow
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people from the outside into there i don't believe in allowing outside people into your relationship
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i don't believe that because i believe that's one of the best ways for a relationship to break down
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so when you're in the relationship i get why people say oh we were just in it and it was happening
00:23:50.480
and i didn't listen to anybody else because i am i am a firm believer that if i'm with you and you're with
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me we should only listen to each other because we are the ones in the relationship no one else is in it
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it's just us so i'm curious though don't you think you would have seen it sooner had you
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listened to other people i would have seen it sooner if i had educated myself better
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that like i i can take full responsibility and say there were certain things that i did not know
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when i entered that relationship there are things that now i know after being out of the relationship
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and so for me it's it's growth as a human being it's like sometimes you you do you have to grow you
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have to go through certain situations to understand exactly what it is so i would say
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because the reason why i would say no because even my i'm a stubborn individual i know that about
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myself it's if somebody from the outside is telling me you can't do or you shouldn't do i'm like
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fuck you i'm gonna do it like i know that about myself so i have to learn i know that i have to
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learn the hard way that's just me as an individual but once i learn i'm like you're not going to fool
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me again i'm not going to go through that again because i'm also a learner so yeah um if somebody
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from the outside could have seen it would have been great if they told me i probably still want to
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listen because i'm a hard-headed individual this is one of the comments the reason it's six to seven
00:25:12.400
years is that's about how long women can quote unquote live a lie before they have to unburden
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themselves with the torture of the lie that they don't actually want the man they're with
00:25:21.760
probably that's what i said the thing is the things that i've learned as a man and being in a
00:25:26.160
relationship like that for me are they're priceless for me i'm just saying for me that they're absolutely
00:25:32.960
priceless would you do it again hell no like i wouldn't because i'm smarter now that's the thing i like
00:25:38.960
i'm smarter now so i've learned from the mistakes that i made and and i've always said
00:25:44.720
the only way a man becomes i say the only way one of the ways that men become men is going through
00:25:50.480
tough times it's going through things that we don't think we're going to go through and we think we're
00:25:56.000
invincible and then life says ha you here's a curveball right and i think that tough times produce
00:26:04.240
tough people i think easy times produce soft people so i would say that any man that's gone
00:26:11.680
through something tough in his life he's probably like a man that people would want to be around
00:26:19.440
and and he's speaking like that because he's gone through those things that's what i would say
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love you sarah oh shit i got some love i ain't got none um i'll take a second i'll read super chats
00:26:36.720
and then we'll roll yeah yeah um okay guys all the super chats as you already know we're trying to shoot
00:26:42.240
in 8k i told blessing he could order it when he finishes our second reaction area right blessing
00:26:48.320
he's building that right now so we're almost there um make sure you guys like the video um i believe
00:26:53.840
we're only at a thousand likes when we had 2500 people in here so we should at least be at 2k
00:26:59.520
like so make sure you guys like the video okay anthony cole shout out to the crew i have statistics
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there are 164 million males and 167 million females in the u.s alone if men historically dated down and
00:27:14.560
women date up who's settling for who the uk economist please ask your guests if divorce laws were abolished
00:27:20.640
do you think women would choose more average men to marry oh that's that's a good question a quick
00:27:28.320
quick do you guys yes or no you know i think they would i think they would choose more average if
00:27:34.720
they would you know there's an easy way out but yeah what do you think yeah yeah yeah i agree okay um
00:27:42.000
um jalen montgomery can someone tell me one way modern women make men's lives easier when simple
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direct communication turns to advanced linguistics why get married oz-o-matic tell the blue teletubby
00:27:56.480
to stop playing with her feet that ratchet af um beach has um they have some good points on some issues
00:28:02.880
but they really need to stop using they really need to stop using their google search law degrees the
00:28:08.400
ignorance is a lot on that first topic 90 free toe pie um the appeal on corn um is that they try
00:28:15.840
participate make tell by logic this is actually a great show these modern um fee fail guests are
00:28:21.440
showing exactly why trad relationships ships are dead um well done pearl i see what you did there 90 free
00:28:27.280
toe pay um that hafiz show was awful repeat the question because you don't have an answer
00:28:33.840
um john telly guy in the black tea needs a blue a blueberry flavor pill um beach has a 52 the bible
00:28:43.360
doesn't own marriage the concept outdates the bible people have been having ceremonies and unions way
00:28:48.320
before that ancient book 90 frito pie um what's the difference of modern women's standards from an
00:28:53.280
escort and prostitutes back then both want security and resources from high status um alexander roof and
00:28:59.440
shout out to coach uh gang um free agent lifestyle is the way to go i will only get married when i
00:29:05.200
move to thailand philippines or vietnam i would never get married in the u.s mike gardner i'm bothering you
00:29:11.920
to find out the dm um jonathan lake now she's got ps oh i read i read that one already um let me refresh
00:29:20.160
let me refresh it really quick no let me just to make sure there aren't anyone marriage causes divorce
00:29:25.840
the reason it's six to seven years is that how long that's how long it takes to buy a house and have
00:29:29.760
two kids after this the guy is a hundred percent getting divorced um anthony cole cat shout out oh i
00:29:35.760
read that one okay um so now we're going to close out the show no problem let's close out the show let's
00:29:41.600
get people's final thoughts on the show yeah any anything you want to speak yeah like traditional
00:29:52.320
relationships traditional marriages um to me i still believe in them it's what i was it's what i
00:29:57.520
what i was raised in what my siblings have it's what a lot of my friends have as well even the ones
00:30:04.080
that that aren't married they might have been long committed relationships just without the contract
00:30:08.400
like you said sarah um i think it's important for women to to if they want to understand their outcomes
00:30:16.720
if they want these outcomes that there's some certain things that need to go and do need to ask
00:30:20.000
himself i want a traditional man or am i a traditional woman or at least in the new
00:30:26.480
version of traditionalism you know i'm trying to say to you right okay um and i like for me this
00:30:31.120
is quite educational as well obviously learning from some of the things that you say and i understand
00:30:35.600
it like like i understand this whole contract without marriage thing but it's just also how i've
00:30:40.800
been grown up so it's kind of hard for me to conflict yeah like because if that was the case then bro
00:30:44.640
i could have had a kid already by now you know what i mean and i always just think to myself any girl that
00:30:49.280
i would have had a kid with before i just i just really have no interest in them like i just
00:30:53.600
actually you know what i mean like what if you married them it's crazy they'd have half
00:31:00.720
yeah but i would have see i would have gone through that process to marry them i would have thought
00:31:05.280
about there's a there's a process before actually getting married this is oh you know but see just
00:31:09.520
buying the ring pro you know putting that money down going to hat and garden like like you said go and
00:31:14.320
that's where i would go hat and garden and putting that money down it's a whole process like there's a you
00:31:18.240
know arranging it doing i'm african so we would do the traditional and the white reading so there's
00:31:22.800
a whole process to go if i didn't want to do this i would know about it so imagine doing that and it
00:31:27.840
and it up i know i know but that will be the l i'll take like that that's that's just my l
00:31:37.680
i saw you down there bro bro no no no no not broke it's it was it was a it was a thing that
00:31:43.920
happy you can you can lose money right who cares about money yeah but you can make it you can make
00:31:49.760
it back yeah you can just make it back but you can know it's only money but no it's only money
00:31:54.560
that you ain't taking my money no no so you see the way we're talking about it's like i want to get
00:31:59.360
ripped i don't want to get ripped bro like that's not something that i want to do but i also believe
00:32:03.600
there's a certain type of woman just like this certain type of man that's going to look at marriage
00:32:06.800
and say i want that she doesn't want to be outside here like in her 60s trying to still trying to find
00:32:11.680
man like that's not what she wants to be doing like because there's many people's aunties that are
00:32:15.840
still outside now with no man you know and they're acting like they're happy listen no one's happy at 60
00:32:20.720
trying to look for man like you're supposed to have kids and grandkids and people around you if you're
00:32:24.880
still out no one's checking for no badass 60 year old man trust me like no man's checking for it
00:32:29.200
some of them young boy though you know but they're just blowing your back out they're not yeah and
00:32:32.960
then you're going to be financing them you're going to end up going to the dom dom dominica republic
00:32:37.360
and getting young man and that wow okay final thoughts final thoughts well when it comes to um
00:32:42.800
traditional marriage i don't really as i said because i'm not really at that place i don't really
00:32:49.760
know if i believe believe in it because i'm not really thinking about it that much
00:32:54.000
so there's not much that i can say more on that topic if i'm honest but if it was to come to um
00:33:00.640
someone asking me if i believe that in a relationship man or woman should go 50 50 i could
00:33:05.680
you know speak more in depth on that should they should they go 50 50 well i believe personally if
00:33:14.080
a man is trying to get to know you he has to wow you at first like you want to win the prize i'm the prize
00:33:21.760
you think so once you've what yes why are you the prize because if if the guy wants me he's got to
00:33:27.600
show me that he don't want him no no no but i'm saying he has to show you interest yeah i know but
00:33:32.480
you don't you want him though yeah yeah so why are you the prize because he wants me like he wants me
00:33:38.560
more than i want him ah so you want to oh so you want to get with a guy who wants you more than you
00:33:42.960
want him of course of course and how do you think that turns out well in the long term like if if if
00:33:49.360
you if he loves you more than you love him do you think you're more likely to leave no because i could
00:33:55.280
grow to love him more i hate to be that guy i could go to love him more you know and you think that's
00:34:02.800
the right mindset to have like to get a guy who loves you or likes you more than you like him so you
00:34:09.040
want to be chased you want him to wow you blah blah blah all that kind of stuff and then what are you
00:34:13.680
doing for him once he's proven to me that he's worthy of my energy then he'll be getting the same
00:34:19.440
energy back well all right so this is great because this is final thoughts but why why does he why does
00:34:25.120
he have to prove to you and you don't have to prove to him no i will prove to him he said i wasn't going to
00:34:30.880
prove to him i just want to see that he's worthy of of me proving to him and why why are you so great
00:34:38.640
why are you so great like you say worthy of me as if you're like this queen or something like why
00:34:43.440
you're like everyone has their own different personality everyone has their own like i'm i'm
00:34:47.920
probably like he probably sees something in me that he doesn't see in any other girl
00:34:51.520
you you you you think that okay so when i said and the reason i'm sorry i'm sorry but i don't know
00:35:02.800
why you guys laughing but i'm just trying to like flesh it out and the reason why you say that he
00:35:07.120
probably sees something and you doesn't need everybody right you see because so you so you see
00:35:12.400
when i was saying that most women choose like 20 of men right do you think that he hasn't seen
00:35:19.760
what you've got is what you're saying like he hasn't like in all his life he's never seen someone
00:35:23.920
like you well as i said traits there's like different traits that women have so maybe there's
00:35:28.640
something that he sees in me that he hasn't seen another woman hmm i'd say this right if you want
00:35:36.800
something and that's and that something has access to multiple things it's probably best for you to study
00:35:45.280
the thing that you want and i and i find that a lot of women don't study men the men that they want
00:35:50.880
right because the men that women generally want have access to 80 of women but those women are telling
00:35:57.280
these men oh you chase me i'm the prize i'm this i'm the but you but you want that more than he wants
00:36:03.440
you and that's what you don't realize because you're of the 80 he's the one that is in high demand
00:36:10.560
and if you don't study the thing that is in high demand for you to get it then you'll always lose
00:36:16.240
so for me if i want a woman and i know what women want i'll study women because i'm trying to get them
00:36:21.920
the problem is is that modern women don't want to study men and understand how men think and that's
00:36:26.320
why you don't get it you don't get what you want because you're not because you're saying i'm okay i'm
00:36:30.720
just me if i just be me that should be enough no you're supposed to study the thing that you want
00:36:35.840
understand what that thing that you want wants and become the thing that he wants
00:36:42.560
and if you're doing that you'll get the man that you want if you ain't you ain't gonna get
00:36:48.880
does that make sense it makes a lot of sense right so study the thing that you want yeah
00:36:53.520
oh sorry go on final thoughts yeah sorry um just emily music uh wishing you the best in whatever
00:37:02.400
relationship status you're in traditional relationship whatever it be and um yeah rub your
00:37:10.080
own feet it's good for you you know i'm saying stay human peace
00:37:18.640
my final thoughts are that um i think there is a new form of tradition and you make your own
00:37:25.280
traditions with that person that you wish to get married to and i think when you have that
00:37:30.480
understanding with that person you're good that's it if you when my parents got married
00:37:35.280
is a different town to now when i'd get married so yeah okay um my final thoughts is if you have
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